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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Next to impossible to get a verification/meet think I'm gonna throw the towel in lol

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

Nothing is impossible. Get rid of the silluette profile pic and register your interest and area on the many verification threads that extremely generous fabbers run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a help a fabber thread out where verified fabbers have helped unverified fabbers get a verification.

A veri doesn't guarantee you success either. Get chatting on forums and maybe look at getting to a social near you.

I think there's a Cork City day social on soon check the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I just delete messages from blank profiles so maybe add picture to it. You need to catch people's attention here. Good luck with it

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

If you're depending on private messaging to get you places, you are missing the more important things like getting your profile right (that silhouette guarantees your messages aren't even getting opened), getting out and about to socials, chatting on the forums and having patience.

It takes months for single guys to build up connections and trust but the ones who are patient are reaping the rewards

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always seems impossible, until it's done!

Keep the faith and the chin up

You got this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Next to impossible to get a verification/meet think I'm gonna throw the towel in lol"

Unfortunately I am going to have to agree with this statement

It’s a tough tough audience out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a heads up your profile is your shop window, you need to entice us in, there's so many profiles.

Get involved on the forums, if you do a forum search loads of threads started by people struggling and loads of advice given. It's up to you to use the info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile needs an over haul dude . Loads of threads on this experience and good feedback already given here by experienced fab members..

Stop moaning and up your game and have fun with it ...attending socials are agood idea and stretch the comfort zone....its a swinger site ...social side is a big part of it ....

Good luck

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By *imself70Man
over a year ago

Wesht Cork

Yup, same advice as above...but imo, also stop focusing solely on the endgame and have some fun along the way.

As mentioned above, at some point it will happen

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By *lassic guyMan
over a year ago

my bed to your just ask

I think you profile need a bit more work to make it stand out put up a profile picture don't rush it like everything it takes time if you put noting into you are going to get nothing out of it so take it easy and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the helpful comments. I'll take what you said on board. Very helpful xx

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By *aterpillar69Man
over a year ago

newry

i can say the same thing hard to get a verification/meet i was thinking it was just me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why is it always seems to be those who make minimum effort are the first to cry that they don't get veired and meets on here.

Yes it definitely is harder for men on here but plenty who do make an effort do quite well on here. Those who don't and refuse to do anything bar send a load of messages to others in the hope someone may reply or meet are usually the ones who are left disheartened by fab.

And I've found there is no point in giving advice 99 per cent of the time because people pay no heed and just carrying on doing what they are doing anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing is to read the profiles of those that catch your eye. If you think you fit what they're looking for send a message ,start a conversation. Don't just message everyone you see hoping to get lucky.Be patient ,the meets will come .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the forums so people can get to know you got to a social best way to get verified.

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

First thing I’d do is get rid of that duvet in ur first pic ain’t no bird gonna want to meet a duvet cover like that lolllllllll

I’m only carrying on

The rewards will come when u put the effort in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you've got some great advice provided in this thread...

Nothing in life comes easy, but if you put in the effort, you will find it easier in the long run..

Embrace the challenge and when you are finally successful, it will taste even sweeter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it always seems to be those who make minimum effort are the first to cry that they don't get veired and meets on here.

Yes it definitely is harder for men on here but plenty who do make an effort do quite well on here. Those who don't and refuse to do anything bar send a load of messages to others in the hope someone may reply or meet are usually the ones who are left disheartened by fab.

And I've found there is no point in giving advice 99 per cent of the time because people pay no heed and just carrying on doing what they are doing anyhow. "

Everything this lady says. I know people hear of this magical site where the women are horny af. But the fill in later profile and fuck all photos means you'll end up jacking off to the Hot Photos bewildered why you can't get a meet. Meanwhile all the men doing that hardwork and putting the efforts in are knee deep in fanny delighted the competition can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...the men doing that hardwork and putting the efforts in are knee deep in fanny.. "

I can't keep up with all these new kinks the young folk are into these days

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen


"...the men doing that hardwork and putting the efforts in are knee deep in fanny..

I can't keep up with all these new kinks the young folk are into these days "

It's a whole new take on fisting. Wonder what urban dictionary has to say about this

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By *oudicaWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Additional information to consider, you are posting as a single guy but your wedding ring is clearly visible in your photo. I am not making any judgement on that, you do you, but that will certainly put some people off and may therefore make it more difficult to get veris/meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi op looks like you have taken the ladies advise on board and picked up a nice few fabs on your photos in the process. Is it going any better for you now. I spotted the wedding ring too. This will be the first question ladies will be asking about I think

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Give the bedroom a tidy up

lose wedding ring

Fill out your bio

Fill out your interests

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Take a look at your profile and think would you meet you

Your profile is where you sell yourself & yours just doesn't do that, it looks lazy

One line bio, no interests listed, will meet a 99yr old, really, Straight but looking to meet TVs, I'm not judging but it's confusing

Your profile looks like you've not given it any time or thought, so many people think this site a shag site were all they have to do is a create a profile and they'll be getting their dick wet on 30 minutes the reality is picking the winning numbers on the lottery is easier than getting laid on here for a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing is impossible. Get rid of the silluette profile pic and register your interest and area on the many verification threads that extremely generous fabbers run. "

I've learned that you get from here what you're willing to put in.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Next to impossible to get a verification/meet think I'm gonna throw the towel in lol"

Ya bud do all of the above ... even the suggestions from people with no vers

F#ck that ...

Just be straigh and honest with those you message and that means you will only get interest from those who match your desires.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Look in all seriousness... it is tough , yet you are only here 6 months... unfortunately it can take longer for many ...

Drop me a pm if you want .. I'll meet for quick meet and greet k

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Next to impossible to get a verification/meet think I'm gonna throw the towel in lol

Ya bud do all of the above ... even the suggestions from people with no vers

F#ck that ...

Just be straigh and honest with those you message and that means you will only get interest from those who match your desires. "

We are full of advises on here

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Next to impossible to get a verification/meet think I'm gonna throw the towel in lol

Ya bud do all of the above ... even the suggestions from people with no vers

F#ck that ...

Just be straigh and honest with those you message and that means you will only get interest from those who match your desires.

We are full of advises on here "

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Give the bedroom a tidy up

lose wedding ring

Fill out your bio

Fill out your interests

"

I'd say keep the wedding ring.

People generally don't like liars, so it's better to know in advance if someone is secretly attached

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Look in all seriousness... it is tough , yet you are only here 6 months... unfortunately it can take longer for many ...

Drop me a pm if you want .. I'll meet for quick meet and greet k "

Or not

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