FabSwingers.com forum: Bi women of fabs!

By *mmax OP Woman
over a year ago

kildare

Does any other bi women find it quiet hard to meet another woman on this site? Feel like when you try to have a conversation you get one word back. Am I doing something wrong?

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Having a hidden profile probably has a lot to do with it.

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By *ueenbeetipp43Woman
over a year ago

my own world

It's extremely difficult. Mainly because so many guys have fake female profiles women are more cautious. As was mentioned previously about the hidden profile... I wouldn't even reply to a message where the profile was hidden.

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By *iggles-000Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes definitely! So many fake profiles and a lot of couples have females who say they’re bi but they’re not really and only doing it for the hubby and that’s a big no no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a hidden profile probably has a lot to do with it. "

Well it might be now but it wasn't before.

I'd say perhaps a fab'alanche has hit after her post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try attending some of the social events I met a lot of my female Fab friends that way. Also not sure if it's still running but there was a bi girls group running at one point.

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By *iggles-000Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

It’s not running anymore unfortunately! I’m hoping to have social drinks in dublin the first Friday in November. If any bi ladies are interested send me a pm x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

We do struggle to find females interested in chatting more than a word or two replies like "yeah ok" or "not too bad" to our attempts to make conversation, it's hard work, like pulling blood from a stone!!!

Chances of them actually bothering to meet are slimmer still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe someone should start a thread for bi ladies and lads do the same for bi guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have chatted to a lot of my fab girlfriends and a lot struggle to make the first move or to chat to other bi girls, just the same as the guys.

Get yourself to some socials or meet n greats, you will get to know a few girls and definitely will makes things easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of fab-bi girls just the same as there are fab-straight.

Those who are happy to flex in play but not looking 1-1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of fab-bi girls just the same as there are fab-straight.

Those who are happy to flex in play but not looking 1-1"

Actually very good point they aren't looking for one on one but are more flexible in group play. Some ladies are like spaghetti straight until wet...

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

"There are a lot of fab-bi girls just the same as there are fab-straight.

Those who are happy to flex in play but not looking 1-1

Actually very good point they aren't looking for one on one but are more flexible in group play. Some ladies are like spaghetti straight until wet..."

Skitting at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of fab-bi girls just the same as there are fab-straight.

Those who are happy to flex in play but not looking 1-1

Actually very good point they aren't looking for one on one but are more flexible in group play. Some ladies are like spaghetti straight until wet..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of fab-bi girls just the same as there are fab-straight.

Those who are happy to flex in play but not looking 1-1

Actually very good point they aren't looking for one on one but are more flexible in group play. Some ladies are like spaghetti straight until wet..."

brilliant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of fab-bi girls just the same as there are fab-straight.

Those who are happy to flex in play but not looking 1-1

Actually very good point they aren't looking for one on one but are more flexible in group play. Some ladies are like spaghetti straight until wet...

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By *reciousPennyWoman
over a year ago

Kerry

I've found it impossible to meet someone. Chatted to quite a few but no one has been genuinely interested in meeting.

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By *mmax OP Woman
over a year ago

kildare

"I've found it impossible to meet someone. Chatted to quite a few but no one has been genuinely interested in meeting. "

Looks like it’s not just me so! I have my profile hidden when I’m offline sometimes simply for the fact it’s easier than hauling through messages.

I don’t think I’d be the party side of things, not yet anyways. But thanks for the suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not set up a thread to add women to a chat group n chat there might be a way of getting to know more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi Emma

have you tried mf couples. many are searching for a bo lady to join them. most of the men would only be too happy to let their lady have ff time if you weren't interested in playing with the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between the fake profiles and couples contacting for her to play and him to watch.... its tough alright!!

But there are a few gems to be found.

A meet up sounds ideal!!

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I feel your pain

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Maybe someone should start a thread for bi ladies and lads do the same for bi guys?"

Yep and call it scissor sisters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazed by this tbh...i thought it would be quite easy to chat & arrange meets

Would love to arrange an FFM (of sorts) with a female friend

Would the best course of action be to set up a couples profile? Tia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazed by this tbh...i thought it would be quite easy to chat & arrange meets

Would love to arrange an FFM (of sorts) with a female friend

Would the best course of action be to set up a couples profile? Tia"

Take into consideration how hard it can be to get a good mf meet

Include another person is the bi female only going to want to play with the female of the couple, what if she not attracted to the male? Will she play because she likes the bi girl enough to ignore the male?

From chatting to couples and bi females the dynamics can be hard to navigate. As I said before getting to socials and mng is the way to go, you get to know the couple etc and relax and have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appreciate that Devinedestiny

Bit of a minefield i know...personally would be just happy to be present..its all about the experience

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By *orkGuyFunGuyMan
over a year ago

Cork

My ex partner was Bi

And found it a lot easier to meet other women for fun on things like tinder rather than here

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"We do struggle to find females interested in chatting more than a word or two replies like "yeah ok" or "not too bad" to our attempts to make conversation, it's hard work, like pulling blood from a stone!!!

Chances of them actually bothering to meet are slimmer still.

We get that too. Very vague convos (“hi how are you” or “what are you looking for”). Like you said, it’s hard work so we give up then. It’s either that or it’s wink tennis.

We think clubs or socials are the best way to meet and chat with them

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By *nly_Fangs23Woman
over a year ago

Middle of Nowhere

"My ex partner was Bi

And found it a lot easier to meet other women for fun on things like tinder rather than here "

I have found that to be so true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not surprised at this at all...a lot of valid points made ...My female partner has had similar experiences with finding a bi female that wants to explore and develop etc..

even though her profile states what she's looking for, ignorant thick male sex pests bombard her with the usual crap which puts her off

Like Rosey mentioned attend social and consider reaching out to.those that are looking for similiar preferences to yourself

Best of luck with it

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By *londy84Man
over a year ago

Scotstown

Now u know how we feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the single women aren't single and alot who are supposedly bisexual seem to only have meets with men

Mrs

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There are profiles with bi curious on them this week who were straight last week and will be straight again next week depending on who they are chatting to at a particular moment in time.

Nothing wrong with that if that's how they want to play it but when they start sending screenshots of other women's profiles and saying how disgusting it is to see them wearing strapons and with other women you really have to wonder why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them a picture of your penis... never fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the single women aren't single and alot who are supposedly bisexual seem to only have meets with men

Mrs

I'm very much bisexual and single but I mainly meet men. What can I say just love the dick. But I do enjoy spaghetti occasionally

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

The reason I joined here many moons ago was to explore my bi side and I found out very quickly that its not easy to meet single bi women. So I started meeting couples. I've since discovered that I actually prefer playing with couples now. I'm greedy and I get the best of both worlds. But there has been the odd single woman that I just couldn't resist.

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By *antasyFrolicksWoman
over a year ago

Behind The Bales

Definitely hard to meet anpther woman even socially to start. Social events definitely seem to be a good option to meet new people in a safe environment but Im petrified to attend as I'm really self conscious of not knowing anyone.

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By *mmax OP Woman
over a year ago

kildare

"Definitely hard to meet anpther woman even socially to start. Social events definitely seem to be a good option to meet new people in a safe environment but Im petrified to attend as I'm really self conscious of not knowing anyone. "

That’s my issue too. It’s easy for people to say go but I’d be having a panic attack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv got to the stage id go any where... Lifes to short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read all of this and was quite surprised. I joined this single and bi but completely inexperienced and have had a great time with some really beautiful woman. Maybe I have just got lucky, but we are definitely in there if you look.

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By *rozenyoghurtCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Glad to know it's not just us (Kimmy). A mix of oue word replies, some good chats and laughter but it never goes anywhere and a few no shows. I will keep searching though

Kimmy

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
over a year ago

From a galaxy far far away

So when are we bi gals having a social?

And anyone else like me who is shy when it comes to Ladies?

My thing is the same way i am with hot guys... if a lady is hot, toned, georgeous and popular, I dont message...

So if there is a social i could charm the sexy knickers off them by showing off my air guitar skills and dancing like no one is watching! Bound to get a date then.....

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By *abewiththepowerCouple
over a year ago

chester

I feel your pain!! Finding women who are actually interested in play with women and aren’t just acting out their partners fantasy seems an impossible task.

If you’re in the NW, TH has ruby slippers - it’s a women only play event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's organise

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I actually thought a female fabber set up a group previously for bi woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard as it is but add kink into the mix and it seems impossible

Bi social be a great idea x

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

Yes, quite difficult to spark up conversation with genuinely bi women on here. And like others find it difficult to attend socials, especially being single so on my own. Genuine bi ladies do though exist.

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By *mmax OP Woman
over a year ago

kildare

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By *mmax OP Woman
over a year ago

kildare

"So when are we bi gals having a social?

And anyone else like me who is shy when it comes to Ladies?

My thing is the same way i am with hot guys... if a lady is hot, toned, georgeous and popular, I dont message...

So if there is a social i could charm the sexy knickers off them by showing off my air guitar skills and dancing like no one is watching! Bound to get a date then.....

I reckon it’s a great idea X

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By *ueenbeetipp43Woman
over a year ago

my own world

I do know the vanilla club wanted to organise a bi ladies only night and although loads thought it was a great idea not many were up for attending which is a massive shame.

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By *mmax OP Woman
over a year ago

kildare

"I do know the vanilla club wanted to organise a bi ladies only night and although loads thought it was a great idea not many were up for attending which is a massive shame.

Even if we started a group chat to begin with, conversations might flow a bit better and ladies might actually want to meet up.

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By *ed AstaireWoman
over a year ago

Lancaster

Groups are a great way to meet women. I started a women's group for women who frequent clubs as singles. We usually have around 40 women who are members at any one time. Lots of the girls are bi and often meet with each other when out.

We are going a year and are NW England based. We have clubbed in London, Manchester, Leicester, leeds, blackpool and Birmingham.

We do check the members are female from genuine verifications or a short video call.. we have had guys trying to join pretending to be the female half of a couple.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Hard as it is but add kink into the mix and it seems impossible

Bi social be a great idea x"

I'd be up for that.

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By *andbadventuresCouple
over a year ago

n/a

Good to know that it's not just us (Mrs B) that are finding it hard to meet a bi woman. We are new and just looking for a social one to one chat (ff) before we go any further just to make sure that B is 100% comfortable but getting no luck at all. Maybe one day....

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By *iamond_AligoCouple
over a year ago

letterkenny

The secret is in the word Bi ie they are not exclusive so why would you want to put then in a separate group,!?

The ordinary post reads like " part-time guy person wanted must be gay every Tuesday and Friday"

Fab has so so many limits that I know several people that just work with Kik and Socials

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"The secret is in the word Bi ie they are not exclusive so why would you want to put then in a separate group,!?

The ordinary post reads like " part-time guy person wanted must be gay every Tuesday and Friday"

Fab has so so many limits that I know several people that just work with Kik and Socials"
Well if they are bi then you would think they like to chat to men and women, Gay is women only , Straight women men only , Straight men women only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing the amount of couples here commenting aren't even meet verified ffs

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