FabSwingers.com forum: Topic being catfished by guys on fab

By *ree051970 OP Woman
over a year ago

greystones

Hi everyone,

i'm queen bee...

i'm new to the fab world, i just have to vent this topic that has really peed me off...

After chatting with some guys on fab, i agree to meet for a social coffee or d*unk, to see if we hit it off...

Don't get me wrong i have met some realy great guys on fab.

But in the short time i've been here i have traveled somtimes far to meet guys for a social meet and they were a no show. They would be texting you untill you arrive to your meetung point, then nothing!!!. I'm of the understanding that we are all here to meet people and have fun. Time waisters rune being on a site like this for everyone. I'm sure it happens with the females to the guys aswell. Sorry it's happened to me three times now. And it's put me off meeting all the really genuine men on here for the fear of being stood up. I just felt i needed to share this with you all. Miss T

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By *liusMan
over a year ago

leinster

Let them come to you. Explain what you've outlined above at least you wont waste anymore of your time and will separate the dreamers from reality.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

"Let them come to you. Explain what you've outlined above at least you wont waste anymore of your time and will separate the dreamers from reality.

Exactly this

Or go to a Social best way to meet people and see future potential meets. Oh and they are a lot of fun

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't really catfishing, there no shows and it's not just men that do it.

Since I joined the site I'd say I've been stood up at least 8 times.

As someone else said maybe try socials and meet & greats, it's a great way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let them come to you. Explain what you've outlined above at least you wont waste anymore of your time and will separate the dreamers from reality.

Exactly this

Or go to a Social best way to meet people and see future potential meets. Oh and they are a lot of fun

B x"

Socials are such a great way to meet people. I'm forever grateful for you taking me under your wings and inviting me to my first social all those years ago! I was having disaster after disaster up until then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there have been and always will be these morons. They make it harder for other single guys and i've always thought some just genuinely get their jollies from getting a response from a girl and leading them on. I mean lads.. if ye just want a wank, have one without the collateral damage. Baffles me.

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