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"I suppose I'm a bit hard on myself about it sometimes.. just hate letting people down in any way. I find myself feeling a bit sad when thinking about being a single lad.. chatting to a couple and it seeming like something really promising and then.. nothing ever comes of it. It's easy to say, "fuck it, you don't owe anyone anything, shit happens, etc." but I can't help how I feel sometimes. I think some lads think couples (and perhaps single ladies) in this scenario don't give a shit.. some of us do, at least I do " I get ya | |||
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"I suppose I'm a bit hard on myself about it sometimes.. just hate letting people down in any way. I find myself feeling a bit sad when thinking about being a single lad.. chatting to a couple and it seeming like something really promising and then.. nothing ever comes of it. It's easy to say, "fuck it, you don't owe anyone anything, shit happens, etc." but I can't help how I feel sometimes. I think some lads think couples (and perhaps single ladies) in this scenario don't give a shit.. some of us do, at least I do " As someone who has been stood up 8 times by guys on here, the don't give a shit mentality is not one I have, if I'm interested in a guy I will make time to meet them and have travelled to meet guys, but I have a life outside fab and if a guy can't accept that he's not worth meeting. | |||
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"I suppose I'm a bit hard on myself about it sometimes.. just hate letting people down in any way. I find myself feeling a bit sad when thinking about being a single lad.. chatting to a couple and it seeming like something really promising and then.. nothing ever comes of it. It's easy to say, "fuck it, you don't owe anyone anything, shit happens, etc." but I can't help how I feel sometimes. I think some lads think couples (and perhaps single ladies) in this scenario don't give a shit.. some of us do, at least I do " We also get your sentiment and guilt, we also hate cancelling. We're similar to most on here who have family commitments, work commitments etc, it can take a lot of forward planning and expense to organise everything. We have however been on the other side of the coin on two occasions this year where the other party didn't even have the courtesy to cancel, just ghosted and blocked us. One lady in particular we had been chatting to and organised to attend one of her parties, she was well verified, but then last minute she vanished. Using one of our single profiles we could see she was still active on fab, we sent her a kik asking had we done something to offend her and it's sitting their unread since. Some people unfortunately don't feel the guilt | |||
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"I usually tell people straight away that we have a lot going on with kids, etc that it could be a while for us to be free to meet. One of the reasons we dont like people travelling to meet us as anything could pop up and i dont want to be tellin them after driving an hour we cant make it. So with everything laid out there they can make the choice to continue chatting or not" Yes we also lay it out straight from the onset, saves any confusion later. | |||
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