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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Mine is when you see a profile look at you on fab and you go to theirs for a look and the profiles hidden … pisses me right off lol

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Yea you get a fab or a wink and you go to check out who sent it to see if they interest you and bang big white screen with the person has hidden there profile. Honestly if someone hides there profile they should not be able to interact with those who are not hidden imo

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I named my cat Peeves so he's my pet peeves. I didn't know he was on fab. Maybe that vet lied about neutering him?

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Yea you get a fab or a wink and you go to check out who sent it to see if they interest you and bang big white screen with the person has hidden there profile. Honestly if someone hides there profile they should not be able to interact with those who are not hidden imo"
. 100% agreed

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

When someone likes your pics and you can’t message them as just outside age range!!

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By *1shadesofnaughtyMan
over a year ago

South Limerick

No Irish option available on the see all updates stream

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"I named my cat Peeves so he's my pet peeves. I didn't know he was on fab. Maybe that vet lied about neutering him? "
stop it you lol

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"When someone likes your pics and you can’t message them as just outside age range!!"
that’s another one we hate lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

When people ruin a perfectly good thread by trying to stop all the jokes and funny posts that are posted instead of the serious post that the Op started with.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

People.

Some are pets

Some are permanently peeved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen, I’d be here all day! but seriously, if I was to choose one thing, it’s the inability of a significant amount of men to take “no” as an answer.

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By *ister FriskyMan
over a year ago

Dublin 5

Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people ruin a perfectly good thread by trying to stop all the jokes and funny posts that are posted instead of the serious post that the Op started with.

"

Grow up

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!"

This 100%

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Listen, I’d be here all day! but seriously, if I was to choose one thing, it’s the inability of a significant amount of men to take “no” as an answer."
haha yes we’ve had them too

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!"
this happens more often than you’d think to couples as well

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Just a bit of an annoyance but honestly people not reading profiles.

Oh and that tom hardy and henry cavill arent on here.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Just a bit of an annoyance but honestly people not reading profiles.

Oh and that tom hardy and henry cavill arent on here. "

Says who

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Just a bit of an annoyance but honestly people not reading profiles.

Oh and that tom hardy and henry cavill arent on here. "

do you have Kik or Snapchat ? lol I/k

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By *ister FriskyMan
over a year ago

Dublin 5


"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?! this happens more often than you’d think to couples as well "

I’m sure it does, and women too. I’m not suggesting it’s just a thing that happens to men.

I just think it’s such a weird thing to do!

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham


"Listen, I’d be here all day! but seriously, if I was to choose one thing, it’s the inability of a significant amount of men to take “no” as an answer."

Even I know that's true

A peeve is not getting any reply or even a deleted message... Are they mail hunters??

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Listen, I’d be here all day! but seriously, if I was to choose one thing, it’s the inability of a significant amount of men to take “no” as an answer.

Even I know that's true

A peeve is not getting any reply or even a deleted message... Are they mail hunters??"

we always reply to everyone … even ifs a simple no thank you

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

When something is fabbing your pics and on your "who's looked at me" 5 or more time's a day when you message them and they say sorry your not my type

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I do like seeing verifications . Don’t like them hidden . I want to know that someone I know/trust thinks this person is ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they fab your pics and their profile is either hidden or they dont accept guys that are over their age preferences .

Then dont fab the pictures !!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When guys don’t read the profile, especially where it says about not being gay/bi, but still message saying “want your cock sucked?” or “fancy a blowjob?”. Er…..no, if I did I would’ve said in the profile!

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By *enTen888Man
over a year ago

Belfast

When woman delete messages without responding and then sit and complain about manners and respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People moaning in forum threads…

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"People moaning in forum threads…"

Yeah but everyone loves a good moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When woman delete messages without responding and then sit and complain about manners and respect. "

Add a bio to your profile along with a profile pic, as well as a few varying pictures and his peeve may go away.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

When you’ve someone repeatedly viewing your profile, sends you a wink and then when messaging only gives one word responses

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

People who are insincere or people who talk about meeting for coffee and never do if you aren't going to shit get off the pot lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Experts

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"People moaning in forum threads…

Yeah but everyone loves a good moan "

exactly what you just did . You just had a moan on a forum thread about others who moan on forum threads ! Lol

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

People who don't understand that fabbing a pic is also just a way of expressing appreciation of what is being fabbed (time, effort, imagination, humour, physique etc that went into the pic) rather than an interest to chat, meet or anything other/more .

I fab male pics but we aren't looking to meet men - does that mean we shouldn't be "permitted" to just because it's a pet peeve of some of you Mrs

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"People who don't understand that fabbing a pic is also just a way of expressing appreciation of what is being fabbed (time, effort, imagination, humour, physique etc that went into the pic) rather than an interest to chat, meet or anything other/more .

I fab male pics but we aren't looking to meet men - does that mean we shouldn't be "permitted" to just because it's a pet peeve of some of you Mrs "

fab away that’s what they’re uploaded for lol and to gain interest for meets too of course

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"People who don't understand that fabbing a pic is also just a way of expressing appreciation of what is being fabbed (time, effort, imagination, humour, physique etc that went into the pic) rather than an interest to chat, meet or anything other/more .

I fab male pics but we aren't looking to meet men - does that mean we shouldn't be "permitted" to just because it's a pet peeve of some of you Mrs

fab away that’s what they’re uploaded for lol and to gain interest for meets too of course "

See, I had to go and look now

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"People who don't understand that fabbing a pic is also just a way of expressing appreciation of what is being fabbed (time, effort, imagination, humour, physique etc that went into the pic) rather than an interest to chat, meet or anything other/more .

I fab male pics but we aren't looking to meet men - does that mean we shouldn't be "permitted" to just because it's a pet peeve of some of you Mrs

fab away that’s what they’re uploaded for lol and to gain interest for meets too of course

See, I had to go and look now "

enjoy !! Lol

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

When your to old ta message

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By *weetfrenchkissMan
over a year ago

cork city


"When something is fabbing your pics and on your "who's looked at me" 5 or more time's a day when you message them and they say sorry your not my type "

That is weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When guys don’t read the profile, especially where it says about not being gay/bi, but still message saying “want your cock sucked?” or “fancy a blowjob?”. Er…..no, if I did I would’ve said in the profile! "

That never happens to me

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"When your to old ta message "

Is the arthritis getting to you that you have difficulty typing

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Another we hate is people who have added you as a friend but yet have no desire or interest in meeting you ever … but want to see your private pics etc

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"When your to old ta message "

Should be a mental age option but then ya could be too young

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By *awtieCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.

Once got one where said toilet was full.....

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.

Once got one where said toilet was full..... "

stop playing lol … that’s unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one thing that makes me cringe, more so than it annoys me. When I hear or read the line "Isn't this supposed to be a sex site"

For me, that quote falls into the same bracket as "u free now" or "fancy a fuck", on par with the unsolicited dick pic.

Gentlemen if you are reading this and seeing a pattern forming...................

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Moaners

Experts

Lists

Irony

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham


"Another we hate is people who have added you as a friend but yet have no desire or interest in meeting you ever … but want to see your private pics etc "

Hear hear

Unsolicited friend requests from blokes. Flattered but no

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.

Once got one where said toilet was full..... "

A number 1 or a number 2

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.

Once got one where said toilet was full..... "

Omg yesssssssss

Seriously at what point in a man’s mind do they think this is gonna turn any woman on .

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Moaners

Experts

Lists

Irony

"

I tell ya, I'm really quiet, never moan

I'm an expert in writing lists and only ever actioning half of what's on these

But I'll be damned if I'm going to do the ironing

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Moaners

Experts

Lists

Irony

I tell ya, I'm really quiet, never moan

I'm an expert in writing lists and only ever actioning half of what's on these

But I'll be damned if I'm going to do the ironing "

The one thing I'm good at....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea you get a fab or a wink and you go to check out who sent it to see if they interest you and bang big white screen with the person has hidden there profile. Honestly if someone hides there profile they should not be able to interact with those who are not hidden imo"

So if someome wants a breather from new messages or is just taking a break for whatever reason they shouldn't be able to interact with others?

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford


"Mine is when you see a profile look at you on fab and you go to theirs for a look and the profiles hidden … pisses me right off lol "

Instant block if this happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they fab your pics and their profile is either hidden or they dont accept guys that are over their age preferences .

Then dont fab the pictures !!??"

Are we not allowed to appreciate a good picture without any other agenda?

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham


"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.

Once got one where said toilet was full.....

Omg yesssssssss

Seriously at what point in a man’s mind do they think this is gonna turn any woman on . "

I suppose it's worse than the messy bedroom pics the ladies have a tendency to put up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who get the hump on Fab because other people use the site differently than they do

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's strange, so I just block them problem solved especially when they don't fit your criteria IE looking for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People moaning in forum threads…

Yeah but everyone loves a good moan exactly what you just did . You just had a moan on a forum thread about others who moan on forum threads ! Lol "

I also can’t stand people who contradict themselves……..

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By *awtieCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.

Once got one where said toilet was full.....

A number 1 or a number 2 "

No.1, with strong evidence of dehydration

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.

Once got one where said toilet was full.....

A number 1 or a number 2

No.1, with strong evidence of dehydration "

the colour of strong tea …. Lol dirty bastard

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By *ove7777Man
over a year ago

waterford

The biggest pet peeve I have is writing to someone that has looked at you and winked and you write to them and be respectful and get absolutely nothing back

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"The biggest pet peeve I have is writing to someone that has looked at you and winked and you write to them and be respectful and get absolutely nothing back "

Some women wink hundreds of men for no reason other than to get noticed and for the men to fab their picture so they get onto the first page of The hot Irish Pictures .....don't worry about it

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By *enTen888Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"When woman delete messages without responding and then sit and complain about manners and respect.

Add a bio to your profile along with a profile pic, as well as a few varying pictures and his peeve may go away."

Nothing to do with me. I met a woman on here 3 years ago and we still see each other which is why its blank. I only use this for the forum and looking at cams. I’m just stating woman complain a lot and i mean a fucking lot on here about respect and manners yet show none themselves.

Whatever happened to treating others how you expect to be treated?

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By *ove7777Man
over a year ago

waterford

Yeah I just think it can be crazy it’s not that hard to reply back

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

It’s easy to reply to 4 messages, extremely difficult to respond to 400

No one is owned anything here, ye fellas are doing yourselves no favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no peeves, it's not the fault of the site that some people are just tossers.

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"It’s easy to reply to 4 messages, extremely difficult to respond to 400

No one is owned anything here, ye fellas are doing yourselves no favours"

it only gets to 400 if

Your too up your own arse to reply to any …. We always reply … even if to say no thanks

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow

On the site 3 years.

No verifications

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By *enTen888Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications"

Hahahahahah sorry lad are us unverified peasents not allowed in your bad tory club?

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

[Removed by poster at 18/11/22 16:15:34]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me pink, this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tasteless videos like ours

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Tasteless videos like ours "
your vids are very tasty

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications"

But verification are just that it's not stopping you exploring options plus we've been in a pandemic where no body was allowed to meet

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Tasteless videos like ours "

Gulp…..

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Tasteless videos like ours "

Yeah I think I’ll let those slide

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I have no peeves, it's not the fault of the site that some people are just tossers."

Yep pretty much this for me too and I tend to avoid the people I don't like or I think are cockwombles.Makes life so much easier on here I've found

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Impatience. It's my pet peeve. Like I have nothing to do all day just compose witty messages in response to your one word "hi" message.

Think passive aggressively say..." guess you're not interested"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh to even get a message

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Oh to even get a message "

Message admin, the system must be broken……

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Not being able to add emojis to the middle of a message once it’s typed, they go straight to the end.

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

Men constantly messaging if I want a discreet blow

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By *nwrap4funMan
over a year ago

Ireland


"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!

This 100% "

Certainly drives me mad.

That plus the one where your just outside someone's age preferences as in the person is 40, and your 38

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Not being able to add emojis to the middle of a message once it’s typed, they go straight to the end."

That is a very serious pet peeve of mine too

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications

Hahahahahah sorry lad are us unverified peasents not allowed in your bad tory club? "

No torys here on the Irish forums. Check out the uk one for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being able to add emojis to the middle of a message once it’s typed, they go straight to the end.

That is a very serious pet peeve of mine too "

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but everyone loves a good moan "

A good moan every once and awhile keeps us all young sure

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By *enTen888Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications

Hahahahahah sorry lad are us unverified peasents not allowed in your bad tory club?

No torys here on the Irish forums. Check out the uk one for them. "

You had a sly dig at me there based on what i posted. You think your verification status makes you better than those aint. Thinking your social standing makes you better than someone else is literal tory behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications"

Oh some have but prefer not to make public

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

I wish buses were as frequent as the messages on this thread

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications

Oh some have but prefer not to make public "

we have recently decided to hide ours too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Will fill in later”

But never do

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

On the emoji peeve, not giving list in private messages like they do on forum posts is one for me. If I had anyone to private message it would definitely be top of my list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications

Oh some have but prefer not to make public we have recently decided to hide ours too ! "

I don't show my actual verifications, but show when i last was verified

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications

Oh some have but prefer not to make public we have recently decided to hide ours too !

I don't show my actual verifications, but show when i last was verified "

Rubs posted a thread some time last year with a list of all the emojis that worked here, it’s more than the list on the forum or in PM’s, I had it saves in a tab and I would go back and forth and look them up and copy them into posts and messages.

Unfortunately, I changed my phone recently and during the upload and download I lost the tabs I had open and I lost the thread.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I just had a thought…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another we hate is people who have added you as a friend but yet have no desire or interest in meeting you ever … but want to see your private pics etc "

That's just typical of the irish hoping it's someone they know for gossip reasons...

And their private pics are the same as public

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications

Oh some have but prefer not to make public we have recently decided to hide ours too !

I don't show my actual verifications, but show when i last was verified

Rubs posted a thread some time last year with a list of all the emojis that worked here, it’s more than the list on the forum or in PM’s, I had it saves in a tab and I would go back and forth and look them up and copy them into posts and messages.

Unfortunately, I changed my phone recently and during the upload and download I lost the tabs I had open and I lost the thread."

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1208451

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I just switched on my old phone again and the the tab was still open, delighted I am……

And thanks for posting the link….

I started a new thread so I’d be able to find it again…..

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I just switched on my old phone again and the the tab was still open, delighted I am……

And thanks for posting the link….

I started a new thread so I’d be able to find it again….. "

Great minds hey

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By *wing guyMan
over a year ago

Greystones

When you message folk, they read the message but dont reply or delete it.

Strange…

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I just switched on my old phone again and the the tab was still open, delighted I am……

And thanks for posting the link….

I started a new thread so I’d be able to find it again….. "

I just copied and pasted all the emojis into the notes section on our profile so I don't have to go rummaging in the forum

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you message folk, they read the message but dont reply or delete it.

Strange…"

It generally means "no interest, thanks"

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"On the emoji peeve, not giving list in private messages like they do on forum posts is one for me. If I had anyone to private message it would definitely be top of my list. "

You get the list in private messages when you are a site supporter...

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Another we hate is people who have added you as a friend but yet have no desire or interest in meeting you ever … but want to see your private pics etc

That's just typical of the irish hoping it's someone they know for gossip reasons...

And their private pics are the same as public "

100% agreed

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"On the emoji peeve, not giving list in private messages like they do on forum posts is one for me. If I had anyone to private message it would definitely be top of my list.

You get the list in private messages when you are a site supporter..."

It would be far earlier if the forum accepted phone emojis…..

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"I just switched on my old phone again and the the tab was still open, delighted I am……

And thanks for posting the link….

I started a new thread so I’d be able to find it again…..

Great minds hey "

I’ll assume you mean your minds…..

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By *wing guyMan
over a year ago

Greystones


"When you message folk, they read the message but dont reply or delete it.

Strange…

It generally means "no interest, thanks" "

So delete the message0…..

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By *rHardCMan
over a year ago

Funtown

Not really a peeve... as i understand lady's here get 100's of messages.. but the unread cam leave a guy questing did they see it..

but the mark as u read is a odd choice.. normally try say im not interested to anyone im not, i get when u get 100's ur not here to be a secretary...

Anyway fab is brilliant for the most..

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By *aiseanagusspraoiMan
over a year ago

city


"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!"

100% this

Just be honest and say why they don't wanna chat anymore.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you message folk, they read the message but dont reply or delete it.

Strange…

It generally means "no interest, thanks"

So delete the message0….."

Personally, I tend to reply, even with a no thanks and then delete.

Not everyone keeps a tidy inbox daily...hence I wouldn't pay any heed to undeleted messages either.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Not really a peeve... as i understand lady's here get 100's of messages.. but the unread cam leave a guy questing did they see it..

but the mark as u read is a odd choice.. normally try say im not interested to anyone im not, i get when u get 100's ur not here to be a secretary...

Anyway fab is brilliant for the most.."

Personally, I mark as unread until I have conferred with himself and the time (and inclination) to respond.

If marked unread and deleted by ourselves, it's generally a rude/obnoxious message, a FAF, a dozenth repeat message or some such, which I tend not to respond to anymore...

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By *arahDtvTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin


"When you’ve someone repeatedly viewing your profile, sends you a wink and then when messaging only gives one word responses"

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By *rHardCMan
over a year ago

Funtown


"

Personally, I mark as unread until I have conferred with himself and the time (and inclination) to respond.

If marked unread and deleted by ourselves, it's generally a rude/obnoxious message, a FAF, a dozenth repeat message or some such, which I tend not to respond to anymore..."

Id totally get the rude or obnoxious side of not replying and even deleting not interested meassages but my messages are only "hello's and might said profile fancy chatting.."

either way not really a peeve.. just a fab thing n i guess, n ya reply to what ya want too or react in what ever way ya want.....

Normally i think deleting rude messages is enough.. even if its multiple times

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

People arguing and scoring points publicly on the forums, unbelievably tedious

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"People arguing and scoring points publicly on the forums, unbelievably tedious "

Only topped by scoring meets…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my peeve is all the Sydney University posts. like really do Sydney University care that much?

one line conversation too. in particular with the under 35's

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By *0tever100Man
over a year ago

Donaghadee

Mine is being too old as if.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Realistically, there is a diverse range of people on this (and other) swinging sites some of whom are engaging in behaviours that are more likely to lead to success, in the sense of meets that will be sexually complimentary, whilst others, for a host of reasons are behaving erroneously or mistakenly.

I don't have any peeves with this site, because I cannot and now would not try to correct the errors that, in my opinion, other members are committing.

Errors and successful acts of others vicariously enhance my education and experience, making it more likely that I will achieve my swinging objectives in due course, in the end.

Internalised peeves are beneficial to me, whereas openly articulated peeves simply irritate others.

When my future partner in crime are engaging in a successful foursome, and all that that meet entails peeves about this site will be the very furthest thought from my mind!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"When you message folk, they read the message but dont reply or delete it.

Strange…

It generally means "no interest, thanks"

So delete the message0….."

Or you could delete your sent messages so you aren't constantly checking them to see if they are read or unread or deleted.I do that with any sent messages I sent if I get a reply then great if I don't it doesn't bother me as I'm not checking them to see.

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"On the site 3 years.

No verifications

Hahahahahah sorry lad are us unverified peasents not allowed in your bad tory club?

No torys here on the Irish forums. Check out the uk one for them.

You had a sly dig at me there based on what i posted. You think your verification status makes you better than those aint. Thinking your social standing makes you better than someone else is literal tory behaviour. "

If that's your thinking. There must be alot of people living rent free in your head.

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By *unKinkCplCouple
over a year ago

Macroom/killarney

Single Guy profiles that post face pics of women!!

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them"

Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham


"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them"

But it is like a school disco

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them

Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride "

will ya shift my friend lol

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them

Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride "

Tell her I’ll be over when I finish my lemonade

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By *urious Guy1111Man
over a year ago

Cork

One word replies.

You both have a mutual attraction, you try to get to know them and all you're getting is one word replies. Nothing turns me off quicker.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"One word replies.

You both have a mutual attraction, you try to get to know them and all you're getting is one word replies. Nothing turns me off quicker. "

Would one word replies not mean that there might not be the same “mutual attraction” from the one word reply side as you might think ?

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster

[Removed by poster at 19/11/22 20:50:27]

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster


"Just a bit of an annoyance but honestly people not reading profiles.

Oh and that tom hardy and henry cavill arent on here. "

Ah here,you forgot Marty Morrissey

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By *nebworthMan
over a year ago

Knebworth


"Single Guy profiles that post face pics of women!! "
Totally agree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab isn't if your jealous .. that's all I'm saying

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Fanny blindness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them

Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride "

We think your a ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them

Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride will ya shift my friend lol "

Only if she shifts mine

S

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

One thing that we have seen recently is with some profiles that have obviously been on for multiple years that they have public pics from multiple years ago like some one had public pics from 2014

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By *urious Guy1111Man
over a year ago

Cork

By mutual attraction I mean we share face pics, both say we like the other and then once you try make conversation and try get to know each other, the conversation is just dead.

Maybe the attraction isn't there but why say it is if that's the case lol? We're all adults and can handle rejection, well most of us haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When guys don’t read the profile, especially where it says about not being gay/bi, but still message saying “want your cock sucked?” or “fancy a blowjob?”. Er…..no, if I did I would’ve said in the profile! "

That's why we have filters

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

1).No pic no reply from a profile with zero pics on their profile.

2).ladies profile who says they are straight but only want to meet women, just a heads up there you are not straight if you only want to meet women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming on the forums to interact but ending up just watching the "in crowd" chatting amongst themselves

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By *otass and scorpio OP   Couple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Coming on the forums to interact but ending up just watching the "in crowd" chatting amongst themselves"
no such thing as the “in crowd “ and if there was why would you want to fit “in” … we prefer to stand out and if they don’t like it …. Then bud bye we say lol

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Coming on the forums to interact but ending up just watching the "in crowd" chatting amongst themselves"

You wish you were in the “in crowd”

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