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"You will probably hear lots of horror stories but Mr had it done with local anaesthetic and was absolutely grand. Yes he was tender after but nothing that over the counter painkillers didn't fix. It didn't and hasn't affected our sex life in any way " I'd 2nd this. Bit tender afterwards and cautious for obvious reasons. But after a few days it's fine. I'm delighted I got it done,the only side effect was an increased sex drive! | |||
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"Morning fabbers Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks " Just wondering what input a woman would have about a vasectomy 
That is unless it's looking for bare back sex ?
Btw I've heard both good and bad reports after it . More good than bad .
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" Just wondering what input a woman would have about a vasectomy
That is unless it's looking for bare back sex ?
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks " Highly recomendable….After our third child he got it done. The procedure was very simple. In and out the same day. A bit of rest for the following few days and he was good to go again. No issues at all. We were cautious for a few weeks because I could still get pregnant but besides that nothing changed. I really appreciated not having to uses any hormonal contraceptives after that.  | |||
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"I made an appointment today to get it done at the end of September." Great profile BTW .. are you not to young to get the snip, I was 31 when I got my tubes tied, but after having 3 c sections I'd no choice  | |||
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I know a guy who got a snip at 27. He had to jump through many loops for years.
Dirk got the snip 3 years ago - no issues at all. Bit of a dull pain for a week but painkillers sorted it.
Massive relief for both of us to know that there is no chance of us having any unfortunate accidents with each other or other people.
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"I had to get cancer to finally become sterile. Young people who categorically don't want to have children aren't taken seriously by anyone
I know a guy who got a snip at 27. He had to jump through many loops for years.
Dirk got the snip 3 years ago - no issues at all. Bit of a dull pain for a week but painkillers sorted it.
Massive relief for both of us to know that there is no chance of us having any unfortunate accidents with each other or other people.
Missus "27yo getting the snip that's very young but I'm sure he thought really hard about it, not everyone wants children, that was very tough on him to make that decision fair play | |||
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"I had to get cancer to finally become sterile. Young people who categorically don't want to have children aren't taken seriously by anyone
I know a guy who got a snip at 27. He had to jump through many loops for years.
Dirk got the snip 3 years ago - no issues at all. Bit of a dull pain for a week but painkillers sorted it.
Massive relief for both of us to know that there is no chance of us having any unfortunate accidents with each other or other people.
Missus
27yo getting the snip that's very young but I'm sure he thought really hard about it, not everyone wants children, that was very tough on him to make that decision fair play "To be honest I would have had my tubes tied at 18 if I could.. thankfully I don't have to any more. Some people just don't want kids at all and it's a very easy decision for them, tough part is to follow through as nobody ever takes your desicion seriously
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"I had to get cancer to finally become sterile. Young people who categorically don't want to have children aren't taken seriously by anyone
I know a guy who got a snip at 27. He had to jump through many loops for years.
Dirk got the snip 3 years ago - no issues at all. Bit of a dull pain for a week but painkillers sorted it.
Massive relief for both of us to know that there is no chance of us having any unfortunate accidents with each other or other people.
Missus
27yo getting the snip that's very young but I'm sure he thought really hard about it, not everyone wants children, that was very tough on him to make that decision fair play
To be honest I would have had my tubes tied at 18 if I could.. thankfully I don't have to any more.
Some people just don't want kids at all and it's a very easy decision for them, tough part is to follow through as nobody ever takes your desicion seriously
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Went to my doctor she told me to check up vasectomy clinics online I got one in Midlands that was no knife was all done by a lazer cutter was local antistatic via a spray on the area. No pain whatsoever. Little discomfort a day or 2 later but minimal really.there really is nothing to fear the scar is the size of the camera lense on your phone it's that small Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks " | |||
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" Great profile BTW .. " Why thank you 
"are you not to young to get the snip, I was 31 when I got my tubes tied, but after having 3 c sections I'd no choice "Sorry to hear the decision was taken out of your hands. Nah, I'm not too young. I've made the decision I don't want kids, so it makes the most sense. | |||
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" Great profile BTW .. Why thank you
are you not to young to get the snip, I was 31 when I got my tubes tied, but after having 3 c sections I'd no choice
Sorry to hear the decision was taken out of your hands.
Nah, I'm not too young. I've made the decision I don't want kids, so it makes the most sense."Good on you, I bet it wasn't a easy decision, | |||
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" Good on you, I bet it wasn't a easy decision," It kind of follows from my lifestyle choice. I don't want a primary partner either, so I don't think it would work to have children with someone. | |||
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"I’m always impressed with men who get it done. It’s nearly always reversible and has little to no side effects. It’s a very short painless procedure covered by most basic health insurance plans and is cheap as chips if you’re insurance free. Compared to the absolute f*cking shitshow I went (and most women go) through to get sterilised after a long troubled and horrendous history of pregnancy and birth control efforts, it’s amazing men aren’t encouraged don’t get the snip in their teens and reversed when they want to start a family. " For me it was an easy decision, we'd finished our family! It had served its purpose, now its only required for pleasure!! 
I cannot understand how couples in a similar situation are not jumping on it. Cheap, permanent, reliable. No female hormonal contraception....There is something liberating about it aswell! | |||
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"I’m always impressed with men who get it done. It’s nearly always reversible and has little to no side effects. It’s a very short painless procedure covered by most basic health insurance plans and is cheap as chips if you’re insurance free. Compared to the absolute f*cking shitshow I went (and most women go) through to get sterilised after a long troubled and horrendous history of pregnancy and birth control efforts, it’s amazing men aren’t encouraged don’t get the snip in their teens and reversed when they want to start a family. For me it was an easy decision, we'd finished our family! It had served its purpose, now its only required for pleasure!!
I cannot understand how couples in a similar situation are not jumping on it. Cheap, permanent, reliable. No female hormonal contraception....There is something liberating about it aswell!"I agree. My Kids Dad always said he’d get one but MY fertility and MY body were MY issue.. Not a communal decision. And yes, it’s incredibly liberating. | |||
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"A permanent solution to a problem that can be tackled by other means, that are less drastic!" The majority of other means end up on the shoulders of the woman. They're usually chemical, female hormonal treatments, this might be normalised, but its pretty drastic for many! Condoms are for teens, twenties and swingers. They are not a serious option for birth control!....Pretty limited after that! | |||
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"A permanent solution to a problem that can be tackled by other means, that are less drastic!" Female hormonal contraception side effects: Weight gain, acne, depression, mood swings, suicidal thoughts, unstable periods, blood clots, cancer (not all, but significant enough percentage to mention it). All this and many women can still get pregnant while being on birth control. Versus 5min minimally invasive surgery for a man with no long term side effects. Which one is less drastic you tell me 
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"A permanent solution to a problem that can be tackled by other means, that are less drastic! Female hormonal contraception side effects: Weight gain, acne, depression, mood swings, suicidal thoughts, unstable periods, blood clots, cancer (not all, but significant enough percentage to mention it). All this and many women can still get pregnant while being on birth control. Versus 5min minimally invasive surgery for a man with no long term side effects. Which one is less drastic you tell me
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"I’m always impressed with men who get it done. It’s nearly always reversible and has little to no side effects. It’s a very short painless procedure covered by most basic health insurance plans and is cheap as chips if you’re insurance free. Compared to the absolute f*cking shitshow I went (and most women go) through to get sterilised after a long troubled and horrendous history of pregnancy and birth control efforts, it’s amazing men aren’t encouraged don’t get the snip in their teens and reversed when they want to start a family. " You might want to check up on your facts. Getting snipped in your teens and then trying to reverse it down the line is a crazy thing to recommend. The longer you’ve had it done the smaller chance of getting sperm back in your semen and then out of the percentage of men that do get sperm back in their semen an even smaller percentage are able to get a woman pregnant. If it was down at 18/19 and they tried to reverse it after say 10 years less than 80% would get sperm back and then less the 45% of them are able to go on to impregnate a partner. If they wait a few more years(until they’re in their 30’s which is most likely) to get it reversed the results are even worse. | |||
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"A permanent solution to a problem that can be tackled by other means, that are less drastic! Female hormonal contraception side effects: Weight gain, acne, depression, mood swings, suicidal thoughts, unstable periods, blood clots, cancer (not all, but significant enough percentage to mention it). All this and many women can still get pregnant while being on birth control. Versus 5min minimally invasive surgery for a man with no long term side effects. Which one is less drastic you tell me
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" You might want to check up on your facts. Getting snipped in your teens and then trying to reverse it down the line is a crazy thing to recommend. The longer you’ve had it done the smaller chance of getting sperm back in your semen and then out of the percentage of men that do get sperm back in their semen an even smaller percentage are able to get a woman pregnant. If it was down at 18/19 and they tried to reverse it after say 10 years less than 80% would get sperm back and then less the 45% of them are able to go on to impregnate a partner. If they wait a few more years(until they’re in their 30’s which is most likely) to get it reversed the results are even worse. " Daz, you might want to check your source? Your sperm don't go anywhere you don't have to "get them back". You never stop producing sperm even after a vasectomy. They just snip the Vas deferens which stops them travelling with the ejaculate. You still ejaculate the exact same way and amount as before. The swimmers are only 1-2% of your ejaculate anyway. If you reconnect the Vas the sperm will flow again! Those figures, which eror on the side of caution, in reality are probably similar success rates for men who never had a vasectomy! | |||
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" Those figures, which eror on the side of caution, in reality are probably similar success rates for men who never had a vasectomy!" Sorry, having read that again, those figures are complete b?ll?cks! | |||
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Seriously though, wired sensation having it done, a little discomfort 1st day, incision scar scabbed a little which rubbed for a day or so, but all was good | |||
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" You might want to check up on your facts. Getting snipped in your teens and then trying to reverse it down the line is a crazy thing to recommend. The longer you’ve had it done the smaller chance of getting sperm back in your semen and then out of the percentage of men that do get sperm back in their semen an even smaller percentage are able to get a woman pregnant. If it was down at 18/19 and they tried to reverse it after say 10 years less than 80% would get sperm back and then less the 45% of them are able to go on to impregnate a partner. If they wait a few more years(until they’re in their 30’s which is most likely) to get it reversed the results are even worse. Daz, you might want to check your source? Your sperm don't go anywhere you don't have to "get them back". You never stop producing sperm even after a vasectomy. They just snip the Vas deferens which stops them travelling with the ejaculate. You still ejaculate the exact same way and amount as before. The swimmers are only 1-2% of your ejaculate anyway. If you reconnect the Vas the sperm will flow again! Those figures, which eror on the side of caution, in reality are probably similar success rates for men who never had a vasectomy!" You might want to work on your reading comprehension but dismissing what I said. I said sperm back into the semen. Down play it all you want but it’s not as simple as you’re saying and recommending teen boys to get the snip is ridiculous. | |||
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" You might want to work on your reading comprehension but dismissing what I said. I said sperm back into the semen. Down play it all you want but it’s not as simple as you’re saying and recommending teen boys to get the snip is ridiculous. " That's fine Daz and thats your opinion and I've not recommended any teens to get a vasectomy. Just highlighting that your figures are outdated and not accurate. | |||
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" You might want to work on your reading comprehension but dismissing what I said. I said sperm back into the semen. Down play it all you want but it’s not as simple as you’re saying and recommending teen boys to get the snip is ridiculous. That's fine Daz and thats your opinion and I've not recommended any teens to get a vasectomy. Just highlighting that your figures are outdated and not accurate." That’s what the woman recommended. Ok so what are the “real” figures? Every study I’ve seen shows that the longer the length of from the procedure the less chance of success of getting sperm back into the semen and even less chance of pregnancy. You’re saying that’s not right so what is right. | |||
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" You might want to work on your reading comprehension but dismissing what I said. I said sperm back into the semen. Down play it all you want but it’s not as simple as you’re saying and recommending teen boys to get the snip is ridiculous. That's fine Daz and thats your opinion and I've not recommended any teens to get a vasectomy. Just highlighting that your figures are outdated and not accurate. That’s what the woman recommended. Ok so what are the “real” figures? Every study I’ve seen shows that the longer the length of from the procedure the less chance of success of getting sperm back into the semen and even less chance of pregnancy. You’re saying that’s not right so what is right. " You're saying that potentially having low sperm count (with full on option of freezing the sperm for future children just in case anything goes wrong) is worse than having blood clots or cancer  | |||
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" You might want to work on your reading comprehension but dismissing what I said. I said sperm back into the semen. Down play it all you want but it’s not as simple as you’re saying and recommending teen boys to get the snip is ridiculous. That's fine Daz and thats your opinion and I've not recommended any teens to get a vasectomy. Just highlighting that your figures are outdated and not accurate. That’s what the woman recommended. Ok so what are the “real” figures? Every study I’ve seen shows that the longer the length of from the procedure the less chance of success of getting sperm back into the semen and even less chance of pregnancy. You’re saying that’s not right so what is right. You're saying that potentially having low sperm count (with full on option of freezing the sperm for future children just in case anything goes wrong) is worse than having blood clots or cancer "Why is it some people always say something like “so what you’re saying is…” followed by something that was never said or even implied. | |||
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"Bet the op has the snip and full recovery by the time this argument is over "Had the snip Recovered Count checked And it reversed Got her pregnant Had the kid Reposted about having it done again | |||
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"Bet the op has the snip and full recovery by the time this argument is over
Had the snip
Recovered
Count checked
And it reversed
Got her pregnant
Had the kid
Reposted about having it done again"Wow...first one of ever heard of where it failed.....bet the kids your favorite | |||
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks " As you can see you're getting lots of feedback
My opinion - it's a medical decision best discussed with your GP, surgeon and/or anyone else involved in the procedure. With second and third opinions from professionals who have vast (practical) experience in the field with regards to the different types of procedures available, and any and all potential risks involved, and how those potential risks may impact YOUR future, your health, your sex life and libido IF it goes pear shaped... because, as much as the feedback has been positive, any medical procedure always carries risks.
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"Bet the op has the snip and full recovery by the time this argument is over
Had the snip
Recovered
Count checked
And it reversed
Got her pregnant
Had the kid
Reposted about having it done again
Wow...first one of ever heard of where it failed.....bet the kids your favorite "It happens, but was meant to say HAD it reversed, but hay ho, to type quick and don't check you live and die by the written word | |||
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" Just wondering what input a woman would have about a vasectomy
That is unless it's looking for bare back sex ?
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Wow! Dirty really
"Just to clarify I'm not looking for bb sex nor have I had the snip . I was asking is that why some single lads get it done for that reason. Mine is still in working order I hope lol . My brother and 3 brother in laws all had it done no issues. Where as Gills cousin was a total horror story that even he laughs about now years later lol Si xx | |||
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks " Was forced into it by an ex. No pain issues, just a shitty situation. | |||
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks Was forced into it by an ex. No pain issues, just a shitty situation." You might be lucky enough to get a reply saying something like: so you’re saying no pain issues and the chance to freeze sperm beforehand is worse than cancer and blood clots (even though you were forced into it). | |||
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks Was forced into it by an ex. No pain issues, just a shitty situation. You might be lucky enough to get a reply saying something like: so you’re saying no pain issues and the chance to freeze sperm beforehand is worse than cancer and blood clots (even though you were forced into it)." I see you're quite salty about my response to your comments, so I'll explain it a little better: Vasectomy is overwhelmingly less risky, less damaging, almost 100% reliable as well as reversible in most cases. Womens contraceptic choices are in most cases a lot more damaging as well as unreliable as they can still get pregnant and in many cases do irreversible damage to women's reproductive system as well as any other illnesses they might bring along. I don't know how any adult in a healthy relationship can be forced to undergo any medical procedures. Clearly this was an unfortunate case of domestic abuse of some sort and its not right. But from a different perspective... a man who loves and genuinely cares for their woman, who knows all the horrendous side effects that come with the hormonal contraception maybe shouldn't be so adverse to a 5min keyhole procedure with most minor side effects which don't even last a full week. Missus | |||
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"Yes well worth getting it done ...... Had mine 6 years ago after our third child. No pain as such. You can't have unprotected sex for 6 weeks after until they make sure everything has worked." This is critical, for me I think it was 12 weeks. But either way you have to send a sample to be tested...There are still swimmers in the system that need to be "flushed out" in this time. Keep using other contraception until all clear on the test! | |||
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks Was forced into it by an ex. No pain issues, just a shitty situation. You might be lucky enough to get a reply saying something like: so you’re saying no pain issues and the chance to freeze sperm beforehand is worse than cancer and blood clots (even though you were forced into it). I see you're quite salty about my response to your comments, so I'll explain it a little better: Vasectomy is overwhelmingly less risky, less damaging, almost 100% reliable as well as reversible in most cases. Womens contraceptic choices are in most cases a lot more damaging as well as unreliable as they can still get pregnant and in many cases do irreversible damage to women's reproductive system as well as any other illnesses they might bring along. I don't know how any adult in a healthy relationship can be forced to undergo any medical procedures. Clearly this was an unfortunate case of domestic abuse of some sort and its not right. But from a different perspective... a man who loves and genuinely cares for their woman, who knows all the horrendous side effects that come with the hormonal contraception maybe shouldn't be so adverse to a 5min keyhole procedure with most minor side effects which don't even last a full week. Missus " Well you done the scum bag thing of going “so you’re saying” and then saying something I didn’t say at all or even get close to implying so yes you could say I’m salty at someone blatantly lying about what I actually said for whatever twisted reason you have. | |||
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks Was forced into it by an ex. No pain issues, just a shitty situation. You might be lucky enough to get a reply saying something like: so you’re saying no pain issues and the chance to freeze sperm beforehand is worse than cancer and blood clots (even though you were forced into it). I see you're quite salty about my response to your comments, so I'll explain it a little better: Vasectomy is overwhelmingly less risky, less damaging, almost 100% reliable as well as reversible in most cases. Womens contraceptic choices are in most cases a lot more damaging as well as unreliable as they can still get pregnant and in many cases do irreversible damage to women's reproductive system as well as any other illnesses they might bring along. I don't know how any adult in a healthy relationship can be forced to undergo any medical procedures. Clearly this was an unfortunate case of domestic abuse of some sort and its not right. But from a different perspective... a man who loves and genuinely cares for their woman, who knows all the horrendous side effects that come with the hormonal contraception maybe shouldn't be so adverse to a 5min keyhole procedure with most minor side effects which don't even last a full week. Missus Well you done the scum bag thing of going “so you’re saying” and then saying something I didn’t say at all or even get close to implying so yes you could say I’m salty at someone blatantly lying about what I actually said for whatever twisted reason you have. " My twisted reason is me going through cancer and loosing a breast from it, now living with a body mutilated by surgery and horrible chemicals. In the process learning that 1 in 2 women will get cancer at some stage in their lives - hormonal contraception being one of the causes. Meanwhile men are screaming and shouting about how they couldn't possibly get this minute procedure done as a contraceptive measure because their gems shouldn't possibly be ever compromised and how much it means to have healthy swimmers at all stages of life even when they don't plan reproduction. As Red above said - women have to suffer from many side effects throught their lives just for men's "your fertility - your problem, go fuck yourself with your issues" attitude, which you clearly demonstrated by making uneducated remarks about how vasectomy affects young men. Missus | |||
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"Yes well worth getting it done ...... Had mine 6 years ago after our third child. No pain as such. You can't have unprotected sex for 6 weeks after until they make sure everything has worked. This is critical, for me I think it was 12 weeks. But either way you have to send a sample to be tested...There are still swimmers in the system that need to be "flushed out" in this time. Keep using other contraception until all clear on the test!" Remember sending my second sample after 12 weeks in a padded envelope from the local post office to a laboratory in manchester The guy in the post office asked did I want to insure the package in case it was valuable Told him it was priceless but no insurance | |||
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"Morning fabbers Thinking ( just thinking at present!) of getting the snip! And I’d love to get some feedback from guys who’ve got the procedure please? Any residual pain etc afterward? Any issues at all etc. Also ladies- any input from your side, would also be much appreciated. Thanks Was forced into it by an ex. No pain issues, just a shitty situation. You might be lucky enough to get a reply saying something like: so you’re saying no pain issues and the chance to freeze sperm beforehand is worse than cancer and blood clots (even though you were forced into it). I see you're quite salty about my response to your comments, so I'll explain it a little better: Vasectomy is overwhelmingly less risky, less damaging, almost 100% reliable as well as reversible in most cases. Womens contraceptic choices are in most cases a lot more damaging as well as unreliable as they can still get pregnant and in many cases do irreversible damage to women's reproductive system as well as any other illnesses they might bring along. I don't know how any adult in a healthy relationship can be forced to undergo any medical procedures. Clearly this was an unfortunate case of domestic abuse of some sort and its not right. But from a different perspective... a man who loves and genuinely cares for their woman, who knows all the horrendous side effects that come with the hormonal contraception maybe shouldn't be so adverse to a 5min keyhole procedure with most minor side effects which don't even last a full week. Missus Well you done the scum bag thing of going “so you’re saying” and then saying something I didn’t say at all or even get close to implying so yes you could say I’m salty at someone blatantly lying about what I actually said for whatever twisted reason you have. My twisted reason is me going through cancer and loosing a breast from it, now living with a body mutilated by surgery and horrible chemicals. In the process learning that 1 in 2 women will get cancer at some stage in their lives - hormonal contraception being one of the causes. Meanwhile men are screaming and shouting about how they couldn't possibly get this minute procedure done as a contraceptive measure because their gems shouldn't possibly be ever compromised and how much it means to have healthy swimmers at all stages of life even when they don't plan reproduction. As Red above said - women have to suffer from many side effects throught their lives just for men's "your fertility - your problem, go fuck yourself with your issues" attitude, which you clearly demonstrated by making uneducated remarks about how vasectomy affects young men. Missus " I didn’t make any uneducated remarks or dismiss anything women go through. I stated facts vasectomy reversal being less successful the longer it has been since the procedure was done. No one has been able to actual show I was wrong, at most, they just claimed I was wrong. I’ve never forced contraception on anyone unless you count saying I’ll only have sex with a condom so don’t try and act like I have(or men in general) forced hormonal contraception on women. It’s typically their own choice to go that route if they don’t like or want condoms. Even if they choose that I still wear condoms. It’s unfortunate that you’ve had health issues but that had nothing to do with me or any of my comments so I don’t know how’re acting like it did | |||
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" As Red above said - women have to suffer from many side effects throught their lives just for men's "your fertility - your problem, go fuck yourself with your issues" attitude, which you clearly demonstrated by making uneducated remarks about how vasectomy affects young men. Missus " Thank you for actually reading what I said. It’s called weighing up the benefits. Some men (not all which is clear by the postings on this throws) don’t give two shits about what their partners have to go through to manage their fertility. And actually it’s lovely to see how many men genuinely do care! | |||
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" As Red above said - women have to suffer from many side effects throught their lives just for men's "your fertility - your problem, go fuck yourself with your issues" attitude, which you clearly demonstrated by making uneducated remarks about how vasectomy affects young men. Missus Thank you for actually reading what I said. It’s called weighing up the benefits. Some men (not all which is clear by the postings on this throws) don’t give two shits about what their partners have to go through to manage their fertility. And actually it’s lovely to see how many men genuinely do care! " You’ve also said(which I respect) that it’s your fertility, your body, your decision and specifically that it wasn’t a communal decision so you can’t exactly jump on her bandwagon of blaming men and saying women go through it for men while simultaneously saying it was completely for you. | |||
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" As Red above said - women have to suffer from many side effects throught their lives just for men's "your fertility - your problem, go fuck yourself with your issues" attitude, which you clearly demonstrated by making uneducated remarks about how vasectomy affects young men. Missus Thank you for actually reading what I said. It’s called weighing up the benefits. Some men (not all which is clear by the postings on this throws) don’t give two shits about what their partners have to go through to manage their fertility. And actually it’s lovely to see how many men genuinely do care! You’ve also said(which I respect) that it’s your fertility, your body, your decision and specifically that it wasn’t a communal decision so you can’t exactly jump on her bandwagon of blaming men and saying women go through it for men while simultaneously saying it was completely for you. " It was completely for me because it didn’t impact him if I didn’t. IM the one that would suffer the physical consequences of an unwanted pregnancy. Any man can do it for purely personal reasons but if he doesn’t it doesn’t impact him physically. If he does it in consideration of his partner, it’s impressive. There are allergies in my household so we choose not to keep those foods in the house. It’s consideration. | |||
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