FabSwingers.com forum: Would you prefer a FB or a FWB

By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I have often thought of the difference between a FB and a FWB as I've had both.

My preference is definitely a FWB as I think it adds a few layers past the pure physicality of a FB.

Any thoughts ?

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Belfast, Dublin

It’s like asking a man dying of thirst whether he’d prefer still or sparkling water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s like asking a man dying of thirst whether he’d prefer still or sparkling water"

I never understood people wanting sparkling water. Although that is off thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s like asking a man dying of thirst whether he’d prefer still or sparkling water

I never understood people wanting sparkling water. Although that is off thread."

Never enjoyed sparkling water myself. On topic, a FWB is ideal.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

At this stage id take either(not water who da fook drinks sparking water)

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By *attooed.dadbodMan
over a year ago

The light between the oceans

Fb... Its a simpler arrangement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this stage id take either(not water who da fook drinks sparking water)

Well said. For me FB and FWB have always turned out to be the same thing.

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"At this stage id take either(not water who da fook drinks sparking water)

Well said. For me FB and FWB have always turned out to be the same thing."

I think there's a huge difference. FB is 100% physical whereas FWB has many more layers and not just the physical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like one of each but more favoured to the fwb

Flavoured sparkling water with lots of ice please

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Always FWB with the emphasis on the Friendship. I won't be anyone's bootycall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always FWB with the emphasis on the Friendship. I won't be anyone's bootycall

100% agree with that... although it would probably depend on who the bootycall is from though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

Definately fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fb... Its a simpler arrangement "

I have to agree saves any blurred lines

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"At this stage id take either(not water who da fook drinks sparking water)

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I do.lol

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I can't get either so It doesn't matter what I call it

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Definitely fwb

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I can't get either so It doesn't matter what I call it

Don't give up, there is someone for everyone. Be positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FB, my life is already full

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Tír na nÓg

Fwb... Much better the layers of friendship that build plus make the benefits better. Imo.

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

FWB every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have to say FWB would be my first choice but if Sandra Bullock wanted to be a FB then I wouldn't say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddy works best for me .. fuck then fuck off home lol.. FWB can lead to emotions and its not worth the hassle or drama

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

"Fuck buddy works best for me .. fuck then fuck off home lol.. FWB can lead to emotions and its not worth the hassle or drama "

Agreed

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By *xBelMorriganMan
over a year ago

Dublin

FWB for sure - having a more emotional closeness makes the benefits of a friendship infinitely better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with a FB as well as a FWB..... FWB is the winner hands down... The intimacy feels that much more awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fwb... Much better the layers of friendship that build plus make the benefits better. Imo."

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I want sexual intercourse . Labels are not that relevant.

And sparkling water . I am not paying for expensive tap water .

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

Coming from a fairly amoral prick oddly enough i find it hard to know if i could have a fuck buddy that i wasnt to some degree friendly with.

Its hard to be intimate on multiple occasions with someone you dont have any chemistry with (that sex alone chemistry only lasts so long).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fwb normally seems to turn into bf gf. fb is easier but it depends on the girl of course

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By *annah HuntWoman
over a year ago

One of each. Please and thanks

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By *otorman20021Man
over a year ago

East Cork

FWB is simply that, it’s someone you can have fun with both inside and outside the bedroom or wherever the mood takes you

. If that leads to the odd dinner date or cinema date then that’s even better. Once everyone knows from the start what each individual wants.

It’s very hard to find the right balance of FWB without someone getting too involved but I still think it’s better than FB. I’m not a robot and can’t just perform on command without getting to know someone and having that connection while being with them.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Fwbs for me I like long drawn out sessions not just a quick fk and go! So yeh fwbs for nights away meeting other couples would be pretty awesome but I ain't holding out for that! Just enjoying fab to the fullest xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Always FWB for me. There is more to life than sex.

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

id take anything at this stage.

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast

A fwb would be good.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I currently have a friend, whom I have known for a couple of years and with whom I get on very well and appear to have quite a lot in common, whom I think will make the transition to the status of a FWB in the near future; I suspect from hints that have been dropped that she may be into threesomes and possibly also double-penetration, which will be interesting!

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By *nquisitive ladyWoman
over a year ago

meath

Definitely FWB.

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By *antis tMan
over a year ago

Dublin3

Fwb defo rather hang have fun chat and know each other. And be casual.

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By *illerQueen1Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

FWB I love those layers.

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By *azzaman1970Man
over a year ago

Belfast

For some of the lovely ladies on here I would be either but I think I’m gonna die of thirst. And I would drink sparkling or still water

it’s been a bit of a drought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I though I had a FB, but she told me she was my FWB. Then I fell in love and we've been going out a year so I'm not the right man to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB definately. Hard to find though!

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

I can't separate the two. I couldn't just fuck someone I don't feel anything for as a person. It's just going through the motions then.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Old bog road

FWB always. Its so much more satisfying. And I know some people shy away from emotional involvement. Having feelings, falling in love,... You dont have to act on them, feel the connection and be truly fully alive.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Besides they're just labels, the borders between FB and FWB are blurred. I'd see myself somewhere in between, I don't want the hassle of an 'almost-relationship' and yet I like good connection when engaging with someone.

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By *littlteBitMoreWoman
over a year ago

Scotland

"Always FWB with the emphasis on the Friendship. I won't be anyone's bootycall

Deffo

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By *haggyherhimCouple
over a year ago

Longford

FWB works for us ..

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By *lavemale66Man
over a year ago

Carlow

My preference would be the elusive FWB, as others have said I would like some connection.

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

defo fwb.something casual..

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Settle for a ride .... miss ya after though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB ONLY!

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By *ookiemonster2Man
over a year ago

westmeath offaly everywhere

Either ither can be blurred lines between both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have often thought of the difference between a FB and a FWB as I've had both.

My preference is definitely a FWB as I think it adds a few layers past the pure physicality of a FB.

Any thoughts ?"

I couldn't shag someone I didn't like. It just wouldn't happen dor me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At this stage id take either(not water who da fook drinks sparking water)

Me lol

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By *un on fabMan
over a year ago

Mallow

A fwb would be ideal. I had one before, great memories.

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By *ir SnakebitesMan
over a year ago

Newry

I prefer FWB as i do enjoy the connection and friendship too

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
over a year ago

From a galaxy far far away

FWB

Anyone can be a FB

It takes more to be a FWB x

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By *ootyliciousladiesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

athlone, dundalk, drogheda and somewhere in between

Definitely fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs naughty looking for a FWB.. love to hear from a hottie who fits the bill

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By *ickyAthleticMan
over a year ago

Galway

Interesting that the guys say fb but most women say fwb

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By *mazballs69Man
over a year ago

Countryside

Having been here and S4I for a few years and having both FWB's and FB's. I would have to say that FWB is by far the best. There is the excitement the 1st time with a FB but after that it's more about gratification than anything else. Whereas with a FWB there is a chance to build up the layers as said above and with that a connection and comfort with each other that leads to trust and the willingness to experiment with each other more. So definitely FWB for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time this arose for me, I misread the situation and thought it was someone looking for a friend ON benefits...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

What about a Friend And Benefits

F.A.B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thundercocks Are Go

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By *overs65Couple
over a year ago

mullingar

FWB kinda guys here

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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime

Fwb I wouldn't be able to physical with someone I didn't have some connection with. Just who I am. X

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

"Having been here and S4I for a few years and having both FWB's and FB's. I would have to say that FWB is by far the best. There is the excitement the 1st time with a FB but after that it's more about gratification than anything else. Whereas with a FWB there is a chance to build up the layers as said above and with that a connection and comfort with each other that leads to trust and the willingness to experiment with each other more. So definitely FWB for me"

Shame your so far away.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

As one merchant seaman to another, in a dodgy bar near the docks: Any port in a storm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a fb. She’s a lot younger so we have zero in common except we both really enjoy sex. We meet simply to have sex then leave. Works great.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I've been thinking about this and I think I would love a fwb somone I can have a laugh with and let me do my own thing as well...

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By *otorman20021Man
over a year ago

East Cork

"I've been thinking about this and I think I would love a fwb somone I can have a laugh with and let me do my own thing as well..."

Absolutely correct, it’s just a pity I’m in Cork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fb is not enough for me, I like to make a connection to fully enjoy a person in my bed.

I think I fall a little beyond fwb as I don't do open arrangements.

Life is crazy busy for me atm and I would never want to let anyone down so would hold off on a full bf/gf thing for a time.

But I know myself & I really only thrive in a safer scenario so would need a certain level of commitment to relax and open up within.

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By *mazballs69Man
over a year ago

Countryside

Shame your so far away.

It is a massive shame but if I'm ever in your part of this beautiful country then we could meet up for a coffee or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB... The connection makes sex better

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

Shame your so far away.

It is a massive shame but if I'm ever in your part of this beautiful country then we could meet up for a coffee or something

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or something mmmm. I need to move back to Cavan lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both prefer to have our own FWB. Tried the FB & just too mechanical, no intimacy or excitement.

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By *itygirl69Woman
over a year ago

Limerick

Oh definately FWB!!

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By *ezoMan
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"Would have to say FWB would be my first choice but if Sandra Bullock wanted to be a FB then I wouldn't say no

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