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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay saw this on another forum. If u meet someone more than once is it expected to continue leaving veris or is that really just a first meet thing. I would have thought just for first meet but then I was told it rude not to leave a veri even if u meet a person ten times lol.

Me I'm not sold on that idea so what do u the fab people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought 1 verification is all that's needed between one person and another... Unless you want to change what you previously said for whatever reason... I'm a man that does what he thinks is right, not what everyone else thinks is right!!! XxxxX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And that would have been my idea too but if u look through profiles I've regularly seen several veris by the same profile. Also I myself have met with same guy several times and have been asked how come u left no veri as though its a reflection on his performance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would think 1 veri would be enough as its more about proving u are gen than collecting veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. I would think one veri would be all that's needed.

I see a lot of profiles with multiple veris from the same people.

Jesus move on people! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your going to leave repeat veris make one the coffee meet then do a veri for the naughty meet. I have done it this way. Much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen multiple veris from the same person on some profiles and its more like a declaration of love than a recommendation haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you should leave a new veri Everytime you meet as each meet is different. I.e dogging or hotel meet or 3sum. It also gives other fab members an indication as to who you have been with and also who they have been with aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your going to leave repeat veris make one the coffee meet then do a veri for the naughty meet. I have done it this way. Much easier."

Agree with ur logic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely you should leave a new veri Everytime you meet as each meet is different. I.e dogging or hotel meet or 3sum. It also gives other fab members an indication as to who you have been with and also who they have been with aswell"

But that only applies if each meet is actually a different situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen multiple veris from the same person on some profiles and its more like a declaration of love than a recommendation haha."

Hahaha and for some it's almost like a badge of ownership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you should leave a new veri Everytime you meet as each meet is different. I.e dogging or hotel meet or 3sum. It also gives other fab members an indication as to who you have been with and also who they have been with aswell

But that only applies if each meet is actually a different situation "

Not necessarily as it also shows how active a person is, either it be a meet at short notice or it's a regular thing or midweek meets, if you get me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely you should leave a new veri Everytime you meet as each meet is different. I.e dogging or hotel meet or 3sum. It also gives other fab members an indication as to who you have been with and also who they have been with aswell

But that only applies if each meet is actually a different situation

Not necessarily as it also shows how active a person is, either it be a meet at short notice or it's a regular thing or midweek meets, if you get me"

It's almost like a doctors report of ur sexual partners also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to disagree. I'll admit i had repeat veris on one of my old profiles and yes they were different situations i.e. fem from couple meeting alone etc

It ended up looking like a relationship on the profile lol

I have a fuckbuddy on here. We've met several times each different situations but we have only verified eachother once. More to this site then words on the internet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you should leave a new veri Everytime you meet as each meet is different. I.e dogging or hotel meet or 3sum. It also gives other fab members an indication as to who you have been with and also who they have been with aswell

But that only applies if each meet is actually a different situation

Not necessarily as it also shows how active a person is, either it be a meet at short notice or it's a regular thing or midweek meets, if you get me

It's almost like a doctors report of ur sexual partners also"

It's better safe than sorry as there are a lot of stds going about and by leaving veris you can see exactly who everyone has been with and also who else they have met inbetween and weather or not it was unprotected. It's a nobrainer for me. Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have to disagree. I'll admit i had repeat veris on one of my old profiles and yes they were different situations i.e. fem from couple meeting alone etc

It ended up looking like a relationship on the profile lol

I have a fuckbuddy on here. We've met several times each different situations but we have only verified eachother once. More to this site then words on the internet...."

I think I agree with u tbh once is enough but each to their own and I suppose if asked for a second veri I would have no problem giving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you not be worried about contracting an std? By giving a veri this can be eliminated somewhat. Maybe I'm just mad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone on this site cares about verifications so peoples veris are not an accurate representation of their sexual history. There are risks with having sex with multiple partners so if you are into swinging you have to accept that, the only thing you can do is protect yourself as much as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some people, verifications are like badge collecting,

Or even a statement of prowess! Lol.

Not quite the same if each veri is from the same person!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you not be worried about contracting an std? By giving a veri this can be eliminated somewhat. Maybe I'm just mad lol"

Ever heard of condoms honey

Besides I have yet to see someone say "great in the sack but gave me clap"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you not be worried about contracting an std? By giving a veri this can be eliminated somewhat. Maybe I'm just mad lol

Ever heard of condoms honey

Besides I have yet to see someone say "great in the sack but gave me clap""

Of course I have lol paramount about safety lol. Oh and good point there jess

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By *imples91Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Would you not be worried about contracting an std? By giving a veri this can be eliminated somewhat. Maybe I'm just mad lol"

Not everyone displays every verification they have - some people may have lots but choose only a few to suit themselves. Just because the ones they display say nothing about bareback etc doesn't mean it doesn't happen...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you not be worried about contracting an std? By giving a veri this can be eliminated somewhat. Maybe I'm just mad lol

Not everyone displays every verification they have - some people may have lots but choose only a few to suit themselves. Just because the ones they display say nothing about bareback etc doesn't mean it doesn't happen..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris give stds? Wtf! Lol

I have to see one saying this chap fucked me with no rubber on. Wheres the std arguement come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some I keep hidden some I don't. Each to their own really at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris give stds? Wtf! Lol

I have to see one saying this chap fucked me with no rubber on. Wheres the std arguement come from? "

???

Thought same thing myself!

Hang on,

Verifications.........STD........Condoms!

Oh I see it now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tbh it is down to personal choice as to use protection or not and if I guy is happy to not that's his business equally a woman the same. If the veris were an accurate measure of how many sexual partners a person has had well let's just say I haven't seen much action lol

The point is verify every meet or not and that is also down to personal choice I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not like people are gonna leave negative verification, though I would say that from reading verifications some of the people on this site must possess special fucking powers, everyones a god or goddess if you go by verifications haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not like people are gonna leave negative verification, though I would say that from reading verifications some of the people on this site must possess special fucking powers, everyones a god or goddess if you go by verifications haha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people in this thread don't seem to realise that it's down to individuals which and how many veris they publish on their profile.

Somebody could be meeting every day of the week, and being verified each time, but have just a couple of veris showing on their profile.

Veris can tell you stuff, but there can also be plenty stuff the published ones don't tell you!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people in this thread don't seem to realise that it's down to individuals which and how many veris they publish on their profile.

Somebody could be meeting every day of the week, and being verified each time, but have just a couple of veris showing on their profile.

Veris can tell you stuff, but there can also be plenty stuff the published ones don't tell you!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter If some1 has 1 veri from some1 or 6-7-8 from same person is it really that big of a deal we have veries from couples we have met a few times n always veri them maybe we have tried something nu or maybe differrent setting ie partys we hold or attended or just a meet I don't see y its a prob to have multiple veries from same person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter If some1 has 1 veri from some1 or 6-7-8 from same person is it really that big of a deal we have veries from couples we have met a few times n always veri them maybe we have tried something nu or maybe differrent setting ie partys we hold or attended or just a meet I don't see y its a prob to have multiple veries from same person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one said it mattered. Was just simple question that turned into an actual discussion.

Yes a discussion! A rare thing on this part of the forums anymore....

Well done jessie for actually starting one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well in my book looks like it does matter so many comments about repeat veries I have repeat veries so I feel I have to say something for myself and others who have also, if some1 wants to veri some1 a lot of times personal choice in my book, it was my understandn all the forum posts were discussions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

N I think u r actually contactn me thru forums wen u have me blocked think ul find that's breaking the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it was targeted at anyone. As a user posted above each to their own. Or this thread going to be like that chatroom thread last month?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris give stds? Wtf! Lol

I have to see one saying this chap fucked me with no rubber on. Wheres the std arguement come from?

???

Thought same thing myself!

Hang on,

Verifications.........STD........Condoms!

Oh I see it now!

"

Really fooey cause i sure as fuck don't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No1 said it was targeted at any1 as 1 of the few that have repeat veries I spoke out seems u can't on the forums for the kings of forum start their chatroom taunts again but sure if that's the route ppl like to go down once a chat roomer user comes on huh ppl thinkn they r something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First i taunted no one i stated my opinion which everyone is allowed to do last i checked. If a person can't have a adult discussion without making it personal well they need to grow up a bit.

Secondly you are actually breaking forum rules by contacting me via forums as i'm the one who has you blocked. Not other way round as you state.

Thirdly i have sorry to jessiejumps for her actually interesting thread being hijacked so sorry

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster

can u 2 just not ignore each other and stop with the fighting in the forums. ppl dont really want to see that and its very off putting. ill probably get backlash for this but knock it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually going to say i think your right _abybell.

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster

see i do talk sense sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one said it mattered. Was just simple question that turned into an actual discussion.

Yes a discussion! A rare thing on this part of the forums anymore....

Well done jessie for actually starting one "

Who little old me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well in my book looks like it does matter so many comments about repeat veries I have repeat veries so I feel I have to say something for myself and others who have also, if some1 wants to veri some1 a lot of times personal choice in my book, it was my understandn all the forum posts were discussions"

I agree it is a personal choice I am merely trying to see if anyone could shed a little ray of light on why someone would actually request repeat veris instead of allowing someone that personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well in my book looks like it does matter so many comments about repeat veries I have repeat veries so I feel I have to say something for myself and others who have also, if some1 wants to veri some1 a lot of times personal choice in my book, it was my understandn all the forum posts were discussions

I agree it is a personal choice I am merely trying to see if anyone could shed a little ray of light on why someone would actually request repeat veris instead of allowing someone that personal choice"

Seems you are differentiating from those that request a second third or more verif and those that choose to give each other multiple verifs. I personally dont really care what people put up on their profile or how verifs read. The important thing is they are verifed as who they say they are. And if you have such a good time at a meet why shouldnt you verif as many times as you want? I would never verify someone unless i wanted too nor would i ask someone to verify me after a meet. Its their choice after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we verify a person to show that we have met or cammed whatever and that person is genuine why keep on leaving veris and some of us only show some veris anyway

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By *ardon 69Man
over a year ago

in Laois :-)


"see i do talk sense sometimes lol "

Really Bell FFS i wouldn't have thought so ...lmao

So anyway where's my 4th verifaction??

i want me badge of honour, Jesus ppl are so narrow minded, i couldnt give a hoot if ppl are verified 6 times or once.

And its only my opinion

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster


"see i do talk sense sometimes lol

Really Bell FFS i wouldn't have thought so ...lmao

So anyway where's my 4th verifaction??

i want me badge of honour, Jesus ppl are so narrow minded, i couldnt give a hoot if ppl are verified 6 times or once.

And its only my opinion "

ill do ye one shortly hardon, wot u like me to include u singing at the meet or scaring the bejesus out of some poor absailer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really can't believe the nonsense here, at the end of the day.......does it really matter???

What happened to freedom of choice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a discussion and as for freedom of choice aren't we therefore free to discuss what we please regardless as to whether or not u think it's rubbish

If u have an opinion then feel free to add it rather than criticising other people's opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id love repeat veris from you jesse..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"id love repeat veris from you jesse.."

Mwoah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe tryn to sell them selves to other as maybe they r good to be around or whatever and repeat veries r good as ppl see that they may b friendly with their swinging friends so good way to meet new ppl I think. I always look down veries see who has met who n how many times in pretty sure I'm not the only one on fab to do it. As for requesting veries more than once it up to each other to do so if they want maybe they have tried something nu with a couple or singleton and like to be veried for it too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe tryn to sell them selves to other as maybe they r good to be around or whatever and repeat veries r good as ppl see that they may b friendly with their swinging friends so good way to meet new ppl I think. I always look down veries see who has met who n how many times in pretty sure I'm not the only one on fab to do it. As for requesting veries more than once it up to each other to do so if they want maybe they have tried something nu with a couple or singleton and like to be veried for it too xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

readin all that just brought the hangover from hell headache lol

each to their own no one on here is forced to leave multiple veris if they don,t want too , i,m also one who has a few from the same guy and i did,nt have to twist his balls for him to leave them he done it off his own bk

like chill out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a discussion and as for freedom of choice aren't we therefore free to discuss what we please regardless as to whether or not u think it's rubbish

If u have an opinion then feel free to add it rather than criticising other people's opinions "

Sorry I spoke!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris give stds? Wtf! Lol

I have to see one saying this chap fucked me with no rubber on. Wheres the std arguement come from?

???

Thought same thing myself!

Hang on,

Verifications.........STD........Condoms!

Oh I see it now!

Really fooey cause i sure as fuck don't lol"

Ok il break it down nice an easy for you m8. By reverifying someone other people can see what they have done providing their verifications arnt hidded. I.e after a few meets from the same 2 people they might decide to leave the condoms behind, therefore stds can be spread if you meet any of the couple involved after this, common sence really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hidden*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow jesus simple question and get a snotty answer back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris give stds? Wtf! Lol

I have to see one saying this chap fucked me with no rubber on. Wheres the std arguement come from?

???

Thought same thing myself!

Hang on,

Verifications.........STD........Condoms!

Oh I see it now!

Really fooey cause i sure as fuck don't lol

Ok il break it down nice an easy for you m8. By reverifying someone other people can see what they have done providing their verifications arnt hidded. I.e after a few meets from the same 2 people they might decide to leave the condoms behind, therefore stds can be spread if you meet any of the couple involved after this, common sence really"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow jesus simple question and get a snotty answer back"

Well when you swear at a comment u cnt blame anybody for giving you a straight up answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow jesus simple question and get a snotty answer back

Well when you swear at a comment u cnt blame anybody for giving you a straight up answer"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay guess I opened a can of worms so there isn't any particular etiquette pertaining to veris

We know not all veris are displayed and like everything in life it does come down to a personal choice. All very simple and easy so I'm stepping away from the soapbox and shutting my silly little mouth. Oh and thanks for all the entertaining input guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you didn't open anything...post away...it's great to have new topics here..but there will always be a bit of snapping unfortunately it seems

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you didn't open anything...post away...it's great to have new topics here..but there will always be a bit of snapping unfortunately it seems "

All good fun though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you didn't open anything...post away...it's great to have new topics here..but there will always be a bit of snapping unfortunately it seems

All good fun though lol

"

All fun n games....

Until some pokes someone in the eye!

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you didn't open anything...post away...it's great to have new topics here..but there will always be a bit of snapping unfortunately it seems "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow jesus simple question and get a snotty answer back

Well when you swear at a comment u cnt blame anybody for giving you a straight up answer"

Meh whatevs

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