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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do ye go on a vanilla night out looking for singles/couples to join ye?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do both together and separately. How successful we are is usually dependent upon how organised in advance it is, last minute rarely works, vanilla or non vanilla in our experience and vanilla is vanilla with us even with fabbers. Remember there's so much more to life than fab and vanilla can be so much fun, just differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we go out on a date to spend quality time together.

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"No, we go out on a date to spend quality time together. "

Lucky him.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

No, but what happens happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we go out on a date to spend quality time together. "

Same but if something comes up pardon the pun then so be it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Sometimes it depends on where we're going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot"

Two flights too knock pls lol

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We mostly just do nights for just us but sometimes we might have a look on the who's near and see if anyone tickles our fancy

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin


"I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot"

it's HOT, happened on a random vanilla weekend last weekend ... was mental

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We mostly just do nights for just us but sometimes we might have a look on the who's near and see if anyone tickles our fancy "

I'm more talking about just picking someoneup at the bar, not fab related

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot

it's HOT, happened on a random vanilla weekend last weekend ... was mental "

I bet it was! I do think back to that night and wish I had just gone with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot

Two flights too knock pls lol "

Lol

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"We mostly just do nights for just us but sometimes we might have a look on the who's near and see if anyone tickles our fancy

I'm more talking about just picking someoneup at the bar, not fab related"

Ok in that case no we don't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We mostly just do nights for just us but sometimes we might have a look on the who's near and see if anyone tickles our fancy

I'm more talking about just picking someoneup at the bar, not fab related"

Oh, misunderstood the OP. No we wouldn't if it was a vanilla night out.

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

No we tend to keep those nights for ourselves. However if the opportunity arose would we say no?

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"We mostly just do nights for just us but sometimes we might have a look on the who's near and see if anyone tickles our fancy "

We do this too lol

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

Yes! Well we have tried anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes! Well we have tried anyway "

Nawty by name nawty by nature

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

Didn't go looking for it but it happened by accident one night before we joined here! long story

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby


"Didn't go looking for it but it happened by accident one night before we joined here! long story "

Hence why we joined fab!

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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

We would, why not

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By *ikiMikeCouple
over a year ago

Derry

We don’t at all to be honest, but if we begin to chat to a couple we don’t hide ourselves - we have a game we play which is pick your top ten (male/female-I’m bi) and we don’t give a hoot if one of the contenders walk by……. Long story short it brings up questions so the answer is ….. unintentionally have had couples join us but we didn’t pursue them but they were curious.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Never tried to "pick someone up" but generally find if we get chatting to any vanilla people on a night out and tell them that we are swingers even if we have zero interest or attraction to people we're chatting to - you can almost smell how the atmosphere changes and not in a good way.

You know the way straight guys assume that all gay men fancy them and most definitely will make a move on them just because they're guys?

The atmosphere changes that way.

And a few awkward giggles later vanilla people usually back away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never tried to "pick someone up" but generally find if we get chatting to any vanilla people on a night out and tell them that we are swingers even if we have zero interest or attraction to people we're chatting to - you can almost smell how the atmosphere changes and not in a good way.

that's such a good way of describing it

You know the way straight guys assume that all gay men fancy them and most definitely will make a move on them just because they're guys?

The atmosphere changes that way.

And a few awkward giggles later vanilla people usually back away

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

such a good way of describing the change lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it must far easier for a couple to pull a single guy than another couple or single girl

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"it must far easier for a couple to pull a single guy than another couple or single girl"

Very much doubt that!

Any vanilla guy would go "fuck yeah" in an instant, then think how awkward it will be for him to be around male half of said couple and it will just turn into a floppy dick so they'll back out to save face.

My thinking anyway

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

possible I guess

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By *lueAndBooCouple
over a year ago

Meath

It definitely is a turn on and a fantasy for me but not something we have ever tried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say if you as a couple got refused it old be quite humiliating. it's very interesting though

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Never tried to "pick someone up" but generally find if we get chatting to any vanilla people on a night out and tell them that we are swingers even if we have zero interest or attraction to people we're chatting to - you can almost smell how the atmosphere changes and not in a good way.

You know the way straight guys assume that all gay men fancy them and most definitely will make a move on them just because they're guys?

The atmosphere changes that way.

And a few awkward giggles later vanilla people usually back away

"

...either that or they ASSUME you want to fuck them

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By *appytoadsCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

we have thought people were swinging but they weren't. very awkward and yes they think you are weird and move away. honestly its funny because we just said it and yes swinging is not about jumping into bed all the time. social side is great and an added bonus is when you get on with each other

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never tried to "pick someone up" but generally find if we get chatting to any vanilla people on a night out and tell them that we are swingers even if we have zero interest or attraction to people we're chatting to - you can almost smell how the atmosphere changes and not in a good way.

You know the way straight guys assume that all gay men fancy them and most definitely will make a move on them just because they're guys?

The atmosphere changes that way.

And a few awkward giggles later vanilla people usually back away

...either that or they ASSUME you want to fuck them "

That's literally what I just said

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Do ye go on a vanilla night out looking for singles/couples to join ye? "

We have cum lose to it once or twice and funny enough it was with bar/lounge staff

Mr dirty xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do ye go on a vanilla night out looking for singles/couples to join ye?

We have cum lose to it once or twice and funny enough it was with bar/lounge staff

Mr dirty xx"

Chatting or just looks??

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