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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey I'm newish to the scene and was wondering how to start finding parties or events to attend.

Any advice is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out the DV8 page they have regular events and you don't need to be verified to attend. It's a great way to meet people socially and learn more.

For actual party events hosts usually invite well established verified guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep an eye on the forums or help a fabber out myself and bogman are having a coffee meet Wednesday in portlaoise lunch time if anyone wants to meet up

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Yep keep eye on forums and use forum search box to search words like events , party meet and greet etc.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Great advice already. You'll need loads of patience and try to attend as many events as possible. Once people begin to trust you, the invites will come. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advice already. You'll need loads of patience and try to attend as many events as possible. Once people begin to trust you, the invites will come. Good luck."

That's it, and interact on the forum people will get to know your personality

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Great advice already. You'll need loads of patience and try to attend as many events as possible. Once people begin to trust you, the invites will come. Good luck.

That's it, and interact on the forum people will get to know your personality "

I used to give this advice too but see so many recognised (from the forum) guys saying that the forum has been of little use to them and there are guys I know who have never posted on the forums who are having a whole lotta fun. I'd say maybe it helps, but it's a very, very slow burner and 99% of people hoping that the forum will get them meets will simply run out of patience.

The guys I know on the forums who are getting meets are also attending socials and i'm tending to think that it's the socials far moreso than the forum interactions which are having the impact.

Do both the forum and socials but I'd argue that attending one social can set off a chain of events (leading to meets and party invites) far quicker than forum interactions which can take months/years to pay off. If I know men (and I do know men ), I'd bet that 99% of them won't wait that long, unless they actually enjoy the interactions rather than seeing them as a means to an end.

You are a regular forumite so are identifying the good guys far more easily than other ladies who just drop in now and then. But regular forumite ladies are few and far between so it is difficult for guys to stand out in this way.

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By *weetfrenchkissMan
over a year ago

cork city


"Great advice already. You'll need loads of patience and try to attend as many events as possible. Once people begin to trust you, the invites will come. Good luck."

Yes the first verification is difficult but after it will be more easier because you went on social event first so many people see you and maybe talk to you so need patience and more fun can come after

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Great advice already. You'll need loads of patience and try to attend as many events as possible. Once people begin to trust you, the invites will come. Good luck.

That's it, and interact on the forum people will get to know your personality

I used to give this advice too but see so many recognised (from the forum) guys saying that the forum has been of little use to them and there are guys I know who have never posted on the forums who are having a whole lotta fun. I'd say maybe it helps, but it's a very, very slow burner and 99% of people hoping that the forum will get them meets will simply run out of patience.

The guys I know on the forums who are getting meets are also attending socials and i'm tending to think that it's the socials far moreso than the forum interactions which are having the impact.

Do both the forum and socials but I'd argue that attending one social can set off a chain of events (leading to meets and party invites) far quicker than forum interactions which can take months/years to pay off. If I know men (and I do know men ), I'd bet that 99% of them won't wait that long, unless they actually enjoy the interactions rather than seeing them as a means to an end.

You are a regular forumite so are identifying the good guys far more easily than other ladies who just drop in now and then. But regular forumite ladies are few and far between so it is difficult for guys to stand out in this way."

Some of us are very patient……

Worth waiting for I guess…..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everybody for the great advice. Ye are awesome

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Great advice already. You'll need loads of patience and try to attend as many events as possible. Once people begin to trust you, the invites will come. Good luck.

That's it, and interact on the forum people will get to know your personality

I used to give this advice too but see so many recognised (from the forum) guys saying that the forum has been of little use to them and there are guys I know who have never posted on the forums who are having a whole lotta fun. I'd say maybe it helps, but it's a very, very slow burner and 99% of people hoping that the forum will get them meets will simply run out of patience.

The guys I know on the forums who are getting meets are also attending socials and i'm tending to think that it's the socials far moreso than the forum interactions which are having the impact.

Do both the forum and socials but I'd argue that attending one social can set off a chain of events (leading to meets and party invites) far quicker than forum interactions which can take months/years to pay off. If I know men (and I do know men ), I'd bet that 99% of them won't wait that long, unless they actually enjoy the interactions rather than seeing them as a means to an end.

You are a regular forumite so are identifying the good guys far more easily than other ladies who just drop in now and then. But regular forumite ladies are few and far between so it is difficult for guys to stand out in this way.

Some of us are very patient……

Worth waiting for I guess….. "

You'd need it with some of us lot

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