FabSwingers.com forum: Yoir First fab meet "good, bad or funny"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long did you wait before your first fab meet and what happened "GOOD BAD OR FUNNY"

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A month.

Bad

Dangerous

Boundaries crossed

Lunatic

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

Probably about a month was good he was a lovely guy hence still here 4 years later

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Give the details for awarness and laughs... Totally anonoumous with regards to the other person

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

3 weeks after joining fab.

RVC event.

It was an amazing night.

Got my first 7 verifications and lost my virginity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great start.... Fair play

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"3 weeks after joining fab.

RVC event.

It was an amazing night.

Got my first 7 verifications and lost my virginity

If carslberg did meets... Happy days

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Give the details for awarness and laughs... Totally anonoumous with regards to the other person "

I've told it plenty of times and not in the mood to do it again. There were no laughs involved. It was assault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a week...

I'd shackles to cast off and was uncharacteristically impulsive, never to be repeated.

It was a mixed bag, taking longer to chat I would have realised a few things.

It wasn't a disaster or anything, just that I only clicked with her but not him. Them's the fab breaks

Still, we all had fun and I definitely left those shackles in the dust so no regrets

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About two months after I joined. It was strange and weird,he was nothing like how he was on here when we got on so well. He was also looking for a wife I was not looking for a husband.Nothing really bad just a strange social that never went beyond that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Give the details for awarness and laughs... Totally anonoumous with regards to the other person

I've told it plenty of times and not in the mood to do it again. There were no laughs involved. It was assault. "

Apologies good for newbies to be aware..... Thanks for posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within 3 days , dangerous, big regret, deleted profile an hour later.

Best part of fab have to say was the recent 2blonds camping event in the North one of the best weekends of my fab journey so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe a week...

I'd shackles to cast off and was uncharacteristically impulsive, never to be repeated.

It was a mixed bag, taking longer to chat I would have realised a few things.

It wasn't a disaster or anything, just that I only clicked with her but not him. Them's the fab breaks

Still, we all had fun and I definitely left those shackles in the dust so no regrets

Demons were excorsised that night at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give the details for awarness and laughs... Totally anonoumous with regards to the other person

I've told it plenty of times and not in the mood to do it again. There were no laughs involved. It was assault. "

People can be cunts....and that's not a word I ever use.

No excuses for subjecting anyone to that. Hope you're dealing with it okay x

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

It took us ages to take the plunge but we had great fun with them, have met them regularly since and would consider friends for life now!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"About two months after I joined. It was strange and weird,he was nothing like how he was on here when we got on so well. He was also looking for a wife I was not looking for a husband.Nothing really bad just a strange social that never went beyond that. "

Never trust a book by its cover so.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It took us ages to take the plunge but we had great fun with them, have met them regularly since and would consider friends for life now!! "

Another good experience

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Give the details for awarness and laughs... Totally anonoumous with regards to the other person

I've told it plenty of times and not in the mood to do it again. There were no laughs involved. It was assault.

People can be cunts....and that's not a word I ever use.

No excuses for subjecting anyone to that. Hope you're dealing with it okay x

It was 5 years ago and I learned from my mistakes. I don't take anyone at face value anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a week...

I'd shackles to cast off and was uncharacteristically impulsive, never to be repeated.

It was a mixed bag, taking longer to chat I would have realised a few things.

It wasn't a disaster or anything, just that I only clicked with her but not him. Them's the fab breaks

Still, we all had fun and I definitely left those shackles in the dust so no regrets

Demons were excorsised that night at least

There was definitely a bit of a release of the old & the unwanted. Bit like taking off an old coat I'd grown out of. It's been fun finding out what was underneath the whole time and I still am

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Havent gone there yet just trying to get a feel of the different situations.....thanks guys lets see what others have to sa

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Was nearly a year and was just about to give up on the whole thing

Was good but wasn't what we was originally looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Havent gone there yet just trying to get a feel of the different situations.....thanks guys lets see what others have to sa

That's my cue to exit stage left

Mwahhh

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Can't remember the first few to be honest but this one was the funniest one ever, we ended parked up at a gay dogging site to this day we still laugh about it,we recently reconnect after he left for a few years and rejoined

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

My first meet took early 2 years. It turned out better than I had expected

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Had a fantastic experience after waiting 8 months

8 firsts for me that night that I had never experienced before and I drove back to my hotel naked

Will have a smile on my face till I die with the memories

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I join I freaked out didn't come on to it for a few months met up with a lad from a different platform got chatting about it and he verified me... didn't meet anyone after that till my first social and I havnt looked back since..

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Spent the start in the Irish chat room though took a while before I started talking. After a lot of banter I clicked with someone and luckily spent some time chatting before we met. Still friends to this day. Though haven’t been in Irish Chat room in a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foolishly decided on a coffee me 3 days on here and once bitten twice shy. Had chatted on here, seemed no harm in meeting for a coffee and chat as I was in town that day any way. Went to said bar(big mistake) she wa sat in the corner went over , ordered coffee and two mins later her bf/fellow/whom ever came over and demaned I pay 100euro or they were going to post me all over the Internet what ever that meant. I just smiled and said hang on took out my phone and went to go live on Facebook and told them both your faces will be all over the place in 5 mins. She spat at me and both left.

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By *esi_in_brusselsMan
over a year ago

Brussels, Belgium

Literally 2 days.. Was lucky enough to have fabbers already in town and looking for meet. Met in a bar, had some beer and chatted for couple hrs, after took her to the room. Did some kinky stuff which was very new for me but she was awesome and knew what she was doing. So it turned out great. Wish more fabbers were around here for regular fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 weeks and it was a good social meet. But still waiting to loose my fab virginity lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Foolishly decided on a coffee me 3 days on here and once bitten twice shy. Had chatted on here, seemed no harm in meeting for a coffee and chat as I was in town that day any way. Went to said bar(big mistake) she wa sat in the corner went over , ordered coffee and two mins later her bf/fellow/whom ever came over and demaned I pay 100euro or they were going to post me all over the Internet what ever that meant. I just smiled and said hang on took out my phone and went to go live on Facebook and told them both your faces will be all over the place in 5 mins. She spat at me and both left. "
.. wow!! You are a brave man...well done!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was on my old profile. 2 weeks I think on it, met a guy and went to his place. Wasn't as explosive as hoped for both of us as wasnt the spark in the bed as over the coffee. My next meet with a fem a week later was mind blowing though, same wavelenght all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was an old profile for me and it took about 3 months. First meet was brief/hurried but fun and it got better every time we met after that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Havent gone there yet just trying to get a feel of the different situations.....thanks guys lets see what others have to sa

That's my cue to exit stage left

Mwahhh

Apologies that was for eveyoneni honestly didnt mean to send you a private message hit the wrong reply button... Total mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Holy shit thats mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this profile, was a few weeks after I set it up, met someone over a coffee and chat, absolutely lovely lady but she wasn't feeling it as I wasnt her type despite the lead up haha. But had a fantastic chat and we both went separate ways and here's hoping for plenty more to come, and perhaps more than a coffee date with someone in the future

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Years ago. Met a lady who was on here and on another site I was on. Mental stuff and great as well. I met her a couple of times but she moved into riskier stuff than I was happy with so we parted company. By riskier, I mean more and more public. She moved away and left fab a few months later. Good memories though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were foolish to try that shite in a bar, with cctv. They deleted their profile within minutes. So lesson learned

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

First fab meet for me was amazing night allnight long ,drinking playing silly ice breaker games ie strip poker more drinks and kinks thrown in too was a pretty epic night actually....pity a few meets to follow didn't hit the spot as much! But hey ho! It is what it is!!

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By *teppenwolfMan
over a year ago

Cork

Bout 3 weeks on here

Very intimate night with a lady i still chat with

A good experience

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By *onzo888100Man
over a year ago

Bangor

About a month. Had a funny social in a bar. She was a talker, which I like as I don't talk so much. But this girl jabbered on and on, think I can still hear her voice in my head now lol

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Five stars. Would do her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to have one

*crys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Join the gang

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By *onMashMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Around 6 months, she was great though only a social as I bottled the opportunity however I've learnt since then and just relax x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 weeks after joining fab.

RVC event.

It was an amazing night.

Got my first 7 verifications and lost my virginity

Fairplay to you, a night for the ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About a month. Had a funny social in a bar. She was a talker, which I like as I don't talk so much. But this girl jabbered on and on, think I can still hear her voice in my head now lol

That sounds like me I talk shite when I'm nervous lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month. Just chatted to the one person while a figured it out, and so we could ensure the other person was sane lol!

It was a great meet and we’re still friendly to this day.

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

My 1st meet on here was a few days after I joined we had a coffee was told about a social that was on that weekend so bit the bullet and went and got introduced to MD and the rest they say was history

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By *omtom1969Man
over a year ago

ashbourne

About two months, out of the blue a woman text to say , your one mile away , we met the next day , was nice but she told me she was thinking about leaving because of the pressure of it all with going behind the husband's back then boom she left , nd never verified me lol , I still see her in the local pub , with the hubby

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"My 1st meet on here was a few days after I joined we had a coffee was told about a social that was on that weekend so bit the bullet and went and got introduced to MD and the rest they say was history "

Awww you guys just melt my heart

ye were meant to be

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By *appyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

So far our meets and interactions have been great in fabs!!!

Was on another site.

Some nasty people on it!!!

But fabs has been really good to us so far.

Loving it and all the wonderful fabbers

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Started as a singleton. Signed up in the summer with my first ever profile but didn't do anything about meeting until early the following year - after I had met a fellow Fabber through T*nd3r who gave me the courage to meet through Fab.

My first Fab meet is definitely memorable, in a good way but also taught me some life lessons where my own safety is concerned. It was pretty riske!

Mrs

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

My first solo fab meet was so unexpectedly hot, it blew me away. Went there with no real expectations but it was instant chemistry and everything flowed from there. Feckin amazing.

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By *tslife222Man
over a year ago

by the sea louth

First fab social meet was about 3 weeks after I joined.

Social with a couple . They were really nice and friendly and gave me a lovely veri

First play meet was about after 2 x months on here, fantastic lady , great meet and she introduced me to the ways of fab.

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By *onzo888100Man
over a year ago

Bangor

"About a month. Had a funny social in a bar. She was a talker, which I like as I don't talk so much. But this girl jabbered on and on, think I can still hear her voice in my head now lol

That sounds like me I talk shite when I'm nervous lol

LOL

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

Joined on a Friday and our neighbours spotted us on See Who's Near. Met them on the Sunday for drinks and the following Sunday went to theirs for our first of many great nights.

Still friends now both on and off Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Imaginary prize being awarded at 4 for anyone who can challenge the current winner....

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By *inion42Man
over a year ago

minionland

I still have to experience that outside of a social lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not great, not bad. Not quite like i expected. But I've had worse

And better

Heresy to discovering many more on the positive side

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

My first met was a social met, just coffee and chat. Still friends. Attended two social events and met some very nice attractive ladies.

Have not had a play date yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About two week, very good , went back for seconds

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By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

First social was an unpleasant experience, got assaulted, had been here only a few weeks at that point.

Second social turned into play after a further month or so, was everything I was looking for and five years on he's now one of my favouritest people in the world. I still smile and think of that day every time I pass the place we met for a chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing but she hasn't left me alone since

nah all good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on here about a month.

A RVC social was our first outing, met some class people, got loads of veris. Few days later found out we were 5/6 weeks pregnant so had to take a break from it all.

All went well and came back this summer and haven't looked back! Met more great people and popped our fab cheery with our first full swap

eager to keep going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already had a fb when I joined Fab. He guided and advised me which was great as it was all new to me. He is still on fab and we chat every now and then.

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By *tslife222Man
over a year ago

by the sea louth

"First social was an unpleasant experience, got assaulted, had been here only a few weeks at that point.

Sorry to hear that Octo about your 1st social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1st fab meet was amazing. Quite a few years ago now. Still friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing. I was only 22. Soundest Brazilian couple. Guy was 26 or 26 and she was my age. Sexy as he'll, like a model on TV. I was hooked from that first meet

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

1st social was 4 hours after I joined, yeah bit quick but had received over 300 messages in the 1st hour and was close to deleting profile. Lovely local gentleman offered to meet in starbucks and explained how the site works, the info was invaluable.

Although he was not my type and nothing further happened with us, I am hugely grateful for for his time and experience that day and always try to help other newish people understand how to get the best from the site.

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