FabSwingers.com forum: How long are you on Fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm now officially "over a year" on fab!! In that year I have taken many mini breaks from fab and group chats. How long have you being on fab? And whats your best advice for keeping the fab experience fresh?

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"I'm now officially "over a year" on fab!! In that year I have taken many mini breaks from fab and group chats. How long have you being on fab? And whats your best advice for keeping the fab experience fresh?"

On and over for over 6 years...or is it 7 ?sure who cares...its been a while

and planning to stay for a bit anyway

to annoy all of ye...

can't really give any advices,im shit at them...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

On fab itself over 10 years but was on other sites long before fab

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

A few breaks too but about 5-6 or so across a couple of profiles?

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

^ *5-6 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 5 years give or take, few breaks few profiles, I've learnt don't delete your profile just hide it, have no expectations abd enjoy the social side and remember take everything with a pinch of salt oh and enjoy the ride

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Are we counting the covid years or what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years on a few single profiles and now cpl profile..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

3 years next month....I dont even mind admitting it kept me sane and helped me through the lockdowns

Keeping it fresh.......dont be a dick .....or a fanny....just be yourself ....unless you really are a dick or a fanny....then be someone else instead

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Joined in 2012. Hidden my profile a few times over the years to clear the head but thankfully never deleted it. I don't expect any more than fun and friendship with like minded people and if that includes naughty moments. All the better.

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

Been on and off fab about 3 years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Carry on what Im doing so... hide profile for a break and enjoy the social side

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

This profile is about 3½ years old but I've been here almost 6 years.

This is the only profile where I've engaged in the forums.

I haven't been meeting this year due to health issues apart from a couple of socials and really only spend about an hour a day on here so I don't take it too seriously. That's how I keep my interest in it all.

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By *ottie00Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Almost 5 years now. Have met a lot of amazing people and made great friends. Taken a few breaks here and there but always the same Hottie!!

Keeping it fresh - be honest, be respectful but always have fun

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By *reative ideasMan
over a year ago

Next door

Same profile since 2013.

Updated and edited accordingly over the years as I've evolved.

As Bob Dylan once said "the times, they are a changing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

March 2020-just as Covid hit. As for keeping it fresh I've found it's best not to take it too seriously and more of a possibility. Have had several meets for coffee and dinner which never progressed beyond that and one or two pendings! I have also had several no-shows so it's not just the men who waste women's time! I'm indifferent to the site after all this time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost 5 years now. Have met a lot of amazing people and made great friends. Taken a few breaks here and there but always the same Hottie!!

Keeping it fresh - be honest, be respectful but always have fun

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good advice

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

10 or 12 years, 3 or 4 different profiles

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We are on just over 4yrs now

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By *oemegMan
over a year ago

On it less than a year but was literally wondering the same thing. Going off some comments it seems like breaks every now and then are best way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined about 6.5 - 7 years ago.

This is my 3rd profile..

Left first time because of career change/burn out.. second time during covid for personal reasons..

Met some great people in person and via forms/chats over the years and had plenty of laughs along the way...

This is the 3rd time I've got the first time verification as a newbie, why....? because I just really enjoy a challenge in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off fab for just over 10 years. I left quite a few times and stupidly deleted my profile each time.

Back again after a bout of ill health and will see how it goes.

Its hard to think of new names as old ones have been taken lol.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

About 5 mins .. I was working

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Almost a decade, longer on another site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three years on and off. Take a notion and leave, then miss the place and return. Hard to find like minded people out and about.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

First single profile summer '19 for Mrs and himself many years before we met

It's difficult to find times where we're both free to meet socially or attend events (there's so many we've missed because of family commitments or work

- we both have lives where it's near impossible to plan more than a couple weeks in advance at best).

I don't partake in group chat off platform, partly because before the couple's profile, I wasn't looking for group events and socials, more 1on1s, a couple of which have ended up in relationships. The couple of times I did partake in group chats just ended in havoc.

Hence, I dip in and out of the Forum, have times where threads keep me more entertained than others and keep a keen eye on upcoming events, often in the hope that stars align...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On and off fab for just over 10 years. I left quite a few times and stupidly deleted my profile each time.

Back again after a bout of ill health and will see how it goes.

Its hard to think of new names as old ones have been taken lol.

May I suggest PhoenixC, PhoenixD and PhoenixE if you are ever stuck for future names

Good to hear you are better now health wise

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

3 years last week, nearly didnt last the 1st day the no of messages was horrific but filters on it's easier to navigate, I really enjoy meeting the friends I've met from here, I've been on another site for longer than here but it's easier to communicate with people on this site, breaks now and then are good, I just hide the profile rather than deleting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On and off fab for just over 10 years. I left quite a few times and stupidly deleted my profile each time.

Back again after a bout of ill health and will see how it goes.

Its hard to think of new names as old ones have been taken lol.

May I suggest PhoenixC, PhoenixD and PhoenixE if you are ever stuck for future names

Good to hear you are better now health wise

Good idea. I really liked my original profile name Alicat but will not be deleting my profile again so Phoenix it will stay!

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By *oody500Man
over a year ago

Bray

Too bloody long

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

Just about 2 years since I joined as a single lady looking for NSA..

course that was peak pandemic lockdown so ended up posting pics and flirting on the forum mostly

that kept me lively and sane

Taking breaks, getting to know people and changing tack on what I want from the site stops it getting boring.

And the couples profile now is keeping it fresh and fun

MsF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long...

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

Just over a year

It’s been a blast lollll

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

That’s a good question!

Ok…

I’m here about 14/15 yrs and Tabs around 8yrs

It’s hard to give it all up as we met through here and still have a sense of being emotionally tied to the place lol but we still enjoy being here

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

More than 10years. My use of fabs has changed over the years as have I. I dip in and out as it suites me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on nearly 5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember.

Just be you, have fun.

Use the forums, go to socials.

Take it with a pinch of salt at times.

Hide your profile if you need a break don't delete as you'll come back and have to start over again.

Don't expect everyone how to act like you would, everyone uses here for their own journey and reason.

Oh and use the filters and the block button is your best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off, about 5 yrs

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Over 11 years, same profile, never taken a break or hidden profile.

Advice-grow a thick skin as quickly as possible and don't take things too serious

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By *andyfluffsWoman
over a year ago

follow the yellow brick road

About to hit a year soon .... had a little hiatus of a few months of dating in the vanilla world. Ultimately having a ball and made lots of actual friends .... that part surprised Me . Love the social part.... a little too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for.... a sexy hot guy, strong thighs, rough hands, deep sighs, lush boobs, pert pouts, lingering kisses, unending orgasms, fantasies made real, limits pushed, laughs&giggles, flirts and shenanigans...

Here for....me

Here for....a limited time only

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

not sure maybe 3.5 4 years, have had some great nights, last few months have been really good

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Almost 4 years now always just had this profile well bar when I first joined and left an hour or two later at the very start. But have kept this profile. I just don't take it too seriously I pop in and out of here most days.I am not meeting anyone new a present due to more important things taking priority outside of fab at the moment but keep in touch with friends on here and use the forums.

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By *rank7737Man
over a year ago

Just over a year myself and it has been a fantastic journey so far xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 10 years. But took a break beginning of this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long ...and not long enough..if that makes any sense

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

I think it's a good question Dee, and I am always interested to know when/how people started.

I decided (a while back) to put when I joined onto my profile

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By *hyeyesMan
over a year ago

meath

Where can I check how long I've been here?

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By *eddybear37Man
over a year ago

everywhere kildare longford

4 yrs on and off this last time I’ve met so many genuine ppl and ppl I call friends and help u on ur journey

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By *iery minxWoman
over a year ago

kildare

April '20 during covid so wasn't meeting,just checking it out at that stage and never left

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By *lassic guyMan
over a year ago

my bed to your just ask

Nearly 5 years and have made some amazing friends on here

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

Long enough to remember the wee 'online' dot being green

At least I think that's an old feature, I can't mind now I think about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 years next month....I dont even mind admitting it kept me sane and helped me through the lockdowns

Keeping it fresh.......dont be a dick .....or a fanny....just be yourself ....unless you really are a dick or a fanny....then be someone else instead

We are a dick and a fanny but hey some people but anyway

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By *xpandmyhorizonsMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

On and off around 14 years

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By *om_UMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Too long

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Not long enough to be finished……

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By *ild WomanWoman
over a year ago

Carlow

Roughly about 5 years with profile and year or 2 with another, before that had 10 year break was on as couple. Known about fab for at least 15 or more years. Not much changed. But I have and have been to some events which was something not done before and met great people who were able to have a laugh with.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I'll be here 3 years coming in Feb and I've had an absolute ball meeting all the weird and wonderful people of fab it's been a great experience despite a few ups and downs along the way...finally found a decent crowd of folk I would call my friends who love the social side of fab as much as me....so far it's been epic experience and absolutely lovinglife meeting new folk along the way xx cj xx

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

5 good years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 very enjoyable years

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By *rystalsswingCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Only here since March. And oh my! It's been flippin Fab

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

10 months and I think I'm wasting my time more and more every day but as they say God loves a trier

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"10 months and I think I'm wasting my time more and more every day but as they say God loves a trier "

It takes some people longer that that to post pics or on the forum.

You always come access nice, hang in there….

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"10 months and I think I'm wasting my time more and more every day but as they say God loves a trier

It takes some people longer that that to post pics or on the forum.

You always come access nice, hang in there….

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thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on and off for about 6yrs or so. Took a break for a year and a bit, deleted old account (major mistake!!!!), but the allure of the place enticed me back in again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same...

We first joined Fab over 6 years ago

Been on & off since then, it's been lots of fun

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By *ibbw2022Woman
over a year ago

Co.Kildare

Almost 6 months!

Was on a different swing site for a couple of years over 10 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same...

We first joined Fab over 6 years ago

Been on & off since then, it's been lots of fun

I definitely think I'd make more of it as a couple than I do as a single lady

You guys have all the best of both worlds for sure

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By *astcoast2000Man
over a year ago

Newcastle County Down

To long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both here in other couple profiles and as singles for over 10 years or so. I remember when there would be less then 5 new threads a day on the forums and less then 10 women online at any one time.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Both here in other couple profiles and as singles for over 10 years or so. I remember when there would be less then 5 new threads a day on the forums and less then 10 women online at any one time. "

Was there still 400 men on at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both here in other couple profiles and as singles for over 10 years or so. I remember when there would be less then 5 new threads a day on the forums and less then 10 women online at any one time.

Was there still 400 men on at the same time

Nope around 100. Really blew up after swing4 started throwing people off that site and a lot ended up here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This profile I’ve had about 16 months,

Before Covid I had another well verified profile I kind of just ditched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a very nice 5 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This profile I’ve had about 16 months,

Before Covid I had another well verified profile I kind of just ditched "

Same here. Came back again as I had some very positive experiences here. Only back just over a month ago.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

When you really enjoy doing something you tend to live in the moment, and don't thing about how it has been, etc.

Simply put, it has been beneficial; and making a voluntary contribution, as a site supporter shows commitment!

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Quite a few years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over two years. Two of three great meets and one trip to VC before lockdown. Near two year break. Back striking some small chats. Think a mixture of messages and forum chats helps to get back in

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By *ajRallying555Man
over a year ago

Galway .Limerick

5 yrs for myself. Had some great Experiences

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

Bout 4 and half years on here now

Had a wee break but delighted to b back on the social scene (always my favourite part of fab) and the amazing friends I've met along the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I must say the great friends I've met through fab was surprising! I didn't expect to meet life long friends on a swinging site

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Bout 10 yrs now - did leave a while ago but last 3 weeks and had to come back - there’s absolutely some amazing genuine people on here that I de class as life long friends

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Just over 7yrs plus at this stage

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By *inkiepairCouple
over a year ago

dublin

We are here since 2013, with a few breaks here and there. Overall we have had good experiences and hopefully more exploring come.

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

Not long enough

I'm guessing on n off 7yrs roughly o and being reincarnated once but not my doing..

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By *exysamXXXWoman
over a year ago

The Land of Make Believe

On 6 years this year. What a journey of fun and exploring different aspects of my sexuality and fantasies. Add in meeting so many like minded people some of whom have become great friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my 4th reincarnation over 4 years. Fab is like the Hotel California you can check in but you can never check out. I never thought joining it all those years ago that I'd meet most of my closest friends off a swing site

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

A very long time lol find it the best at the min

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By *wing_4_funxCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Joined in 2019 still here took a break during COVID to add to the family so only back meeting again with a while.

Enjoying it for more reasons than just the swinging side.

Never thought Friendships would be something we would have got from this but we have. Have met some of the loveliest people and hope our journey continues as good as it has been up to now

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Oh jeasus on and off years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined in 2014,left for a stint,back again,but I've met some amazing people, an the friends I've met from the start have turned into sisters from different misters. It's been a roller-coaster but wouldn't change a thing. You learn lesson's good an bad.

Dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the exact same, you have to take breaks from it or youd go insane haha

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