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By *xplicit OP   Man
over a year ago

donegal

Has a veri ever completely changed your opinion of someone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1000%

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Yes totally

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By *itchIsBoredWoman
over a year ago

hormone city central

Xxp....... how long r u here now

Veries r as fake as fook lol I've wrote absolute horrific for the fake ppl they belong to and reported as fake

Still here tho

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By *xplicit OP   Man
over a year ago

donegal

Think sometimes it’s the fact they display them that tells the tale

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By *itchIsBoredWoman
over a year ago

hormone city central


"Think sometimes it’s the fact they display them that tells the tale"

I personally love the veri display, been varied by 200 and show 3, red flag for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to make my own opinion, I've met people who had great veris ( than again noone posts bad ones) but what you like in one person might not be liked by someone else.

The only benefit of them I find it helps to avoid some drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris can show a profile up as total sanitised fiction

Just as pics do

I look at the big picture added to my own interactions with them and draw my own conclusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are a good rough guide though, right?

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"they are a good rough guide though, right? "
chatting is the best guide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they are a good rough guide though, right? chatting is the best guide "

Nothing would convince me to forget or overlook what has been posted by the fabber themselves

It's their own choice to post so they stand over it in doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they are a good rough guide though, right? chatting is the best guide

Nothing would convince me to forget or overlook what has been posted by the fabber themselves

It's their own choice to post so they stand over it in doing so"

*desperately checks profile cover note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veri's prove you are real , they allow you to join in on forums etc , some women only allow people that are verified to message them , party invitations are only to verified people, they have their advantages ok.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"Veri's prove you are real , they allow you to join in on forums etc , some women only allow people that are verified to message them , party invitations are only to verified people, they have their advantages ok."

You see, I used to belive this also. But I've questioned it lately. Unfortunately they do not prove that you're real. Maybe those from individuals do. But veris from clubs or large party or social organisers are often questionable!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've seen veris given by people to fabbers they have literally spent months demonising in private and in chatgroups and I wonder what their angle is?

I've seen some describing others as kind and respectful while seemingly oblivious to the fact that just a few weeks beforehand those kind and respectful lovelies were describing them as hideous.

As already said by others I make my own mind up about people which usually means that the veri itself isn't off-putting but who it's from often is.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Veri's prove you are real , they allow you to join in on forums etc , some women only allow people that are verified to message them , party invitations are only to verified people, they have their advantages ok.

You see, I used to belive this also. But I've questioned it lately. Unfortunately they do not prove that you're real. Maybe those from individuals do. But veris from clubs or large party or social organisers are often questionable!"

There are a few people with an unpleasant history on here who have coupled up just long enough to get invited to socials and parties simply for the veries.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Generally I'd look at who gave the veris n try decipher if their genuine but chatting n a social are the only methods of being 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A veri has never completely changed my opinion of someone.

They have certainly confirmed it at times.

The more technology available ie every app having video calls etc...

Should be making them more and more redundant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris tell me several things

How inclined the author is to ridiculous hyperbole

That someone attended a club or social and spoke for no more than 5 minutes each time to a large number of people

That people like coffee and gossip

That someone's acquaintances here are largely assholes and, well.....

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Another thread for the fab forum ‘won’t meet, don’t meet’ glitterati to rubbish verifications.

For ourselves, and the other couples we’ve spoken to pre and post play, verifications are an extremely important part of the filtering process. Obviously we haven’t spoken or played with every serious couple on here but from our experience the importance of verifications is universally acknowledged - totally at odds with the negative feedback any forum thread will generate.

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By *xplicit OP   Man
over a year ago

donegal


"Another thread for the fab forum ‘won’t meet, don’t meet’ glitterati to rubbish verifications.

For ourselves, and the other couples we’ve spoken to pre and post play, verifications are an extremely important part of the filtering process. Obviously we haven’t spoken or played with every serious couple on here but from our experience the importance of verifications is universally acknowledged - totally at odds with the negative feedback any forum thread will generate."

Fair enough..but..to the moot point , has a veri completely changed your previously formed opinion on someone either positively or negatively?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it has. Spotted some great looking guys with decent profiles and then read the veris. Not a hope in hell if some specific people verified them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it has. Spotted some great looking guys with decent profiles and then read the veris. Not a hope in hell if some specific people verified them. "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it has. Spotted some great looking guys with decent profiles and then read the veris. Not a hope in hell if some specific people verified them. "

Also for this reason

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By *alticAegeanCouple
over a year ago

Athens, Greece

Some here seem to think that 100 verifications are better than 10... like someone is 10 times realER because of that... ??

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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime

I do read the verifications, I then go on to read who gave them, and who has verified them. I don't know enough about who to judge who verifications came from to let them put me off, but I do feel a little bit more informed to make my own decision. What does cause me pause for thought, and it could be people just not wanting to broadcast thier business but when some one has several verifications but are not on display?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Veris are a great source of information especially when you read between the lines and around them. To me they're an important puzzle part in the selection process.

Have I changed my opinion based on a veri only? No. I would never decide to meet someone based on veris only. However I could imagine to avoid someone because of 'the wrong veri'.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Another thread for the fab forum ‘won’t meet, don’t meet’ glitterati to rubbish verifications.

For ourselves, and the other couples we’ve spoken to pre and post play, verifications are an extremely important part of the filtering process. Obviously we haven’t spoken or played with every serious couple on here but from our experience the importance of verifications is universally acknowledged - totally at odds with the negative feedback any forum thread will generate."

This. We wouldn't often engage with unverifieds. I never understand why they are nearly universally rubbished on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do read the verifications, I then go on to read who gave them, and who has verified them. I don't know enough about who to judge who verifications came from to let them put me off, but I do feel a little bit more informed to make my own decision. What does cause me pause for thought, and it could be people just not wanting to broadcast thier business but when some one has several verifications but are not on display?"

I only have a few on display and will probably hide them soon. I keep mine private firstly as they all social veris people don't want to read the same stuff over and over. Secondly I have had random messages accusing me of been a time waster as none state that I could fuck for hours or I suck like a Dyson, had the summary up and was told I must be riddled with stis as I've slept with half the site.

You can't win

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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime


"I do read the verifications, I then go on to read who gave them, and who has verified them. I don't know enough about who to judge who verifications came from to let them put me off, but I do feel a little bit more informed to make my own decision. What does cause me pause for thought, and it could be people just not wanting to broadcast thier business but when some one has several verifications but are not on display?

I only have a few on display and will probably hide them soon. I keep mine private firstly as they all social veris people don't want to read the same stuff over and over. Secondly I have had random messages accusing me of been a time waster as none state that I could fuck for hours or I suck like a Dyson, had the summary up and was told I must be riddled with stis as I've slept with half the site.

You can't win "

I get you I understand people have their reasons for not displaying, its good you know your own good qualities though x

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

For us:

Veri(s) better than no Veri.

Play Veri better than social veri.

Recent Veri better than years old veri.

Veri from another verified profile better than Veri from single veri exchange profile or hidden profile.

If verified by another profile we are attracted to it’s better than a Veri from a profile that wouldn’t attract us (or even repulsed by).

If verified by a couple we know and like, that’d be a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us:

Veri(s) better than no Veri.

Play Veri better than social veri.

Recent Veri better than years old veri.

Veri from another verified profile better than Veri from single veri exchange profile or hidden profile.

If verified by another profile we are attracted to it’s better than a Veri from a profile that wouldn’t attract us (or even repulsed by).

If verified by a couple we know and like, that’d be a bonus."

Complicated stuff .. people will look at veri's whatever way they choose ,they do give an insight to a person but that never means someone else is attracted to them , veri's for me as l said earlier allow access to the forums , prove that you are real ,allows to communicate with other women that only talk to verified people , other than that veri's to me are between people and don't have to be open to anyone else , l know people who have meet and neither put a verification up as it's no one else's business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's tastes are different but you wouldn't post a bad veri on your page anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone's tastes are different but you wouldn't post a bad veri on your page anyway "

Yup, that's true.

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork


"For us:

Veri(s) better than no Veri.

Play Veri better than social veri.

Recent Veri better than years old veri.

Veri from another verified profile better than Veri from single veri exchange profile or hidden profile.

If verified by another profile we are attracted to it’s better than a Veri from a profile that wouldn’t attract us (or even repulsed by).

If verified by a couple we know and like, that’d be a bonus.

Complicated stuff .. people will look at veri's whatever way they choose ,they do give an insight to a person but that never means someone else is attracted to them , veri's for me as l said earlier allow access to the forums , prove that you are real ,allows to communicate with other women that only talk to verified people , other than that veri's to me are between people and don't have to be open to anyone else , l know people who have meet and neither put a verification up as it's no one else's business."

Not complicated at all in our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are veris really the be all and end all? Like if you’re meeting someone for the first time… what does it matter?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No someone's veris have never made me change my mind about them.They have at times solidified what I already knew about someone but that's about it.

On the rare occasion they have made me decide not to take things farther in order to avoid drama that goes on in the background.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Are veris really the be all and end all? Like if you’re meeting someone for the first time… what does it matter? "

If you're meeting someone that you've never met before then meet verifications help to show that the person is willing to meet in person (because they already met someone before) and are approximately as their profile indicates they are. Meeting someone unverified is more of a gamble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us:

Veri(s) better than no Veri.

Play Veri better than social veri.

Recent Veri better than years old veri.

Veri from another verified profile better than Veri from single veri exchange profile or hidden profile.

If verified by another profile we are attracted to it’s better than a Veri from a profile that wouldn’t attract us (or even repulsed by).

If verified by a couple we know and like, that’d be a bonus.

Complicated stuff .. people will look at veri's whatever way they choose ,they do give an insight to a person but that never means someone else is attracted to them , veri's for me as l said earlier allow access to the forums , prove that you are real ,allows to communicate with other women that only talk to verified people , other than that veri's to me are between people and don't have to be open to anyone else , l know people who have meet and neither put a verification up as it's no one else's business.

Not complicated at all in our opinion."

I know ...it was a joke ..note the laughing emoji's .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are veris really the be all and end all? Like if you’re meeting someone for the first time… what does it matter?

If you're meeting someone that you've never met before then meet verifications help to show that the person is willing to meet in person (because they already met someone before) and are approximately as their profile indicates they are. Meeting someone unverified is more of a gamble."

I get that but 1. This is open to manipulation and 2. It’s 2022 and the age of Snapchat, insta etc, you’re not going to get catfished unless you’re a complete idiot.

i have an experienced fab couple messaging me and they want to meet, but won’t send me a face pic and want me to host a social at mine. Oh and they also send about two words in each message, insist on speaking on kik and are well verified… but it’s me that’s the dodgy one!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Are veris really the be all and end all? Like if you’re meeting someone for the first time… what does it matter?

If you're meeting someone that you've never met before then meet verifications help to show that the person is willing to meet in person (because they already met someone before) and are approximately as their profile indicates they are. Meeting someone unverified is more of a gamble.

I get that but 1. This is open to manipulation and 2. It’s 2022 and the age of Snapchat, insta etc, you’re not going to get catfished unless you’re a complete idiot.

i have an experienced fab couple messaging me and they want to meet, but won’t send me a face pic and want me to host a social at mine. Oh and they also send about two words in each message, insist on speaking on kik and are well verified… but it’s me that’s the dodgy one! "

Expecting another to host a social at that person's home, when you've never met before, would be a massive red flag for me personally, regardless of whether you're a woman or a man doing the hosting!

I know there are many who won't share face pics... which is fine if you're ok with it... Mrs

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Are veris really the be all and end all? Like if you’re meeting someone for the first time… what does it matter?

If you're meeting someone that you've never met before then meet verifications help to show that the person is willing to meet in person (because they already met someone before) and are approximately as their profile indicates they are. Meeting someone unverified is more of a gamble.

I get that but 1. This is open to manipulation and 2. It’s 2022 and the age of Snapchat, insta etc, you’re not going to get catfished unless you’re a complete idiot.

i have an experienced fab couple messaging me and they want to meet, but won’t send me a face pic and want me to host a social at mine. Oh and they also send about two words in each message, insist on speaking on kik and are well verified… but it’s me that’s the dodgy one! "

1.. yes its open to manipulation, but more information is always better than less information. It can but help

2.. this isn't about catfishing. Its about someone actually getting off their ass and physically meeting in real life. A video call doesn't give anywhere near the same indication as someone vouching that that met in real life.

Noone is saying your dodgy. My guess is its just that people so far found others a better bet.

You choose whether to accept the terms of someone else or not. They are free to ask that you bring an albino badger with you if they like. You're free to say no and arrange something else.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"For us:

Veri(s) better than no Veri.

Play Veri better than social veri.

Recent Veri better than years old veri.

Veri from another verified profile better than Veri from single veri exchange profile or hidden profile.

If verified by another profile we are attracted to it’s better than a Veri from a profile that wouldn’t attract us (or even repulsed by).

If verified by a couple we know and like, that’d be a bonus.

Complicated stuff .. people will look at veri's whatever way they choose ,they do give an insight to a person but that never means someone else is attracted to them , veri's for me as l said earlier allow access to the forums , prove that you are real ,allows to communicate with other women that only talk to verified people , other than that veri's to me are between people and don't have to be open to anyone else , l know people who have meet and neither put a verification up as it's no one else's business.

Not complicated at all in our opinion."

For me, this is probably the best comment on the post..

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I never judge anyone by there veris I judge them for myself and not by what anyone else says...all meets are gonna be different..

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By *xplicit OP   Man
over a year ago

donegal


"Everyone's tastes are different but you wouldn't post a bad veri on your page anyway "

No but it can be enlightening to see what people will put up for others to read

Anyway, this post hopefully helped a few people realise that veris can be of use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never judge anyone by there veris I judge them for myself and not by what anyone else says...all meets are gonna be different.."

That would be line of thought. The amount of absolute wackos on here, I’d rather use my on intuition. Each to their own and all that, but that along with the massive collective hard-on people have here for using kik are the two biggest flaws with this site.

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