FabSwingers.com forum: Sex with an ex. Yes or no?

By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

I recently refused sex with an ex. There is a first for everything I suppose. What do you guys think? Sex with an ex, Good idea or bad idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what terms the relationship ended, and most importantly that you are both clear it's just sex, if either one has feelings left there, then you are gonna end up with a headache

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

"Depends on what terms the relationship ended, and most importantly that you are both clear it's just sex, if either one has feelings left there, then you are gonna end up with a headache "

Hear hear.

Exactly what I was thinking

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

There's a reason they're an ex

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By *ameswXXXMan
over a year ago

Killarney

That's a definitely a no no

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope I'd rather eat my own vomit than shag any of my ex's again. And not because it was always that we broke up on bad terms but because they are an ex for a reason and once we broke up all interest I had in getting naked with them was gone.

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Think I'd fk any one of my exs again bar one. Didnt part on very bad terms with others plus you know what each other likes or how they like to be fkd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks I’d rather eat rusty nails then touch my ex husband

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

No it's all wrong. It can easily end up as a mindfuck.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Hell no id rather bleach my eyes then go there again in saying that there's probably a few here's id say the same about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can barely do fwb without it getting complicated.

Going back to an ex even just for fun sends out the wrong signals.

I'm lucky enough not to have had traumatic breakups like some may have had however I'd still wouldn't not even to dip the stick.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Terrible idea!

B x

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

"Hell no id rather bleach my eyes then go there again in saying that there's probably a few here's id say the same about

Be nice now miss lolly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or two possibly, but I think the longer the term we were a couple the more horrible it would be. I would have to be very stuck

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

"Nope I'd rather eat my own vomit than shag any of my ex's again. And not because it was always that we broke up on bad terms but because they are an ex for a reason and once we broke up all interest I had in getting naked with them was gone. "

Yeah I get that too. It's about the only thing I would still do with her to be honest. Like I was super tempted. But I know I made the right choice.

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

"1 or two possibly, but I think the longer the term we were a couple the more horrible it would be. I would have to be very stuck

That's every fuckin day for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. I had that relationship where sex was the only thing we both enjoyed together and after we broke up we kept at it for months which was insanely unhealthy. Prolonged the breakup which was a mind fuck altogether.

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By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

Have done, will do again. Have plans for exactly that rather soon.

They might well be an ex for a reason but that doesn't necessarily mean a bonk would be a bad idea. If anything they know what I like and I know what they like. But then some of my exes are some of my best friends and a few have been safety check in buddies for what I get up to here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks, once I've gone off someone, that's it. Why retread old ground

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Do what I do 90% of the time I burn every bridge with an ex that way there's no chance of anything happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm meeting an ex girlfriend the night I get home to Donegal for Christmas. Some relationships end on great terms and casual sex can be long lasting (7 years for me and my ex) and commitment free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of them! "
one at a time? If you lined them all up for me I'd definitely consider it.

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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

Sex with an ex? Anytime...but which one to choose first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a good idea. There's a reason they're an ex

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I recently refused sex with an ex. There is a first for everything I suppose. What do you guys think? Sex with an ex, Good idea or bad idea?"

If I can have sex with your ex’s I’ll let you have sex with mine

Does that solve the quandary?

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

Mate I wouldn't put you through that

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By *weetfrenchkissMan
over a year ago

cork city

But what do you think to have sex with your best friend ?

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

There are some where I’d say not on your life but others I’d love another chance to be with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done once

Was great at the time

Regret after was shocking and still don’t know why I did it

So yea, they’re Ex’s for a reason so NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what do you think to have sex with your best friend ?"

Well my ex is my best friend so two for the price of one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what do you think to have sex with your best friend ?"

My long-term partner is my best friend, why would I be closer with someone else? So yes, I have a lot of sex with my best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I like to shag my ex long-term term fb? Hell yes, as he was hot hot hot but I never would. It ended for a reason and that hasn't changed.

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By *urFabFun21Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere

Male here. I've had sex with an ex. She was a long time ex, talking years from break up to hook up. We were both single at the time and had what she called a "Winter romance". I didn't know that was a thing but she basically wanted someone to have for the dark evenings and chill. Was a fun few months and we'd still be friendly to this day.

Wouldn't dream of going near any other ex though.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

It depends on the reasons for the original split and the specific circumstances

In general it's best to keep moving forward; learn from past experiences and move on to new pastures.

Everyone changes; and the vast majority of people develop and improve; going back is regressive rather than progressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 or two possibly, but I think the longer the term we were a couple the more horrible it would be. I would have to be very stuck

That's every fuckin day for

Your luck will change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made the stupid mistake of sleeping with an ex. Very quickly remembered why we broke up. Thats one mistake I will never make again

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By *razyman57Couple
over a year ago

limerick

100% absolutely fucking not, hard enough getting away from them first time,

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By *ere70Man
over a year ago

Rovinj Istria

there is reason, as many said, why are they ex...made mistake once and bitterly regreted. so you made good not to do her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would’ve wh my ex wife but couldn’t get back to the uk before she passed away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there is reason, as many said, why are they ex...made mistake once and bitterly regreted. so you made good not to do her"

Op didn’t state it was a her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the sex with an ex for a couple of months. It's handy when your still single and horny. Also once your clear your both just doing it for the sex it can be a whole lot of fun. The term I didn't know you liked that often popped up

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Been there, done that - lesson learned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away .. never make the same mistake twice

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

"there is reason, as many said, why are they ex...made mistake once and bitterly regreted. so you made good not to do her

Op didn’t state it was a her "

It definitely was a her.

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

"Stay away .. never make the same mistake twice

Once bitten twice shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay away .. never make the same mistake twice

Once bitten twice shy "

That's it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks I’d rather eat rusty nails then touch my ex husband "

Ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who’s ex ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person makes a fool out of you once shame on them ...if they make a fool out of you twice shame on you.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Why not if ye went separate ways and stayed as "friends"?!

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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

"Why not if ye went separate ways and stayed as "friends"?!

Precisely that, Maybe I am the lucky one, who never experienced any drama or have bad feelings about break-ups, just something, which happens, people do get separate ways. Have no hard or bad feelings towards any of my ex/es - and I believe it's mutual - so, as I've said. Have no problems to have another ride or two with any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a question of bad feelings, just a lack of them when I ended things....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have no problem whatsoever in this as it's only sex , some would definitely be angry fucks, but so long as they were in shape id be down for it ..... Panda Style

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Have had sex with 3 exs. No dramas. And good sex. But had parted with them amicably when we did break up

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Not a hope in hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wondered what would happen. Would i turn it down....no i dont think i would. Broke up for the wrong reasons both know it and both regret it. We moved on but i just feel we both would love to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me no I only had one before himself

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