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By *weetcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Central

Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Hoping to organise something with 2 fellow fabbers first sat in Dec

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By *dventurousDuoxXCouple
over a year ago

Blaney

We’d be interested in attending a party also, it’s been a while

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ?? "

We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??

We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested

Aww ill be in Belfast that weekend

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??

We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested

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I would be interested in attending

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??

We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested

Aww ill be in Belfast that weekend

Even with the date change? Dammit!!

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By *imal75Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I would be interested in attending if in the midlands.

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By *ookingforfun222Couple
over a year ago

cavan

Yes please

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice to go to a house party in the South too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a massive house that’s ideal for parties in discreet location in Armagh, if anyone wants to use it to organise a party in it your more than welcome

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Making myself available for parties, banquets, shindigs and soirées.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious question...

What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?

Just go home?

Drink and hold up a wall?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Serious question...

What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?

Just go home?

Drink and hold up a wall?"

Only been to one and a couple turned up who were also first timers.

They stayed for less than an hour, complained that everyone there seemed to be long term friends and that wasn't what they expected and left saying proper parties are supposed to be all strangers.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Serious question...

What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?

Just go home?

Drink and hold up a wall?"

Have a cup of coffee instead....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question...

What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?

Just go home?

Drink and hold up a wall?

Only been to one and a couple turned up who were also first timers.

They stayed for less than an hour, complained that everyone there seemed to be long term friends and that wasn't what they expected and left saying proper parties are supposed to be all strangers.

oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question...

What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?

Just go home?

Drink and hold up a wall?

Have a cup of coffee instead...."

I'll make sure to bring cakes then if I ever brave one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see I'm curious to try one and enjoy the social sides here, but I know my own self well enough & I'm not one to connect quickly or easily so it'd be a coin toss if it was for me or not.

Not looking to get flashbacks to school days where you 'had' to fancy someone or stick out like a sore thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?

Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?

Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud"

Once again can only use the one I went to as an example. I didn't know anyone there apart from the woman who invited me but there was no pressure to play at all and everyone was very friendly and relaxed. Half the people there didn't play and were more than happy just to be voyeurs.

I was invited back but the hosts then left fab for personal reasons and I left shortly after and lost contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud

I was invited back but the hosts then left fab for personal reasons and I left shortly after and lost contact. "

Thank you

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud"

Play is definitely not compulsory at any party I've even been to or that I've heard off

Karaoke in the kitchen can be fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud

Play is definitely not compulsory at any party I've even been to or that I've heard off

Karaoke in the kitchen can be fun too "

Is Karaoke compulsory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me

That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.

Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud

Play is definitely not compulsory at any party I've even been to or that I've heard off

Karaoke in the kitchen can be fun too

Is Karaoke compulsory?

I only sing in the car.... alone...

And for very good reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Karaoke compulsory?

I only sing in the car.... alone...

And for very good reason

Last song you sang very badly alone in a car?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Karaoke compulsory?

I only sing in the car.... alone...

And for very good reason

Last song you sang very badly alone in a car?

Lover by gflip

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By *onty_400Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've been at 2 house parties.

First time there was a couple there that just wanted to watch

Second one the guy that organized it just watched.

It's never compulsary to have sex

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me

That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.

Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night."

Makes perfect sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me

That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.

Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.

Makes perfect sense"

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??

We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested

Keep us in mind.. time to shake things up a bit on these cold nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be nice to go to a house party in the South too"

Second this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me

That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.

Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.

Makes perfect sense

I think you are being super brave to even contemplate going to a party alone

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

We love a good house party. Always great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me

That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.

Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.

Makes perfect sense

I think you are being super brave to even contemplate going to a party alone "

I'm a curious little one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not begging, or desperate... but we'd love to get our feet in the door for a social/party or two

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By *oxAndKCouple
over a year ago

near Dublin ;)

"Not begging, or desperate... but we'd love to get our feet in the door for a social/party or two

Throw our names in the hat too.

Great questions to ask Fandango.

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Count us in if your having one up North.

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By *odeos_gringoCouple
over a year ago

belfast

We always love parties so keep us in mind if anyone's planning one! We're very social and not shy!

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Flandangoflutters tried to pm you but you have women blocked pm me if you would like to discuss further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question...

What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?

Just go home?

Drink and hold up a wall?"

I ve been at 4 parties and last night is the only time I had some sexy fun, it's not a free for all, was plenty chatting downstairs having few drinks and having a laugh. Any party I've been to no expectation to play.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

I have hosted a few parties with 2 very good fab friends we have always told our guests that they are under no pressure to do anything they don't want to do if they just want to come have a few drinks meet new people and enjoy the craic that's fine that is the idea behind us hosting parties we just want eople to meet others and enjoy themselves in whatever way they want i just enjoy seeing people enjoy themselves

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I've gone to a few house parties and never played and never felt pressured to do so..

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By *inky fun...Man
over a year ago

mullingar

Count me i for 1 off them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me

That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.

Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.

Makes perfect sense"

And this is why bog was my wingman at my first party

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"I've gone to a few house parties and never played and never felt pressured to do so.."
.. indeed you did bog.. jees the countless parties we been at together, and we plyed you with drink etc,, and yet you rejected our advances of total debauchery,, so we totally respect your anticipation of unintentionally advances.. respect bog..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These are all really encouraging

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I've gone to a few house parties and never played and never felt pressured to do so.... indeed you did bog.. jees the countless parties we been at together, and we plyed you with drink etc,, and yet you rejected our advances of total debauchery,, so we totally respect your anticipation of unintentionally advances.. respect bog.. "

I just cant get past the shirts ..sorry

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Been to a few house parties and never felt any pressure to play tbh,intact had quite a few great nights just meeting and having great craic with some lovely fabbers.

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By *ewadventures2017Couple
over a year ago

some where near

We would be interested in this activity lol

We have never felt pressured in any suitation if we did we would be outa there quick

Hopefully nobody has been pressured to take part in something they weren't comfortable with

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By *olouWoman
over a year ago

Swords

Been to one epic 2 day party lol,no pressure at all to play, met great people and just relaxed and did what I felt comfortable with.....was comfortable with quite alot

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

There is a difference between a house party and a hotel room party. More pressure in the latter as there is no escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud"

I've been to plenty of party's and not played. There's a big social aspect to them and there's never any pressure to play and if there they aren't the parties to go to. You could just watch or chat to people if you aren't feeling connections with anyone.

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Same here. We’ve been to a few play parties/house parties. And we haven’t played to all… depends on the vibe and the peeps there. However we’ve had a brilliant time at all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely feeling encouraged. No nightmare tales yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely feeling encouraged. No nightmare tales yet

Honestly go with someone you know as your wing person and a party that's been held by a well verified host and you will be fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question...

What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?

Just go home?

Drink and hold up a wall?"

Totes awkward! You'd need a drink to relax, but then you cant drive away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely feeling encouraged. No nightmare tales yet

Honestly go with someone you know as your wing person and a party that's been held by a well verified host and you will be fine x"

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Been to a few private house parties … none were pressure to play and we always had a great time at them … they can be great !

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By *emlock HarryMan
over a year ago

cullon

Trying to organise something for the 12th of November if anyone is interested

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By *om_UMan
over a year ago

Dublin

How does a single male go about getting an invite? Seems difficult

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By *errySubMan
over a year ago

Co L/Derry

It is difficult indeed, although does occasionally happen!

I actually received my first invite about a month ago. Was amazed and so excited and anxious as others have said... from being a party virgin.

But even more annoying was I had to work and couldnt get away. Absolutely gutted.

But... it does happen, so stay patient and fingers crossed for you

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"How does a single male go about getting an invite? Seems difficult "

Best way is to attend the larger socials, meet people face to face with no expectation of fun. The invites will eventually come. Those who are sound, put in the effort to meet people and are patient get the party invites

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By *odeos_gringoCouple
over a year ago

belfast

"How does a single male go about getting an invite? Seems difficult "

If people don't know you or know your name then it will be difficult. Get to as many socials as possible. People will then know who you are

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By *aul87niMan
over a year ago

Newry

Hi fandangoflutters, i like yourself haven't been to a party yet and would also be quite nervous about anxious meeting new ppl. If any consolation to your self id attend with you, we can meet earlier that day, grab a coffee / lunch and head on to party then or for pre drinks if u want company as would I lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fandangoflutters, i like yourself haven't been to a party yet and would also be quite nervous about anxious meeting new ppl. If any consolation to your self id attend with you, we can meet earlier that day, grab a coffee / lunch and head on to party then or for pre drinks if u want company as would I lol "

Very sweet to offer, thank you for that. I have no current plans though

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By *uietcpl2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin City

Having arranged a number of small house parties in the past we suggest you keep it to a maximum of 10 to 12 couples. Inviting single males can frequently make a lot of the woman very nervous especially if they have not been to a previous swing party. No one should be under any pressure to play if they do not want to.

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By *eathlad89Man
over a year ago

kells

My 1st ever party or social was a greedy girls party last march. Went extremely well.

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

We have never felt pressure to play at any party we have been to ..And we have hosted a few and never expected everyone to play,should always be up to yourself to play or not

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