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By *hunt OP   Man
over a year ago

North clare

Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion

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By *utdoorfun7474Couple
over a year ago

armagh

Love peeling folds of skin apart and enjoying the moistness underneath

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion"

Detachable labia is the way forward. Once I decide if press studs or velcro would be best I'm bringing that shit to Dragon's Den

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion"

Do I like normal vaginas? Yes I do.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

So....not a thread about aircraft

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Jaysus I got the wrong manual. I didn't know they were for standing on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say a thread discussing women's "falps" might not be the best way to ensure they are comfortable in their own bodies

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

How do you expect women to be comfortable with their bodies when you talk such shite about only kind of liking flaps . It’s not something that can be changed if it’s not to your liking like a pair of knickers ffs

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Beat me to it corklad .

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By *ollybirdWoman
over a year ago

east Cork


"I'm gonna go out on a limb and say a thread discussing women's "flaps" might not be the best way to ensure they are comfortable in their own bodies"

This!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time "

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if a woman has given you the privilege of access to her naked self you should be respectful of whatever is revealed.

They can't do mix and match with their body parts any more than a male could.

It's not adult Misfits brought to life here. How about we focus on what we DO with what we've been born with. Bit like we do with our personality

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

If you can afford to be selective with, and discerning on, the type of ‘flaps’ that come with the beneficiary of your oral skills, then I’m not the gurl for you… however, if you’re in the market for imperfectly non symmetrical ‘flaps’ - look no further!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jaysus I got the wrong manual. I didn't know they were for standing on "

Any aircraft engineer will tell you, do NOT stand on the flaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if a woman has given you the privilege of access to her naked self you should be respectful of whatever is revealed.

They can't do mix and match with their body parts any more than a male could.

It's not adult Misfits brought to life here. How about we focus on what we DO with what we've been born with. Bit like we do with our personality "

This. I’m sure a number of women I’ve slept with have had less-than-positive opinions on parts of my body, but none of them expressed any. Love who you’re with

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"If you can afford to be selective with, and discerning on, the type of ‘flaps’ that come with the beneficiary of your oral skills, then I’m not the gurl for you… however, if you’re in the market for imperfectly non symmetrical ‘flaps’ - look no further!"

Very well written

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant "

Seems to me to refer to personal preference that of the ops and that of others

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion

Detachable labia is the way forward. Once I decide if press studs or velcro would be best I'm bringing that shit to Dragon's Den"

I'll give you a six pack of Real Tayto for 10 %

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion

Detachable labia is the way forward. Once I decide if press studs or velcro would be best I'm bringing that shit to Dragon's Den

I'll give you a six pack of Real Tayto for 10 % "

3 packs each for 6.5% each ... we will drop it back to 10% if we get a return on our investments within 12months?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant

Seems to me to refer to personal preference thatp of the ops and that of others "

People are entitled to express their preferences.

The thing is starting a thread inviting people to give opinions on people's body parts doesn't gel with the comment about the most important thing to the OP being people being happy in their own bodies

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"Where do you stand on flaps?"

I've never actually seen flaps wide enough for me to stand on

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By *inion42Man
over a year ago

minionland


"So....not a thread about aircraft "

Hahahah That was the first thing I thought of

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By *inion42Man
over a year ago

minionland

The only thing you should be worried about flaps is that that work at all angles 10/15/20/30/45 degrees or otherwise you won’t be having a nice day with the aircraft

Every person is different and we are all shapes and sizes, its not all about visual attraction or body parts, we all need the mind stimulated too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion

Detachable labia is the way forward. Once I decide if press studs or velcro would be best I'm bringing that shit to Dragon's Den"

Design both I reckon, the fashion conscious can use the studs almost like diamonds or badges. Tougher install though

The "time is or the essence" linkden types can go velcro. Much easier install.

I can't wait for detachable penises all shapes, sizes and colours will open up.

As for OP's post..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion

Detachable labia is the way forward. Once I decide if press studs or velcro would be best I'm bringing that shit to Dragon's Den

Design both I reckon, the fashion conscious can use the studs almost like diamonds or badges. Tougher install though

The "time is or the essence" linkden types can go velcro. Much easier install.

I can't wait for detachable penises all shapes, sizes and colours will open up.

As for OP's post.. "

I've seen vans advertising a company called Snap on Tools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion

Detachable labia is the way forward. Once I decide if press studs or velcro would be best I'm bringing that shit to Dragon's Den

Design both I reckon, the fashion conscious can use the studs almost like diamonds or badges. Tougher install though

The "time is or the essence" linkden types can go velcro. Much easier install.

I can't wait for detachable penises all shapes, sizes and colours will open up.

As for OP's post..

I've seen vans advertising a company called Snap on Tools "

You mean they're already available?? Amazon wishlist here I go

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By *alwayVixenWoman
over a year ago

Galway

What about foreskins? Some are tight and others are long and dangly - why would it make any difference during oral sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flaps ,

13 again ,i remember someone calling them beef curtains, seen some beautiful ones in my time , they are the wrapping on some sweet Presents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do you stand on flaps? Personally I'm at two minds, like the looks of em but can kinda get in the way when giving oral... just curious as to how everyone else feels about them, most important thing is that a woman feels comfortable with their own body... in my opinion"
try pullin on it gently to ye see does it slide out a bit cud be a bit o an oul welly an she deffo be uncomfortable.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant

Seems to me to refer to personal preference thatp of the ops and that of others

People are entitled to express their preferences.

The thing is starting a thread inviting people to give opinions on people's body parts doesn't gel with the comment about the most important thing to the OP being people being happy in their own bodies "

People are intitled to ask others about their preferences too.. in what way is asking others there thoughts akin to discouraging people to be happy with themselves?

Its an assumption based on our own biases that fill in the gaps between asking about peoples preferences and then assuming meaning behind it being something of a body shame for woman.

The op never said anything to indicate it not geling in the way he sees it. That part was added by people choosing to interpret it to suit their needs/beliefs.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"What about foreskins? Some are tight and others are long and dangly - why would it make any difference during oral sex? "

Totally makes a difference to some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant

Seems to me to refer to personal preference thatp of the ops and that of others

People are entitled to express their preferences.

The thing is starting a thread inviting people to give opinions on people's body parts doesn't gel with the comment about the most important thing to the OP being people being happy in their own bodies

People are intitled to ask others about their preferences too.. in what way is asking others there thoughts akin to discouraging people to be happy with themselves?

Its an assumption based on our own biases that fill in the gaps between asking about peoples preferences and then assuming meaning behind it being something of a body shame for woman.

The op never said anything to indicate it not geling in the way he sees it. That part was added by people choosing to interpret it to suit their needs/beliefs. "

I didn't say he was body shaming anyone.

Starting a discussion about if people like or don't like a part of someone else's body however isn't promoting body confidence it's opening the door to negative remarks which wil be read by someone who may already feel self conscious

Its not an assumption based on bias it a conclusion based on years of experience reading how these threads go. Be it dick size, body hair, body shape etc....

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant

Seems to me to refer to personal preference thatp of the ops and that of others

People are entitled to express their preferences.

The thing is starting a thread inviting people to give opinions on people's body parts doesn't gel with the comment about the most important thing to the OP being people being happy in their own bodies

People are intitled to ask others about their preferences too.. in what way is asking others there thoughts akin to discouraging people to be happy with themselves?

Its an assumption based on our own biases that fill in the gaps between asking about peoples preferences and then assuming meaning behind it being something of a body shame for woman.

The op never said anything to indicate it not geling in the way he sees it. That part was added by people choosing to interpret it to suit their needs/beliefs.

I didn't say he was body shaming anyone.

Starting a discussion about if people like or don't like a part of someone else's body however isn't promoting body confidence it's opening the door to negative remarks which wil be read by someone who may already feel self conscious

Its not an assumption based on bias it a conclusion based on years of experience reading how these threads go. Be it dick size, body hair, body shape etc...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant

Seems to me to refer to personal preference thatp of the ops and that of others

People are entitled to express their preferences.

The thing is starting a thread inviting people to give opinions on people's body parts doesn't gel with the comment about the most important thing to the OP being people being happy in their own bodies

People are intitled to ask others about their preferences too.. in what way is asking others there thoughts akin to discouraging people to be happy with themselves?

Its an assumption based on our own biases that fill in the gaps between asking about peoples preferences and then assuming meaning behind it being something of a body shame for woman.

The op never said anything to indicate it not geling in the way he sees it. That part was added by people choosing to interpret it to suit their needs/beliefs.

I didn't say he was body shaming anyone.

Starting a discussion about if people like or don't like a part of someone else's body however isn't promoting body confidence it's opening the door to negative remarks which wil be read by someone who may already feel self conscious

Its not an assumption based on bias it a conclusion based on years of experience reading how these threads go. Be it dick size, body hair, body shape etc.... "

Ah bollocks ,

Your man with the arse out is a shit stirrer, 99% of the time , but not this time.

.

.

The OP was not disrespectful at all.

No white knights needed on this one

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant

Seems to me to refer to personal preference thatp of the ops and that of others

People are entitled to express their preferences.

The thing is starting a thread inviting people to give opinions on people's body parts doesn't gel with the comment about the most important thing to the OP being people being happy in their own bodies

People are intitled to ask others about their preferences too.. in what way is asking others there thoughts akin to discouraging people to be happy with themselves?

Its an assumption based on our own biases that fill in the gaps between asking about peoples preferences and then assuming meaning behind it being something of a body shame for woman.

The op never said anything to indicate it not geling in the way he sees it. That part was added by people choosing to interpret it to suit their needs/beliefs.

I didn't say he was body shaming anyone.

Starting a discussion about if people like or don't like a part of someone else's body however isn't promoting body confidence it's opening the door to negative remarks which wil be read by someone who may already feel self conscious

Its not an assumption based on bias it a conclusion based on years of experience reading how these threads go. Be it dick size, body hair, body shape etc...."

So should you not ask then because people will draw their on conclusions on the meaning ?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I get ya bud ... you think the most important thing is a woman being happy with herself...your personal preference in your type is not to big .

I can see how your preference shouldn't be a reason for a woman's lack of self-esteem.

Its not like you say that one is better or worse ... you just have personal preference.

Me ... I love em .. I like neat and tidy yet I also find longer very sexy too .. also would love to experience pumped some time

If this was just a thread about personal preference the rest of the post is completely redundant

Seems to me to refer to personal preference thatp of the ops and that of others

People are entitled to express their preferences.

The thing is starting a thread inviting people to give opinions on people's body parts doesn't gel with the comment about the most important thing to the OP being people being happy in their own bodies

People are intitled to ask others about their preferences too.. in what way is asking others there thoughts akin to discouraging people to be happy with themselves?

Its an assumption based on our own biases that fill in the gaps between asking about peoples preferences and then assuming meaning behind it being something of a body shame for woman.

The op never said anything to indicate it not geling in the way he sees it. That part was added by people choosing to interpret it to suit their needs/beliefs.

I didn't say he was body shaming anyone.

Starting a discussion about if people like or don't like a part of someone else's body however isn't promoting body confidence it's opening the door to negative remarks which wil be read by someone who may already feel self conscious

Its not an assumption based on bias it a conclusion based on years of experience reading how these threads go. Be it dick size, body hair, body shape etc....

So should you not ask then because people will draw their on conclusions on the meaning ? "

My point is that no where did the op indicate that he dosnt support people feeling comfortable with their bodies, nor did he mean to cause anyone to feel bad(i gather) by stating his preference and asking for others.

If people choose to take up such a question or even the posing of such a question negatively, that comes from them .

Marshall b Rosenberg

Although the behavior of another person may be the catalyst of our emotions, they are not the source. Instead, our answers decide how we feel about what we are taught by individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second bag of pop corn

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