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Oooooh Right Thought You Might Have Worn Something A Bit Sexy!!!!

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

When you arrive at a coffee meet in a public area wearing a nice pair of leather leggings and a cute vest top but he has the look of "Thought she might have worn something a bit more sexy" on his face....

Is there a protocol for making an effort to meet for coffee?

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Did the other person make an effort to look sexy?

For a coffee meet I’d be wearing something that I feel comfortable in, probably jeans and a polo shirt or shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly wouldn’t care what the person is wearing and would hope they feel similar. I’m self conscious enough without having to be worrying if what I’m wearing is ‘good’ enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd call leather leggings major effort. It will be jeans for me unless it's really hot (a dress) or I'm going somewhere requiring smart attire. It's a coffee for Chrissakes

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's a coffee meet if he's dissappointed you weren't dressed different than you were than he obviously doesn't get what a social is. And to be fair what you wore sounds pretty great anyhow. I don't go all out sexy for a coffee meet either I dress in what I like and feel comfortable in public in.

Sexy stuff would be later if we meet again.Mind you if he gave me the look that he was dissappointed on the coffee meet there would definitely not be another one anyhow.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've gone to coffee meets straight from work in a T-shirt and jeans because I didn't have the option of changing.

I've gone to meets on other days straight from work in a suit and taken off the jacket and tie before doing in so that I would be more comfortable and it looked pretentious.

Comfort is vital especially on a first meet so whatever that means to each individual and there shouldn't be any pressure or expectation to dress in a particular way. Smart casual is best.

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"When you arrive at a coffee meet in a public area wearing a nice pair of leather leggings and a cute vest top but he has the look of "Thought she might have worn something a bit more sexy" on his face....

Is there a protocol for making an effort to meet for coffee?"

I've seen that outfit on you and you look amazing in it and incredibly sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't matter what she wore as long as she was comfortable.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

A coffee meet is to feel comfortable with each other . A lady if she wore something to sexy she might not feel comfortable . I would call leather leggings as sexy and would not be moaning about how a lady is dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you arrive at a coffee meet in a public area wearing a nice pair of leather leggings and a cute vest top but he has the look of "Thought she might have worn something a bit more sexy" on his face....

Is there a protocol for making an effort to meet for coffee?

I've seen that outfit on you and you look amazing in it and incredibly sexy"

Same set definitely looks good in that outfit.

I usually wear a dress but I dint go out of my way or wear anything overly sexy, it's a social meet.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Your outfit sounds pretty sexy to me

Did he expect you to be falling out of your top or what? What effort did he make for you? Sounds like a bit of a dreamer to me.

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

I'd be drooling if I met you with your leather leggings!! What was he expecting anyway, it was a coffee meet for God's same.

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im fully convinced he honestly thought id rock up in some sort of tight top,short skirt,stockings and high heels.....

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"Im fully convinced he honestly thought id rock up in some sort of tight top,short skirt,stockings and high heels..... "

Sounds like he is a bit of a Gobshite. Probably better off without him girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having met and seen you in this outfit you are absolutely stunning...

At the end of the day it is not about what you wear it is about the person wearing the clothing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having met and seen you in this outfit you are absolutely stunning...

At the end of the day it is not about what you wear it is about the person wearing the clothing...

"

Exactly

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Im fully convinced he honestly thought id rock up in some sort of tight top,short skirt,stockings and high heels..... "

Ya did the first time we had breakfast in fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fully convinced he honestly thought id rock up in some sort of tight top,short skirt,stockings and high heels..... "

He'd probably given you the look that your're a bit over dressed for coffee then

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Im fully convinced he honestly thought id rock up in some sort of tight top,short skirt,stockings and high heels.....

Ya did the first time we had breakfast in fairness "

Then ye slipped me €50

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Im fully convinced he honestly thought id rock up in some sort of tight top,short skirt,stockings and high heels.....

Ya did the first time we had breakfast in fairness

Then ye slipped me €50 "

That was to pay for the breakfast.....did we do a runner

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

If its coffee we just wear whats comfortable but we will still make a little effort but generally it will be casual.

We've told this story previously on other threads. But we arranged a meeting at a hotel with a guy for a drink and the suggestion that if it went well it would turn into a bit more on the evening.

We both made an effort, Mrs in particular had hair & makeup done, nice dress, heels. He turned up in a t-shirt, dirty shorts and sliders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual is fine for coffee. If it’s on a Saturday or Sunday then maybe a bit more high end casual.

But no need to go all out on first audition, especially these days with athleisure and dressing down trend.

Keep the good stuff for the bigger nights/dates

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Casual is fine for coffee. If it’s on a Saturday or Sunday then maybe a bit more high end casual.

But no need to go all out on first audition, especially these days with athleisure and dressing down trend.

Keep the good stuff for the bigger nights/dates "

Why be more high end at the weekend than apposed to during the week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that’s just a personal preference if I was dressing up for a caffeine filled conversation.

Probably because it’s office/work during the week, so don’t get a chance to throw on nicer Casuals.

I have a weekend wardrobe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Casual is fine for coffee. If it’s on a Saturday or Sunday then maybe a bit more high end casual.

But no need to go all out on first audition, especially these days with athleisure and dressing down trend.

Keep the good stuff for the bigger nights/dates "

Why would having coffee on a Sunday make you dress more high end?

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Damon miss Lolly that was an effort imo , I’d be rocking up in converse and skinnies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Casual is fine for coffee. If it’s on a Saturday or Sunday then maybe a bit more high end casual.

But no need to go all out on first audition, especially these days with athleisure and dressing down trend.

Keep the good stuff for the bigger nights/dates

Why would having coffee on a Sunday make you dress more high end? "

After Mass maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a pair of leather leggings or trousers couldn’t be any more sexier.

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"For me a pair of leather leggings or trousers couldn’t be any more sexier.

"

Except on a hot day then it can lead to all kinds of trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Casual is fine for coffee. If it’s on a Saturday or Sunday then maybe a bit more high end casual.

But no need to go all out on first audition, especially these days with athleisure and dressing down trend.

Keep the good stuff for the bigger nights/dates

Why would having coffee on a Sunday make you dress more high end?

After Mass maybe "

Oh that could be it

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By *onzo888100Man
over a year ago

Bangor

Sounds reasonable attire for a coffee meet. But then, you could make any outfit look good XOX

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

For a social pre-sex meet, I would try to look presentable & dress in my usual smart casual style.

I would want to reflect by my choice of dress something of my personality.

For the actual sex meet, as a naturist I have a preference for total nudity.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I would make myself presentable bit I wouldn't go all out especially for a coffee meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you arrive at a coffee meet in a public area wearing a nice pair of leather leggings and a cute vest top but he has the look of "Thought she might have worn something a bit more sexy" on his face....

Is there a protocol for making an effort to meet for coffee?"

If they don't appreciate you with clothes on, they don't deserve an opportunity to appreciate you with them off.

You rock whatever it is you desire.

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"When you arrive at a coffee meet in a public area wearing a nice pair of leather leggings and a cute vest top but he has the look of "Thought she might have worn something a bit more sexy" on his face....

Is there a protocol for making an effort to meet for coffee?

If they don't appreciate you with clothes on, they don't deserve an opportunity to appreciate you with them off.

You rock whatever it is you desire."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say it's such a turn off for me when I get asked what I'm wearing, I'm not a girly girl not into playing dress up im not a barbie doll lol ,if I was going on a night out I do make an effort but a coffee meet no,

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By *eardedvillainMan
over a year ago

Bangor N.Ireland

It's a social so who bleeding cares aslong as she's not wearing a football, curling or similar top for your southerners . OP you'd look well in a bin bag

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"For me a pair of leather leggings or trousers couldn’t be any more sexier.

Except on a hot day then it can lead to all kinds of trouble "

Ross from friends comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leather leggings are classy and sexy in my view. Either he's a knob or you read him incorrectly possibly. how did the rest of the social go?

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

What do you mean - you went dressed?!?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"What do you mean - you went dressed?!? "

Coffee....

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"What do you mean - you went dressed?!?

Coffee.... "

Your point?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"What do you mean - you went dressed?!?

Coffee....

Your point? "

Lets get barred from the local Costa

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"What do you mean - you went dressed?!?

Coffee....

Your point?

Lets get barred from the local Costa "

No better place to be barred from

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By *ummer_XOWoman
over a year ago

Tyrone

If I could do social coffees in my fluffy jammies I would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, it's out of order casting judgement on a person's choices whether it's 'just' for a social coffee or not.

I do love to have fun with what I wear if it's meeting with a friend I've already broken the ice with, but it's MY kink that I enjoy (with their agreement) and not done on demand or expectation

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Personally I don't think what you wear is as important as your mindset. Everything flows from chemistry which can be instant and spontaneous.

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