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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Safe to say modern men take a lot more care of themselves these days ie. More into their fashion, hair, looks, fancy hair cuts going to the gym etc but apart from that their are few if any “artificial” enchantments men wear or get done cosmetically in the main steam.

As for women….. hair extensions, hair dye, false lashes, lash dye, those mad I brow things, Botox, lip filler, make that’s now looks to be professionally applied, breast enhancement, bust enhancing bras, booty fillers, yoga enhancing pants, why do women put themselves to through some much, I’d it for the men or other women?

I’d hate to be a young lad in my 20’s now…. What you go home with after a night out could look the complete opposite the next day when all the packing has been removed.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Can't say himself is a "modern" man in that context so...and I do none of that to "enhance" myself. I'm shaved and showered, I may apply some eyeliner and mascara on a day/night out with a pretty but comfortable outfit.

It is mind boggling though - there's so much natural beauty covered up and hidden underneath all this plastic sh*te...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't say himself is a "modern" man in that context so...and I do none of that to "enhance" myself. I'm shaved and showered, I may apply some eyeliner and mascara on a day/night out with a pretty but comfortable outfit.

It is mind boggling though - there's so much natural beauty covered up and hidden underneath all this plastic sh*te... "

Absolutely!! call me old fashioned but naturally beautiful women with little or no make up does it for me.

It’s youngsters in their 20’s and maybe some in their early 30’s who are covered in head to toe in all the plastic sh!te. What’s the point ? It’s not their true selfs.

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By *herry...Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

The point is they do what makes them happy, it doesn't have to make sense to other people, and have you considered the possibility that the young lads you refer to may prefer the "enhanced" females

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Ugh

Don't wear make up - prepare everyone to keep asking if you're sick or hangover.

Wear make up - prepare to listen to lectures about how fake and plastic and shitty you are. Poor guy who goes out with you won't recognize you.

Seriously... do men actually STILL believe that women who wear make up look the way they do naturally?

Missus

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"The point is they do what makes them happy, it doesn't have to make sense to other people, and have you considered the possibility that the young lads you refer to may prefer the "enhanced" females "

That's the thing though, Cherry.

Are they happy?...I'm not so sure.

Many just slapping on stuff because of societal norms or because their "expected" to in their own minds.

When things like makeup and tan are done poorly it's terrible looking and a more natural look is actually more attractive, and for the life of me I can't understand lip fillers!

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"The point is they do what makes them happy, it doesn't have to make sense to other people, and have you considered the possibility that the young lads you refer to may prefer the "enhanced" females

That's the thing though, Cherry.

Are they happy?...I'm not so sure.

Many just slapping on stuff because of societal norms or because their "expected" to in their own minds.

When things like makeup and tan are done poorly it's terrible looking and a more natural look is actually more attractive, and for the life of me I can't understand lip fillers!

"

Not my place to say but I’ve seen a few young girls who have totally fucked their faces up with lip fillers, it’s a travesty

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

If fellas think ive naturally multichrome eyelids and the like then thats on them. I like my makeup i like to experiment. Luckily himself has seen me without and knows he will up to an extra out of the walking dead every morning

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"If fellas think ive naturally multichrome eyelids and the like then thats on them. I like my makeup i like to experiment. Luckily himself has seen me without and knows he will up to an extra out of the walking dead every morning"

**Will wake up to**

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"The point is they do what makes them happy, it doesn't have to make sense to other people, and have you considered the possibility that the young lads you refer to may prefer the "enhanced" females

That's the thing though, Cherry.

Are they happy?...I'm not so sure.

Many just slapping on stuff because of societal norms or because their "expected" to in their own minds.

When things like makeup and tan are done poorly it's terrible looking and a more natural look is actually more attractive, and for the life of me I can't understand lip fillers!

Not my place to say but I’ve seen a few young girls who have totally fucked their faces up with lip fillers, it’s a travesty "

Of course it's your place to say, you are entled to your opinion. I agree with both of you on those awful fillers but I think they are going out of fashion fortunately.

But now we have these 'sculpting and toning' treatments which are a total farce.

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By *herry...Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"The point is they do what makes them happy, it doesn't have to make sense to other people, and have you considered the possibility that the young lads you refer to may prefer the "enhanced" females

That's the thing though, Cherry.

Are they happy?...I'm not so sure.

Many just slapping on stuff because of societal norms or because their "expected" to in their own minds.

When things like makeup and tan are done poorly it's terrible looking and a more natural look is actually more attractive, and for the life of me I can't understand lip fillers!

"

I would assume if they are spending money to make themselves look a certain way, they must be happy with the way they look, if they are internally happy that's anyones guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything I do with regards to my appearance is for me and to please myself. The opinion of others is irrelevant. I imagine a lot of women are of the same opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been going on for centuries the ancient Egyptians were using charcoal for their eye liner etc

In the 1800s fake eyelashes were invented by a prostitute to stop semen getting into their eyes. They were called cumbrellas. So ladies next time you go to beauticians ask for a fresh set of Cumbrellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh, women have always been judged primarily on their appearance.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I think you'll find young men these days are having more and more beauty treatments and surgery. The modern man in his 40s isn't so likely to I don't think, but the younger lads are all over it.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Fair few boys rocking the hair transplants these days

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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago

mullingar

I have been in the company of some women "made up" to the last... a man has walked by with hair dye and the laughing starts.... personally, I dunno why men use dye, or do I understand why some women spend hours getting ready, only to have one drink and disintegrate before my very eyes.... women are beautiful without doing that shit... false advertising

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility


"I have been in the company of some women "made up" to the last... a man has walked by with hair dye and the laughing starts.... personally, I dunno why men use dye, or do I understand why some women spend hours getting ready, only to have one drink and disintegrate before my very eyes.... women are beautiful without doing that shit... false advertising"

False advertising? Can’t you see the lashes , tan and heavily made up faces if you don’t like it pass them by ?

False advertising is also men using viagra …..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I catch a paper boy

But things don't really change

I'm standing in the wind

But I never wave bye-bye

But I try, I try

There's no sign of life

It's just the power to charm

I'm lying in the rain

But I never wave bye-bye

But I try, I try

Never gonna fall for.....

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Galway/Dublin/London

Oh jesus, these "Modern" Threads!

OP the description you gave of men has been forced technically, not that its a inherent choice... its a result of greater rights for women, equality and feminism.. if you look at it clearly, what your seeing is men starting to now do what women have for centuries... which is focus on their appearance due to the pressures of society and the opposite sex! Why? Well because things such as arranged marriages, wielding finacial power and control (needed for survival) and the ability to R*pe/sexually assault all around you and have a beer after without the fear of consequences have significantly dwindled.. but don't fool yourself in thinking they're eradicated by an means!

As such men have had to adapt from their neandertholic ways in order to actually "Attract" a woman rather than take them..

On the other hand, all you say about women and the amount of different things they use for appearance... its called adaption for survival, its happened for centuries and as such has become a societal norm and has had a huge psychological consequence... trust me, if us men depended on our looks for survival for centuries and then due to that found our own sex turning on us because of the competition for such survival... we'd have all sorts of mad things hanging off us!

Again, i know this doesn't really apply to modern times as much, but when something is "systemic" for so long, its unbelievably hard to break and when you look at our women if today, they are becoming more and more liberal in terms of breaking the mold that men created..

Just think, many things that women first used for beauty were created in a time when women were not allowed education or to enter the work force... so who do you think created them, and fir whos gain?

The more you see men focus on their appearance and women less so.. it shows a positive move towards true equality in this sense

But as you point out, many women are still effected by the systemic manipulation they have faced their whole lives and for generations and there are still so many pig ugly Neanderthal men roaming around... so we are not even close.

So there's nothing "Modern" about it.. its just a substantial swing in evolution over a very minute space of time when you think about how long true evolution takes..

Unfortunately, we're nowhere close to seeing where we should be at in our lifetimes..

Fab itself is still pure evidence of that... all the worst messages coming from men, all the hottest pics/aesthetic being of women... theres nothing Modern about us, whatever that actually even means (literally describes a time you live in) if you are alive.. you are a modern man or woman lol

Now if I see one more "Modern" Thread.. whoever posts it wont be in the modern age for much longer! lol

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Funny how the 'modern woman' is reduced to her looks only in comparison to the 'modern man' who has several personality characteristics.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

I believe its less a case of it makes people happy only ... and more that it allows people to feel like they fit in ...

We are and have been a tribal creature for a long time ...

Are we always happy doing what we must to fit in , probably not.

Are we less uncomfortable in the short term ..probably.

Its the societal norm to shun or avoid those who don't fit in ..

Acceptance of all will probably alleviate some of the need to change your appearance too fit in.

That inturn may reduce the surge in mahogany plastic filled war paint youngsters!

So op ... maybe all we need to do is encourage everyone to not fit in

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Lovely modern women, bring yourselves my way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh jesus, these "Modern" Threads!

OP the description you gave of men has been forced technically, not that its a inherent choice... its a result of greater rights for women, equality and feminism.. if you look at it clearly, what your seeing is men starting to now do what women have for centuries... which is focus on their appearance due to the pressures of society and the opposite sex! Why? Well because things such as arranged marriages, wielding finacial power and control (needed for survival) and the ability to R*pe/sexually assault all around you and have a beer after without the fear of consequences have significantly dwindled.. but don't fool yourself in thinking they're eradicated by an means!

As such men have had to adapt from their neandertholic ways in order to actually "Attract" a woman rather than take them..

On the other hand, all you say about women and the amount of different things they use for appearance... its called adaption for survival, its happened for centuries and as such has become a societal norm and has had a huge psychological consequence... trust me, if us men depended on our looks for survival for centuries and then due to that found our own sex turning on us because of the competition for such survival... we'd have all sorts of mad things hanging off us!

Again, i know this doesn't really apply to modern times as much, but when something is "systemic" for so long, its unbelievably hard to break and when you look at our women if today, they are becoming more and more liberal in terms of breaking the mold that men created..

Just think, many things that women first used for beauty were created in a time when women were not allowed education or to enter the work force... so who do you think created them, and fir whos gain?

The more you see men focus on their appearance and women less so.. it shows a positive move towards true equality in this sense

But as you point out, many women are still effected by the systemic manipulation they have faced their whole lives and for generations and there are still so many pig ugly Neanderthal men roaming around... so we are not even close.

So there's nothing "Modern" about it.. its just a substantial swing in evolution over a very minute space of time when you think about how long true evolution takes..

Unfortunately, we're nowhere close to seeing where we should be at in our lifetimes..

Fab itself is still pure evidence of that... all the worst messages coming from men, all the hottest pics/aesthetic being of women... theres nothing Modern about us, whatever that actually even means (literally describes a time you live in) if you are alive.. you are a modern man or woman lol

Now if I see one more "Modern" Thread.. whoever posts it wont be in the modern age for much longer! lol"

Jeez man you have a lot of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh jesus, these "Modern" Threads!

OP the description you gave of men has been forced technically, not that its a inherent choice... its a result of greater rights for women, equality and feminism.. if you look at it clearly, what your seeing is men starting to now do what women have for centuries... which is focus on their appearance due to the pressures of society and the opposite sex! Why? Well because things such as arranged marriages, wielding finacial power and control (needed for survival) and the ability to R*pe/sexually assault all around you and have a beer after without the fear of consequences have significantly dwindled.. but don't fool yourself in thinking they're eradicated by an means!

As such men have had to adapt from their neandertholic ways in order to actually "Attract" a woman rather than take them..

On the other hand, all you say about women and the amount of different things they use for appearance... its called adaption for survival, its happened for centuries and as such has become a societal norm and has had a huge psychological consequence... trust me, if us men depended on our looks for survival for centuries and then due to that found our own sex turning on us because of the competition for such survival... we'd have all sorts of mad things hanging off us!

Again, i know this doesn't really apply to modern times as much, but when something is "systemic" for so long, its unbelievably hard to break and when you look at our women if today, they are becoming more and more liberal in terms of breaking the mold that men created..

Just think, many things that women first used for beauty were created in a time when women were not allowed education or to enter the work force... so who do you think created them, and fir whos gain?

The more you see men focus on their appearance and women less so.. it shows a positive move towards true equality in this sense

But as you point out, many women are still effected by the systemic manipulation they have faced their whole lives and for generations and there are still so many pig ugly Neanderthal men roaming around... so we are not even close.

So there's nothing "Modern" about it.. its just a substantial swing in evolution over a very minute space of time when you think about how long true evolution takes..

Unfortunately, we're nowhere close to seeing where we should be at in our lifetimes..

Fab itself is still pure evidence of that... all the worst messages coming from men, all the hottest pics/aesthetic being of women... theres nothing Modern about us, whatever that actually even means (literally describes a time you live in) if you are alive.. you are a modern man or woman lol

Now if I see one more "Modern" Thread.. whoever posts it wont be in the modern age for much longer! lol"
Sorry could you say all that once again. ... from the top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh jesus, these "Modern" Threads!

OP the description you gave of men has been forced technically, not that its a inherent choice... its a result of greater rights for women, equality and feminism.. if you look at it clearly, what your seeing is men starting to now do what women have for centuries... which is focus on their appearance due to the pressures of society and the opposite sex! Why? Well because things such as arranged marriages, wielding finacial power and control (needed for survival) and the ability to R*pe/sexually assault all around you and have a beer after without the fear of consequences have significantly dwindled.. but don't fool yourself in thinking they're eradicated by an means!

As such men have had to adapt from their neandertholic ways in order to actually "Attract" a woman rather than take them..

On the other hand, all you say about women and the amount of different things they use for appearance... its called adaption for survival, its happened for centuries and as such has become a societal norm and has had a huge psychological consequence... trust me, if us men depended on our looks for survival for centuries and then due to that found our own sex turning on us because of the competition for such survival... we'd have all sorts of mad things hanging off us!

Again, i know this doesn't really apply to modern times as much, but when something is "systemic" for so long, its unbelievably hard to break and when you look at our women if today, they are becoming more and more liberal in terms of breaking the mold that men created..

Just think, many things that women first used for beauty were created in a time when women were not allowed education or to enter the work force... so who do you think created them, and fir whos gain?

The more you see men focus on their appearance and women less so.. it shows a positive move towards true equality in this sense

But as you point out, many women are still effected by the systemic manipulation they have faced their whole lives and for generations and there are still so many pig ugly Neanderthal men roaming around... so we are not even close.

So there's nothing "Modern" about it.. its just a substantial swing in evolution over a very minute space of time when you think about how long true evolution takes..

Unfortunately, we're nowhere close to seeing where we should be at in our lifetimes..

Fab itself is still pure evidence of that... all the worst messages coming from men, all the hottest pics/aesthetic being of women... theres nothing Modern about us, whatever that actually even means (literally describes a time you live in) if you are alive.. you are a modern man or woman lol

Now if I see one more "Modern" Thread.. whoever posts it wont be in the modern age for much longer! lol

Jeez man you have a lot of time "

YOU DID ASK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumbrellas …. Every day is a school day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh jesus, these "Modern" Threads!

OP the description you gave of men has been forced technically, not that its a inherent choice... its a result of greater rights for women, equality and feminism.. if you look at it clearly, what your seeing is men starting to now do what women have for centuries... which is focus on their appearance due to the pressures of society and the opposite sex! Why? Well because things such as arranged marriages, wielding finacial power and control (needed for survival) and the ability to R*pe/sexually assault all around you and have a beer after without the fear of consequences have significantly dwindled.. but don't fool yourself in thinking they're eradicated by an means!

As such men have had to adapt from their neandertholic ways in order to actually "Attract" a woman rather than take them..

On the other hand, all you say about women and the amount of different things they use for appearance... its called adaption for survival, its happened for centuries and as such has become a societal norm and has had a huge psychological consequence... trust me, if us men depended on our looks for survival for centuries and then due to that found our own sex turning on us because of the competition for such survival... we'd have all sorts of mad things hanging off us!

Again, i know this doesn't really apply to modern times as much, but when something is "systemic" for so long, its unbelievably hard to break and when you look at our women if today, they are becoming more and more liberal in terms of breaking the mold that men created..

Just think, many things that women first used for beauty were created in a time when women were not allowed education or to enter the work force... so who do you think created them, and fir whos gain?

The more you see men focus on their appearance and women less so.. it shows a positive move towards true equality in this sense

But as you point out, many women are still effected by the systemic manipulation they have faced their whole lives and for generations and there are still so many pig ugly Neanderthal men roaming around... so we are not even close.

So there's nothing "Modern" about it.. its just a substantial swing in evolution over a very minute space of time when you think about how long true evolution takes..

Unfortunately, we're nowhere close to seeing where we should be at in our lifetimes..

Fab itself is still pure evidence of that... all the worst messages coming from men, all the hottest pics/aesthetic being of women... theres nothing Modern about us, whatever that actually even means (literally describes a time you live in) if you are alive.. you are a modern man or woman lol

Now if I see one more "Modern" Thread.. whoever posts it wont be in the modern age for much longer! lol

Jeez man you have a lot of time

YOU DID ASK "

Didn’t think he would go back millions of years to make his point

Neanderthal, (Homo neanderthalensis, Homo sapiens neanderthalensis), also spelled Neandertal, member of a group of archaic humans who emerged at least 200,000 years ago during the Pleistocene Epoch (about 2.6 million to 11,700 years ago)

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