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By *unbarrel OP   Man
over a year ago

clonsilla

Hi I’m just wondering do you ladies like been looked at in public? I mean is it nice to see a guy checking you out or does it annoy you ? I love looking at ladies in public but I’d always turn away if I think they are going to catch me. Should I let them catch me ???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I’m just wondering do you ladies like been looked at in public? I mean is it nice to see a guy checking you out or does it annoy you ? I love looking at ladies in public but I’d always turn away if I think they are going to catch me. Should I let them catch me ???????"

Dunno if doubt it tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A glance is one thing, staring is another.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

The amount of middle aged men that do this to my teen daughters is unreal

You’re not as discreet as you think you are

sad old men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s not be fooled woman do this too, have seen them at it , having said that men are far worse and don’t hide it as well as woman ,

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

So why ye are saying is I better put the binoculars away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s not be fooled woman do this too, have seen them at it , having said that men are far worse and don’t hide it as well as woman , "

Indeed they do. I find I seem to catch the attention women in there late 40s early 50s. Must be my boyish good looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a glance is acceptable. Staring is uncomfortable whether it’s male or female. Personally I’d love it but maybe different from a female perspective

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

While an admiring glance is flattering, I do it myself, I just don't get when guys beep the horn passing you or something like that.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It all depends how it's done. Sure it's nice to fetch an admiring look or two. Just leave your willy in the trousers and don't start dripping saliva.

Yes women do it too, the looking bit, I love doing it.

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By *unbarrel OP   Man
over a year ago

clonsilla

Hard not to look at a curvy mature lady that’s for sure

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By *unbarrel OP   Man
over a year ago

clonsilla

Yeah I wouldn’t just stair at someone most times I’d say hello just walking by and if the lady seems friendly I’d have a little peek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a gf now, but still enjoy the odd cheeky little glance

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"The amount of middle aged men that do this to my teen daughters is unreal

You’re not as discreet as you think you are

sad old men "

This..it makes my daughter and her friends supremely uncomfortable cos so many are not in any way discreet about it

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"So why ye are saying is I better put the binoculars away "

Get the magnifying glass out instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally I don’t like it when I’m walking down the street and and a car slows down starts blowing the horn while woman in the car are shouting “get your dick out!” “Suck on these (while flashing there breast) “ “all that dick and your not going give me some “

I was wearing a pretty revealing outfit but was defo not looking the attention,

Just my own experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can look but you can't touch.. There is no law against looking at someone or something in a public place, apparently there is a new movement which wants to criminalise staring on public transport in London underground, apparently intrusive staring of a sexual nature could land you in prison which I find ridiculous, it's just another example of the erosion of our rights, you cannot trespass somebodies eyes and how exactly can intrusive staring of a sexual nature be defined or even proven? Woke culture gone mad

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"You can look but you can't touch.. There is no law against looking at someone or something in a public place, apparently there is a new movement which wants to criminalise staring on public transport in London underground, apparently intrusive staring of a sexual nature could land you in prison which I find ridiculous, it's just another example of the erosion of our rights, you cannot trespass somebodies eyes and how exactly can intrusive staring of a sexual nature be defined or even proven? Woke culture gone mad "

Do you have a right to make someone feel uncomfortable....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of middle aged men that do this to my teen daughters is unreal

You’re not as discreet as you think you are

sad old men

This..it makes my daughter and her friends supremely uncomfortable cos so many are not in any way discreet about it "

I’m not trying to victim blame here or excuse the mens behaviour either but teenage girls wear some seriously revealing clothes these days.

In my days it was baggy O’Neills tracksuits and oversize hoodies on girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can look but you can't touch.. There is no law against looking at someone or something in a public place, apparently there is a new movement which wants to criminalise staring on public transport in London underground, apparently intrusive staring of a sexual nature could land you in prison which I find ridiculous, it's just another example of the erosion of our rights, you cannot trespass somebodies eyes and how exactly can intrusive staring of a sexual nature be defined or even proven? Woke culture gone mad "

How can they differentiate between a state and sexual stare or someone day dreaming ? World is gone mad

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"You can look but you can't touch.. There is no law against looking at someone or something in a public place, apparently there is a new movement which wants to criminalise staring on public transport in London underground, apparently intrusive staring of a sexual nature could land you in prison which I find ridiculous, it's just another example of the erosion of our rights, you cannot trespass somebodies eyes and how exactly can intrusive staring of a sexual nature be defined or even proven? Woke culture gone mad

How can they differentiate between a state and sexual stare or someone day dreaming ? World is gone mad"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally I don’t like it when I’m walking down the street and and a car slows down starts blowing the horn while woman in the car are shouting “get your dick out!” “Suck on these (while flashing there breast) “ “all that dick and your not going give me some “

I was wearing a pretty revealing outfit but was defo not looking the attention,

Just my own experience"

....not even mentioning the yoga pants!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone loves to play the victim card now a days, only people who can’t seem to use it is a straight white male ,

I know I will get hate for this but it’s true

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"The amount of middle aged men that do this to my teen daughters is unreal

You’re not as discreet as you think you are

sad old men

This..it makes my daughter and her friends supremely uncomfortable cos so many are not in any way discreet about it

I’m not trying to victim blame here or excuse the mens behaviour either but teenage girls wear some seriously revealing clothes these days.

In my days it was baggy O’Neills tracksuits and oversize hoodies on girls "

My daughter yesterday was wearing baggy Jean's and a scarface tshirt when a middle aged man slowed his car down and blatantly eyed her up and down

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"The amount of middle aged men that do this to my teen daughters is unreal

You’re not as discreet as you think you are

sad old men

This..it makes my daughter and her friends supremely uncomfortable cos so many are not in any way discreet about it

I’m not trying to victim blame here or excuse the mens behaviour either but teenage girls wear some seriously revealing clothes these days.

In my days it was baggy O’Neills tracksuits and oversize hoodies on girls

My daughter yesterday was wearing baggy Jean's and a scarface tshirt when a middle aged man slowed his car down and blatantly eyed her up and down "

Whatever she was wearing shes a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of middle aged men that do this to my teen daughters is unreal

You’re not as discreet as you think you are

sad old men

This..it makes my daughter and her friends supremely uncomfortable cos so many are not in any way discreet about it

I’m not trying to victim blame here or excuse the mens behaviour either but teenage girls wear some seriously revealing clothes these days.

In my days it was baggy O’Neills tracksuits and oversize hoodies on girls

My daughter yesterday was wearing baggy Jean's and a scarface tshirt when a middle aged man slowed his car down and blatantly eyed her up and down "

I was generalising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally I don’t like it when I’m walking down the street and and a car slows down starts blowing the horn while woman in the car are shouting “get your dick out!” “Suck on these (while flashing there breast) “ “all that dick and your not going give me some “

I was wearing a pretty revealing outfit but was defo not looking the attention,

Just my own experience

....not even mentioning the yoga pants!! "

Not to mention those “Enhancing” yoga pants

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

There are ways of doing it that don't feel sleazy, but maybe it's just me.. but i'm a lot more forgiving if it's an attractive man stealing a peek than someone I don't deem attractive.. I have even been known to play on it.

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By *hemaskedladyCouple
over a year ago

clonmel

My husband likes guys looking at me and I get a thrill too. but only when mood is right. stared at in work situation is creepy. My husband likes me to wear low tops and plenty of cleavage on a night out and gets off on guys staring and chatting to my tits. He loves me going topless on holiday and watching the guys looking at me. I think looking is ok in the right environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can look but you can't touch.. There is no law against looking at someone or something in a public place, apparently there is a new movement which wants to criminalise staring on public transport in London underground, apparently intrusive staring of a sexual nature could land you in prison which I find ridiculous, it's just another example of the erosion of our rights, you cannot trespass somebodies eyes and how exactly can intrusive staring of a sexual nature be defined or even proven? Woke culture gone mad

Do you have a right to make someone feel uncomfortable...."

If someone feels uncomfortable by merely somebody looking at them then maybe they have a mental health condition or certainly need some therapy to work through their issues

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

I would think most people would be flattered by someone they see as attractive checking them out, and would rather not be checked out by someone they see as unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can look but you can't touch.. There is no law against looking at someone or something in a public place, apparently there is a new movement which wants to criminalise staring on public transport in London underground, apparently intrusive staring of a sexual nature could land you in prison which I find ridiculous, it's just another example of the erosion of our rights, you cannot trespass somebodies eyes and how exactly can intrusive staring of a sexual nature be defined or even proven? Woke culture gone mad

Do you have a right to make someone feel uncomfortable....

If someone feels uncomfortable by merely somebody looking at them then maybe they have a mental health condition or certainly need some therapy to work through their issues "

Looking at someone and leering at them are two very different things

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By *lamingo57Woman
over a year ago

Carrick

Happened me when I was out for a walk today, in quite a rural area. It made me so sickeningly uncomfortable. He almost stopped his car. I looked to see if there was an oncoming car (narrow road) but no, just him stopping and gawking. Horrible.

There's a time and a place and me on a walk on my lunch break isn't it.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"The amount of middle aged men that do this to my teen daughters is unreal

You’re not as discreet as you think you are

sad old men "

Get over yourself. If they're attractive they're going to get attention from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened me when I was out for a walk today, in quite a rural area. It made me so sickeningly uncomfortable. He almost stopped his car. I looked to see if there was an oncoming car (narrow road) but no, just him stopping and gawking. Horrible.

There's a time and a place and me on a walk on my lunch break isn't it. "

He should have known you were on your lunch break

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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago

mullingar

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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago

mullingar


"Happened me when I was out for a walk today, in quite a rural area. It made me so sickeningly uncomfortable. He almost stopped his car. I looked to see if there was an oncoming car (narrow road) but no, just him stopping and gawking. Horrible.

There's a time and a place and me on a walk on my lunch break isn't it.

He should have known you were on your lunch break "

Did you have a flask in one hand and a bacon sandwich in the other... maybe he was hungry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can look but you can't touch.. There is no law against looking at someone or something in a public place, apparently there is a new movement which wants to criminalise staring on public transport in London underground, apparently intrusive staring of a sexual nature could land you in prison which I find ridiculous, it's just another example of the erosion of our rights, you cannot trespass somebodies eyes and how exactly can intrusive staring of a sexual nature be defined or even proven? Woke culture gone mad "

Stick to staring at the lamp posts and you will be fine

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By *lamingo57Woman
over a year ago

Carrick


"Happened me when I was out for a walk today, in quite a rural area. It made me so sickeningly uncomfortable. He almost stopped his car. I looked to see if there was an oncoming car (narrow road) but no, just him stopping and gawking. Horrible.

There's a time and a place and me on a walk on my lunch break isn't it.

He should have known you were on your lunch break

Did you have a flask in one hand and a bacon sandwich in the other... maybe he was hungry"

No funnily enough, I didn't. I also wasn't dressed provocatively so wasn't clearly "asking for it" either. Mad, eh?

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Galway/Dublin/London

I'll break it down nice and simple for you..

If you're attractive to them, its welcome alot of the time...

If you're unattractive to them you're a creep..

Just don't be OTT and there should be no issue, except the odd dirty look if you're not their type lol

Now this isn't 100% of people (just like literally anything in life) before i get my head bitten off.. but it is a simple rule of thumb of human psychology

We see it in practice in everyday life

I.e. "Women that say they only attract the bad guys... nooo, you just accept shit behaviour in favour of physical aesthetics and then at the same time cry to their (not so obviously attractive) male best friend who is totally in love with them and treats them amazingly whilst having them placed firmly in the friend zone"

Its a literal Hollywood cliche.. because its the truth!

And those that tell you they don't care about looks at all, are those that will tell you size doesn't matter at all... ofcourse it does... its just not everything and a lesser percentage of the population have the ability to see past that

Again.. just the majority and not all.

If you disagree, message the psychologists, not me... ohh wait!? lol

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Galway/Dublin/London

Ohh and just to add to that.. whos ever experienced coming across a Hen party on a night out?

Yep, thats right.. you're all going to prison if ye were men on a stag party... just a bit of perspective for ye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its ingrained biologically to check out people we find attractive - for example thats why they so often use 'beautiful people' in ads, to keep our attention.

However, how to respond to that urge 'acceptably' is part of cultural conditioning and that can change over time and place.

So I think its ok to admire in passing, but not to stare, slow down or follow - thats intrusive and intimidating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the situation and a person’s manners. There is a huge difference between a look with admiration and creepy look.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I think if your hands is moving vigorously over your penis it might not be a good look. I'd definitely try and avoid that.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down


"The amount of middle aged men that do this to my teen daughters is unreal

You’re not as discreet as you think you are

sad old men "

I think what surprises older men is the manner in which some young women dress in public nowadays; I have seen instances when some young girls in a group were dressed in little more than underwear on a public street!

I was recently speaking to a Spanish couple, at a bus stop about a group of girls who walked by in swimwear, provocatively.

An the older men get lambasted for looking and commenting to their peers.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

An elderly friend of mine, sadly recently deceased, was heard to comment about a passing mature lady, "Nice ass!".

The lady immediately turned around, smiled at him, and said, " Thanks!"

Admiring ladies in public, partly depends in the age differential; commenting about women who are several or many decades younger is not really appropriate, but within a decade, and said tastefully and respectfully is probably OK?

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