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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it It's happened a few times now so For the ladies how do you feel about it And men does it actually get you anywhere " I thought pet names where used when 16 years old | |||
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"Pet peeve of mine -Hun ,Babe ,Chic !" Yes I definitely agree with you | |||
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"Unless we are talking about some kinky roleplay" no wasn't even that was literally hello bubs makes me grit my teeth | |||
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"I only use pet names for people I really know and get on with. Wouldn't use it in open messages or on first meets, feels weird and I think it makes me sound like a dickhead " It definitely sent the dickhead vibe my way when I opened the message from him | |||
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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it It's happened a few times now so For the ladies how do you feel about it And men does it actually get you anywhere " Princess | |||
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"If its foxy you were thinking of that's not a problem but love honey darling they really erk me unless you know me it's not appropriate " Note to self....don't call vixen any of the above....lol | |||
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"If its foxy you were thinking of that's not a problem but love honey darling they really erk me unless you know me it's not appropriate " In Limerick, everyone is 'luv' or 'hun' regardless of their gender, age or place | |||
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"If its foxy you were thinking of that's not a problem but love honey darling they really erk me unless you know me it's not appropriate In Limerick, everyone is 'luv' or 'hun' regardless of their gender, age or place " It's a figure of speech up here too and especially in Belfast. Women call everyone including strangers "luv" or "hun" and men call everyone "mate". The one that bugs me is "alright lad" from someone half my age | |||
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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it It's happened a few times now so For the ladies how do you feel about it And men does it actually get you anywhere " I don't and never have used pet names , they are something that are just not my way. | |||
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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it It's happened a few times now so For the ladies how do you feel about it And men does it actually get you anywhere " Perhaps if your age range was wider you would get more mature messages from more mature men without those silly pet names | |||
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"I don’t think sexy is a pet name like him or love or chick Doesn’t everyone want to be sexy?? Not a pet name user myself" Gotta agree, I refer to women and couples as sexy when I think they are wouldn’t think it upsets. Like to keep playful pet names for people I’ve been intimate with, more for fun and to show the connection and they generally like it. Think it’s more when a stranger uses pet names it feels condescending or empty as there’s no previous connection. | |||
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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it It's happened a few times now so For the ladies how do you feel about it And men does it actually get you anywhere Perhaps if your age range was wider you would get more mature messages from more mature men without those silly pet names" I can only speak for myself and not the OP but, in my experience, pet names are not solely the preserve of younger men. | |||
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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it It's happened a few times now so For the ladies how do you feel about it And men does it actually get you anywhere " Its creepy and misogynistic imo... At the same time I know some people mean noting more than endearment by it.. for others a habit or ice breaker .. Those who keep doing it after you ask to stop ... thats just sleezy | |||
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"If its foxy you were thinking of that's not a problem but love honey darling they really erk me unless you know me it's not appropriate In Limerick, everyone is 'luv' or 'hun' regardless of their gender, age or place " Same | |||
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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it It's happened a few times now so For the ladies how do you feel about it And men does it actually get you anywhere Perhaps if your age range was wider you would get more mature messages from more mature men without those silly pet names" Subtle | |||
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"If its foxy you were thinking of that's not a problem but love honey darling they really erk me unless you know me it's not appropriate In Limerick, everyone is 'luv' or 'hun' regardless of their gender, age or place " Eh? No they're not. | |||
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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it " A man using a pet name in an opening message to a woman he doesn't even know on a swingers website, is likely to be a man in the same subset of men also complaining that they don't have much luck with women on here. *draws a venn diagram for illustration purposes* | |||
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"So this is about pet names it's only men that have done it and it really drives me mad an opening message using a pet name and when you tell them to stop they keep using it It's happened a few times now so For the ladies how do you feel about it And men does it actually get you anywhere " If you don’t know someone then I don’t think you should be calling them a pet name. Usually my message will read “hey there how’s it going” If a woman calls me a pet name all well and good and can go from there | |||
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"If its foxy you were thinking of that's not a problem but love honey darling they really erk me unless you know me it's not appropriate In Limerick, everyone is 'luv' or 'hun' regardless of their gender, age or place It's a figure of speech up here too and especially in Belfast. Women call everyone including strangers "luv" or "hun" and men call everyone "mate". The one that bugs me is "alright lad" from someone half my age" Or young lads (teens )serving you in a shop and asking "Do you need a bag love" | |||
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"If it's from people I know and like than I don't mind I tend to use them with people I'm close to. But from strangers it is a definite no and a turn off. " Same.... For me, my nicknames are a sign of affection, trust and knowledge, both recieved and given... But from strangers.... ewwwww | |||
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"I sumtimes get misconstrued for useing "lovely". But being welsh i use it all the time, in work, with friends, strangers. Wether they are 16 or 80 its a habit. "You ok lovely", "can I help you lovely", So if I ever offend i hope you understand its not a pet name but a speach habit. " After living in England for quite a few years using "my lovely/my lovelies" is a habit I acquired too but its still not something I'd use in an opening message to someone I'd had no previous contact with. It's liberally used elsewhere though | |||
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