FabSwingers.com forum: Naming others

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people think it’s ok to name locals this was done by local guy to a couple I know he told family and friends a long with trying to blacken the couple’s name rocket (ma) add an n fermanagh male

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Because they are complete arseholes. No other reason other than that. And it's why if you want to keep fab life and life outside of here separate you should be very careful who you share personal information and face pics with.Because unfortunately some people just are complete and utter arseholes.

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By *riodysMan
over a year ago

Wexford

So wrong

Nobody's business

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's crazy and not acceptable at all.

Like people using pics they've taken from other sites to use as their own.

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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

"Because they are complete arseholes. No other reason other than that. And it's why if you want to keep fab life and life outside of here separate you should be very careful who you share personal information and face pics with.Because unfortunately some people just are complete and utter arseholes. "

Funny though, plenty of profiles with 'no face pics - no reply' as their headline.

Mind you, when I am thinking of it as I type this, those are profiles with very little to show in terms of own flesh.

As for the topic, that bloke deserves his arse kicked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person on this once threatened to tell my sons dad I was on this if I didn't meet uo with him after we shared pics. I called his bluff and he didn't. But ut did have me nervous as hell for ages.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"A person on this once threatened to tell my sons dad I was on this if I didn't meet uo with him after we shared pics. I called his bluff and he didn't. But ut did have me nervous as hell for ages. "

What kink of meet would anyone expect to have, intimate or otherwise, with someone who was forced into a meet?

For me that’s about one short step from physically forcing someone to do something.

A proper cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A person on this once threatened to tell my sons dad I was on this if I didn't meet uo with him after we shared pics. I called his bluff and he didn't. But ut did have me nervous as hell for ages.

What kink of meet would anyone expect to have, intimate or otherwise, with someone who was forced into a meet?

For me that’s about one short step from physically forcing someone to do something.

A proper cunt."

There was no way I was going to follow through with it anyway, I'd prefer him to say it than to give in.

But it did turn me off meeting anyone of fab for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A person on this once threatened to tell my sons dad I was on this if I didn't meet uo with him after we shared pics. I called his bluff and he didn't. But ut did have me nervous as hell for ages. "

Fuck me, there are some right dickheads out there, trying to force you into a meet like that...

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By *mperiumMan
over a year ago

navan

"A person on this once threatened to tell my sons dad I was on this if I didn't meet uo with him after we shared pics. I called his bluff and he didn't. But ut did have me nervous as hell for ages.

What kink of meet would anyone expect to have, intimate or otherwise, with someone who was forced into a meet?

For me that’s about one short step from physically forcing someone to do something.

A proper cunt.

There was no way I was going to follow through with it anyway, I'd prefer him to say it than to give in.

But it did turn me off meeting anyone of fab for a long time. "

That is so fucked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't show my face at all, till we meet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sure it is what it is, I was more surprised because he was verified and all. But he has stopped it all now and apologised saying he was in a bad place at the time but it was no excuse.

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By *mperiumMan
over a year ago

navan

"Ah sure it is what it is, I was more surprised because he was verified and all. But he has stopped it all now and apologised saying he was in a bad place at the time but it was no excuse. "

No excuse at all. Sorry to hear that happened you.

Can't believe that shite goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally immature and disgraceful. The whole idea of fab is discreet fun not dickheads doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone from same work place threaten to tell my boss I was on here if I didn't tell him first.

I pointed out that they then would have to also explain how they knew I was on here. Never heard from them again.

But still was nervous for a few days

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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime

"A person on this once threatened to tell my sons dad I was on this if I didn't meet uo with him after we shared pics. I called his bluff and he didn't. But ut did have me nervous as hell for ages. "

I am sorry this happened to you unfortunately it happens more then it should calling the bluff is the only way but it is all very off putting then the next potential play date pays for it because you are so cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming anyone in anyway on this site without permission is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naming anyone in anyway on this site without permission is wrong. "

So how would the I fancy xxxx threads work?

It happens all can do is report it and move one, I've had my name mentioned re parties during covid, another guy reckoned it was safer to get covid than meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naming anyone in anyway on this site without permission is wrong.

So how would the I fancy xxxx threads work?

It happens all can do is report it and move one, I've had my name mentioned re parties during covid, another guy reckoned it was safer to get covid than meet me.

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There is such a thing as pm if you fancy someone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the bullying has started.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Did he think that cock was funny also I wonder?

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Guys, last thing I wanted to do is open Pandoras box unless her name is Pandora

Can we get along for this long weekend?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"And the bullying has started. "

Where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the bullying has started.

Where "
Above

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"And the bullying has started.

Where Above "

Still missed it ...looked again...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe by changing the tone of the post it will take away from guys mentioning other people maybe you guys think it’s ok to do that but I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe by changing the tone of the post it will take away from guys mentioning other people maybe you guys think it’s ok to do that but I don’t "

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Ahh I wonder is he up to his old tricks and has 2 profiles on the go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone is walking on shaky ground.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And maybe some guys think it’s ok to name others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still thinking it’s ok to name people saying alot about your self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawnnnnnnnnn

Toxic thread this is

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Please report any profile that is Naming and Shaming, threatning to out a person as the site takes a very dim view of this.

I will also drop a link to the photo rules.

https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/photo-rules

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