FabSwingers.com forum: Need help form a lady

By *ll4you69 OP Man
over a year ago

clondalkin

My wife and i together 20 years but recently with drink she mentions swinging .love a lady to meet up with us and help me give her what she wants ..love to chat

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Setting up a couples profile would be a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try have the chat when she's sober, we all talk shite with drink on board .. maybe thats just me lol

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By *ll4you69 OP Man
over a year ago

clondalkin

We had small chat and she zaid she taught we might like it with a laught after ..would be nice if a lady came on to her let her deside then for herself if its what she wants

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By *e MasseurMan
over a year ago

"Try have the chat when she's sober, we all talk shite with drink on board .. maybe thats just me lol

When we're d*unk the truth comes out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try have the chat when she's sober, we all talk shite with drink on board .. maybe thats just me lol

When we're d*unk the truth comes out

So they say .. but I'd still have the conversation when sober .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try have the chat when she's sober, we all talk shite with drink on board .. maybe thats just me lol

When we're d*unk the truth comes out

So they say .. but I'd still have the conversation when sober ."

Agree. she needs to want it sober too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had small chat and she zaid she taught we might like it with a laught after ..would be nice if a lady came on to her let her deside then for herself if its what she wants"

And if you organised a lady to do this and your wife rebuffed her, and in doing so made her feel like shite? There's more people involved than just you and your wife and their feelings matter too.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Took us years to take the plunge. Be patient with her and good luck.

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

Everyones gotta start somewhere and sometimes thats with a drink and a chat. Have a read of various threads op, you will see a lot of advice on how to present yourselves to optimise your chances of a meet. Get herself on here too and enjoy the journey together.

Best of luck

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

"My wife and i together 20 years but recently with drink she mentions swinging .love a lady to meet up with us and help me give her what she wants ..love to chat"

Seems like your just using your wife as a proxy to getting off with a female.

Just my thoughts. But as others have said set up a couples profile and get her involved.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"We had small chat and she zaid she taught we might like it with a laught after ..would be nice if a lady came on to her let her deside then for herself if its what she wants"

Sounds like maybe your wife is interested in sex with a woman. Why not let her go have her fun 1 on 1 and if it goes well then maybe you can think about threesomes after.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If that is what you both want then start a couple's profile. I don't understand why you think a woman off here should meet ye to try and chat up your wife on the off chance that she might be interested because she has said she might be interested in being with a woman when d*unk.Do you really think many women on here are going to waste their time setting another woman up on that basis.

Talk to your wife make sure it's something she actually wants before you try and set her up behind her back. It sounds more like it's your fantasy that you want to push and be part of. Which is fine if everyone involved is aware of what is happening. Setting it up this way is not the same. And could turn into a shit show fast especially for the woman who you think should help you do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my thoughts on it and of course I could be wrong but heard of it lots of times.... So wonder if this is one of the "as soon as a lady says yes" they will arrange to meet and then suddenly the wife can't make it or pull out so the guy will suggest just one on one fun???. Some guys will try anything and again not saying that this is the case but it's a possibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife and i together 20 years but recently with drink she mentions swinging .love a lady to meet up with us and help me give her what she wants ..love to chat

Seems like your just using your wife as a proxy to getting off with a female.

Just my thoughts. But as others have said set up a couples profile and get her involved."

exactly this

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