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By *orkGuyFunGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork

Had this debate recently with a buddy…

Do people prefer a loud moaner, heavy breather, or mute while F**king ??

Iv heard quite a few people say it doesn’t bother them… but someone super quite would be off putting for me…

Question Applies to ladies and gents

And go…

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Porno screaming ? No lol but some moaning etc is good ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf

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By *orkGuyFunGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork


"Porno screaming ? No lol but some moaning etc is good ?? "

Agreed !

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't mind if someone is a bit noisy as long as it isn't going into high pitched squeal like grunts. I have had a guy do this before and the first couple of times we met I thought it was a bit strange but didn't really mind then after a while it just really started to get on my nerves to the point that it put me off meeting him again.

I don't mind a guy moaning in pleasure that can be a turn on.

And I find someone who is quiet a turn on as well as you get to read their body language and know by the sharp intakes of breath and how they tense up before they cum a big turn on.

So ye as long as it isn't strange noises I'm fine with either someone being quiet or moaning.

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By *orkGuyFunGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf "

Jaysus … Dahmer vibes

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Absolute silence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolute silence"

Agree

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Absolute silence"

Before, during and after - of course

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By *orkGuyFunGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork


"Absolute silence"

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By *orkGuyFunGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork


"I don't mind if someone is a bit noisy as long as it isn't going into high pitched squeal like grunts. I have had a guy do this before and the first couple of times we met I thought it was a bit strange but didn't really mind then after a while it just really started to get on my nerves to the point that it put me off meeting him again.

I don't mind a guy moaning in pleasure that can be a turn on.

And I find someone who is quiet a turn on as well as you get to read their body language and know by the sharp intakes of breath and how they tense up before they cum a big turn on.

So ye as long as it isn't strange noises I'm fine with either someone being quiet or moaning."

Agreed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in between the extreme ends of the spectrum is grand. I'd find absolute silence and constant pornworthy screaming equally off-putting.

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By *orkGuyFunGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork


"Somewhere in between the extreme ends of the spectrum is grand. I'd find absolute silence and constant pornworthy screaming equally off-putting."

I’m the exact same !

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I only meet women with a Marcel Marceau kink.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

For us it depends sometimes when we have to be quiet it adds to the sexiness of it but sometimes it is enjoyable to be loud too

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf "

Ahhh ha ha oh God.. this is all I could hear https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_aZ2bdnG97A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being loud or quiet doesn't bother me as facial expressions can say an awful lot

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Absolute silence

Agree "

And if they don't know ... even better

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By *ohnboy10000Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf "

Maybe he had something in his eye.lol

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Empty vessels make most noise!

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf "
ever watch little Britain … they used to have a character that was a hy pnotist … his phrase was “ look into my eyes . Look into my eyes , not around the eyes … look into my eyes and you’re under ! “ I dunno why but him saying that to you reminded me of that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you have to be quiet it's good fun. it's always nice to hear her moan though. a sign I'm doing a good job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all good, so long as everyone is enjoying themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf ever watch little Britain … they used to have a character that was a hy pnotist … his phrase was “ look into my eyes . Look into my eyes , not around the eyes … look into my eyes and you’re under ! “ I dunno why but him saying that to you reminded me of that lol "

Lol I never saw it .. but I never wanted to laugh as much during sex

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf ever watch little Britain … they used to have a character that was a hy pnotist … his phrase was “ look into my eyes . Look into my eyes , not around the eyes … look into my eyes and you’re under ! “ I dunno why but him saying that to you reminded me of that lol

Lol I never saw it .. but I never wanted to laugh as much during sex "
Jesus I’d piss myself as well haha

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf ever watch little Britain … they used to have a character that was a hy pnotist … his phrase was “ look into my eyes . Look into my eyes , not around the eyes … look into my eyes and you’re under ! “ I dunno why but him saying that to you reminded me of that lol "

I literally put a link above to this

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By *weetfrenchkissMan
over a year ago

cork city

Deep breath and moaning at a big turn on

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf ever watch little Britain … they used to have a character that was a hy pnotist … his phrase was “ look into my eyes . Look into my eyes , not around the eyes … look into my eyes and you’re under ! “ I dunno why but him saying that to you reminded me of that lol

I literally put a link above to this "
when I read it to its what I immediately thought of lol …

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Some noises are funny like the grunts or if he is trying to talk dirty I can't cope with that way to funny .. I had one meet he kept saying look deep into my eyes wtf ever watch little Britain … they used to have a character that was a hy pnotist … his phrase was “ look into my eyes . Look into my eyes , not around the eyes … look into my eyes and you’re under ! “ I dunno why but him saying that to you reminded me of that lol

I literally put a link above to this when I read it to its what I immediately thought of lol … "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gives me great pleasure if a partner shows that they are being pleased. I don't crave over the top porno noises. A genuine gentle moan or even knowing they are doing their best to hold it all in is much more enjoyable to experience. It is all about knowing that you are both genuinely pleasing each other, be it loud or quiet or inbetween.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It gives me great pleasure if a partner shows that they are being pleased. I don't crave over the top porno noises. A genuine gentle moan or even knowing they are doing their best to hold it all in is much more enjoyable to experience. It is all about knowing that you are both genuinely pleasing each other, be it loud or quiet or inbetween."

Im the same, its the little involuntary groans when I am hitting the right spots that I love. The loud porno screaming just buts me off completely

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By *odeos_gringoCouple
over a year ago

belfast

Somewhere in between.

Exceptionally loud can be OK, but silence I find very off putting.

I'd have loud over silence any day

Rodeo

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By *ickyAthleticMan
over a year ago

Galway

I used to have a fb that never so much as moaned a little during sex. I found it a little off putting as never knew how much she was enjoying it. I was always assured she had

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

To be honest, the sound of laughter (with me, not at me!) and craic are more of a turn-on than moaning, it means there's a connection. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a groan, cry out or a scream when they are cumming .

At least i know im doing it right and hitting the right spot

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

I like the mix of deep breathing / moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I call out to Jesus christ alot during sex

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

Some feedback along the moans and groans is good....

*Sweat dripping down your nose*

Fuckin' hell you take a serious pounding...

"Keep going, I might cum for the 3rd time"

Ya what??

(Never happened to me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some feedback along the moans and groans is good....

*Sweat dripping down your nose*

Fuckin' hell you take a serious pounding...

"Keep going, I might cum for the 3rd time"

Ya what??

(Never happened to me) "

Gym workout i think it is called

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham


"Some feedback along the moans and groans is good....

*Sweat dripping down your nose*

Fuckin' hell you take a serious pounding...

"Keep going, I might cum for the 3rd time"

Ya what??

(Never happened to me)

Gym workout i think it is called "

Knew I recognised the script... Must rejoin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expressive and communicative people are sexy. I love when a man talks to me while we are making love. Heavy breathing plus the seductive and dirty talk during sex is the best. Sometimes you don’t even control what you are saying, you just say things passionately…..listening to all that makes me moan louder

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

I prefer heavy breathing, sexy moaning and the odd "mmmm fuck,yes".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something like this?

https://youtu.be/7rE_FG2xauA

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By *ickyAthleticMan
over a year ago

Galway

Very funny

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Absolute silence

Before, during and after - of course "

....and the lights switched off.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Absolute silence

Before, during and after - of course

....and the lights switched off. "

God, yeah...and missionary only

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Absolute silence

Before, during and after - of course

....and the lights switched off.

God, yeah...and missionary only "

2 decades of the rosary after

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Absolute silence

Before, during and after - of course

....and the lights switched off.

God, yeah...and missionary only

2 decades of the rosary after "

Ah now, that's a tad harsh

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

If you’re having a group meet and there is a considerable number of loud people the hotel patrons and management Might not be so pleased

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By *oldenrod123Man
over a year ago

Swords

Loud please

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

I'm easy going but saying that I met this woman in a pub, we ended up back in my house, everything going well until we got to the bedroom, I taught she was auditioning for a porn movie, if anyone could hear her they would think I was killing her, it was a once off as it was a bit off putting.

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow

Loud all the time.

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By *atriceWoman
over a year ago

ballymena northern ireland not donegal

I love to hear a man moan I know he is enjoying the experience and climax as for a woman just not to loud heavy breathing yes mmm I need some now xpx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bother me either way,... But still looove a good moaner

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

Is it not all about "communication" .....silent or screaming....for me its all about letting the other individual know that you are enjoying the moment with them....silence,screaming,staring,grunting talking and even laughing.....as long as it conveys the enjoyment you're having....all is good (mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times body language is just as important.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Absolute silence

Before, during and after - of course

....and the lights switched off.

God, yeah...and missionary only

2 decades of the rosary after "

Where did ya keep the beeds

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

This is defo one of the hottest posts in a while

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The crux of a successful, mutually pleasurable meet is not the volume, but the feedback that each gives to the other to show that they are enjoying the simultaneous experience of giving and receiving.

A thank you afterwards, or an appreciative text sets the scene for a repeat performance.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Something like this?

https://youtu.be/7rE_FG2xauA

"

And I thought we originated from apes, it would appear I’m closer to a turtle

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Is it not all about "communication" .....silent or screaming....for me its all about letting the other individual know that you are enjoying the moment with them....silence,screaming,staring,grunting talking and even laughing.....as long as it conveys the enjoyment you're having....all is good (mr)"

100% agree

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