FabSwingers.com forum: Premature Ejaculation

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there any women that are turned on by this.

I suffer with this sometimes but once I cum, I can get hard again fairly quick and last longer the second time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry op for your condition, but this is going to be interesting to read if it gets going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm used to it now, I always inform people first before we get up to anything and assure them I will last longer on the second round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me once he doesn’t roll over and take a nap, it just leaves more time for him to work on me

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Did you know in India there's a god for just about everything except premature ejaculation but....

There's one coming soon

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Seems to be a standard answer from most women on these threads that I've read previously

As long as you can go again and recover quickly they dont mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn’t bother me once he doesn’t roll over and take a nap, it just leaves more time for him to work on me"

Not a chance of that happening with you

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork

Dated a guy years ago who had this problem.... It was never really an issue for me, but he was so self conscious and constantly bringing it up and apologising it eventually just put me off and we split up. He made it into a big deal, which I appreciate it obviously was for him, but I also think because he obsessed about it so much it actually made the problem worse.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I went to a Premature Ejaculation meeting today.... Turned out it's next Monday

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By *m_impact_playMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Are there any women that are turned on by this.

I suffer with this sometimes but once I cum, I can get hard again fairly quick and last longer the second time.

Massive issue for a lot of men, more spread among the male population that people would be aware.

Very damaging to the man self esteem and confidence.

I think every woman I've met so far, has mentioned more than one occurrence in their sexual life and most of them were sort of a "game over" scenario once the man ejaculated, leaving the woman in limbo.

Most of the guys in their prime, early 30s, good looking....but absolutely not able to handle the situation in a better way, knowing exactly the outcome.

Well, I guess better that the serial pooper who a female on Fab had the unfortunate "luck" to experience twice.

An unexpected turd on your bathroom floor, beats the shit (excuse the pun) out of a premature ejaculation!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's a quite common problem and of course it can happen. I would think though or even expect when someone is aware of the issue and it's a reoccuring thing that different ways/techniques are explored to gain control over it rather than just accepting it or even celebrate it. Just my 2 cents.

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By *iquidRavenMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Unload the yogurt slinger pre meet and all should be good.

Next you'll be waving a gentlemanly piece minus the early painters radio scenario.

Any lads out there looking for advice my services aren't cheap but neither are they cheap.

Any questions forward to my inbox... and no that's not a loaded finisher

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By *oinNumberMan
over a year ago

Not in Dublin

This may sound like a stupid question but what constitutes a premature cum?

- before any sex at all

- after a couple of strokes/pumps

- 2 or 3 minutes

- before the other partner comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to a Premature Ejaculation meeting today.... Turned out it's next Monday

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you came to early..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to the best of us in different form. Intimacy and Intensity is what it is...

Enjoy the orgasim get back in the saddle and drive on.everyone has something going on

Forget the macho bull shit and toxic masculinity

Take ownership

Communication is key

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

A good attitude and a willingness to put in work afterwards after a premature ejaculation is great and can be a treat for a lady. Falling asleep/leaving and giving up, not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may sound like a stupid question but what constitutes a premature cum?

- before any sex at all

- after a couple of strokes/pumps

- 2 or 3 minutes

- before the other partner comes "

That’s a good point. I was with a girl a few weeks ago. Lots of kissing, sucking, wanking etc. When we started having sex, I couldn’t last longer than a minute. She said I came really quickly!!! But shur I nearly came 3 or 4 times when she was sucking me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may sound like a stupid question but what constitutes a premature cum?

- before any sex at all

- after a couple of strokes/pumps

- 2 or 3 minutes

- before the other partner comes

Exactly..... magicians some of them think we are....

Only starting at no 1 then ,-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may sound like a stupid question but what constitutes a premature cum?

- before any sex at all

- after a couple of strokes/pumps

- 2 or 3 minutes

- before the other partner comes

Exactly..... magicians some of them think we are....

Only starting at no 1 then ,-)

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

This is a bit like the "does cock size matter" threads. Guys, us ladies take premature ejaculation as a compliment must of the time and obsession over all these things is really off-putting.

Communicate with us, relax, stop worrying and just have fun would be my advice. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not ashamed to say that I have experienced this (and no doubt will do again in the future) and I reckon most men have too but few speak out about it so fair play to you OP for being open and honest.

It is a discussion worth having. As mentioned already, the macho man nonsense is toxic and if find yourself in a situation where your partner responds unkindly in anyway you have just learned that you should never have been intimate with them in the first place.

The important thing is to take the taboo out of the situation and talk about it. Speak with partners. Speak with your mates. Speak with fellow Fabbers. Speak with our doctor if we feel the need to.

Communication is most important.

It is not about when you score the winning goal. That can happen in the first or last minute or even in extra time or the reply. It is about staying committed for the full match. Sometimes we wont even score at all (which can be much more awkward) and besides, we can always set up a goal or even a hat-trick for somebody else.

There is nothing to be ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I though premature suggested ejaculating without any physical stimulation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it has happened to every man at some stage and it truly is nothing to be ashamed of. Can be a factor on many different circumstances. It has happened to myself before and could very well again happen.

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By *asual_eyesMan
over a year ago

Sallins/Naas

I often have the opposite issue of not cumming at all, through no fault of my partner's.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Premature ejaculation cums in various forms, the most severe being ejaculation immediately prior to an attempted penetration, or less seriously ejaculation within a few strokes.

I sympthasise with anxious men who experience this issue, to the frustration of their partners who may never an orgasm.

However, I have had the opposite experience; I can keep going for a very long time, and when my partners have orgasmed on multiple occasions, in different positions, I can decide to up the pace and ejeculate.

One former partner, who was highly experienced, used to wait until she had orgasmed to her satisfaction, and would then lean back and massage the head of my penis with her cervix. It worked every time, without fail!

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