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By *ig_beautiful_wet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballymena

So we are a curvy couple and we find it very daunting chatting to folk knowing they are athletic or very toned!! Are we the only ones or is there others that are the same and self concuious

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

In fairness not everyone is telling the truth with their descriptions

Met a couple and he had no pictures on their profile but was described as athletic

He was bigger than me so unless dart players are athletes then he was telling lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very comfortable with myself but I feel the same I would be aware if I'm talking to a slimmer Couple or guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are a curvy couple and we find it very daunting chatting to folk knowing they are athletic or very toned!! Are we the only ones or is there others that are the same and self concuious "

Im completely with you on that one. Have always been self conscious about my weight and never message anyone who describes themselves as athletic because of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are taking the time to chat with you then why deny yourself the opportunity to make a connection because they have a different body size or shape?

As a short fat woman, I do understand the doubts because I have them myself but my preference leans towards tall toned men, so if someone shows themselves to be genuinely interested I'd be cutting off my nose to spite my face if I didn't allow myself to interact with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are taking the time to chat with you then why deny yourself the opportunity to make a connection because they have a different body size or shape?

As a short fat woman, I do understand the doubts because I have them myself but my preference leans towards tall toned men, so if someone shows themselves to be genuinely interested I'd be cutting off my nose to spite my face if I didn't allow myself to interact with them. "

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are taking the time to chat with you then why deny yourself the opportunity to make a connection because they have a different body size or shape?

As a short fat woman, I do understand the doubts because I have them myself but my preference leans towards tall toned men, so if someone shows themselves to be genuinely interested I'd be cutting off my nose to spite my face if I didn't allow myself to interact with them.

Well said! "

The thing is, I had to really examine my motives when it came to meeting other women and couples. A long time ago, in another life, when my then partner suggested a threesome with another woman my only criteria was that she wasn't slimmer than me. I saw nothing wrong with that at the time until recently I examined why I said that. I was protecting myself. In my head, so long as she wasn't slimmer than me then she wasn't a risk. He wouldn't fancy her more than me. Older wiser me now realises how incredibly insulting that was.

Now I take the opportunities, if I find someone attractive I don't allow myself to be hamstrung by their size label

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By *riplexx69Man
over a year ago

come find out


"If people are taking the time to chat with you then why deny yourself the opportunity to make a connection because they have a different body size or shape?

As a short fat woman, I do understand the doubts because I have them myself but my preference leans towards tall toned men, so if someone shows themselves to be genuinely interested I'd be cutting off my nose to spite my face if I didn't allow myself to interact with them. "
looking at your pictures I would not call you fat x

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By *eddybear37Man
over a year ago

everywhere kildare longford

It’s only lately I’m getting comfortable with my body and that’s down to a few lovely ppl on here that don’t judge and I admire that so much builds confidence in me

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

My wife is a curvy lady I would describe myself as average. I love a curvy lady why people think stick insect thin people are sexy is beyond me a lady is ment to have a nice ass and nice boobs and part of that is having the odd love handles too don't be ashamed of or embarrassed by curves most ot the sexiest women in history had curves and a full figure . Look at all the nude paintings all vileptous ladies . So shake that big ass and get those big boobs out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are taking the time to chat with you then why deny yourself the opportunity to make a connection because they have a different body size or shape?

As a short fat woman, I do understand the doubts because I have them myself but my preference leans towards tall toned men, so if someone shows themselves to be genuinely interested I'd be cutting off my nose to spite my face if I didn't allow myself to interact with them. looking at your pictures I would not call you fat x"

You're not looking closely enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is a curvy lady I would describe myself as average. I love a curvy lady why people think stick insect thin people are sexy is beyond me a lady is ment to have a nice ass and nice boobs and part of that is having the odd love handles too don't be ashamed of or embarrassed by curves most ot the sexiest women in history had curves and a full figure . Look at all the nude paintings all vileptous ladies . So shake that big ass and get those big boobs out "

It's really not nice to put down someone for their size regardless of which end of the spectrum they're at. It's perfectly possible to enjoy and appreciate one thing whilst not insulting another

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By *aitingstillMan
over a year ago

East of Cork

Totally agree with the comments above, much prefer a natural curvy body over a skinny one, especially in more mature folks. No one is perfect thank god for that, beauty comes from the inside

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"My wife is a curvy lady I would describe myself as average. I love a curvy lady why people think stick insect thin people are sexy is beyond me a lady is ment to have a nice ass and nice boobs and part of that is having the odd love handles too don't be ashamed of or embarrassed by curves most ot the sexiest women in history had curves and a full figure . Look at all the nude paintings all vileptous ladies . So shake that big ass and get those big boobs out

It's really not nice to put down someone for their size regardless of which end of the spectrum they're at. It's perfectly possible to enjoy and appreciate one thing whilst not insulting another "

I'm so glad you said this. I only had this conversation with a friend last night. We don't need to put one down to lift the other up. All bodies are beautiful in their own way and everyone is allowed be attracted to whoever they are attracted to.

To answer the OP my confidence has come on a huge amount in the last few years but I still have doubts when someone athletic messages me. I have to remind myself that they are the ones that messaged me.

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

Exactly I do a lot of physical work and i am fairly well tooned . Some people comment on it when we meet I just say to them this is who I am you are who you are if everyone was the same shape and size the world would be pretty boring.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Look at it from the other side. You might be judging the slim or athletic person and making the assumption that they are only interested in other slim athletic people but more often than not that's not true.

I don't have a type when it comes to body shape. My type is based on how we interact.

If we are relaxed in each others company with a similar sense of humour that's much more important.

Everyone has hangups of some sort.

I'm approaching 60 and happy with how I look but I'm not an energiser bunny so that will put plenty of women off.

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By *lirty40Woman
over a year ago

Galway City

I've always insisted that any partners for 3some couldn't be slimmer than me but that is because of my own insecurities. No matter how many times my fwb tells me that he is turned on by my body I struggle to believe him and always think that I'm satisfying a fetish for someone if they are messaging me. I've found this site to be much more welcoming than general society though. I do think there's a huge difference between curvy and fat though. I describe myself as fat or large cos I think if I said curvy it'd misleading. Curvy women can still have flat stomachs for example

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By *om_UMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Different strokes for different folks

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I'm not even worried about that... im fat and bloody proud of it without My jiggly bits I wouldn't be as happy and jolly

If you don't like me,that's your problem,not mine...not asking anyone to look at me.

It's all pretty simple.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

We have ourselves down as average . Honestly I would check out profile descriptions before messaging . Athletic / fabulous is off putting and so is curvy if it’s used to describe a man

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By *uscious louWoman
over a year ago

dublin

I’m a big girl I’m comfortable in my own body would never not message anyone because they’re athletic or skinny

I dnt go on peoples body type I prefer to go on if there’s a spark between us

Bodies change all the time be happy in urs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is beautiful, I definitely prefer a confident curvy woman..soft breasts..to a warm tummy..right down to her sweet soft spot..

Cat

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen


"I’m a big girl I’m comfortable in my own body would never not message anyone because they’re athletic or skinny

I dnt go on peoples body type I prefer to go on if there’s a spark between us

Bodies change all the time be happy in urs "

Well said

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By *la57Man
over a year ago

Antrim co Antrim

I don't think size or body shape matters it's more about the fun you have together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have struggled with my body image all my life, over years of rejection, nasty comments made about my size, I learnt to make the comment before someone else did, ' oh hi I'm blonds. The fat funny one" and for years would never ever had expected any guy who I found attractive have interest in me ( I still struggle with this) but since joining fab and I'll be honest really only since the camping weekend in August do I feel like I am attractive and I'm just as beautiful as anyone else here and

I can see the difference in my attitude and my outlook to fab. For a long time i couldnt understand why anyone was interested in me but a few fab friends have helped me realise a few things and this little butterfly has found her wings xx

Here's to a lot more fun and adventures xx

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish

I'm self conscious as all fuck..

I go from thinking I look okay to wtf is that stick insect doing in my mirror lol

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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime


"I have struggled with my body image all my life, over years of rejection, nasty comments made about my size, I learnt to make the comment before someone else did, ' oh hi I'm blonds. The fat funny one" and for years would never ever had expected any guy who I found attractive have interest in me ( I still struggle with this) but since joining fab and I'll be honest really only since the camping weekend in August do I feel like I am attractive and I'm just as beautiful as anyone else here and

I can see the difference in my attitude and my outlook to fab. For a long time i couldnt understand why anyone was interested in me but a few fab friends have helped me realise a few things and this little butterfly has found her wings xx

Here's to a lot more fun and adventures xx"

That's the most beautiful message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have struggled with my body image all my life, over years of rejection, nasty comments made about my size, I learnt to make the comment before someone else did, ' oh hi I'm blonds. The fat funny one" and for years would never ever had expected any guy who I found attractive have interest in me ( I still struggle with this) but since joining fab and I'll be honest really only since the camping weekend in August do I feel like I am attractive and I'm just as beautiful as anyone else here and

I can see the difference in my attitude and my outlook to fab. For a long time i couldnt understand why anyone was interested in me but a few fab friends have helped me realise a few things and this little butterfly has found her wings xx

Here's to a lot more fun and adventures xx"

Can totally relate...one of the most liberating and uplifting experiences in my life

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I have struggled with my body image all my life, over years of rejection, nasty comments made about my size, I learnt to make the comment before someone else did, ' oh hi I'm blonds. The fat funny one" and for years would never ever had expected any guy who I found attractive have interest in me ( I still struggle with this) but since joining fab and I'll be honest really only since the camping weekend in August do I feel like I am attractive and I'm just as beautiful as anyone else here and

I can see the difference in my attitude and my outlook to fab. For a long time i couldnt understand why anyone was interested in me but a few fab friends have helped me realise a few things and this little butterfly has found her wings xx

Here's to a lot more fun and adventures xx

Can totally relate...one of the most liberating and uplifting experiences in my life"

Thank god it wasn't raining or we wouldn't have taken our clothes off.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as I can remember I have always been attracted to curvy ladies . curvy girls are stunning especially when they are confident in there own appearance and flaunt it .

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By *i R usCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Everyone have issues with themselves Anyone who hasn't probably short sighted arrogant and not worth meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have struggled with my body image all my life, over years of rejection, nasty comments made about my size, I learnt to make the comment before someone else did, ' oh hi I'm blonds. The fat funny one" and for years would never ever had expected any guy who I found attractive have interest in me ( I still struggle with this) but since joining fab and I'll be honest really only since the camping weekend in August do I feel like I am attractive and I'm just as beautiful as anyone else here and

I can see the difference in my attitude and my outlook to fab. For a long time i couldnt understand why anyone was interested in me but a few fab friends have helped me realise a few things and this little butterfly has found her wings xx

Here's to a lot more fun and adventures xx

Can totally relate...one of the most liberating and uplifting experiences in my life

Thank god it wasn't raining or we wouldn't have taken our clothes off..... "

Oh I don't know...so long as it was warm rain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone have issues with themselves Anyone who hasn't probably short sighted arrogant and not worth meeting "

I think this is a little unfair. Wouldn't it be great if we could just appreciate something that many aspire to - to be truly content in one's own skin - without seeing it as arrogance, or something negative or undesirable

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By *ig_beautiful_wet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballymena

Thanks everyone for the kind messages and the advice we do appreciate it we don't judge anyone by there body shape or size we are just ourselves but have had so much abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for the kind messages and the advice we do appreciate it we don't judge anyone by there body shape or size we are just ourselves but have had so much abuse "

Just continue being yourselves and be comfortable in your own bodies.

Those that abuse you, most likely have their own insecurities that they are projecting onto you.

Ignore the shit and just enjoy the people who enjoy your company

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By *lack_diamond30Man
over a year ago

City


"So we are a curvy couple and we find it very daunting chatting to folk knowing they are athletic or very toned!! Are we the only ones or is there others that are the same and self concuious "

Interesting topic. I like all types of women. But it's nice to read people's opinion.

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By *he UnicornMan
over a year ago

I Travel


"So we are a curvy couple and we find it very daunting chatting to folk knowing they are athletic or very toned!! Are we the only ones or is there others that are the same and self concuious "

Curvy and cuddly is beautiful

Well it’s my favourite anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for the kind messages and the advice we do appreciate it we don't judge anyone by there body shape or size we are just ourselves but have had so much abuse "

Honestly anyone that abuses people about their body shape or size isn't worth the attention , think of it this way " it's the trash taking itself out" xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have struggled with my body image all my life, over years of rejection, nasty comments made about my size, I learnt to make the comment before someone else did, ' oh hi I'm blonds. The fat funny one" and for years would never ever had expected any guy who I found attractive have interest in me ( I still struggle with this) but since joining fab and I'll be honest really only since the camping weekend in August do I feel like I am attractive and I'm just as beautiful as anyone else here and

I can see the difference in my attitude and my outlook to fab. For a long time i couldnt understand why anyone was interested in me but a few fab friends have helped me realise a few things and this little butterfly has found her wings xx

Here's to a lot more fun and adventures xx"

DD we have never met we’d love if on some occasion that it could be made possible,if just for a chat you seem an amazing person and another few on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The genuine people on here don't judge anyone by their body shape or size.

I'd bet that 99% of hurtful comments or messages come right after that person was rejected by you - its childish & says more about them than anything else

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By *ittlemisspumpkinWoman
over a year ago

B

Me and my other half are both big.. I get horrible comments all the time but I also get some amazing uplifting comments too..

I will admit when I see athletic or toned in the description I always think oh they won't want me but it would suprise you how many guys like girls with lumps and bumps..

I've realised lately to just be myself, let my personality do the talking as such and if they like me they like me regardless of my size and shape x

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Athletic curvy average

If we all get on and a connection

It doesn't matter.

Be comfortable with who you are

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