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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself? "Personally speaking,if I got a first message from a woman I'd probably shit myself !! I've contacted and had great craic with women and a few couples but nearly always sent messages first. A few couples have contacted me and to be honest,it's a lot easier to respond than it is to compose a reasonable first message! So feel free to make the first move  | |||
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"I'll only message if I have something to build on from a status or their profile. I don't respond to one word texts, etc. so I'd not send them. If it's a simple phwoar situation I'll fab or wink and see what develops." Ye it's definitely something on there status or bio that catches my eye or a particularly pic that might pique my interest and ill wink and work a message around that... | |||
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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself?
Personally speaking,if I got a first message from a woman I'd probably shit myself !! I've contacted and had great craic with women and a few couples but nearly always sent messages first. A few couples have contacted me and to be honest,it's a lot easier to respond than it is to compose a reasonable first message! So feel free to make the first move "I've had a few nice chats through messages to be fair, but I was the instigator like yourself. I would think this is quite normal for fellas on here!  | |||
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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself?
Personally speaking,if I got a first message from a woman I'd probably shit myself !! I've contacted and had great craic with women and a few couples but nearly always sent messages first. A few couples have contacted me and to be honest,it's a lot easier to respond than it is to compose a reasonable first message! So feel free to make the first move
I've had a few nice chats through messages to be fair, but I was the instigator like yourself. I would think this is quite normal for fellas on here! "You have a very sexy butt so id wink and message you about that particular picture on your profile once ive read your bio first | |||
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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself?
Personally speaking,if I got a first message from a woman I'd probably shit myself !! I've contacted and had great craic with women and a few couples but nearly always sent messages first. A few couples have contacted me and to be honest,it's a lot easier to respond than it is to compose a reasonable first message! So feel free to make the first move
I've had a few nice chats through messages to be fair, but I was the instigator like yourself. I would think this is quite normal for fellas on here!
You have a very sexy butt so id wink and message you about that particular picture on your profile
once ive read your bio first "Ah but I don't have any tattoos  | |||
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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself?
Personally speaking,if I got a first message from a woman I'd probably shit myself !! I've contacted and had great craic with women and a few couples but nearly always sent messages first. A few couples have contacted me and to be honest,it's a lot easier to respond than it is to compose a reasonable first message! So feel free to make the first move
I've had a few nice chats through messages to be fair, but I was the instigator like yourself. I would think this is quite normal for fellas on here!
You have a very sexy butt so id wink and message you about that particular picture on your profile
once ive read your bio first
Ah but I don't have any tattoos "It's not a requirement | |||
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But it suits me and especially at the moment when I have so much going on outside of fab.
I found though most men do reply when messaged first
though even if we just chat for a couple of messages.
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"I have no issue sending a first message to someone if they catch my eye. The worst that can happen is they delete it unread . I don't get many messages because I have filters tighter than a ducks ass or at least that's what I tell myself
But it suits me and especially at the moment when I have so much going on outside of fab.
I found though most men do reply when messaged first
though even if we just chat for a couple of messages.
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" I found though most men do reply when messaged first though even if we just chat for a couple of messages. Sorry about that. I was washing the goldfish" To be fair that's the first time I've heard it called a goldfish | |||
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"I have no issue sending a first message to someone if they catch my eye. The worst that can happen is they delete it unread . I don't get many messages because I have filters tighter than a ducks ass or at least that's what I tell myself
But it suits me and especially at the moment when I have so much going on outside of fab.
I found though most men do reply when messaged first
though even if we just chat for a couple of messages.
Im Howling at "duck's ass" i always say as tight as a Cavans man wallet " I used that too before | |||
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" I found though most men do reply when messaged first though even if we just chat for a couple of messages. Sorry about that. I was washing the goldfish To be fair that's the first time I've heard it called a goldfish "Well it ain't no great white | |||
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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself? "All for ladies making the first move ...
Makes perfect sense given the numbers and constant updates saying too much messages  | |||
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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself? "Constantly sending the first message can be draining and demotivating so having ladies messaging first helps with the ol’ confidence   | |||
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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself?
Personally speaking,if I got a first message from a woman I'd probably shit myself !! I've contacted and had great craic with women and a few couples but nearly always sent messages first. A few couples have contacted me and to be honest,it's a lot easier to respond than it is to compose a reasonable first message! So feel free to make the first move
I've had a few nice chats through messages to be fair, but I was the instigator like yourself. I would think this is quite normal for fellas on here!
You have a very sexy butt so id wink and message you about that particular picture on your profile
once ive read your bio first
Ah but I don't have any tattoos "Easily fixed | |||
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"If a profile catches my eye and interests me ill always message first i don't read or answer many messages anymore,respecting filters obviously does it make it easier for lads if women make the first move on here or do you prefer to put in the effort yourself?
Constantly sending the first message can be draining and demotivating so having ladies messaging first helps with the ol’ confidence "Ive gave up messaging you my charms definitely arnt working | |||
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"I have no issue sending a first message to someone if they catch my eye. The worst that can happen is they delete it unread . I don't get many messages because I have filters tighter than a ducks ass or at least that's what I tell myself
But it suits me and especially at the moment when I have so much going on outside of fab.
I found though most men do reply when messaged first
though even if we just chat for a couple of messages.
Im Howling at "duck's ass" i always say as tight as a Cavans man wallet "Nothing compared to a Cavan woman's wallet | |||
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"Ah ive no bother sending first messages. I rarely do because most that id be interested in are either too far away or only lookin for single women. Cest la vie" Yeah I find a majority are too far away from me too. An 1 1/2 hours drive ie Belfast is really my limit. I live in the sticks lol | |||
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"Ah ive no bother sending first messages. I rarely do because most that id be interested in are either too far away or only lookin for single women. Cest la vie Yeah I find a majority are too far away from me too. An 1 1/2 hours drive ie Belfast is really my limit. I live in the sticks lol " Its a right dose altogether | |||
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"Ah ive no bother sending first messages. I rarely do because most that id be interested in are either too far away or only lookin for single women. Cest la vie Yeah I find a majority are too far away from me too. An 1 1/2 hours drive ie Belfast is really my limit. I live in the sticks lol Its a right dose altogether" | |||
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"Ah ive no bother sending first messages. I rarely do because most that id be interested in are either too far away or only lookin for single women. Cest la vie Yeah I find a majority are too far away from me too. An 1 1/2 hours drive ie Belfast is really my limit. I live in the sticks lol " To far away is it lol. | |||
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"Ah ive no bother sending first messages. I rarely do because most that id be interested in are either too far away or only lookin for single women. Cest la vie Yeah I find a majority are too far away from me too. An 1 1/2 hours drive ie Belfast is really my limit. I live in the sticks lol To far away is it lol. " You are pretty close as you know | |||
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"It’s almost a relief getting a message off some you desire. I’ve no problem sending the first but it’s nice to get one and see the mould of men texting first being broken a bit" | |||
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"In all honesty I could have more conversation with a brick than on here . It's a needle in a haystack.ite so bad " The females love those comments lol | |||
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"Ah ive no bother sending first messages. I rarely do because most that id be interested in are either too far away or only lookin for single women. Cest la vie Yeah I find a majority are too far away from me too. An 1 1/2 hours drive ie Belfast is really my limit. I live in the sticks lol To far away is it lol. You are pretty close as you know "Oh yes I do that  | |||
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