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By *arty central OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

It's not good for my mental health been constantly rejected by my wife.. Anyone got any advice?

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Talk to your wife or failing that a professional counsellor would be my advice.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Talk to her and try and find out why it's happening all the time. Have an adult discussion without either side getting annoyed and throwing accusations. Being rejected all the time would be completely demoralising after a while. But without talking about it things probably won't improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to a doctor, enquire about counselling for you or both of you, maybe there's a reason for her rejecting you.

Does she know you are in her? Is been on here helping?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the previous messages have said, try talking to her?

Im in the same situation as you Op, she has no interest in sex, well with me anyway!!

But you could meet someone here, sneek around chatting with that person, meeting up with them, telling lies to your wife that your somewhere but your elsewhere meeting a fwb.

Just think about what you're going to do here and know what the consequences will be if your caught !!!

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By *arty central OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Thanks all. I think she's just gone off sex altogether and my sex drive is thru the roof since getting the snip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all. I think she's just gone off sex altogether and my sex drive is thru the roof since getting the snip. "

An maybe there's a reason she's gone off sex and it could be you, so why not try and solve the issue. If it was the other way around and you were the " one gone of sex" and your wife's sex drive through the roof.

Is she menopausal? Maybe look online some great supports out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dig a hole in the back garden for her .....works every time

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By *arty central OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Dig a hole in the back garden for her .....works every time "

That's just the advice I was looking for.

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By * TicingMan
over a year ago

Dublin 7

It's been said on many of the posts. Communication is key. I was in a similar situation with my ex but I knew why it was happening but it didn't help, as we both stopped talking about it and eventually the relationship broke down. (The pandemic didn't help) We have talked about it recently and we both said we wished we had the conversation when were together. Just be honest and ask. You might not like the answer but it's better to know than speculate!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

If verbal communication has completely terminated, set out the issues as you see them in a detailed letter and break the impasse; life is unusually stressful at present and opening up some form of communication is useful.

A letter can be a very carefully considered and crafted document the effect of which can be lifelong, for the better.

It can in effect be an agenda for a heart to heart frank and open discussion.

Consider it, as an option.

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