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By *unFella OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry

What does everyone think of younger guys like myself being on fab? Are we all just timewasters and fakes? Thats all I seem to get in replies is “You’re in over your head” or “Do you think Im stupid” A simple no is all thats needed, you don’t have to assume Im a newbie virgin or a fake account because Im in my early 20s. If you were ever 20 you know what 20 year olds get up to lol All I ask is the same respect Im so careful to give to everyone else on here. My youth doesn’t translate to idiocy. Discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to you. You're not what we're looking for so your being on Fab has no real bearing on our experience.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You've only been here 9 weeks which is a blink of an eye in fab terms.

The only comment I'll make on your age is that very few 22 year olds have the patience required to be successful on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's entirely your own business, I've got no idea what my own son is up to. You're probably younger than most here would meet which might limit your opportunities, but you come across well.

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

city

Ah no it's fine mate. Sure look at me.... I'm just a young fella and ppl treat me very well here.

Its all in your head

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By *unFella OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry


"You've only been here 9 weeks which is a blink of an eye in fab terms.

The only comment I'll make on your age is that very few 22 year olds have the patience required to be successful on here. "

Oh yeah I totally get that. Im fine with waiting and patience its just how rude people can be on here. Not expecting to get into the scene overnight, would just be nice if I wasnt attacked specifically for my age if you get what I mean. Like a “no thanks” is dead on, no bother at all. Just the extra insults they add on for no reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you been to any of the social nights yet? I’ve been told that’s a good place to start!

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By *unFella OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry


"I think it's entirely your own business, I've got no idea what my own son is up to. You're probably younger than most here would meet which might limit your opportunities, but you come across well."

Yeah understandable like some people on here have kids my age. And thank you, always try keep the manners up even on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you only message those where you fall inside their preferred age range?

I'll be honest, depending on which way the wind is blowing I can occasionally be abrupt with the 20-somethings who message us despite our preference for over 30s. Especially if they expect us to be polite when they haven't shown us the courtesy of actually paying any attention to what we want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met and played with some lovely younger guys from here. I judge someone on their personality rather than what age is on a passport. But some just can't converse at all you just get love mature ladies messages and you feel like they are ticking something off the Fuck It List.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I’ll give you one piece of advice. Get on that site beginning with T.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a place for everyone on fab, just find yours and be the way you are genuinely, don’t let the stereotypes influence you. You don’t need to fit anywhere. Have amazing experiences

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By *pforfun17576Man
over a year ago

Kildare

Sometimes you can be blocked on here for just saying "hello" too lad - some cruel people lol

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

As a younger guy it depends on what you want to? Personally I want a 1on1 meet with a women rather than going to clubs etc I just prefer it as it’s more discrete

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I met a few youner lads who were more mature and respectful than lads my own age so don't take heed to what anyone says and just do you..

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Starting early effectively lengthens the number of successful years you will potentially enjoy swinging, but there are several key points to pick up very quickly: cock pics are not appealing to many women; laying the ground work for swinging takes time and patience; ticking every single box on your interests profile shows a lack of thought about what you really want, to achieve.

If it is what you enjoy, the best of luck to you.

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By *unFella OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry


"Do you only message those where you fall inside their preferred age range?

I'll be honest, depending on which way the wind is blowing I can occasionally be abrupt with the 20-somethings who message us despite our preference for over 30s. Especially if they expect us to be polite when they haven't shown us the courtesy of actually paying any attention to what we want"

Ah no I dont even bother if Im out of their age range. Unless they specify in their bio they may go under then I might. If not specified tho I dont no.

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By *unFella OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry


"I met a few youner lads who were more mature and respectful than lads my own age so don't take heed to what anyone says and just do you.."

I will keep that in mind thank you very much. Nice for a bit of reassurance

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

"All I ask is the same respect Im so careful to give to everyone else on here."

You are entitled to that. And anyone who treats you otherwise isnt worth your time. Know your own worth

Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""All I ask is the same respect Im so careful to give to everyone else on here."

You are entitled to that. And anyone who treats you otherwise isnt worth your time. Know your own worth

Happy Fabbing"

Very well said!

You come across as a well mannered young man which is refreshing. Don't let the few less respectful people knock your confidence and stay true to yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""All I ask is the same respect Im so careful to give to everyone else on here."

You are entitled to that. And anyone who treats you otherwise isnt worth your time. Know your own worth

Happy Fabbing"

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