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By *orkfun4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork City

So... in short me and my partner (7 years) are broken up like 1 month... I personally hate sleeping on my own (normally go from relationship to relationship)max 3 months single between, and now I just wonder has anyone ever made a relationship from meeti g here?. Like me realisticly look for 3 things when I'm starting a something other than bed buddies is 1 loyalty 2 honesty 3 sex.. and last 2 relationships..3 is the issue . I.e seen as weird for soft swing (afterlike 3/4years) and longer relationships I've too high of a sex drive...

T.L.D.R Am single after a long relationship , missing a significant other, has anyone met their 3 in one from here?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I think loads have op. I’m looking for a ltr at the moment - but then I’ve been single for 10 years.

Like you I’d gone from one relationship to another all my adult life. I decided that I needed to spend time as a single to get to know myself better and stop depending on others to make me happy. It was absolutely the right thing to do (for me) and I’d recommend it to anyone in the same situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have and probably will , they will find a person on the same wavelength as them and they will decide to be a couple, never look a gift horse in the mouth ,if the cap fits wear it , if it feels right for both then why not.

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

I had a fab relationship that unfortunately ended badly.

But different horses for different courses. A fab relationship could work out for 100's of others.

But not something I'd be doing again.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

We met here. Wasn't an easy path but 2 kids and a house together and all going great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 'one foot in fabland' kind of person.

Want a 1-1 relationship to enjoy kinks, mix and mingle, enjoy voyeur/exhibition play with ...but not ever share.

Seems to be a rarity but I'm not done looking even though I'm taking a break.

I totally agree with the comment above, it's most important to be a whole and happy you before you try to become a two

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Loads of ladies on her looking for a relationship and I'd suggest you put it in your bio if that is what you are after. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have worked some haven't, just be up front what you want. But if you recently single out of a 7 year relationship why not just enjoy been single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of ladies on her looking for a relationship and I'd suggest you put it in your bio if that is what you are after. Good luck "

100% nothing hidden or unsaid. Saves a lot of wasted time and interest on both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met the right person here I'd be open to a relationship. There's a different type of openness here about a partners sexuality that I haven't found while dating or random hookups. It's refreshing and fun. There is also a lot of bullshit and game playing but tbh other dating sites/apps have the same problems.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Yep, found him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met her and married her

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

O don't think I would want a relationship from here

But then its not something I've experienced while in a relationship hmmmmmm me wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"O don't think I would want a relationship from here

But then its not something I've experienced while in a relationship hmmmmmm me wonders "

Surely it's about the person and not how/where you hooked up?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think "

Very single dimensional view... obviously the dynamic changes when 2 singles become a couple and they decide together whether/how to continue in the lifestyle, or not?

Surely a sex doll is the safer option, in case you become emotionally attached to a real woman.....just saying like lol

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think

Very single dimensional view... obviously the dynamic changes when 2 singles become a couple and they decide together whether/how to continue in the lifestyle, or not?

Surely a sex doll is the safer option, in case you become emotionally attached to a real woman.....just saying like lol"

Very judgment view ... some of us know ourselves well... and in that vain I don't think it fair to allow a relationship to develop if it might result in me wanting to ask someone to change themselves for me ... so better off avoid imo...

Your interpretations and Perceptions come from inside you... what i wrote ..triggered your thoughts .. and they are just that ...your thoughts ..so maybe you need to have a chat with yourself and find out what causes you to view the world so negatively

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Like

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By *illerQueen1Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I think loads have op. I’m looking for a ltr at the moment - but then I’ve been single for 10 years.

Like you I’d gone from one relationship to another all my adult life. I decided that I needed to spend time as a single to get to know myself better and stop depending on others to make me happy. It was absolutely the right thing to do (for me) and I’d recommend it to anyone in the same situation. "

Well done you!

It’s good to enjoy your own company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think

Very single dimensional view... obviously the dynamic changes when 2 singles become a couple and they decide together whether/how to continue in the lifestyle, or not?

Surely a sex doll is the safer option, in case you become emotionally attached to a real woman.....just saying like lol

Very judgment view ... some of us know ourselves well... and in that vain I don't think it fair to allow a relationship to develop if it might result in me wanting to ask someone to change themselves for me ... so better off avoid imo...

Your interpretations and Perceptions come from inside you... what i wrote ..triggered your thoughts .. and they are just that ...your thoughts ..so maybe you need to have a chat with yourself and find out what causes you to view the world so negatively "

What's negative about meeting my wife here?? Interpretations/Perceptions? No, life experience. Maybe you were just meant to be single, is that a possibility? You may not be wrong but neither can you judge those who have met and formed lasting relationships here. That's judgemental, in your own words

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There are compromises to be made in every relationship. I wouldn't count out a swinger as a potential life-partner on that basis personally. You might find the upside that you get with a sexually enlightened and open partner is worth a bit of give and take... and anyway many swingers would happily trade swinging for the partner of their dreams.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think

Very single dimensional view... obviously the dynamic changes when 2 singles become a couple and they decide together whether/how to continue in the lifestyle, or not?

Surely a sex doll is the safer option, in case you become emotionally attached to a real woman.....just saying like lol

Very judgment view ... some of us know ourselves well... and in that vain I don't think it fair to allow a relationship to develop if it might result in me wanting to ask someone to change themselves for me ... so better off avoid imo...

Your interpretations and Perceptions come from inside you... what i wrote ..triggered your thoughts .. and they are just that ...your thoughts ..so maybe you need to have a chat with yourself and find out what causes you to view the world so negatively

What's negative about meeting my wife here?? Interpretations/Perceptions? No, life experience. Maybe you were just meant to be single, is that a possibility? You may not be wrong but neither can you judge those who have met and formed lasting relationships here. That's judgemental, in your own words"

You judgment on what I wrote had a very negative slant ... which came from the fact you meet your wife on here ...

I was speaking about me .. what i think for me ... your bias and judgmental mentality is so overwhelming you didn't even read what I wrote .. instead you just associated it with someone saying something negative about relationships that form on here ..

Considering you just proved my point in that your negativity towards my post came from your own feelings .... maybe you might want to consider what a post referring to fab relationships automatically triggers a defence response from your self .... even when the post isn't negative...

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"There are compromises to be made in every relationship. I wouldn't count out a swinger as a potential life-partner on that basis personally. You might find the upside that you get with a sexually enlightened and open partner is worth a bit of give and take... and anyway many swingers would happily trade swinging for the partner of their dreams. "

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think

Very single dimensional view... obviously the dynamic changes when 2 singles become a couple and they decide together whether/how to continue in the lifestyle, or not?

Surely a sex doll is the safer option, in case you become emotionally attached to a real woman.....just saying like lol

Very judgment view ... some of us know ourselves well... and in that vain I don't think it fair to allow a relationship to develop if it might result in me wanting to ask someone to change themselves for me ... so better off avoid imo...

Your interpretations and Perceptions come from inside you... what i wrote ..triggered your thoughts .. and they are just that ...your thoughts ..so maybe you need to have a chat with yourself and find out what causes you to view the world so negatively

What's negative about meeting my wife here?? Interpretations/Perceptions? No, life experience. Maybe you were just meant to be single, is that a possibility? You may not be wrong but neither can you judge those who have met and formed lasting relationships here. That's judgemental, in your own words

You judgment on what I wrote had a very negative slant ... which came from the fact you meet your wife on here ...

I was speaking about me .. what i think for me ... your bias and judgmental mentality is so overwhelming you didn't even read what I wrote .. instead you just associated it with someone saying something negative about relationships that form on here ..

Considering you just proved my point in that your negativity towards my post came from your own feelings .... maybe you might want to consider what a post referring to fab relationships automatically triggers a defence response from your self .... even when the post isn't negative...

"

Says the guy who immediately dismissed meeting 'the one' here citing it was important how/where you met, rather than who you met?

Good luck, you're on here why?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think

Very single dimensional view... obviously the dynamic changes when 2 singles become a couple and they decide together whether/how to continue in the lifestyle, or not?

Surely a sex doll is the safer option, in case you become emotionally attached to a real woman.....just saying like lol

Very judgment view ... some of us know ourselves well... and in that vain I don't think it fair to allow a relationship to develop if it might result in me wanting to ask someone to change themselves for me ... so better off avoid imo...

Your interpretations and Perceptions come from inside you... what i wrote ..triggered your thoughts .. and they are just that ...your thoughts ..so maybe you need to have a chat with yourself and find out what causes you to view the world so negatively

What's negative about meeting my wife here?? Interpretations/Perceptions? No, life experience. Maybe you were just meant to be single, is that a possibility? You may not be wrong but neither can you judge those who have met and formed lasting relationships here. That's judgemental, in your own words

You judgment on what I wrote had a very negative slant ... which came from the fact you meet your wife on here ...

I was speaking about me .. what i think for me ... your bias and judgmental mentality is so overwhelming you didn't even read what I wrote .. instead you just associated it with someone saying something negative about relationships that form on here ..

Considering you just proved my point in that your negativity towards my post came from your own feelings .... maybe you might want to consider what a post referring to fab relationships automatically triggers a defence response from your self .... even when the post isn't negative...

Says the guy who immediately dismissed meeting 'the one' here citing it was important how/where you met, rather than who you met?

Good luck, you're on here why?"

I didn't dismiss a relationship on fab on 5. I didn't dismiss a relationship on fab. I said I don't think it's for me. You're bias mentality read what it wanted to read in between the words and interpreted it the way you wanted to interpret it. If I was to Hazzard a guess I would say you are negative towards any post that has to do with relationships forming on fab due to some insecurities within yourself or yourself are your relationship.. thats not my doing ... so don't take it out on me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think

Very single dimensional view... obviously the dynamic changes when 2 singles become a couple and they decide together whether/how to continue in the lifestyle, or not?

Surely a sex doll is the safer option, in case you become emotionally attached to a real woman.....just saying like lol

Very judgment view ... some of us know ourselves well... and in that vain I don't think it fair to allow a relationship to develop if it might result in me wanting to ask someone to change themselves for me ... so better off avoid imo...

Your interpretations and Perceptions come from inside you... what i wrote ..triggered your thoughts .. and they are just that ...your thoughts ..so maybe you need to have a chat with yourself and find out what causes you to view the world so negatively

What's negative about meeting my wife here?? Interpretations/Perceptions? No, life experience. Maybe you were just meant to be single, is that a possibility? You may not be wrong but neither can you judge those who have met and formed lasting relationships here. That's judgemental, in your own words

You judgment on what I wrote had a very negative slant ... which came from the fact you meet your wife on here ...

I was speaking about me .. what i think for me ... your bias and judgmental mentality is so overwhelming you didn't even read what I wrote .. instead you just associated it with someone saying something negative about relationships that form on here ..

Considering you just proved my point in that your negativity towards my post came from your own feelings .... maybe you might want to consider what a post referring to fab relationships automatically triggers a defence response from your self .... even when the post isn't negative...

Says the guy who immediately dismissed meeting 'the one' here citing it was important how/where you met, rather than who you met?

Good luck, you're on here why?

I didn't dismiss a relationship on fab on 5. I didn't dismiss a relationship on fab. I said I don't think it's for me. You're bias mentality read what it wanted to read in between the words and interpreted it the way you wanted to interpret it. If I was to Hazzard a guess I would say you are negative towards any post that has to do with relationships forming on fab due to some insecurities within yourself or yourself are your relationship.. thats not my doing ... so don't take it out on me ... "

Oh, so sorry, I bow to the learned Dr _itemeagain(single guy.sc), do I owe you anything for the therapy session?

Now, I'm away out for dinner with my wife....did I say we met on Fab?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Well for me ... I'm not sure i could share a love interest.. a swinging partner yep.. so if I'd got in relationship with someone from fab .. they may want different than myself in terms of the lifestyle... soooo prob best avoid

I think

Very single dimensional view... obviously the dynamic changes when 2 singles become a couple and they decide together whether/how to continue in the lifestyle, or not?

Surely a sex doll is the safer option, in case you become emotionally attached to a real woman.....just saying like lol

Very judgment view ... some of us know ourselves well... and in that vain I don't think it fair to allow a relationship to develop if it might result in me wanting to ask someone to change themselves for me ... so better off avoid imo...

Your interpretations and Perceptions come from inside you... what i wrote ..triggered your thoughts .. and they are just that ...your thoughts ..so maybe you need to have a chat with yourself and find out what causes you to view the world so negatively

What's negative about meeting my wife here?? Interpretations/Perceptions? No, life experience. Maybe you were just meant to be single, is that a possibility? You may not be wrong but neither can you judge those who have met and formed lasting relationships here. That's judgemental, in your own words

You judgment on what I wrote had a very negative slant ... which came from the fact you meet your wife on here ...

I was speaking about me .. what i think for me ... your bias and judgmental mentality is so overwhelming you didn't even read what I wrote .. instead you just associated it with someone saying something negative about relationships that form on here ..

Considering you just proved my point in that your negativity towards my post came from your own feelings .... maybe you might want to consider what a post referring to fab relationships automatically triggers a defence response from your self .... even when the post isn't negative...

Says the guy who immediately dismissed meeting 'the one' here citing it was important how/where you met, rather than who you met?

Good luck, you're on here why?

I didn't dismiss a relationship on fab on 5. I didn't dismiss a relationship on fab. I said I don't think it's for me. You're bias mentality read what it wanted to read in between the words and interpreted it the way you wanted to interpret it. If I was to Hazzard a guess I would say you are negative towards any post that has to do with relationships forming on fab due to some insecurities within yourself or yourself are your relationship.. thats not my doing ... so don't take it out on me ...

Oh, so sorry, I bow to the learned Dr _itemeagain(single guy.sc), do I owe you anything for the therapy session?

Now, I'm away out for dinner with my wife....did I say we met on Fab? "

You enjoy that now bud ...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You 3 need to meet and fuck it out of ye

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Like

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"You 3 need to meet and fuck it out of ye "

Cant ... he might think i love her

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

We met on fab and couldn't help but fall in love.

It happens.

Can't understand that ridiculously outdated and stupid mentality of "couldn't be in a relationship with a fellow fabber"

Why?

Because you think her hole is good enough to fuck but not good enough to marry?

Because you think that she rode a thousand cocks and is now wider than O'Connel Street and tainted by gallons of semen she must be swallowing on her pass time?

Because you think once she's been on fab - thats it, she's completely addicted to meeting strangers at random times of the night and will never ever be able to even comprehend monogamy due to uncontrollable thirst for more and more new cocks?

(Same applies if sexes were reversed, only I've never ever seen a single woman make a statement like "I could never be with a guy I met on fab" hence my specific female gender in those statements).

When two people meet each other, find common ground, their personalities and goals in life click together - really what is the big deal about how they met or where they've met?

There's thousands of single people on fab who don't consider themselves swingers and would be more than happy to live in a monogamous relationship for the rest of their lives.

Missus

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

For me ... its none or the above...it just because I think right now I may end up in a position where I don't want to be and More so in a position where I would want to ask something of someone I'd rather not ask of anyone... simples . Yet thats just me ... happy others want and have different views from themselves..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of guys who couldn't switch off the fab mentality after pairing up.

It's something both need to be on the same page about and HONESTLY say if they are ready to retire their pineapples or happy to continue swinging either together or apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on fab and couldn't help but fall in love.

It happens.

Can't understand that ridiculously outdated and stupid mentality of "couldn't be in a relationship with a fellow fabber"

Why?

Because you think her hole is good enough to fuck but not good enough to marry?

Because you think that she rode a thousand cocks and is now wider than O'Connel Street and tainted by gallons of semen she must be swallowing on her pass time?

Because you think once she's been on fab - thats it, she's completely addicted to meeting strangers at random times of the night and will never ever be able to even comprehend monogamy due to uncontrollable thirst for more and more new cocks?

(Same applies if sexes were reversed, only I've never ever seen a single woman make a statement like "I could never be with a guy I met on fab" hence my specific female gender in those statements).

When two people meet each other, find common ground, their personalities and goals in life click together - really what is the big deal about how they met or where they've met?

There's thousands of single people on fab who don't consider themselves swingers and would be more than happy to live in a monogamous relationship for the rest of their lives.

Missus "

Will he tell his future wife he was on Fab but wouldn't marry a Fabber? Isn't a double standard expecting his future wife to marry a Fabber when she can't be one?

I think the single guys who try to 'act above the others' are the worst on Fab. I'm quite happy I met my wife on Fab and she knows my past. What will his wife know about him?

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By *osBeautifuksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin (sometimes London)

We met on here and it’s been by far our most fulfilling relationship.

What we realised is that our affection grew after we realised our physical connection was unmatched, unlike our vanilla relationships.

Then came the friendship, companionship, respect, loyalty etc. Falling in love was a surprise but a very welcome one.

Basically, it’s based on sex which is a huge part of our lives and everything else is an added bonus.

It absolutely can happen. Whether you’re looking for it or not.

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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago

South

Man one month single after all that time

Give yourself some time

Thrust me I been in longer relationship when it ended just enjoy the single life...bed who you want..but will take more than few months to get over the break up in my experience no matter how many you sleep with.i wouldn't think it's fair to be looking to replace her straight of the bat ..on yourself or the new person.thrust me on this.

Enjoy single life..it's great until you naturally meet your new partner ..never look for them you will never find them ..just leave it happen it will when you least expect it??

And enjoy life don't dwell on stuff that was or could of been...the past is the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here and it’s been by far our most fulfilling relationship.

What we realised is that our affection grew after we realised our physical connection was unmatched, unlike our vanilla relationships.

Then came the friendship, companionship, respect, loyalty etc. Falling in love was a surprise but a very welcome one.

Basically, it’s based on sex which is a huge part of our lives and everything else is an added bonus.

It absolutely can happen. Whether you’re looking for it or not. "

love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here, its lovely to have a relationship where you can tell each other anything, nothing is taboo.

Its not always easy, but then no relationship is, but its worth it.

I would give yourself some time though OP, no need to jump from one to another, theres nothing wrong with being single..its a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here, its lovely to have a relationship where you can tell each other anything, nothing is taboo.

Its not always easy, but then no relationship is, but its worth it.

I would give yourself some time though OP, no need to jump from one to another, theres nothing wrong with being single..its a lot of fun "

This is also true of fab friendships, a big draw for me here tbh. The openness and being able to just relax, not editing yourself of all the sex chat

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Man one month single after all that time

Give yourself some time

Thrust me I been in longer relationship when it ended just enjoy the single life...bed who you want..but will take more than few months to get over the break up in my experience no matter how many you sleep with.i wouldn't think it's fair to be looking to replace her straight of the bat ..on yourself or the new person.thrust me on this.

Enjoy single life..it's great until you naturally meet your new partner ..never look for them you will never find them ..just leave it happen it will when you least expect it??

And enjoy life don't dwell on stuff that was or could of been...the past is the past"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here, its lovely to have a relationship where you can tell each other anything, nothing is taboo.

Its not always easy, but then no relationship is, but its worth it.

I would give yourself some time though OP, no need to jump from one to another, theres nothing wrong with being single..its a lot of fun

This is also true of fab friendships, a big draw for me here tbh. The openness and being able to just relax, not editing yourself of all the sex chat "

So true! Vanilla friends all sitting around talking about the new washing machine etc i find fab friends so much more fun and relaxed to be around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would presume you would find someone on same wavelength here.

My advice would be to not over think it and do a few coffee dates etc and see what happens. 7 years is a long time. Enjoy your space now and see where it goes

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"We met on here, its lovely to have a relationship where you can tell each other anything, nothing is taboo.

Its not always easy, but then no relationship is, but its worth it.

I would give yourself some time though OP, no need to jump from one to another, theres nothing wrong with being single..its a lot of fun

This is also true of fab friendships, a big draw for me here tbh. The openness and being able to just relax, not editing yourself of all the sex chat

So true! Vanilla friends all sitting around talking about the new washing machine etc i find fab friends so much more fun and relaxed to be around "

Ah but is that what they REALLY want to talk about? Are they socially conditioned to watch their p's and q's and avoid sex chat at all costs?

Bloody "social norms", they'd drive you mad if you let them!! It's one reason why we enjoy the social side of this, we can let our guard down and just be ourselves. Mrs

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

I would agree in part ... I also think over the years I've seen how these types of communication outlets allow an over exaggerated version of who people really are to develop ..its like when we get a bit full or when we speak with a stranger on the phone ... we can sometimes act differently that we actually would in person .

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I would agree in part ... I also think over the years I've seen how these types of communication outlets allow an over exaggerated version of who people really are to develop ..its like when we get a bit full or when we speak with a stranger on the phone ... we can sometimes act differently that we actually would in person .

"

Or perhaps people feel they can be their true selves here, which they feel inhibited doing (at first) face to face.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I would agree in part ... I also think over the years I've seen how these types of communication outlets allow an over exaggerated version of who people really are to develop ..its like when we get a bit full or when we speak with a stranger on the phone ... we can sometimes act differently that we actually would in person .

Or perhaps people feel they can be their true selves here, which they feel inhibited doing (at first) face to face."

God i hope not ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on fab and couldn't help but fall in love.

It happens.

Can't understand that ridiculously outdated and stupid mentality of "couldn't be in a relationship with a fellow fabber"

Why?

Because you think her hole is good enough to fuck but not good enough to marry?

Because you think that she rode a thousand cocks and is now wider than O'Connel Street and tainted by gallons of semen she must be swallowing on her pass time?

Because you think once she's been on fab - thats it, she's completely addicted to meeting strangers at random times of the night and will never ever be able to even comprehend monogamy due to uncontrollable thirst for more and more new cocks?

(Same applies if sexes were reversed, only I've never ever seen a single woman make a statement like "I could never be with a guy I met on fab" hence my specific female gender in those statements).

When two people meet each other, find common ground, their personalities and goals in life click together - really what is the big deal about how they met or where they've met?

There's thousands of single people on fab who don't consider themselves swingers and would be more than happy to live in a monogamous relationship for the rest of their lives.

Missus "

Missus..you ROCK !! great reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any Guys-on-call out there?

Dial-a-partner?

AlmostSerious.com

Coz I'd like you available when I'm in the mood to remember you exist

But no drama ffs

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By *odeos_gringoCouple
over a year ago

belfast

We did.

We actually met at a ladies lunch organised by mrandmrsright.

Knew I had to date someone in this lifestyle as how on earth do you bring up that you like group sex with someone vanilla? And when? First date or do you wait until a month in and hope they don't bolt?

It meant we are very open and honest with what we want, nothing is taboo and there is no judgement, jealously or anything like that. We knew what we were getting into having both being on fab for years.

1 year on, many many socials, swinging festivals, 3somes,4somes,5somes and 6somes together and honestly can't fault it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What constitutes loyalty? You’re on a swinging site. Would you allow your partner to have sex with other women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What constitutes loyalty? You’re on a swinging site. Would you allow your partner to have sex with other women? "

Personally, no

Exclusivity is a massive turn on for me... Sexual Ownership 'he's fucking mine, look but don't touch, that cock is mine alone to tease&please, what a lucky bitch am I' kind of thing

BUT

Seeing and being seen.... love it

Kink and d/s fun.... love love love

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By *odeos_gringoCouple
over a year ago

belfast


"What constitutes loyalty? You’re on a swinging site. Would you allow your partner to have sex with other women? "

Yes I do.

We choose not to play seperately but if he wanted to do that I'd be OK with it.

Loyalty is knowing he'll pick me everytime, he's always coming home with me.

Rodeo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would happily date someone from fab, there is something thrillingly about been emotionally connected to someone yet been totally secually open with them! Where the understand your desires, and theirs as well.

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

Tbh I love to be in a relationship as iv been single for just over ten years now and do miss them cosy nights in cwtched up watching TV takeaway and a bottle of wine

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

But i do have to say JustA1 is a pretty looking lady hope you don't mind me saying that

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Yep getting married in December . We Met on here 5 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in a relationship for a few years with someone I met at a party on here.

Although we're still friends and do meet up,were not a couple anymore.

She has recently shown a interest in meeting another guy for MFM fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met each other through here while not looking for a relationship and many an adventure since then

5 years on happy out great fun and companionship,excitement, filth and loads of belly laughs

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"We did.

We actually met at a ladies lunch organised by mrandmrsright.

Knew I had to date someone in this lifestyle as how on earth do you bring up that you like group sex with someone vanilla? And when? First date or do you wait until a month in and hope they don't bolt?

It meant we are very open and honest with what we want, nothing is taboo and there is no judgement, jealously or anything like that. We knew what we were getting into having both being on fab for years.

1 year on, many many socials, swinging festivals, 3somes,4somes,5somes and 6somes together and honestly can't fault it. "

Sounds right for ye . Congrats

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Hope so, my last relationship was a swinger one. I cant do vanilla anymore thats for sure

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

I know a few couples that have met and married off here . As well as couples that haven’t worked out . I would love to meet someone. But a lot of what I have come across don’t want anything other then a meet.

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare


"We met on here, its lovely to have a relationship where you can tell each other anything, nothing is taboo.

Its not always easy, but then no relationship is, but its worth it.

I would give yourself some time though OP, no need to jump from one to another, theres nothing wrong with being single..its a lot of fun

This is also true of fab friendships, a big draw for me here tbh. The openness and being able to just relax, not editing yourself of all the sex chat "

Totally agree .

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