FabSwingers.com forum: Rant needed...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore it and if I get a message dating oh id love an older woman I usually just block.

Or if they over 35 I reply you ain't that young yourself

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Preach Queen!

Be it the age threads, nationality threads, bbw threads, race threads... oh and to top it off threads and profiles using word "female" as a noun instead of adjective.

Whole lot can go in the bin!

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all being objectified here to one extent or another, nobody complains when their pics get fabbed, otlr they get named as hottest, scored out of 10 based on looks or whatever.

I am older than most here (or at least I admit to my real age) if that causes someone to put me in a particular box I couldn't give a flying fuck really, so long as I get what I want from any interaction we may have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all items on a bucket list of someone

Tall or short

Full figured or slim

White or Indian or any other ethnicity/race listed on here

Male or female

VWE

Young or old

It's the attraction 'spin-a-wheel' game that rolls on regardless

Whether you choose to play is in your control

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It won't pass because as much as it might wind you and others up there is an audience for it.

Some women encourage it and not just in a milf/cougar way.

I've seen profiles that describe themselves as an experience and invite messages from "horny boys".

Unfortunately it's like so many things on here. For every person who rolls their eyes or gets upset over something there is another who shouts "bring it on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

Pay no attention whatsoever to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of you look great for an older lady in her forties messages. Alright love stall the ball I'm not signed up for the retirement home just yet! I'm in better shape in my 40s than I was at any other age and the average twenty something couldn't keep up. Now where did I leave my false teeth BYOT (Bring Your Own Teeth)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Preach Queen!

Be it the age threads, nationality threads, bbw threads, race threads... oh and to top it off threads and profiles using word "female" as a noun instead of adjective.

Whole lot can go in the bin!

Missus "

In the Feckin BIN

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

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Do you include younger men, bigger cocks, fit bodies only , middle aged men only .. big boobs, couples etc in your list of objectived groups?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It won't pass because as much as it might wind you and others up there is an audience for it.

Some women encourage it and not just in a milf/cougar way.

I've seen profiles that describe themselves as an experience and invite messages from "horny boys".

Unfortunately it's like so many things on here. For every person who rolls their eyes or gets upset over something there is another who shouts "bring it on""

Yep I know that, which is why I wouldnt claim to speak on behalf of all women.

Just my own personal rant

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"We're all being objectified here to one extent or another, nobody complains when their pics get fabbed, otlr they get named as hottest, scored out of 10 based on looks or whatever.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"It won't pass because as much as it might wind you and others up there is an audience for it.

Some women encourage it and not just in a milf/cougar way.

I've seen profiles that describe themselves as an experience and invite messages from "horny boys".

Unfortunately it's like so many things on here. For every person who rolls their eyes or gets upset over something there is another who shouts "bring it on""

There is an audience for feckin everything and every type ,, should Noone have a type or desire in order to eliminate Objectification?

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

I met you on my previous profile and I have to say a few things. You don't look 47. 47 is not old..and you're young at heart. You're a breath of fresh air to spend time with. And anyone that would want to be with you should want to be with for who you are and the vibrancy you bring with you. Not because of your age. I'm 51 and I certainly do not class myself as old either.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

Dude thats pretty sound of ya

And smooth

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

Dude thats pretty sound of ya

And smooth

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

Dude thats pretty sound of ya

And smooth

Ah no, we got on as friends so I'm not saying it to get in her pants. She is a pleasure to be with and if you ever get the opportunity to meet her, jump at it.

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

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I hope you do not my me saying but you are still very young compared to my mother in law who is 94.

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Oh meant to add you have great rub

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

On this site isn't almost every one objectified in one way or another tho. Everyone is put on certain categories by others regardless of whether you want to be or not. While yes it can be a bit annoying at times when someone crosses the lines you have set for yourself,

. But it's fab it will happen all you can do learn not to react or get pissed off with it. It's really not worth getting annoyed about,especially when you will never change the mindset others have.

But always make a note on them so you don't forget later on what they have said

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

Dude thats pretty sound of ya

And smooth

Ah no, we got on as friends so I'm not saying it to get in her pants. She is a pleasure to be with and if you ever get the opportunity to meet her, jump at it."

I know your not bud . I'm only messin

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I find it all a bit cringey. I’d like to be wanted for me rather than what I represent but it doesn’t offend me really.

I get the objectification but if younger guys harp on about it enough, it becomes really unattractive and more than a bit ick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t rant. Just make mental note or blocks. When people show you their true intentions, believe them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like what I like regardless of age or labels, and all the physical attraction disappears if someone is not a nice person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t rant. Just make mental note or blocks. When people show you their true intentions, believe them.

This is where the private note section on Fab comes in handy!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"We're all being objectified here to one extent or another, nobody complains when their pics get fabbed, otlr they get named as hottest, scored out of 10 based on looks or whatever.

I am looking for an older woman

just the once like to tick a box

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

Dude thats pretty sound of ya

And smooth

Ah no, we got on as friends so I'm not saying it to get in her pants. She is a pleasure to be with and if you ever get the opportunity to meet her, jump at it.

I know your not bud . I'm only messin

I know man. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t rant. Just make mental note or blocks. When people show you their true intentions, believe them.

Ah but I do need a rant sometimes... so feck it its out there now.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I get a lot of you look great for an older lady in her forties messages. Alright love stall the ball I'm not signed up for the retirement home just yet! I'm in better shape in my 40s than I was at any other age and the average twenty something couldn't keep up. Now where did I leave my false teeth BYOT (Bring Your Own Teeth)"

I usually bring a glass so they can put em in before the gummy bj

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

I usually bring a glass so they can put em in before the gummy bj

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find it all a bit cringey. I’d like to be wanted for me rather than what I represent but it doesn’t offend me really.

I get the objectification but if younger guys harp on about it enough, it becomes really unattractive and more than a bit ick. "

Twas the multiple threads with 100+ posts each that tipped me over Red

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"I find it all a bit cringey. I’d like to be wanted for me rather than what I represent but it doesn’t offend me really.

I get the objectification but if younger guys harp on about it enough, it becomes really unattractive and more than a bit ick.

Twas the multiple threads with 100+ posts each that tipped me over Red

I hear ya. It’s a bit ick. The obsession.

I think also it irks me because not all younger men are with older women because of a kink. We’re just the hottest woman they’ve met. By far

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I find it all a bit cringey. I’d like to be wanted for me rather than what I represent but it doesn’t offend me really.

I get the objectification but if younger guys harp on about it enough, it becomes really unattractive and more than a bit ick.

Twas the multiple threads with 100+ posts each that tipped me over Red

I hear ya. It’s a bit ick. The obsession.

I think also it irks me because not all younger men are with older women because of a kink. We’re just the hottest woman they’ve met. By far

Absolfuckinutely

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

"I find it all a bit cringey. I’d like to be wanted for me rather than what I represent but it doesn’t offend me really.

I get the objectification but if younger guys harp on about it enough, it becomes really unattractive and more than a bit ick.

Twas the multiple threads with 100+ posts each that tipped me over Red

I hear ya. It’s a bit ick. The obsession.

I think also it irks me because not all younger men are with older women because of a kink. We’re just the hottest woman they’ve met. By far

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, rant supported….. I’ll add ‘exotic’ to the list of fetishisation. Wtf. We just want to have fun, no matter the age, the shape or the skin tone…men really need to drop it. It’s so archaic…

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By *ooseMcCloudMan
over a year ago

dublin

You’re on a swing site- everyone you’re with is “experiencing” you.

Best save your rant for things that really matter.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"You’re on a swing site- everyone you’re with is “experiencing” you.

Best save your rant for things that really matter."

Why? There’s no limit on rants! And she’s not known for them.

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By *ooseMcCloudMan
over a year ago

dublin

Put your false teeth back in there Red

(I love you really)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

Look at it another way youve found lots of people you don't wanna interact with and didn't even need to chat to find that out

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

London

I’m just hearing the music of ‘thank you for being a friend’ reading this thread.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"I’m just hearing the music of ‘thank you for being a friend’ reading this thread."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are"

Shout away I cant hear you

"My legs are grey. My ears are gnarled. My eyes are old and bent"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are

Shout away I cant hear you

"My legs are grey. My ears are gnarled. My eyes are old and bent" "

Is that a line from Blackadder?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are

Shout away I cant hear you

"My legs are grey. My ears are gnarled. My eyes are old and bent"

Is that a line from Blackadder?

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are

Shout away I cant hear you

"My legs are grey. My ears are gnarled. My eyes are old and bent" "

It's the pronunciation when the teeth fall out, it gets lost in translation lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are

Shout away I cant hear you

"My legs are grey. My ears are gnarled. My eyes are old and bent"

It's the pronunciation when the teeth fall out, it gets lost in translation lol"

Fuck it, another thing to not look forward to

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are

Shout away I cant hear you

"My legs are grey. My ears are gnarled. My eyes are old and bent"

Is that a line from Blackadder?

Nope

Ah... Life of Brian!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching the Older women/ Mature woman threads over the a past few days has pissed me right off. Ive bit my tongue hoping they'd pass but no, still the objectification rolls on...

As an 'older woman' of 47 I dont like being talked about as an item on a bucket list, or something to be 'experienced'. and anybody who thinks of treating me like that will be blocked.

BTW I do know some people do this with other groups too and I object to that too. Makes me want to

I did not have you down for 47!!! :O

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are

Shout away I cant hear you

"My legs are grey. My ears are gnarled. My eyes are old and bent"

Is that a line from Blackadder?

Nope

Ah... Life of Brian!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't beat a good old rant and vent ...

I.enjoy them myself ...I can't shout too loud as the false teeth fall out, a fecking nuisance they are

Shout away I cant hear you

"My legs are grey. My ears are gnarled. My eyes are old and bent"

It's the pronunciation when the teeth fall out, it gets lost in translation lol

Fuck it, another thing to not look forward to

Google translate if your stuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does grumpiness come with age or experience?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does grumpiness come with age or experience?

Its a character trait. Got a problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does grumpiness come with age or experience?

Its a character trait. Got a problem with it

I actually find it sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does grumpiness come with age or experience?

Its a character trait. Got a problem with it

I actually find it sexy

Hummmmpphhh

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Does grumpiness come with age or experience?

Its a character trait. Got a problem with it

I actually find it sexy

Hummmmpphhh

Humpy and grumpy?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"I find it all a bit cringey. I’d like to be wanted for me rather than what I represent but it doesn’t offend me really.

I get the objectification but if younger guys harp on about it enough, it becomes really unattractive and more than a bit ick.

Twas the multiple threads with 100+ posts each that tipped me over Red

I hear ya. It’s a bit ick. The obsession.

I think also it irks me because not all younger men are with older women because of a kink. We’re just the hottest woman they’ve met. By far

Thats the attitude... and the truth

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Sure now everyone is characterizing themselves as old etc.

Who give a shite if you want to be with someone of a certain type ... at the end of the day we all have types and desires... if we didn't we would sleep with anyone .. I'm sure that not what all the people on here who are ranting are doing is it ?????

If someone is casting a judgment on you personally, tell em to blow it

If its just a type preference.. let em on

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"We're all items on a bucket list of someone

Tall or short"

The short list for short list must be very short….

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Jesus, it doesn’t take alot to offend some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does grumpiness come with age or experience?

Its a character trait. Got a problem with it

I actually find it sexy

Hummmmpphhh

You gotta love angry sex.... just fuck it out of you.

Orgasms make everything better

*not a doctor

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Does grumpiness come with age or experience?

Its a character trait. Got a problem with it

I actually find it sexy

Hummmmpphhh

You gotta love angry sex.... just fuck it out of you.

Orgasms make everything better

*not a doctor"

Backed by havehard University

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get you OP. Every one of us on here can/will feel the same way at some point or another. Objectified as an item on a list to be ticked and experienced. It is the nature of the beast. I guess we all have to find our own ways of taming the beast. For me, I look for somebody who has caught my eye, I enjoy the company of and am fully comfortable with.

The beast can show its teeth but letting it bite us is another thing altogether.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It can be a fine line to walk between having preferences and objectification here. It's also tricky not to sexualise when you're here for sex. It's best to address the person as a person, rather than any particular attribute.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Well ... if someone is interested in me for my age , body type, chats, dick etc etc etc ..

Its all good... it dosnt tell me what kinda person they are just what they want or like at that time ... if I like something about them too , then we shall find out anything else we need to know about each other

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