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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My question is ….In This fast pace world of fab…. How to open up at socials? Please Share do’s coz I know the dont’s lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe speak proper English

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Maybe speak proper English "

Harsh, no ?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Maybe speak proper English "

If you can comment on it then you can understand it....

You know if you blow out someone else's candle your's doesn't shine any brighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe speak proper English

If you can comment on it then you can understand it....

You know if you blow out someone else's candle your's doesn't shine any brighter "
Sorry Mother lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My question is ….In This fast pace world of fab…. How to open up at socials? Please Share do’s coz I know the dont’s lol"

From my first hand experience the first few socials I went to, I was shocking for just sitting with the people I knew, leaving early etc

But as my confidence has grown and probably cause I know a lot more people I get up and chat and mingle a lot more. Introduce people to each other etc

I have held a few afternoon socials to make it easier as there is no expectations, no alcohol involved, no cost etc

By chatting on the forums you will get to know people and if they going to socials try and meet up with them even if only to say a quick hello.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Op....a social is just a few hours in a pub or cafe.....nobody wears a big sign saying fabswingers

Just chat normally to whoever you meet there....man or woman...

If you're really nervous bring a gimmick......like Donuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op....a social is just a few hours in a pub or cafe.....nobody wears a big sign saying fabswingers

Just chat normally to whoever you meet there....man or woman...

If you're really nervous bring a gimmick......like Donuts "

Or nipple stickers

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

All of the above (except for Jonny's advice)

Join any Kik chats beforehand and if its a large social where it can be hard to get talking to people, try to arrange to meet someone in advance and walk in together (even a guy).

Don't see guys as competition, they can help you in your journey. The most successful (straight) guys have male friends that they made on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of the above (except for Jonny's advice)

Join any Kik chats beforehand and if its a large social where it can be hard to get talking to people, try to arrange to meet someone in advance and walk in together (even a guy).

Don't see guys as competition, they can help you in your journey. The most successful (straight) guys have male friends that they made on here "
You love me really

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"All of the above (except for Jonny's advice)

Join any Kik chats beforehand and if its a large social where it can be hard to get talking to people, try to arrange to meet someone in advance and walk in together (even a guy).

Don't see guys as competition, they can help you in your journey. The most successful (straight) guys have male friends that they made on here "

Fact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe speak proper English "

It’s jst a language… how about gaeilge?

an ndeanfaidh se aon difriocht?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe speak proper English

It’s jst a language… how about gaeilge?

an ndeanfaidh se aon difriocht? "
chucky r la

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe speak proper English

It’s jst a language… how about gaeilge?

an ndeanfaidh se aon difriocht? chucky r la "

True! try not to miss your medication the day will come .. you will feel better

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By *orkGuyFunGuyMan
over a year ago

Cork

Fab is very very slow paced to get anywhere or anything done iv found since covid

Been to a few socials my first few really is was nervous going in but the gang in there put you at ease quick enough

Don’t over think it fella!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"All of the above (except for Jonny's advice)

Join any Kik chats beforehand and if its a large social where it can be hard to get talking to people, try to arrange to meet someone in advance and walk in together (even a guy).

Don't see guys as competition, they can help you in your journey. The most successful (straight) guys have male friends that they made on here You love me really "

Take note of my last line

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

The smaller socials are easier because you get to talk to everyone and you usually don't need to be meet verified in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab is very very slow paced to get anywhere or anything done iv found since covid

Been to a few socials my first few really is was nervous going in but the gang in there put you at ease quick enough

Don’t over think it fella!"

Thanks man! I appreciate that!

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"My question is ….In This fast pace world of fab…. How to open up at socials? Please Share do’s coz I know the dont’s lol

From my first hand experience the first few socials I went to, I was shocking for just sitting with the people I knew, leaving early etc

But as my confidence has grown and probably cause I know a lot more people I get up and chat and mingle a lot more. Introduce people to each other etc

I have held a few afternoon socials to make it easier as there is no expectations, no alcohol involved, no cost etc

By chatting on the forums you will get to know people and if they going to socials try and meet up with them even if only to say a quick hello.

"

I attended one of DD socials during the summer. DD was great at introducing me to people eventually I got chatting to a sexy lady, who has great style and we still chat to one another. Just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The smaller socials are easier because you get to talk to everyone and you usually don't need to be meet verified in advance."

Thanks…. I appreciate your advise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe speak proper English

Harsh, no ? "

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe speak proper English

If you can comment on it then you can understand it....

You know if you blow out someone else's candle your's doesn't shine any brighter "

Thanks man ! Your comment says a lot about you… I appreciate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with a few dad jokes up your sleeve. Or go chat to someone and ask them the most random question like - if someone gave you and elephant and you couldnt get rid of it what would you do? Great way to start conversations. I find if you dont care if you embarrass yourself youll have a good laugh

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Wear a kilt. Act all mysterious and aloof and just keep crossing your legs. It's only a matter of time before someone approaches you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My question is ….In This fast pace world of fab…. How to open up at socials? Please Share do’s coz I know the dont’s lol"

It's easier to open up at parties.....I just spread my legs

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Just be yourself as if your just down the local pub well socials are basically that so just get chatting to even one person explain your new and wouldn't mind being introduced to their friends.

Always good to chat to people attending socials beforehand I've been to loads now and I only joined fab before first lockdown and had loads of socials and meets are very few and far between but that's how I like it! No pressure and no expections makes for a great social night x

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By *rank7737Man
over a year ago

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I've always found at these things that you need to make the most of the night and nearly put on your politicians hat and try and chat to as many people as possible so basically it's all about shaking peoples hands and trying to be as confident and comfortable as possible.

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

Get tanked before it.

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Get tanked before it."

Worst advice ever

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Do the same thing you’d do if you were in a busy pub or nightclub. Just be yourself, mingle and have some craic

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Get tanked before it.

Worst advice ever "

That's where I went wrong last time , thanks Jacob

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Get tanked before it.

Worst advice ever "

Exactly... Best way to be asked to leave

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS


"Do the same thing you’d do if you were in a busy pub or nightclub. Just be yourself, mingle and have some craic "

Yeah, so get tanked.

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