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So you swing but who knows you do?

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By *evilinsideme OP   Man
over a year ago

Trim

So how open are you with non-fabbers?

Do your vanilla freinds know you swing?

Face pics on a profile, is this going to far in your book, or who cares, it's your life?

Who is the least likely person, you would tell and the one you want to tell the most?

Lastly, why are you so secretive, or not as the case maybe?

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By *pin21Man
over a year ago

Killarney

Some of my friends know. With the exception of work, or my family, I don't really mind who knows. I am single and have no kids, so I'm not effecting anyone as such.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Family knows and supports and some close friends know.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Morning no one knows .n that's the way hopefully it stays to me its a part of my life that's best kept secret the less people know the better Ruby x

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

No people around dont know because its none of their business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, I think it's best kept that way. Even when I'm single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of friends, my son is constantly slaggin oh you away eogh your swinging friends

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

No one only our fellow fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No people around dont know because its none of their business"

This, I've never discussed my sex life with people not involved in it

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"No people around dont know because its none of their business

This, I've never discussed my sex life with people not involved in it"
Secret lovers that’s what we are , Great song for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No people around dont know because its none of their business

This, I've never discussed my sex life with people not involved in itSecret lovers that’s what we are , Great song for life "

Nah, we keep the loving part for ourselves, the rest are just secret fuckers

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By *evilinsideme OP   Man
over a year ago

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So no one has ever turned a vanilla freind into a fun fabber?

Is the swingers lifestyle still so looked down on?

Or just does it make you embarrassed?

When I was more active live, my close friends knew and one or two people I worked with.

I kinda didn't mind as long as my kids didn't find out in a bad way, like someone telling them and being nasty.

Now I'm not really active, so when asked what I did this weekend, saying I went to a swing club or met a load or sexy party goes with little clothing and even less inhibition, would just be a lie...

But I did sometimes tell freinds when asked about it.

One even joined here, but he didn't last long as I believe he was a "cock pic, wanna fuck" type of message sender

He said he just kept getting blocked by ugly fucks... So glad he didn't stick around. He has a wife and her four kids now, and never goes anywhere.

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By *evilinsideme OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Couple of friends, my son is constantly slaggin oh you away eogh your swinging friends"

That's funny, I remember a lass a very longtime ago, before I joined, she was always boasting she loved to party in front of her son to embarrass him. He was 20 ISH and big mommies boy.

Was never sure if she did though.

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I told my closest friend years ago so that I could tell her where I was going for safety reasons. I'm now lucky enough to have very close fab friends so they are my safety back ups now. Otherwise my sex life is nobody's business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couple of friends, my son is constantly slaggin oh you away eogh your swinging friends

That's funny, I remember a lass a very longtime ago, before I joined, she was always boasting she loved to party in front of her son to embarrass him. He was 20 ISH and big mommies boy.

Was never sure if she did though.

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I just laugh it off , I definitely don't be telling him I'm partying, than again I'm not partying I'm away with friends

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

One friend who I'd use as a safety back up if I was going somewhere strange on my own for the first time ....like leitrim

She's fine ....have some friends that also joined so they know I'm here

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By *evilinsideme OP   Man
over a year ago

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"One friend who I'd use as a safety back up if I was going somewhere strange on my own for the first time ....like leitrim

She's fine ....have some friends that also joined so they know I'm here "

There's swinger's in Leitrim?????

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"One friend who I'd use as a safety back up if I was going somewhere strange on my own for the first time ....like leitrim

She's fine ....have some friends that also joined so they know I'm here

There's swinger's in Leitrim????? "

Actually that was just for going to Leitrim in general

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

East Cork

Nobody....

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We only told 2 of our close friends recently as we completely trust them

Wouldn't be telling anyone else

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By *pin21Man
over a year ago

Killarney


"So no one has ever turned a vanilla freind into a fun fabber?

Is the swingers lifestyle still so looked down on?

Or just does it make you embarrassed?

When I was more active live, my close friends knew and one or two people I worked with.

I kinda didn't mind as long as my kids didn't find out in a bad way, like someone telling them and being nasty.

Now I'm not really active, so when asked what I did this weekend, saying I went to a swing club or met a load or sexy party goes with little clothing and even less inhibition, would just be a lie...

But I did sometimes tell freinds when asked about it.

One even joined here, but he didn't last long as I believe he was a "cock pic, wanna fuck" type of message sender

He said he just kept getting blocked by ugly fucks... So glad he didn't stick around. He has a wife and her four kids now, and never goes anywhere.

"

Friends have been interested and curious, but none have bit the bullet yet, which is probably a good thing to keep friends separate from it to avoid complications, or potential awkwardness. Without the exception of one friend, nobody seemed too horrified. Of course they had lots of misconceptions about the scene initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife n her toyboy n few weve met lol.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

No one ,our sexlife is our business !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dees best mate knows from Dee's single days on here as she was her safe call back in the day. That's about it after that because as others have said it's no one's business but ours.

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

1 friend of ours as he use to sit the kids for us no one else knows

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By *nwrap4funMan
over a year ago

Ireland


"So no one has ever turned a vanilla freind into a fun fabber?

Is the swingers lifestyle still so looked down on?

Or just does it make you embarrassed?

When I was more active live, my close friends knew and one or two people I worked with.

I kinda didn't mind as long as my kids didn't find out in a bad way, like someone telling them and being nasty.

Now I'm not really active, so when asked what I did this weekend, saying I went to a swing club or met a load or sexy party goes with little clothing and even less inhibition, would just be a lie...

But I did sometimes tell freinds when asked about it.

One even joined here, but he didn't last long as I believe he was a "cock pic, wanna fuck" type of message sender

He said he just kept getting blocked by ugly fucks... So glad he didn't stick around. He has a wife and her four kids now, and never goes anywhere.

"

There is always a spiteful asshole somewhere unfortunately

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By *ickyAthleticMan
over a year ago

Galway

I've told one of my mates I was giving this a go. That is all. Wouldn't want the world to know tbh, as I think sex is still a taboo subject in this country. Prob not their business anyways !

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"One friend who I'd use as a safety back up if I was going somewhere strange on my own for the first time ....like leitrim

She's fine ....have some friends that also joined so they know I'm here "

I had a meet in Leitrim once, it was fantastic.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"One friend who I'd use as a safety back up if I was going somewhere strange on my own for the first time ....like leitrim

She's fine ....have some friends that also joined so they know I'm here

I had a meet in Leitrim once, it was fantastic. "

Hope Michael Mc Carthy isn't too upset....sure there's so few there she could be related

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Two of my workmates know and trust them not to tell the world. More curious than anything

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