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"And often the statuses aren't factual. Just one of the ways people encourage others to send ” are you ok hun?" messages. " Some how i dont think women need those messages id say they are snowed under | |||
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"And often the statuses aren't factual. Just one of the ways people encourage others to send ” are you ok hun?" messages. Some how i dont think women need those messages id say they are snowed under " You'll learn  | |||
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"And often the statuses aren't factual. Just one of the ways people encourage others to send ” are you ok hun?" messages. Some how i dont think women need those messages id say they are snowed under " Oh you be surprised the stories that can be made up to get some attention | |||
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"Ah noticed it a bit..... Takena particular woman to want a straight off abusive message " Don't think anyone wants abusive messages | |||
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"Fecks it up for everyone. " Not really, the rubbish takes itself out and most women have friends on here and warn each other about guys who get abusive | |||
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"Fecks it up for everyone. " No it just ruins it for themselves and those who give abuse on here is not gender specific either. | |||
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"Most of the abuse on fab comes from lads u don’t text back. Some content can be pretty horrific. Come at about your appearance body size etc." There's the odd one that just randomly message with abuse too As for the ones you don't reply to or day no thanks, uts amazing how we go from been the best thing since sliced bread to been a ....... | |||
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"I haven't been abused yet....  "Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen and to think or hint that only men give abuse is naive at the best. Yes women tend to get more abuse off random guys. You learn to get a thick skin tighten your filters (which I found anyhow makes a massive difference) and use the block button. But there are women who can give just as much abuse on here and it's not always aimed at men, it's quite often aimed it at other women they don't like or see as competition. Especially when it comes to some groups who like to gang up on others on here and try and bully them off fab. So the whole all women are whiter than white and it's the men who are the abusive ones is quite far off the mark. | |||
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"I haven't been abused yet....
Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen and to think or hint that only men give abuse is naive at the best.
Yes women tend to get more abuse off random guys. You learn to get a thick skin tighten your filters (which I found anyhow makes a massive difference) and use the block button. But there are women who can give just as much abuse on here and it's not always aimed at men, it's quite often aimed it at other women they don't like or see as competition. Especially when it comes to some groups who like to gang up on others on here and try and bully them off fab. So the whole all women are whiter than white and it's the men who are the abusive ones is quite far off the mark.
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"Funny also that I put up a photo recently and a guy I know over a year messaged me today to tell me a woman on fab messaged him and said I was a fake using fake photos and that it was taken from someone’s instagram. He could verify me as being real. She didn’t like that and blocked him. I tried to message her but she has females blocked. So strange." You're so amazing If you could just increase your filters by 1 year   | |||
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"I get a tonne of abusive messages. The scariest one I ever got was on an old profile, I had a town I lived near but wasn’t from listed. This guy got it into his head I was his ex, abused me from a height, asked if everyone would feel sorry for me still if they knew what a whore I was. And then threatened me/this girls safety. He also threatened to hurt himself. I genuinely hope he never did anything to that girl he mistook me for. I’d be called all sorts of names (mostly prostit—ute) usually when I don’t respond to messages. Fab is wild " I was wondering about exmaples.... Whatbis going through his head and imagine what his real gf went through.... And you gave a example of a girl... What business is it of hers... The mind boggles | |||
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"Name them , let us have a word " I do! I name them on my profile. I don’t care, if they want attention they’ll get it. | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs "I don’t get this, most women clearly aren’t short of attention on here, why try tear someone else down? Like it’s wild | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs
I don’t get this, most women clearly aren’t short of attention on here, why try tear someone else down? Like it’s wild ""Bitches be trippin' yo!"  | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs
I don’t get this, most women clearly aren’t short of attention on here, why try tear someone else down? Like it’s wild "Because they can't bear to NOT be the centre of attention at all times. | |||
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"I used to get abusive messages fairly regularly but it read back in the days when the site was a lot more uncivilised. I still get the occasional one out two here and there. Its not just one gender that's guilty of it either. I had a suspicion once about an abusive message I got and the sender referred to something I had mentioned in a message to someone I had interacted with on here and in messages. I did a little test where I told her something made up about me, and told nobody else. A few days later the abusive message came back with obvious knowledge of it. I messaged the lady in question about it and she blocked me instantly. She then started spreading lies and a few people stopped talking to me. She was eventually discovered to be using someone else's pics and got banned. People are strange. Whenever I get one now I'll usually try and interact with the person and wind them up until they eventually end up blocking me themselves. It's great fun. "Never blocked but I’m thinking about it but nah you keep this place alive with one or two others love your posts L | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs
I don’t get this, most women clearly aren’t short of attention on here, why try tear someone else down? Like it’s wild "I've had friends messaged telling them I'm fake and not genuine, I just laugh and think off with ya love. Cos if your jealous of me you need your head examined. | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs "YES THEY DO!!! I do not understand if. Women are scary AF. | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs
YES THEY DO!!!
I do not understand if.
Women are scary AF. "And heres me thinking it was a male thing | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs
YES THEY DO!!!
I do not understand if.
Women are scary AF. "100% | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs
YES THEY DO!!!
I do not understand if.
Women are scary AF.
And heres me thinking it was a male thing"Hahaha. FOOL!!!!
Nah. There are a few women on here that are cool as fuck. They are few and far between tho. The rest are jealous vindictive nasty and whatever else. There are plenty of women and plenty of men. No one needs to be nasty. But it happens.
“We” know who are tribe are. Be grand!! | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs
YES THEY DO!!!
I do not understand if.
Women are scary AF.
And heres me thinking it was a male thing
Hahaha. FOOL!!!!
Nah. There are a few women on here that are cool as fuck. They are few and far between tho. The rest are jealous vindictive nasty and whatever else. There are plenty of women and plenty of men. No one needs to be nasty. But it happens.
“We” know who are tribe are. Be grand!! "My tribe | |||
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"I used to get abusive messages fairly regularly but it read back in the days when the site was a lot more uncivilised. I still get the occasional one out two here and there. Its not just one gender that's guilty of it either. I had a suspicion once about an abusive message I got and the sender referred to something I had mentioned in a message to someone I had interacted with on here and in messages. I did a little test where I told her something made up about me, and told nobody else. A few days later the abusive message came back with obvious knowledge of it. I messaged the lady in question about it and she blocked me instantly. She then started spreading lies and a few people stopped talking to me. She was eventually discovered to be using someone else's pics and got banned. People are strange. Whenever I get one now I'll usually try and interact with the person and wind them up until they eventually end up blocking me themselves. It's great fun. "Good on ya, you did a Colleen Rooney on it lol | |||
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"I used to get abusive messages fairly regularly but it read back in the days when the site was a lot more uncivilised. I still get the occasional one out two here and there. Its not just one gender that's guilty of it either. I had a suspicion once about an abusive message I got and the sender referred to something I had mentioned in a message to someone I had interacted with on here and in messages. I did a little test where I told her something made up about me, and told nobody else. A few days later the abusive message came back with obvious knowledge of it. I messaged the lady in question about it and she blocked me instantly. She then started spreading lies and a few people stopped talking to me. She was eventually discovered to be using someone else's pics and got banned. People are strange. Whenever I get one now I'll usually try and interact with the person and wind them up until they eventually end up blocking me themselves. It's great fun. "I've had a few entitled messages with the old "do you not know who I am?" line but can only think of one nasty message. That was around the same time I decided I didn't want to be part of all the daily drama associated with certain fabbers and stopped chatting to them. The silence was deafening. Literally the hundreds of messages every week detailing what others were doing, who was meeting who, where they worked, who they knew, what they looked like just stopped and for a while I thought that would be that. Despite telling them for months that I had no interest in anything they were telling me and didn't care, they were obsessed. Every criticism on the forums was aimed at them even though they weren't in some of the threads. Every compliment in the forums was received gracefully despite it obviously being for someone else and the forums went from being a horrible place full of gobshites to a happy place. When I decided to stop enabling them and ignore it all I started to get snippets of private conversations I'd had repeated to me by others and even one or two productive male fabbers repeating things I had said in private on threads in the forums as a little nod and a wink that they had the inside scoop. Like Mick there may have been a little misinformation spread as a test and this was repeated back to me by others at a social which was hilarious. The funny thing is that all the "gobshites" who were so nasty and hideous and out to get them are all recently verified by them. They often have statuses or make comments here in support of some of the other women who's details they have been sharing which is why I put no value in statuses. It's a funny old game   | |||
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"Wtf is being sent... And why are people bonkers " They are horny, frustrated, and lashing out | |||
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"I used to get abusive messages fairly regularly but it read back in the days when the site was a lot more uncivilised. I still get the occasional one out two here and there. Its not just one gender that's guilty of it either. I had a suspicion once about an abusive message I got and the sender referred to something I had mentioned in a message to someone I had interacted with on here and in messages. I did a little test where I told her something made up about me, and told nobody else. A few days later the abusive message came back with obvious knowledge of it. I messaged the lady in question about it and she blocked me instantly. She then started spreading lies and a few people stopped talking to me. She was eventually discovered to be using someone else's pics and got banned. People are strange. Whenever I get one now I'll usually try and interact with the person and wind them up until they eventually end up blocking me themselves. It's great fun.
I've had a few entitled messages with the old "do you not know who I am?" line but can only think of one nasty message.
That was around the same time I decided I didn't want to be part of all the daily drama associated with certain fabbers and stopped chatting to them.
The silence was deafening. Literally the hundreds of messages every week detailing what others were doing, who was meeting who, where they worked, who they knew, what they looked like just stopped and for a while I thought that would be that.
Despite telling them for months that I had no interest in anything they were telling me and didn't care, they were obsessed.
Every criticism on the forums was aimed at them even though they weren't in some of the threads. Every compliment in the forums was received gracefully despite it obviously being for someone else and the forums went from being a horrible place full of gobshites to a happy place.
When I decided to stop enabling them and ignore it all I started to get snippets of private conversations I'd had repeated to me by others and even one or two productive male fabbers repeating things I had said in private on threads in the forums as a little nod and a wink that they had the inside scoop.
Like Mick there may have been a little misinformation spread as a test and this was repeated back to me by others at a social which was hilarious.
The funny thing is that all the "gobshites" who were so nasty and hideous and out to get them are all recently verified by them.
They often have statuses or make comments here in support of some of the other women who's details they have been sharing which is why I put no value in statuses.
It's a funny old game "Well fuck me, what a dull life I lead  | |||
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" Well fuck me, what a dull life I lead "Yeah me too. My life is so dull that I'd be nearly looking forward to hearing what the made up me in any gossip was getting up to, so I can hate the made up me due to jealousy  | |||
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" Well fuck me, what a dull life I lead
Yeah me too. My life is so dull that I'd be nearly looking forward to hearing what the made up me in any gossip was getting up to, so I can hate the made up me due to jealousy "Accptlrding to the gossip mongers I was attending parties during covid having a great time lol | |||
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" Accptlrding to the gossip mongers I was attending parties during covid having a great time lol" I'll have to wait to hear on the grapevine if I was also there, if I had great time or was shunned into a dark corner | |||
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" Well fuck me, what a dull life I lead
Yeah me too. My life is so dull that I'd be nearly looking forward to hearing what the made up me in any gossip was getting up to, so I can hate the made up me due to jealousy
Accptlrding to the gossip mongers I was attending parties during covid having a great time lol"Will the Real Boris Johnson please stand up !! | |||
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" Well fuck me, what a dull life I lead
Yeah me too. My life is so dull that I'd be nearly looking forward to hearing what the made up me in any gossip was getting up to, so I can hate the made up me due to jealousy
Accptlrding to the gossip mongers I was attending parties during covid having a great time lol
Will the Real Boris Johnson please stand up !!"At least my alter ego is having fun on here lol | |||
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" Well fuck me, what a dull life I lead "
Imagine being part of fab-Eastenders!
Don't think we have what it takes though. Ah well, as we know there's joy in studying quietly the fab grand designs.
Peace is liberty in tranquility.” — Marcus Tullius Cicero
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" Well fuck me, what a dull life I lead
Imagine being part of fab-Eastenders!
Don't think we have what it takes though. Ah well, as we know there's joy in studying quietly the fab grand designs.
Peace is liberty in tranquility.” — Marcus Tullius Cicero
"It's like the flip side of not watching soaps but people around you are discussing the characters and plotlines as if they are real. The fab version is when real people and scenarios are brought up in conversation as if they are soap characters. I prefer sci-fi myself | |||
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Prefer to get our drama from a good movie | |||
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"Wtf is being sent... And why are people bonkers " Dont forget 3 sides to every story ,,, | |||
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"I haven't been abused yet.... "I'm sure there are plenty on here who would willingly facilitate you | |||
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"We haven't gotten any abusive messages in our three years here, assuming because they're cowards when hubby is in the mix "The fact your not looking for single males probably is a factor too ? | |||
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"Funny also that I put up a photo recently and a guy I know over a year messaged me today to tell me a woman on fab messaged him and said I was a fake using fake photos and that it was taken from someone’s instagram. He could verify me as being real. She didn’t like that and blocked him. I tried to message her but she has females blocked. So strange." Oh jeasus christ .... thats what happens with too much spare time and a tendency for drama/gossip. Sorry for you though , and that ex . | |||
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"I haven't been abused yet.... "Aren't you lucky?I have...do I give a shit?not really... I have pretty thick skin must be the fat.lol | |||
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"Funny also that I put up a photo recently and a guy I know over a year messaged me today to tell me a woman on fab messaged him and said I was a fake using fake photos and that it was taken from someone’s instagram. He could verify me as being real. She didn’t like that and blocked him. I tried to message her but she has females blocked. So strange." That status is a fare dig though mind ya don't hurt your back digging that deep | |||
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"Nowt as strange as folk. Plus the anonymity behind a screen makes people very brave. Fab is not excluded from bullshit any more than any other social media platform" Tbh it at times exceeded the bullshit-ometer on other platforms | |||
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"I used to get abusive messages fairly regularly but it read back in the days when the site was a lot more uncivilised. I still get the occasional one out two here and there. Its not just one gender that's guilty of it either. I had a suspicion once about an abusive message I got and the sender referred to something I had mentioned in a message to someone I had interacted with on here and in messages. I did a little test where I told her something made up about me, and told nobody else. A few days later the abusive message came back with obvious knowledge of it. I messaged the lady in question about it and she blocked me instantly. She then started spreading lies and a few people stopped talking to me. She was eventually discovered to be using someone else's pics and got banned. People are strange. Whenever I get one now I'll usually try and interact with the person and wind them up until they eventually end up blocking me themselves. It's great fun. "Jasus mick ... your doing that a long time now eh | |||
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"Name them , let us have a word " us ???? Who is this us ??? | |||
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"Women can get insanely jealous of each other, it's their ("our" I guess) biggest weakness. Mrs
YES THEY DO!!!
I do not understand if.
Women are scary AF.
And heres me thinking it was a male thing
Hahaha. FOOL!!!!
Nah. There are a few women on here that are cool as fuck. They are few and far between tho. The rest are jealous vindictive nasty and whatever else. There are plenty of women and plenty of men. No one needs to be nasty. But it happens.
“We” know who are tribe are. Be grand!! "Is that a pony I hear gathering pace | |||
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"We haven't gotten any abusive messages in our three years here, assuming because they're cowards when hubby is in the mix "We havent really either, thankfully. Some really stupid messages I grant you but that par for the course. | |||
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"I miss the good old days on forums when you could have a good discussion maybe a little row and not get blacklisted by all the white Knights for being a sarcastic bitch now it's all who has the best arse or tits no more funny pictures "Fuckin white knights
Bitches don't need no defendin fool! Bitches be doing da own thang
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"I miss the good old days on forums when you could have a good discussion maybe a little row and not get blacklisted by all the white Knights for being a sarcastic bitch now it's all who has the best arse or tits no more funny pictures
Fuckin white knights
Bitches don't need no defendin fool! Bitches be doing da own thang
"believe me I'm a bitch of the highest sort but people are quite confused when they meet me cos I'm lovely and sweet | |||
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"I miss the good old days on forums when you could have a good discussion maybe a little row and not get blacklisted by all the white Knights for being a sarcastic bitch now it's all who has the best arse or tits no more funny pictures
Fuckin white knights
Bitches don't need no defendin fool! Bitches be doing da own thang
believe me I'm a bitch of the highest sort but people are quite confused when they meet me cos I'm lovely and sweet "See fooools
These bitches not only be playin the game.... booya... thems be bitches and babes all the saaame time....
Ya birches.... you rollin how you rollin
No more white knights!
Lots more funny shite
No more white knights !
Lots more funny shite
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"We haven't gotten any abusive messages in our three years here, assuming because they're cowards when hubby is in the mix
The fact your not looking for single males probably is a factor too ? "We ARE looking for single males, their box is ticked on our profile
That default message "not looking for single guys" shows up when you block them from messaging you. It's incorrect and misleading, we simply don't want them messaging us.
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"I haven't been abused yet....
Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen and to think or hint that only men give abuse is naive at the best.
Yes women tend to get more abuse off random guys. You learn to get a thick skin tighten your filters (which I found anyhow makes a massive difference) and use the block button. But there are women who can give just as much abuse on here and it's not always aimed at men, it's quite often aimed it at other women they don't like or see as competition. Especially when it comes to some groups who like to gang up on others on here and try and bully them off fab. So the whole all women are whiter than white and it's the men who are the abusive ones is quite far off the mark.
"Well I'm definitely not competition for the women here so im safe enough from abuse from them but i have had men that I've had absolutely no dealings with message to tell me how fat i am. One told me this is fab swingers not fat swingers and another messaged to call me porkie. It says more about them then it does me imo. | |||
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