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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The athletic or muscular look in a guy?

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy?"
just a strong one dad bod type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type "
A fattie?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type A fattie? "

What an A-whole

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type "

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Does anyone know is there a limit to the number you can block? Or can it just go on and on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM. "

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Does anyone know is there a limit to the number you can block? Or can it just go on and on"

Apparently there's a one out one in Boss level.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type A fattie? "

whatever you want to call them.yummy

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Muscular.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place. "

That was just an excuse to fob you off,trust me

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place. "

Was it me.. lol

For me, although I am quite happy with my body & like how I look, I am aware of my flaws & someone who works hard on their body composition I feel may judge me by their standards & I like to feel I'm one of the hottest in any tangle..

Look I know, that's a story I tell myself & is not necessarily true but that's just my two cents worth.

Also I love the feeling of a big strong "fluffy" man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone know is there a limit to the number you can block? Or can it just go on and on"
Some people are so easy to wind up

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I know my preference and it doesn't necessarily fall into either of those categories. Thank goodness there is more than just two choices on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

That was just an excuse to fob you off,trust me "


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

Was it me.. lol

For me, although I am quite happy with my body & like how I look, I am aware of my flaws & someone who works hard on their body composition I feel may judge me by their standards & I like to feel I'm one of the hottest in any tangle..

Look I know, that's a story I tell myself & is not necessarily true but that's just my two cents worth.

Also I love the feeling of a big strong "fluffy" man.

"

Thanks for the honest answer and no it wasn’t you, you didn’t respond to my wink

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By *lassic guyMan
over a year ago

my bed to your just ask

Us guys with dad bods rock we can go out and have a good time with someone and don't have to keep worrying if I eat that am I going to be up weight in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just workout and do you. Do you and don’t workout. You should be happy in your own skin and not be judged for it.

It’s sad that some people project their insecurities onto others for something as novel as going to the gym. It’s also sad that people judge or shame others for having “dad bods” or not being “fit”.

Nobody asked what I thought, just shouting into the void I guess. We all like what we like I hope people feel good in their skin and are not judged for it

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By *lassic guyMan
over a year ago

my bed to your just ask

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By *lassic guyMan
over a year ago

my bed to your just ask


"Just workout and do you. Do you and don’t workout. You should be happy in your own skin and not be judged for it.

It’s sad that some people project their insecurities onto others for something as novel as going to the gym. It’s also sad that people judge or shame others for having “dad bods” or not being “fit”.

Nobody asked what I thought, just shouting into the void I guess. We all like what we like I hope people feel good in their skin and are not judged for it "
ah I love my own skin I look at it in the Mirror every day and say wow you look good on me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tomato or tomato?

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

In my humble opinion, 'Dadbod' is certainly not the worst you can get; plenty of very sexy dad bod types on Fab and they tend to be the best craic. I think it's more those who have them who refer to them negatively anyway.

Give me 'dadbod' over skinny or (worse again) 'look how muscular I am' body types any day. There's far, far more to sexy than body shape, so relax lads. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not about the body it is the actual mind and how it works and can communicate, after all the real catalyst for sexual activity is the brain.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place. "

I would hazard a guess at this being about insecurities for the most part, unfortunately...if you're not happy with your own body when you're not "gym fit", spending time with someone who looks like they are, can bring those insecurities out.

I know I've gained a few pounds over the last 6 months and though I'm still content enough where I'm at, I know I can look better (my personal opinion and not looking for validation here)...so the occasional doubt creeps in, particularly when looking at all these fabulous nudes of other ladies and you start the toxic act of comparing yourself etc...

Personally, with regards to the OP, physique isn't the be all and end all. Attraction and chemistry is so much more than just the physical. You can be a gym fit/athletic @hole exuding notions of superiority which immediately makes someone unattractive. Give me a cuddly bear or Dad bod with empathy, humour and a zest for life over bad attitude in an Adonis anyday

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By *itm42Man
over a year ago

Cork

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By *itm42Man
over a year ago

Cork


"For me it's not about the body it is the actual mind and how it works and can communicate, after all the real catalyst for sexual activity is the brain."

Tend to agree with that being a bit if a sapiophile myself ??

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

I would hazard a guess at this being about insecurities for the most part, unfortunately...if you're not happy with your own body when you're not "gym fit", spending time with someone who looks like they are, can bring those insecurities out.

I know I've gained a few pounds over the last 6 months and though I'm still content enough where I'm at, I know I can look better (my personal opinion and not looking for validation here)...so the occasional doubt creeps in, particularly when looking at all these fabulous nudes of other ladies and you start the toxic act of comparing yourself etc...

Personally, with regards to the OP, physique isn't the be all and end all. Attraction and chemistry is so much more than just the physical. You can be a gym fit/athletic @hole exuding notions of superiority which immediately makes someone unattractive. Give me a cuddly bear or Dad bod with empathy, humour and a zest for life over bad attitude in an Adonis anyday "

Ya, that's what I ment to say.

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By *amsonite69Man
over a year ago

Belfast

some sound opinions in this thread.. says the dadbod lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about the guy I'm either attracted to him as a person or not.

A guy with an athletic or gym fit body I'm going to think straight off why would he be interested in me? As I would tend to think he out of my league but I'm working on that.

I know extremely for guys and cannot hold more than a 2 min conversation , as for the lady she was fobbing you off.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Not sure the thread is going how the OP hoped

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've got a muscle..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather partial to a runner's physique atm

Cyclists have a lot to answer for but I mean... the thighs...

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Just cos a guy has a fit body it doesnt mean hes a gym bunny. I'm I'm pretty good shape I think but havent seen inside a gym in over ten years. Not all fit guys need validation for the work they have put in. Some have no work put in

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Not sure the thread is going how the OP hoped "
tough shit

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place. "

Seriously... Given your judgment on people with more weight than you id imagine she didn't turn you down on looks

Also... how are you gym fit ? ?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

I would hazard a guess at this being about insecurities for the most part, unfortunately...if you're not happy with your own body when you're not "gym fit", spending time with someone who looks like they are, can bring those insecurities out.

I know I've gained a few pounds over the last 6 months and though I'm still content enough where I'm at, I know I can look better (my personal opinion and not looking for validation here)...so the occasional doubt creeps in, particularly when looking at all these fabulous nudes of other ladies and you start the toxic act of comparing yourself etc...

Personally, with regards to the OP, physique isn't the be all and end all. Attraction and chemistry is so much more than just the physical. You can be a gym fit/athletic @hole exuding notions of superiority which immediately makes someone unattractive. Give me a cuddly bear or Dad bod with empathy, humour and a zest for life over bad attitude in an Adonis anyday "

V well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Egg on face comes to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate most types, i like a manly man more than anything. 6 packs are nice to look at, but dad bods are more comfy to sit on

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place. "

I can actually see where she is coming from as I've felt this way a few times myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

"

Obviously - I must tell himself the bad news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O my jasus

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

As was said previously it's about the person for me not what they look like as we know looks and body type fade over time a person's true personality never well sex begins in the mind stimulate that and the rest will follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair…

But opinions vary..

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

Seriously... Given your judgment on people with more weight than you id imagine she didn't turn you down on looks

Also... how are you gym fit ? ? "

Still play 2 sports competitively and my job entails a lot of physical activity. Also eat relatively healthily the majority of the time

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

"

Especially when they use the word gym as part of their identity ....eh jimgym

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

"

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By *lossomingciaraWoman
over a year ago

sligo

All depends on man xx

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By *antis tMan
over a year ago

Dublin3

Proud of the dad bod and mentality ?? due to popular belief ??

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By *lossomingciaraWoman
over a year ago

sligo


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

"

Maybe too much off a generalization. I know of many men who are not gym rats and still have an Athletic/ Muscular build with out going to the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damed if you do

Damed if you don’t

Whatever keeps the person happy inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock with a nice person who knows how to use the cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

Especially when they use the word gym as part of their identity ....eh jimgym "

Sorry I haven't replied earlier but I just didn't feel the need to .... was too busy lookin at myself in the mirror

Anyway you're 100 percent correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

Seriously... Given your judgment on people with more weight than you id imagine she didn't turn you down on looks

Also... how are you gym fit ? ? "

Judgement? Where exactly did I judge people with more weight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record I don’t go to the gym or train whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the record I don’t go to the gym or train whatsoever "

Same, no time when you add on prep, travel, etc. Who’s got 2hours to do what I can do daily in 20mins at home

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

"

Noted

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

Seriously... Given your judgment on people with more weight than you id imagine she didn't turn you down on looks

Also... how are you gym fit ? ?

Judgement? Where exactly did I judge people with more weight? "

Fatties !

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"For the record I don’t go to the gym or train whatsoever "

You don't say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us guys with dad bods rock we can go out and have a good time with someone and don't have to keep worrying if I eat that am I going to be up weight in the morning "
dead right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

Seriously... Given your judgment on people with more weight than you id imagine she didn't turn you down on looks

Also... how are you gym fit ? ?

Judgement? Where exactly did I judge people with more weight?

Fatties !"

Go read the thread and who said what and come back to me, gobsh*te

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

I would hazard a guess at this being about insecurities for the most part, unfortunately...if you're not happy with your own body when you're not "gym fit", spending time with someone who looks like they are, can bring those insecurities out.

I know I've gained a few pounds over the last 6 months and though I'm still content enough where I'm at, I know I can look better (my personal opinion and not looking for validation here)...so the occasional doubt creeps in, particularly when looking at all these fabulous nudes of other ladies and you start the toxic act of comparing yourself etc...

Personally, with regards to the OP, physique isn't the be all and end all. Attraction and chemistry is so much more than just the physical. You can be a gym fit/athletic @hole exuding notions of superiority which immediately makes someone unattractive. Give me a cuddly bear or Dad bod with empathy, humour and a zest for life over bad attitude in an Adonis anyday "

Great reply, it's all to do with the mind , if people are on the same wavelength great , if not , that's just the way it is , a guy can be with a beautiful woman but she could be all about herself then it's a no go but a woman could be brilliant to be with , great craic , no seriousness , wants to be with you then it's good to go .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

"

I don't like sweeping generalisations but you can't deny it's true for many and something to be wary of as a potential red flag.

Also, the effects of steroids that lots but not all use.

Also, how the demands and commitment of achieving and maintaining that gym body impact on their lifestyle choices which then affects others in their life.

I have experience of living with someone who, whilst they never achieved a gym body due to their genetics, they were obsessed with it.

Same as I'd be wary of anyone who takes little care of their health. Red flags are everywhere, ignore them at your own risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

I don't like sweeping generalisations but you can't deny it's true for many and something to be wary of as a potential red flag.

Also, the effects of steroids that lots but not all use.

Also, how the demands and commitment of achieving and maintaining that gym body impact on their lifestyle choices which then affects others in their life.

I have experience of living with someone who, whilst they never achieved a gym body due to their genetics, they were obsessed with it.

Same as I'd be wary of anyone who takes little care of their health. Red flags are everywhere, ignore them at your own risk "

Sounds kinda like you do like sweeping generalisations

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy? just a strong one dad bod type

I'M WITH @THE SECRET GARDEN.. GIVE ME A STRONG DAD BOD ANY DAY OVER, A SIXPACK MADE IN THE GYM.

What are the reasons? If you don’t mind me asking.

I was recently turned down by a woman even though we both liked each other as she would feel self conscious due to me being gym fit/athletic and she wasn’t, wondering if this would be common place.

Seriously... Given your judgment on people with more weight than you id imagine she didn't turn you down on looks

Also... how are you gym fit ? ?

Judgement? Where exactly did I judge people with more weight?

Fatties !

Go read the thread and who said what and come back to me, gobsh*te"

Read it ,, I'm sorry .. I'd made a mistake... hey at least you didn't get rude or angry

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I like mine fit, with stamina, so that they can go for hours. The outdoor sports lads kinda type.

The chiseled musclely guy isn't my thing.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

I don't have a preference on body type as its the person not the body

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Endomorphs

From the web:

Endomorphs have softer bodies with curves. They have a wide waist and hips and large bones, though they may or may not be overweight. Their weight is often in their hips, thighs, and lower abdomen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like xenomorphs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men who aren't obsessed with anyone's physique, including their own

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"I like men who aren't obsessed with anyone's physique, including their own"

Same for us ^^

We're a bit put off by lads who share nothing but gym photos and seem to be obsessed with their abs. They might not care as much about others' physiques (or claim as such) but it just causes unnecessary discomfort.

Nothing wrong with being proud of your body and the work you put in at the gym but if that's your USP, then we prob won't get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

"

Have to agree with you there, seems its okay to slate a guy who is muscular regardless of the person behind the physique. Arse holes and good guys come in all shapes and sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like mine fit, with stamina, so that they can go for hours. The outdoor sports lads kinda type.

The chiseled musclely guy isn't my thing. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

I don't like sweeping generalisations but you can't deny it's true for many and something to be wary of as a potential red flag.

Also, the effects of steroids that lots but not all use.

Also, how the demands and commitment of achieving and maintaining that gym body impact on their lifestyle choices which then affects others in their life.

I have experience of living with someone who, whilst they never achieved a gym body due to their genetics, they were obsessed with it.

Same as I'd be wary of anyone who takes little care of their health. Red flags are everywhere, ignore them at your own risk

Sounds kinda like you do like sweeping generalisations "

Well no smarty pants, since I clearly highlighted it's some not all.

It exists.

It's fair to be wary of repeats if you have experienced a thing

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By *illerQueen1Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I know my preference and it doesn't necessarily fall into either of those categories. Thank goodness there is more than just two choices on here "

This. I like smiles.

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By *lamingo57Woman
over a year ago

Carrick

I like kind eyes and hands that are strong. I've no preference over muscles or softness. I've no issues with someone who trains hard, once it isn't obsessive. Likewise I've no issues with someone who's never set foot in a gym.

I like a body that's capable of sitting and chatting over a drink or a cuppa. One that makes me feel comfortable. And if the person attached to the body makes me wet with excitement and can nail me all night long then all the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like kind eyes and hands that are strong. I've no preference over muscles or softness. I've no issues with someone who trains hard, once it isn't obsessive. Likewise I've no issues with someone who's never set foot in a gym.

I like a body that's capable of sitting and chatting over a drink or a cuppa. One that makes me feel comfortable. And if the person attached to the body makes me wet with excitement and can nail me all night long then all the better. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Athletic but not too muscley. A bit like C4.

M XXX

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

I love a good arm preferably sticking out of a drivetru window holding a bag of food hits the right spot everytime purrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy?"

The secret answer is they prefer either as long as the guy has 8 inches minimum down there

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy?

The secret answer is they prefer either as long as the guy has 8 inches minimum down there"

That's enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a good arm preferably sticking out of a drivetru window holding a bag of food hits the right spot everytime purrrrr"

You are not wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy?

The secret answer is they prefer either as long as the guy has 8 inches minimum down there

That's enough? "

Please ignore the troll'er from another forum.

This is his daily obsessive post and there is no point responding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy?

The secret answer is they prefer either as long as the guy has 8 inches minimum down there

That's enough? "

Just about enough for most . Unfortunate for those of us who are small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy?

The secret answer is they prefer either as long as the guy has 8 inches minimum down there

That's enough?

Just about enough for most . Unfortunate for those of us who are small "

Holy shit dude was the UK lounge not big enough for your one man size campaign

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"The athletic or muscular look in a guy?

The secret answer is they prefer either as long as the guy has 8 inches minimum down there"

You need to see a psychiatrist

You're obsessed with the size of your penis and 100's of fabbers have told you to cop on but you still go on about it

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

Dadbod here, just saying

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Dad bod = emotionally intelligent, great sense of humour and full of the joys of life.

Athletic/ Muscular = every one of them are miserable self absorbed wankers who love themselves

It's completely rational that you can deduce someone's personality from their appearance.

Have to agree with you there, seems its okay to slate a guy who is muscular regardless of the person behind the physique. Arse holes and good guys come in all shapes and sizes. "

No doubt

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I like kind eyes and hands that are strong. I've no preference over muscles or softness. I've no issues with someone who trains hard, once it isn't obsessive. Likewise I've no issues with someone who's never set foot in a gym.

I like a body that's capable of sitting and chatting over a drink or a cuppa. One that makes me feel comfortable. And if the person attached to the body makes me wet with excitement and can nail me all night long then all the better. "

No pressure

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Never mind

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