FabSwingers.com forum: Viagra doesn’t help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone found that viagra doesn’t help them or partner. I get the usual morning “wood” and occasional hard on but just can’t maintain it. I was prescribed viagra but it had no effect. I don’t have much of a sex drive but would be nice to satisfy the wife. We tried tonight and I got thick but only about 75% hard which was no use. I actually felt so sorry for my wife as she was so horny.

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By *heeky_BudgieMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You don’t need to answer this.

Are you on any anti depressants or other strong medication?

They can inhibit you, even though your brain is saying otherwise, if you get what I mean.

Even Viagra gets over-ruled by some of those other meds.

As I said, you don’t need to reply. I’m just putting this out there as information to think about.

I hope it all gets sorted for the sake of the two of you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No problem as I’m not embarrassed

Yeah I’m on strongish high blood pressure tablets ( it got upto 160)

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

You need to see your doctor

Make sure your testosterone levels are ok

That any lifestyle changes are discussed

Cialis might work better

Or you might you need a pump or injection if the problem isn’t to do with blood flow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She checked my testosterone level and they ok a little low but ok..

For some reason i don’t seem to have much of a sex drive so maybe a lifestyle change might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She checked my testosterone level and they ok a little low but ok..

For some reason i don’t seem to have much of a sex drive so maybe a lifestyle change might help"

Firstly as said above are you on any other Meds because these may effect Viagra and your sex drive, Ginseng helps with sex drive , take it regularly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I’m on high blood pressure tablets

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"She checked my testosterone level and they ok a little low but ok..

For some reason i don’t seem to have much of a sex drive so maybe a lifestyle change might help"

Lots of things can affect sex drive. Lifestyle obviously is huge (regular exercise, healthy diet, good sleeping patterns etc), underlying medical conditions, trauma etc as well as the kind of relationship you have with yourself, with your wife.

A question I would ask is when did erections start being an issue - is it low testosterone, is it blood pressure related, did it start when you started medication etc?

Are you taking Viagra correctly? Is the dose the right one for you?

But these are all questions which you need to ask yourself and discuss with a competent and empathetic medical professional.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well viagra will help you get a heart attack but that about all it will do for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well viagra will help you get a heart attack but that about all it will do for you

Care to explain your comment Doctor?

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By *woforone2025Couple (MM)
over a year ago

near by

if you're low but within range that could be where the problem is. The low end of the range has been reduced as testosterone levels in men have fallen over the years. If you can afford it get it checked out with a men's health clinic.

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By *dyseussMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Viagra in the first place was ment to be a drug for high blood pressure ,then they noticed its increasing the nitric oxide wich is responsable for getting an erection,taking strong beta blocant medication with Viagra its not recommended as the bp cand drop and you can get a cardiac arrest ,you should be assesed by cardiologist and change lifestyle peripheral arteries blockages can stop you for having an erection as well but the biggest enemy is in our heads ,psychological impact is even bigger in getting an erection than enything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think if you take a proper look at his profile you'll identify the 'problem'. Sockpuppet....

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Not a doctor, can't give any advice on viagra or any other meds, but you mentioned that you felt sorry for your wife as you couldn't pleasure her.

You don't need an erection nor a penis to pleasure a woman.

There's millions of different toys available at your fingertips which you can order discreetly online if visiting sex shops isn't your thing.

Oral sex and hands used in a right way tend to do the magic too.

If you love your wife - do it for her.

Obviously your own satisfaction is important too, which hopefully you will be able to get back once a doctor finds the root of the problem.

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well viagra will help you get a heart attack but that about all it will do for you

Care to explain your comment Doctor?"
yes it's will cause heart attack look it up side effects ps. Read the small print

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By *urlyloverMan
over a year ago

n Ireland

The side affects from viagra are not worth it.Banging sore head even pains in your legs,lower back etc for days.

Busy lifestyle is the biggest killer of sex drive and no time for foreplay,date nights,and just plain relaxed fun and laughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well viagra will help you get a heart attack but that about all it will do for you

Care to explain your comment Doctor?yes it's will cause heart attack look it up side effects ps. Read the small print

So you're saying everyone that takes it will have a heart attack?

It was allegedly prescribed to him, think I would trust a Doctor over someone scaremongering, to get a bit of attention. Idiot!!

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

There is another tablet lavartin it's better than viagra but it is more expensive it's around 50 euro for 4 but very good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone found that viagra doesn’t help them or partner. I get the usual morning “wood” and occasional hard on but just can’t maintain it. I was prescribed viagra but it had no effect. I don’t have much of a sex drive but would be nice to satisfy the wife. We tried tonight and I got thick but only about 75% hard which was no use. I actually felt so sorry for my wife as she was so horny."

See a doctor.

This could be a symptom of a new or worsening health issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go back to my doctor tablet wise besides Viagra there is Cialis and Levitra and different strengths 5mg 10 mg and 20mg but you have to talk to gp don't self diagnose or buy off Internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well viagra will help you get a heart attack but that about all it will do for you

Care to explain your comment Doctor?yes it's will cause heart attack look it up side effects ps. Read the small print

So you're saying everyone that takes it will have a heart attack?

It was allegedly prescribed to him, think I would trust a Doctor over someone scaremongering, to get a bit of attention. Idiot!!"

Sorry but did he say that Doctors are prescribing meds to people that will give them a heart attack?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well viagra will help you get a heart attack but that about all it will do for you

Care to explain your comment Doctor?yes it's will cause heart attack look it up side effects ps. Read the small print

So you're saying everyone that takes it will have a heart attack?

It was allegedly prescribed to him, think I would trust a Doctor over someone scaremongering, to get a bit of attention. Idiot!!

Sorry but did he say that Doctors are prescribing meds to people that will give them a heart attack? "

As the OP said it was prescribed to him, yes, he did say that.....there was no caveat about it being a side effect, just a statement

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By *usbyXXXMan
over a year ago

County Waterford

Been taking cialis for a few months. I was losing erections too soon. But now works great. Could be for you.

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