FabSwingers.com forum: Telling lies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So who is most likely to get away with it ? Male or female ?

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The more attractive a liar is, especially a skilled pathological liar, the more likely they are to get away with it!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Women definitely.

Then again I could be lying

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I tell himself that I would lie to him so that makes me a more honest person than himself who lies to me telling me he wouldn’t lie to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell himself that I would lie to him so that makes me a more honest person than himself who lies to me telling me he wouldn’t lie to me

Well, that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more attractive a liar is, especially a skilled pathological liar, the more likely they are to get away with it!"

This doesn't explain Donald Trump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more attractive a liar is, especially a skilled pathological liar, the more likely they are to get away with it!

This doesn't explain Donald Trump"

True. Can anybody though?

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By *ilitaWoman
over a year ago

The best town

The biggest masters of lies are men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The liar I ever knew was my last ex girlfriend. Couldn't believe a word out of her mouth by the time we finished.

Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The liar I ever knew was my last ex girlfriend. Couldn't believe a word out of her mouth by the time we finished.

Jay"

Some people just don't know any other way, they can't handle their reality

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"The more attractive a liar is, especially a skilled pathological liar, the more likely they are to get away with it!

This doesn't explain Donald Trump"

Donald Trump is attractive ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't tell lies!!

They just don't answer questions and if they do, they omit the answers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more attractive a liar is, especially a skilled pathological liar, the more likely they are to get away with it!

This doesn't explain Donald Trump

Donald Trump is attractive ??

Eh, that was my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women don't tell lies!!

They just don't answer questions and if they do, they omit the answers!!

"Fine" tells you all you need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person has to lie,the only person there lieing to is themselves,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally agree it’s a small word that tells so much !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The liar I ever knew was my last ex girlfriend. Couldn't believe a word out of her mouth by the time we finished.

Jay

Some people just don't know any other way, they can't handle their reality"

oh yes and this is when it gets headmelting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The liar I ever knew was my last ex girlfriend. Couldn't believe a word out of her mouth by the time we finished.

Jay

Some people just don't know any other way, they can't handle their reality

oh yes and this is when it gets headmelting

The only thing to do is remove oneself from the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women are more likely to get away with it but thats based on nothing other than I think society sees women as less threatening...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The liar I ever knew was my last ex girlfriend. Couldn't believe a word out of her mouth by the time we finished.

Jay

Some people just don't know any other way, they can't handle their reality"

She definitely couldn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally agree with that, women seem to be the best at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say men are more cynical, and women more trusting.

Wether you get away with it depends less on how good a liar you are, and more on who you are telling it to.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I totally agree with that, women seem to be the best at it "

There's a big difference in being the best at lying and getting away with it. The latter doesn't always require a lot of skill.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I totally agree with that, but overall woman are the best liers and usually always get away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women telling lies?!

Never!

They wouldn't.

Would they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people who believe their lies are the truth

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"The people who believe their lies are the truth "

This. And it doesn't matter what gender they are .

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By *amian300Man
over a year ago

dub city closer than you think not in uk

What about all the Walter Mittys out there

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yeah I totally agree with that, but overall woman are the best liers and usually always get away with it "

Is it getting away with it or is it down to fanny blindness?

Perceived status on here enables some lies and liars to be more acceptable than others.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

We all lie, and those who say they don't, they actually do.

Anyhow don't really agree with the gender generalisation, women might be great on a local bitch level but the really big and worst liars can be found on world stage and the vast majority are male.

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By *azirlMan
over a year ago

Marbella

"The biggest masters of lies are men

Except studies show women are better at lies and manipulation over men from a young age so that would suggest women are the masters of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all lie, and those who say they don't, they actually do.

Anyhow don't really agree with the gender generalisation, women might be great on a local bitch level but the really big and worst liars can be found on world stage and the vast majority are male."

That is only because women don't have the balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all lie, and those who say they don't, they actually do.

Anyhow don't really agree with the gender generalisation, women might be great on a local bitch level but the really big and worst liars can be found on world stage and the vast majority are male.

That is only because women don't have the ego

Fixed that for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I totally agree with that, but overall woman are the best liers and usually always get away with it

Is it getting away with it or is it down to fanny blindness?

Perceived status on here enables some lies and liars to be more acceptable than others. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all lie, and those who say they don't, they actually do.

Anyhow don't really agree with the gender generalisation, women might be great on a local bitch level but the really big and worst liars can be found on world stage and the vast majority are male.

That is only because women don't have the ego

Fixed that for ya"

Lol. Touchee. Well done

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

90% of lottery money goes back into the community so Marrion wasn’t telling fibs…..

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

To be a good liar you must believe it your self first....and then have a god memory /

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"To be a good liar you must believe it your self first....and then have a god memory /"
A lot of people can’t handle the truth, so be nice to them embellish it a little bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lies are the worst. No point in doing it as it's best to be up front and honest about things from the start.

If you start that way there's absolutely no need to lie.

It's very simple.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The ability to lie, and crucially to be able to get away with it, for example by the fact that no-one challenges your lie, is indicative of the power dynamic at play.

People at the top of the societal pecking order: politicians, leading entrepreneurs, businessmen and technocrats, heads of government departments, etc., all lie on a daily basis.

If they are challenged, for example by media/tv interviewers, they have pre-boiled replies to thrown the inquisitor off the scent.

In day to day interactions everyone lies, exaggerates or distorts reality, aka the truth.

Most of us are just to polite to confront the liar, whose distortions can range frominor white lies to manipulative gas lighting and coercive control, which is currently being widely reported discussed and entering the mainstream public consciousness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lies are the worst. No point in doing it as it's best to be up front and honest about things from the start.

If you start that way there's absolutely no need to lie.

It's very simple. "

It was family mantra in our house to always be honest.

'what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive' put the fear into me.

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