FabSwingers.com forum: Ask in Private, answer in public

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it's been done before so what it's fun & can get some new conversations going, for anyone who doesnt know when someone says they're in you can private message them a question and they'll answer in public

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Ah go on I’ll join in

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By *onegalswingMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Ok I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an open book

Innie

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

Go for it. I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lose count when it's a serious session. Best guess would be 15+

Trouble is they run together

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im in ask away

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Evening all. Count me in.

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Once from grinding

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By *unFellaMan
over a year ago

Derry

Im in, lets goo

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By *ri382Man
over a year ago

cork

I'll chance it I'm in

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Course i would was married to one for year's

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By *onegalswingMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Ram ur fingers in my bum

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Cowgirl - I get it very hard to control myself when she’s on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never keep count, too busy enjoying the sex.

It's easily double figures.

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By *onegalswingMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"I can never keep count, too busy enjoying the sex.

It's easily double figures."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can never keep count, too busy enjoying the sex.

It's easily double figures.

What's the eyeroll for?

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By *onegalswingMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Was meant to be a wow. Oops

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

I'm in

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

We're in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *ublinlad95Man
over a year ago

south

I’ll join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am indeed a natural redhead

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in for a while

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

We re in

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By *0nnyMan
over a year ago

walsall

I’m in for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing fancy here but there's nothing sexier than peeling dress off a woman, especially if there's a zip to the front of it... leather would be preference

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Sure look I'm in for a while...ask away

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Why not in for a while to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in for it. Ask me absolutely anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You twisted my arm... I'm in x

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Doctor's surgery examination couch

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By *ublinlad95Man
over a year ago

south

Well to answer your question, if it can’t be you, then next on my hotlist would be ladylucifer

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

It’s a bit of a casual morning so I’m in

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"It’s a bit of a casual morning so I’m in"

He'll be delighted

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes,years ago when out I went to a bar and as I went to the bar to order a drink a woman came up to me and said come on our taxi is ready,I wasn't sure what she meant but she was good looking so I went with it.into the taxi and she said your place, the rest was alot of fun,brillant night. No names or anything given,literally totally spontaneous

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"It’s a bit of a casual morning so I’m in

He'll be delighted

Isn’t he always

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Back in for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for someone chill who loves living their best life.... someone capable & composed but when it comes to sex an intense & dominant guy.

Watching and waiting for that thread to snap as lust outweighs the classy exterior...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes,years ago when out I went to a bar and as I went to the bar to order a drink a woman came up to me and said come on our taxi is ready,I wasn't sure what she meant but she was good looking so I went with it.into the taxi and she said your place, the rest was alot of fun,brillant night. No names or anything given,literally totally spontaneous"

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Going to go with cowgirl just cause i can control the rhythm and you get to admire the view......

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I'm in then.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Never have but it's going to happen soon fingers crossed both are Bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in too...twill brighten up a dull morning

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Duno Cork is a bit of a spin unless ye make it worth my while......

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In and be gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In and be gentle

I don't do gentle....unless I'm post-orgasmic. Permission to be not gentle?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Going to say the dragon fruit cause like what fuk do you even do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bi mmff

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"In and be gentle

I don't do gentle....unless I'm post-orgasmic. Permission to be not gentle?"

Permission granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In and be gentle

I don't do gentle....unless I'm post-orgasmic. Permission to be not gentle?

Permission granted

oh...fun

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Nice hotel, few drinks at the bar some cheeky flirting then we could head to the bedroom and ill show ye...

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have and I have learnt from it.

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

In for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Favourite male with favourite female watching lol

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

laughing flirting touching kissing groping pulling panting pounding pleasing towels

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By *ootlooseMan
over a year ago

kildare

I’m late but I’m in

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A proper long ffm. Hotel room and hours of fun.

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By *ootlooseMan
over a year ago

kildare

Reply- missionary position all the way, you well rested on your back

lots of passionate snogging!

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By *ild_N_CuriousCouple
over a year ago

Cork City

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By *ild_N_CuriousCouple
over a year ago

Cork City

We’re in ask away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red bodysuit and red stockings coz I love red lingerie and I feel super sexy in it

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Anal....just not for me......

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Pictures don't make me cum it's videos that get me going....Just saying for future reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In for a while

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By *0nnyMan
over a year ago

walsall

The longest I’ve had an unwelcome one was for about 20 minutes while my very good looking manual handling instructor was showing me how to lift a box and her leggings where completely see through

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Last time i was in Belfast, ive a soft spot for the Nordie accent turns me on, could have listened to him all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *ootlooseMan
over a year ago

kildare

Good afternoon just about!

Erm yes and no, yes in terms of everything you think you need is here but no in terms of everything you want you can’t have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically, sending pics of us having sex to a man we were meeting for a drink the following day

Physically, MFM

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Leather obviously but the chain bra is probably one of my favourite new pieces ive a few new bits arriving later in the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A recent party where I had some very hot fun

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By *ublinlad95Man
over a year ago

south

About three weeks haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't single one out really, all good experiences

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

To enjoy dvp with 2 guys while hubby watches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Raspberry....I like it a little tart

I like both of those options tbh but first prize would go to....

A hand at my throat & pinned to a wall

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

About week and a half ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in again for a while

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

38E ,quite the handful

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

See through leggings - the cause of my unwanted boners

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Massage ye with coconut oil all over, i give a good tit wank so then your cock will taste like Bounty Bar.....my favourite taste...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Massage ye with coconut oil all over, i give a good tit wank so then your cock will taste like Bounty Bar.....my favourite taste...

The milky bar kid is fuckin crying now

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

Joining in!

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

a little black dress and thigh high boots

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I’m in

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Chain bra under the zipper dress and nothing else......mabey stockings depending

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

Apart from himself, my magic wand

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

No never....i need touch or visual stimulating

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

In for a bit while I listen to the wind howl outside.

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Grinding and kissing

better than the sex if it’s passionate

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Grinding and kissing

better than the sex if it’s passionate

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

In for a bit

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Ask about my privates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always take my own pics...so far! Lol

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By *unFellaMan
over a year ago

Derry

Im in. Someone ask me something

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

We're in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

I love all sizes of boobs so it wouldn't bother me

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In for a weee bit

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By *ottie00Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

In for a bit

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By *eaniexMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm in

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By *ottie00Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to meet you in a hotel bar I'd wear a long mack as its wet out atm and a smile with my lippy on.. with nothing underneath ..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm in.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in for a bit. Ask away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I didn’t ask that. And the game is to answer here

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By *hydubcplCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Gwan sure why not…..we’re in!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I'm in for a bit

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In the front hall against the front door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, being on the forums hasn't made my profile standout more.

I'll admit I've chatted to a few because of it but it's no different than usual.

It is always nice to chat and meet new people but getting attention or being popular on fab is not something that I pursue

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By *illyouup400Man
over a year ago

City

Ask away..

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By *alway19Man
over a year ago

galway/ Westmeath

I'm in

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I'm sure that could be arranged

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By *alway19Man
over a year ago

galway/ Westmeath

I find like minded people. I am a very sensual person and the few connections I have made here have similar interests and the connection is instant. People are free to express what they want here also.

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By *ottie00Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't mind at all it's kind of exciting

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Spend time with family and my dogs and horses and get out walking when I get a chance. I'm going to try and do the latter more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy in my own company

One on one conversation over grouo nights out.

I carry all my own decisions, problems and consequences

It works quite well ( for me anyway) in a medium like this, we are all just avatars here right..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotional pain

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

My car I find going on a long drive on my own very relaxing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t change my job for anything in the world. I do what I love the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And last one

No hair to pull anymore

So it would be pinned to the wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In again

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By *oriumTergoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

I'm in

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Last Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mouth has no filters I say as I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for starts, slow and sensual building up the tempo and desire... my body will follow

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

About 3 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no meaning to it ,just something that came to mind in that moment

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Back in again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into playing dress up as you can see from pics .. I know I'm a plain Jane .. rather spend my money wisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffm... better dynamic and best of both worlds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't meet here, and we joined to explore together

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Missionary

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Prone bone or missionary

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Too many to mention but Fandango and Lolly spring to mind for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I knew in advance then something short for easy access under the table and with a little cleavage on show to show him what he's in store for later

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

A bit yes not as much as I was earlier though.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's the confidence and trust in the pics that does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight .. but you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saucylad your dead I ain't answering that lol manky yoke

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Saucylad your dead I ain't answering that lol manky yoke

Haha I know I know but come on,if you had to choose one...is it Liverpool or Man Utd lol

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

Im in for a bit.

Ms.Fluffy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saucylad your dead I ain't answering that lol manky yoke

Haha I know I know but come on,if you had to choose one...is it Liverpool or Man Utd lol"

I'm a rugby gal .. more men on the field .. the dad bods .. yummm ...oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in for a bit. Ask away"

That's a good question you asked me. Yes. I need to look at my photos. Have I put enough effort into them, are they what others like to see, perhaps not. There's homework for me...

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By *ickHollieCouple
over a year ago

We’re in

Ask away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inn

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By *ootlooseMan
over a year ago

kildare

I’m in for a bit

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'd say the size of the ones you get in the Christmas gift baskets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 to 6 day’s a week..

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By *ickHollieCouple
over a year ago

If I’m honest right now I’d love for u to make me a cup of tea in bed which I could drink while I get a foot rub

but then maybe let u tie me up a little, take out some of my toys and have ur wicked way

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By *ristol_nicolaTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm in

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

visiting Birmingham

Im in

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Yes and proud to be one haha

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"Yes and proud to be one haha"

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By *ony85sMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm in

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

I fancy the work trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's see what creative juices are flowing today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be Kiddo my name but certainly not by nature lol don’t let you age stop you contacting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you mean "pretending to work"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your definition of naughty

Either:

In my place of work when I worked in a hotel

Or:

In my parents house during a party

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By *7840Man
over a year ago

drogheda

I’m in , ask Away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In for a bit

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Not many questions left now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in for a while

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

And they all lived happily ever after

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