FabSwingers.com forum: What triggers you ?

By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I mostly avoid the trap but sometimes I see a vaccine related post Which I can’t help but argue over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're talking about fab....

Women being categorised - plus size, BBW etc.

The self righteous bs of those that do wrong but have a reason to blame someone or something else.

'Fab Straight' guys posting in forums about how manly they are and messaging you telling you the want the ass fk'd off them.

Everyday life - I'll summarise - People, the weather, work, cost of living, driving, my body type, my sexual orientation, politics and the list goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pig ignorance

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

Nothing.

Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excessive bad language.

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By *on655Man
over a year ago

Bronte

"Excessive bad language. "

Ahhhh fuck. Sorry couldn’t help myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Excessive bad language.

Ahhhh fuck. Sorry couldn’t help myself

Lol I said excessive and not through a screen it's more in person. Last time I counted how many times a person said it while he was talking a few sentences lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The little boys on here, seem to talk all the talk but usually are just full of crap.

People who think they are so much better than others - no one is better than anyone here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The little boys on here, seem to talk all the talk but usually are just full of crap.

People who think they are so much better than others - no one is better than anyone here

Exactly xx it's nice to see you other platinumhotwife, hope all is good with you xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idiots

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By *eardedvillainMan
over a year ago

Bangor N.Ireland

People not indicating

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By *ust4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Moira

When I buy a walnut whip and it hasn't got a walnut ..surely thats just a whip ...I like whips though so it's very confusing

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Nose pickers in public.. David Attenborough should overlay his voice on it... And now the examination of the his cavernous pickings, juicy, edible to sustain him....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on reality TV shows acting surprised when the presenter arrives at their door, with a camera following them to answer the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I order a pizza and they forget the dip

travesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab? Nothing, it's not worth it

In real life? People being ignorant to others who they see as beneath them in some way

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

You order clothes online for an event and the package turns up a week late

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

People throwing rubbish on the ground or especially out a car window

People that look down on others

People

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People throwing rubbish on the ground or especially out a car window

People that look down on others

People

“People that look down on others”

Plenty of that goes on here within the “Clique”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing.

Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really."

This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.

Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

People who demand everyone respect and tolerate their thing, be that sexuality, food choices, lifestyle, or whatever it happens to be. For example, a vegetarian not tolerant of someone eating meat or a vegan not tolerant of a vegetarian eating eggs or a raw vegan not tolerant of a vegan cooking spuds, just live and let live, no one really cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.

Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness"

Transphobia has grown a lot in recent months all over the world not just here unfortunately.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.

Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness

Transphobia has grown a lot in recent months all over the world not just here unfortunately. "

I would say exposed as opposed to grown.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

On here people asking info on others and those arseholes who share it even when it's wrong.

Apart from that on here I don't invest enough energy to care what others do really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People and life in generally triggers me lol

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Bullying really triggers me.

Ignorance in general is a trigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner."

Don't buy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.

Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness

Transphobia has grown a lot in recent months all over the world not just here unfortunately.

I would say exposed as opposed to grown."

I'd agree

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.

Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness"

All of the above for me too.

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By *e MasseurMan
over a year ago

Posts about trigger, triggers me

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner.

Don't buy it

It is a challenge at this stage.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner.

Don't buy it

It is a challenge at this stage."

Which part - not getting triggered, not getting triggered by not being able to open the packaging or not buying it in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that stand at the entrance of a shop to have a chat. Move out of the way so people can enter and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner.

Don't buy it

It is a challenge at this stage.

Which part - not getting triggered, not getting triggered by not being able to open the packaging or not buying it in the first place

Defeating those two little words and opening it without having to call the packet a flurry of curse words. Don't get me started on Venetian Blinds. They are my true nemesis.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner.

Don't buy it

It is a challenge at this stage.

Which part - not getting triggered, not getting triggered by not being able to open the packaging or not buying it in the first place

Defeating those two little words and opening it without having to call the packet a flurry of curse words. Don't get me started on Venetian Blinds. They are my true nemesis. "

Get rid of the Venetians...Marsians keep you warmer anyway

The flurry of curse words on occasion is such a release, look at the positive

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Actually packs of cheese or ham slices that have the peel here on one corner but the product packed from the opposite end that you have to touch all the slices to peel one other really piss me off.....calm down calm down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bullying really triggers me.

Ignorance in general is a trigger."

This seems to be rife here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that clear out their lungs and noses and spit it on the footpath! It especially boils my blood when they do it as someone is walking towards them!!!! Aaarrrggghhhhhh

T x

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

"Bullying really triggers me.

Ignorance in general is a trigger.

This seems to be rife here

The catty comments when someone posts something they think is silly or don't agree with. Give me strength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People not indicating

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Personally I think you should be allowed to ram them off the road for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who park taking up half the footpath that no one walking can pass never mind a buggy or wheelchair

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By *hyguy999Man
over a year ago

Killarney

"When I order a pizza and they forget the dip

travesty "

When I order Den Joes and they forget the curry. Sleepless nights over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social media posts that are false, usually targeted at trans people, vaccination info, pro choice etc. The goal is always the same, stoke an argument, get a few clicks. It's definitely a coordinated effort across platforms and profiles, you see the same shit copied and pasted on various forums/ threads. There's a guy living near me who gets a few bob to hang those Repent posters around the town, posters about the vaccine harming footballers and kids. It really is bizarre to me that any group would be so harmful.

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By *hyguy999Man
over a year ago

Killarney

"Bullying really triggers me.

Ignorance in general is a trigger."

Same. HATE BULLYING

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually packs of cheese or ham slices that have the peel here on one corner but the product packed from the opposite end that you have to touch all the slices to peel one other really piss me off.....calm down calm down "

I feel you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who defend peadophiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab? Nothing, we've been on this site on and off over the years, so we've seen and heard it all.

In life? Well! Driving out of my estate on an incline to the main road which is on another hill, (it's Cork folks!), and no matter what time of day or night there is always someone driving incredibly slowly past me before I get out. It's annoying as I drive a slow moving van myself and it takes ages to get on to the main road. It's infuriating! 7am someone goes past, 10am, 5pm, stupid o'clock am and someone trundles past. I'd love to be able to get on to that road just once without having to bloody wait

It's the only exit in an estate with 500 houses.

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry

Anyone talking about Liverpool!!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People not indicating

Personally I think you should be allowed to ram them off the road for this

Not a BMW fan then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't start me about the easy open and resealable packs that you have to rip to shreds to get open. Why don't they just put them in zip lock bags. It's where it ends up anyway.

And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me

Ever heard of a freezer?

And homemade burgers are so much more yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me

Ever heard of a freezer?

And homemade burgers are so much more yummy

Ah ye. Now that I'm out on my own I don't use much frozen stuff. But the 6/4 ratio is a head wreck.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me

Ever heard of a freezer?

And homemade burgers are so much more yummy

Ah ye. Now that I'm out on my own I don't use much frozen stuff. But the 6/4 ratio is a head wreck. "

Or buy the premade burgers plus buns from the chill cabinet

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

People who don't prepare properly for security at airports.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

At the ripe age of 24 going on 25 things are starting to "trigger" me less. Two faced people piss me off. The smiley oh hey im such a nice person that is simultaneously stabbing you in the back then playing innocent when you cop it. A lot of secondary school antics that are beyond pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man behind me yesterday in the post office chewing gum. Right in my ear. He is lucky to still be alive

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Very little to be honest here on fab ,in everyday life ,lack of manners would grind my gears !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me

Ever heard of a freezer?

And homemade burgers are so much more yummy

Ah ye. Now that I'm out on my own I don't use much frozen stuff. But the 6/4 ratio is a head wreck.

Or buy the premade burgers plus buns from the chill cabinet

Duuuuude!!! The microwave rubbish?

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

White knights

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"White knights"

Waiting for the rest of your list…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing.

Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.

This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.

this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"White knights"

Ah but the women here love them though. Massages their egos

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"White knights"

What's the definition of this again?

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

To add my entry: 40 yoyo expensive warhammer model you can't even assemble properly without Tony Stark kind of workshop, and yet the proxy model can be printed off for like 2 yoyos, and looks better!

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

"Nothing.

Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.

This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.

this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing. "

Believe me, having tried and tried and tried the many suggested different ways of dealing with trumas and triggers, I found that the only two ways which work for my brain are: 'Forget and Forgive', and 'Ignore and walk away from the Kunt(s)'.

. I promise you, they work like magic.

Oh by the way, are you still looking into those Greek cruises ? If so, please drop me a line. I've an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing.

Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.

This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.

this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing.

. I promise you, they work like magic.

Oh by the way, are you still looking into those Greek cruises ? If so, please drop me a line. I've an idea

Some things just can't be forgiven and must be dealt with accordingly though. Yes I walk away alot don't need negativity in my life . Greek cruises, did i say that if so when ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far right drivel and people blaming minorities for everything

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

"Nothing.

Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.

This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.

this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing.

. I promise you, they work like magic.

Oh by the way, are you still looking into those Greek cruises ? If so, please drop me a line. I've an idea

Some things just can't be forgiven and must be dealt with accordingly though. Yes I walk away alot don't need negativity in my life . Greek cruises, did i say that if so when ?"

I hear you, some acts are too difficult to forgive, but I promise you forgiveness is what liberates you and sets you free.

Yeah, a particular type of cruises that sails from Greece were mentioned on the last Limerick M&G Kik group chat and popped a comment about them Just after those lovely bike pictures, lol.

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

"Far right drivel and people blaming minorities for everything "

That sounds like my ex wife Mel, she blamed me for everything in the entire universe

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

When you turn up for an appointment and they tell you its been cancelled grrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing.

Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.

This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.

this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing.

. I promise you, they work like magic.

Oh by the way, are you still looking into those Greek cruises ? If so, please drop me a line. I've an idea

Some things just can't be forgiven and must be dealt with accordingly though. Yes I walk away alot don't need negativity in my life . Greek cruises, did i say that if so when ?

I hear you, some acts are too difficult to forgive, but I promise you forgiveness is what liberates you and sets you free.

Yeah, a particular type of cruises that sails from Greece were mentioned on the last Limerick M&G Kik group chat and popped a comment about them Just after those lovely bike pictures, lol."

I would want to watch what am saying in those private groups so wouldn't I, no further comments here.

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By *tslife222Man
over a year ago

by the sea louth

Fuckwits and narcissistic people definitely trigger me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance which is plentifull on here.

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