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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have been swinging a couple of years now and I can't see myself giving it up as I have had much more fun on here than on the vanilla scene. As a single guy I still keep my options open in the vanilla world like tinder etc and go on some dates. Always wondered when and how you reveal that you are a swinger? First date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends what you are looking for.. i wouldnt be disclosing it to a muggle too quicjly tbh myself.

If you want to have a relationship with someone why not consider dating a fab lady? There is a dating group (have a search through the forums).

Mrs S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally,I think it's best to be upfront about the desire to remain sexually non-monogamous. It doesn't have to be first date, but definitely should be broached as soon as you feel there might be a possibility of a future with the person. To do otherwise is dishonest to both parties.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Would it be your intention to continue NSA sex after you met this potential partner, or would you be willing to go monogamous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suppose it depends what you are looking for.. i wouldnt be disclosing it to a muggle too quicjly tbh myself.

If you want to have a relationship with someone why not consider dating a fab lady? There is a dating group (have a search through the forums).

Mrs S x"

I don't think I could ever go back to the non monogamous scene and defiantly agree that not all muggles will ever understand or get the swinging scene. A swinging partner would be perfect but have tried the dating group and just not my thing with the kik group going off every second

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally,I think it's best to be upfront about the desire to remain sexually non-monogamous. It doesn't have to be first date, but definitely should be broached as soon as you feel there might be a possibility of a future with the person. To do otherwise is dishonest to both parties."

So I have been chatting to a nice girl on tinder and told her last night that I am a swinger. She appreciated me being upfront but just had no interest in it. Being honest is defo best policy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would it be your intention to continue NSA sex after you met this potential partner, or would you be willing to go monogamous?"

Before I was introduced to fab I had been in a long term monogamous relationship and thinking about it now, no way going back to it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Would it be your intention to continue NSA sex after you met this potential partner, or would you be willing to go monogamous?

Before I was introduced to fab I had been in a long term monogamous relationship and thinking about it now, no way going back to it "

..then you need to be fairly up front about it. No need to say on a first date, but if it looks like proper relationship is possible then say it before they develop strong feelings. It's not fair to pull the rug out from underneath her once she really likes you because it's likely to be an issue. Not so many singletons would be happy with sharing so don't waste her time or your own

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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime

Ya I mean you aren't exclusive at first dates stages let them get to know you first a bit and then early days id say your looking for a open relationship but I think saying it initially could scare off potential partners who may understand and fab life once its explained in real life. I think "muggles" (love that term) could have a opinion of swingers lifestyles that might just not apply.

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