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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One thing I've noticed since being on fab

It's ok for a woman to be married or attached and looking for fun

But if a man is married or attached and looking for fun, it's not OK

Has anyone noticed this trend??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are less selective when it comes to casual sex partners. It's not exclusive to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, men tend to make threads on the forum to complain about it, which doesn't tend to endear them to people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also, men tend to make threads on the forum to complain about it, which doesn't tend to endear them to people "

Not a complaint

Just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, men tend to make threads on the forum to complain about it, which doesn't tend to endear them to people

Not a complaint

Just an observation "

Another observation is the gender ratio here, large numbers of men competing for the attention of a much smaller number of women/couples. Tends to make the latter fussier and the former more desperate and vocal about their frustrations, that doesn't impress anyone.

And of course, there's a societal perception that women (who are of course universally wonderful, but especially so on fab) only cheat if their man is doing something wrong, whereas men are bastards. Additionally, women will often empathise with the partner.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Generally speaking the girls get to be more choosy on here because there are many more men than women. That means they can easily choose someone unattached over someone attached. The men will get far fewer replies so aren't so selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing I've noticed since being on fab

It's ok for a woman to be married or attached and looking for fun

But if a man is married or attached and looking for fun, it's not OK

Has anyone noticed this trend??"

No, there is no trend. It's a made up notion to feel better about how your fab journey is going.

Some men/women are ok meeting with attached and some are not. Some men/women care whether it's with the other partner's knowledge or not and some don't. Those who hate being cheated on and hate cheaters come from both the male and female sides. The women tend to just filter out those they won't meet and get on with it. The men who don't do the same make threads.

End of thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you spoken with married women in here ? How do you know its a trend?

As someone else said ratio of men to women is high, some people will avoid married or attached people as they have been cheated on and it's not a nice thing to do.

And than some will meet married/attached

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Probably because women do put on their profile that they wont meet with attached or married men

I've never seen a man put something similar

I have seen we're all here for different reasons so if you're married its none of my business on mens ....

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity."

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH "

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes? "

Is that the female version of the BBC that's so highly prized here?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes?

Is that the female version of the BBC that's so highly prized here? "

So BBH michael

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes?

Is that the female version of the BBC that's so highly prized here? "

No McCarthy you're thinking of big tits. This one every woman has if she knows how to use the force.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes?

Is that the female version of the BBC that's so highly prized here?

So BBH michael "

We need a BBH thread urgently!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes?

Is that the female version of the BBC that's so highly prized here?

No McCarthy you're thinking of big tits. This one every woman has if she knows how to use the force. "

Big tits have their place but ya can't bate a big hole all the same!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes?

Is that the female version of the BBC that's so highly prized here?

No McCarthy you're thinking of big tits. This one every woman has if she knows how to use the force.

Big tits have their place but ya can't bate a big hole all the same! "

That's it there, pussy gravity, when it's getting too strong the little head takes over the control room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to have nightmares of gaping holes hoovering up unsuspecting males like a scene from a scifi horror movie

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I'm going to have nightmares of gaping holes hoovering up unsuspecting males like a scene from a scifi horror movie"

That's Halloween season for you but the beardy old man lap sitting season is approaching fast, so just hang in there for a little longer.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes?

Is that the female version of the BBC that's so highly prized here?

No McCarthy you're thinking of big tits. This one every woman has if she knows how to use the force.

Big tits have their place but ya can't bate a big hole all the same!

That's it there, pussy gravity, when it's getting too strong the little head takes over the control room.

"

Well sure isn't that where the control room is located?

"Get it inta ya Cynthia!"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I'm going to have nightmares of gaping holes hoovering up unsuspecting males like a scene from a scifi horror movie"

I'm not seeing the problem with that image myself

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I'm going to have nightmares of gaping holes hoovering up unsuspecting males like a scene from a scifi horror movie

That's Halloween season for you but the beardy old man lap sitting season is approaching fast, so just hang in there for a little longer."

Are you talking about me again?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'm going to have nightmares of gaping holes hoovering up unsuspecting males like a scene from a scifi horror movie

That's Halloween season for you but the beardy old man lap sitting season is approaching fast, so just hang in there for a little longer."

I didn't know Michael had a beard

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I would empathise with any man on here who is devoting a lot of time to try get meets and is struggling. I’m sure it’s happening to many as that is a general trend of the site. It’s probably only natural as there is a huge ratio difference on the site and then throw in mindset towards casual sex also.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's called pussy power, which means different rules apply, we've the upper hand on here. It's not a trend though. It is mainly down to ratio women:men, hypocracy and pussy gravity.

Pussy gravity..is that when they always land on their feet if they fall out of a tree or a bed DH

No BM, I'm afraid you're on the wrong track there. Ever heard of black holes?

Is that the female version of the BBC that's so highly prized here?

No McCarthy you're thinking of big tits. This one every woman has if she knows how to use the force.

Big tits have their place but ya can't bate a big hole all the same!

That's it there, pussy gravity, when it's getting too strong the little head takes over the control room.

Well sure isn't that where the control room is located?

"Get it inta ya Cynthia!" "

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"One thing I've noticed since being on fab

It's ok for a woman to be married or attached and looking for fun

But if a man is married or attached and looking for fun, it's not OK

Has anyone noticed this trend??"

Women get away with a lot more here shite on here than men do. It’s down to numbers mostly.

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By *ootlooseMan
over a year ago

kildare

One thing I’ve noticed outside of fab, is that an awful lot of couples are breaking up and it’s mostly from cheating. In the last month I have chatted 6 guys who found out their other half were having either affairs or just a fling. And these guys swore on their kids lives that they never cheated on their partners. They all agreed that they cheated on girls when they were much younger but not now on their wives. So not all men are bastards, and not all women are bastards either. But it seems being honourable and having integrity has definitely been thrown out the window!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"One thing I’ve noticed outside of fab, is that an awful lot of couples are breaking up and it’s mostly from cheating. In the last month I have chatted 6 guys who found out their other half were having either affairs or just a fling. And these guys swore on their kids lives that they never cheated on their partners. They all agreed that they cheated on girls when they were much younger but not now on their wives. So not all men are bastards, and not all women are bastards either. But it seems being honourable and having integrity has definitely been thrown out the window! "

To be fair now, I would take anonymous men on an online swinging site swearing on their children's lives with a pinch of salt.

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By *ootlooseMan
over a year ago

kildare

Not guys from fab I’m talking about Micheal.

Just folks you meet ya know, at work ,neighbours, friends etc.

Some men are definitely dogs for sure but not all.

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