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"Why is it that when you send a message to someone in here that they just choose not to reply? I mean at least tell me to fuck off or failing that just tell me why you're not interested, or is that too much to expect? " I have on my profile that i wont meet smokers drug users married men and that i will delete messages if they send me one. If they dont read my profile or ignore it thats on them when i don't respond. | |||
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"Why is it that when you send a message to someone in here that they just choose not to reply? I mean at least tell me to fuck off or failing that just tell me why you're not interested, or is that too much to expect? " Yes it is too much to expect | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. " Honest and well put without any notions ... fair play .. On another note .... wtf .. you don't get much messages ... almost makes me think all this about hundreds of mails a day is nonsense considering some of the profiles vrs yours   | |||
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"Because simply... nobody is obliged to engage with anyone on here " | |||
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"Why is it that when you send a message to someone in here that they just choose not to reply? I mean at least tell me to fuck off or failing that just tell me why you're not interested, or is that too much to expect? Yes it is too much to expect " I would think it isn't too much to expect,, at the same time it is to much to expect on here
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"And you're going to get less replies if you're whinging about no replies "Band wagon much | |||
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"If we don't reply we get follow-up messages anyway, either asking why we're not replying or trying to have a one-sided conversation. This could go on. And on. If we do reply we get follow-up messages anyway, telling us if we change our mind blah blah blah. And sometimes, regardless of whether we reply or not, we get the exact same message a week or so later. So that's why "Mary my dear ... you have the tits of a 21 year old ... congrats | |||
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"And you're going to get less replies if you're whinging about no replies
Band wagon much "He speaks the truth in fairness.....mind you less replies than fuck all is still fuck all so is that the same....or less fuck alls | |||
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Maybe I should just post in here in future. Thanks all | |||
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"And you're going to get less replies if you're whinging about no replies
Band wagon much
He speaks the truth in fairness.....mind you less replies than fuck all is still fuck all so is that the same....or less fuck alls "I know the answer 
An all out cock pic blitz 
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"Because it's in the site FAQ's. No reply is a reply. It means not interested. " Tbf... that dosnt make it an actual thing
There's a lota shit written down in the world ... that dosnt make it all true or even reasonable... just look at the Bible | |||
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"Because it's in the site FAQ's. No reply is a reply. It means not interested. Tbf... that dosnt make it an actual thing
There's a lota shit written down in the world ... that dosnt make it all true or even reasonable... just look at the Bible "No need to go all existential... It's a very well known thing/rule. Its 'Internet 101' really, do a recce on the site if you want to make the most of it. The FAQs are a first stop for basically everything you could want to know or need to ask OP | |||
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"No reply is a reply Wonder what you would have replied if you got a no thank you reply! " I simply would have said "Fair enough, thanks". | |||
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"No reply is a reply Wonder what you would have replied if you got a no thank you reply! I simply would have said "Fair enough, thanks". " And that's the chance someone takes not everyone us that polite and sometimes it's just easier not to reply | |||
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"OP you've been on fab over a year. You can't not know this "He asked a question. He got a reply. Job done | |||
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"And you're going to get less replies if you're whinging about no replies
Band wagon much "Not at all | |||
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"OP you've been on fab over a year. You can't not know this
He asked a question.
He got a reply.
Job done "Lmao ... ooohhh in a mooood? | |||
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"OP you've been on fab over a year. You can't not know this
He asked a question.
He got a reply.
Job done
Lmao ... ooohhh in a mooood? "Isn't that what the thread is about? Not getting replies? | |||
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"OP you've been on fab over a year. You can't not know this
He asked a question.
He got a reply.
Job done
Lmao ... ooohhh in a mooood?
Isn't that what the thread is about? Not getting replies? " | |||
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"OP you've been on fab over a year. You can't not know this
He asked a question.
He got a reply.
Job done
Lmao ... ooohhh in a mooood? "Not how I read it.... Unless I'm being naive, I took it to mean the OP came looking replies and got what he wanted from the forum. | |||
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"My filters are pretty tight now but when I joined Fab first I woke up to 402 messages. If ladies were to reply to every single message they would need to take on a sexetary. Even if you do reply not interested you'll leave yourself open to the following scenarios Oh OK why don't we just chat what's your Snapchat wanna see me wank. Ah no thanks I'm not a chatline The I'll change your mind you don't know what your missing messages which leads to further back and forth The men who can't take rejection very well replies. Ah better off not meeting you you're probably riddled with everything going (ten minutes before I was the hottest baby on Fab) Then the ones who say that's OK thanks for replying but hit you up with the exact same message two weeks later This is Fab you are owed absolutely nothing here. I sent a message this morning I didn't get a reply but I didn't feel the need to call a waambulance because of it ""Fair enough, thanks" | |||
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"My filters are pretty tight now but when I joined Fab first I woke up to 402 messages. If ladies were to reply to every single message they would need to take on a sexetary. Even if you do reply not interested you'll leave yourself open to the following scenarios Oh OK why don't we just chat what's your Snapchat wanna see me wank. Ah no thanks I'm not a chatline The I'll change your mind you don't know what your missing messages which leads to further back and forth The men who can't take rejection very well replies. Ah better off not meeting you you're probably riddled with everything going (ten minutes before I was the hottest baby on Fab) Then the ones who say that's OK thanks for replying but hit you up with the exact same message two weeks later This is Fab you are owed absolutely nothing here. I sent a message this morning I didn't get a reply but I didn't feel the need to call a waambulance because of it " | |||
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"Who ever takes it personally that not getting a reply on a swingers website... Needs to get a dog to walk or a blow doll.... " Whats a blow doll ...
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. Honest and well put without any notions ... fair play .. On another note .... wtf .. you don't get much messages ... almost makes me think all this about hundreds of mails a day is nonsense considering some of the profiles vrs yours "As I said on another thread earlier I keep my filters tighter than a ducks arse so not many can message me.I don't want a load of messages on here that I can't and probably won't reply to.That is just my preference and how I do fab. Plus if I see a profile that interests me I can always send the first message. | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. Honest and well put without any notions ... fair play .. On another note .... wtf .. you don't get much messages ... almost makes me think all this about hundreds of mails a day is nonsense considering some of the profiles vrs yours
As I said on another thread earlier I keep my filters tighter than a ducks arse so not many can message me.I don't want a load of messages on here that I can't and probably won't reply to.That is just my preference and how I do fab. Plus if I see a profile that interests me I can always send the first message."I can still torment ya though. Countin down the daaaaays fa la la la la la | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. Honest and well put without any notions ... fair play .. On another note .... wtf .. you don't get much messages ... almost makes me think all this about hundreds of mails a day is nonsense considering some of the profiles vrs yours
As I said on another thread earlier I keep my filters tighter than a ducks arse so not many can message me.I don't want a load of messages on here that I can't and probably won't reply to.That is just my preference and how I do fab. Plus if I see a profile that interests me I can always send the first message.
I can still torment ya though. Countin down the daaaaays fa la la la la la "Nope nope and no .None of that fa la la stuff until December  | |||
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"Who ever takes it personally that not getting a reply on a swingers website... Needs to get a dog to walk or a blow doll.... Whats a blow doll ...
Fingers crossed is a new Japanese I robot that gives bjs "Ha ha left out the UP | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. Honest and well put without any notions ... fair play .. On another note .... wtf .. you don't get much messages ... almost makes me think all this about hundreds of mails a day is nonsense considering some of the profiles vrs yours
As I said on another thread earlier I keep my filters tighter than a ducks arse so not many can message me.I don't want a load of messages on here that I can't and probably won't reply to.That is just my preference and how I do fab. Plus if I see a profile that interests me I can always send the first message.
I can still torment ya though. Countin down the daaaaays fa la la la la la
Nope nope and no .None of that fa la la stuff until December "And not even then | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. Honest and well put without any notions ... fair play .. On another note .... wtf .. you don't get much messages ... almost makes me think all this about hundreds of mails a day is nonsense considering some of the profiles vrs yours
As I said on another thread earlier I keep my filters tighter than a ducks arse so not many can message me.I don't want a load of messages on here that I can't and probably won't reply to.That is just my preference and how I do fab. Plus if I see a profile that interests me I can always send the first message.
I can still torment ya though. Countin down the daaaaays fa la la la la la
Nope nope and no .None of that fa la la stuff until December " i know just wait til the 1st ul regret makin me keep it in for that long | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. Honest and well put without any notions ... fair play .. On another note .... wtf .. you don't get much messages ... almost makes me think all this about hundreds of mails a day is nonsense considering some of the profiles vrs yours
As I said on another thread earlier I keep my filters tighter than a ducks arse so not many can message me.I don't want a load of messages on here that I can't and probably won't reply to.That is just my preference and how I do fab. Plus if I see a profile that interests me I can always send the first message.
I can still torment ya though. Countin down the daaaaays fa la la la la la
Nope nope and no .None of that fa la la stuff until December "NEXT has their xmas window display up | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. Honest and well put without any notions ... fair play .. On another note .... wtf .. you don't get much messages ... almost makes me think all this about hundreds of mails a day is nonsense considering some of the profiles vrs yours
As I said on another thread earlier I keep my filters tighter than a ducks arse so not many can message me.I don't want a load of messages on here that I can't and probably won't reply to.That is just my preference and how I do fab. Plus if I see a profile that interests me I can always send the first message."Omg I'm in love | |||
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"If we don't reply we get follow-up messages anyway, either asking why we're not replying or trying to have a one-sided conversation. This could go on. And on. If we do reply we get follow-up messages anyway, telling us if we change our mind blah blah blah. And sometimes, regardless of whether we reply or not, we get the exact same message a week or so later. So that's why "This | |||
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"OK Ive been in the situation before so here's my tuppence worth. As a couple we get lots of mails. Regardless of what I write in bio still get single guy mails. More often then not I'd reply with a 'thank you for messaging but not looking to meet single guys' etc. This should be enough in my opinion.. But no, still get a follow up mail. I usually wouldnt even reply. Unless I engage in conversations with the sender then take it I'm not interested. When I had a single girl profile it was unreal. I've seen with my own eyes however a single friend of mine joined two weeks ago with no profile pic even has 185 unread emails sitting in her mailbox. There's absolutely no way she'll be replying to the majority of them and I don't blame her. So if you get no further reply just move on. This is not the first thread like this it's part of the fab life. Either accept it or get over it " | |||
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"Just another note OP... You've no profile pic and a friends only one. Do you seriously expect people to add you as a friend where you can see their private pics which may include their face pics when you have no public pics at all?? This is probably a pretty good reason why people don't reply. " 100% this ^^ | |||
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"I used to always reply. Or at least try my very very best when I first joined. But then I got so much grief in their replies to my no thank you. I stopped. I do still get shitty messages from men when I don't reply but now it's less. " I can vouch for this, i got a polite no thanks from Tyche...she's always gracious, interested or not | |||
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"I messaged Tyche once too and within an hour she was at my front door and proceeded to badly beat me with her shoe. True story." youre clearly doing something right lol | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. " I generally send a wink 1st to test the water but that gets ignored too. Take no response as a hint to keep moving | |||
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"Why is it that when you send a message to someone in here that they just choose not to reply? I mean at least tell me to fuck off or failing that just tell me why you're not interested, or is that too much to expect? " If only it was thst easy. Time is very valuable to me even if its just to spend it unwinding. I don't want to be replying to everyone that sends me msgs. It's also why I have single males blocked. Even when I did reply saying I wasn't interested I then got abusive msgs so really, there's no point in replying. | |||
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"I don't get a lot of messages but I no longer answer every message I get. Usually because they have cheated past my filters or ignored what I have written on my profile or they have a profile that doesn't appeal to me so I don't see any point in replying and them taking that as a chance to keep messaging. Or it might be I'm too tired to bother replying at that time if I'm honest. Op you can just take as a no reply as they are not interested and move on. I generally send a wink 1st to test the water but that gets ignored too. Take no response as a hint to keep moving " I never look at winks anymore I haven't in a long time. I don't know why I stopped looking but now I just can't be bothered as I'm not meeting anyone new at present .The only time I might is if it's part of a forum thread. | |||
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"Why is it that when you send a message to someone in here that they just choose not to reply? I mean at least tell me to fuck off or failing that just tell me why you're not interested, or is that too much to expect? " You have 68 comments (and counting) on your thread but you get no replies to private messages. Does that give a hint as to where you maybe should be spending your time? | |||
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"Why is it that when you send a message to someone in here that they just choose not to reply? I mean at least tell me to fuck off or failing that just tell me why you're not interested, or is that too much to expect? You have 68 comments (and counting) on your thread but you get no replies to private messages. Does that give a hint as to where you maybe should be spending your time? "Impressive reply. | |||
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