FabSwingers.com forum: MF Couples: please show M half

By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

Pleeeease include both people if you're presenting as a couple and are seeking women or other couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with this

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

We are both on the public pictures for that reason.

I don’t get the point in not showing both of yourselves if you’re expecting to meet. If that be public, private or dm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get why people looking to meet couples would want to see both partners.

But then it's their profile to do with as they want.

Plenty couples out there have both people in majority of their pictures just interact with them instead.

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

I don't understand it either.

Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?

Or is it camera shyness from the male half?

Would be interested to hear from couples who do this

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

He’s shy

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

^^ There's a Seinfeld episode about this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

"He’s shy

Fair enough.. to be honest, you have more male pics than loads of couples.. at least you can get a sense of his body type

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter "

Fair tactic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter "

Same with us. As it tends to be me on the profile more than the mister

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Noted

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

"I don't understand it either.

Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?

Or is it camera shyness from the male half?

Would be interested to hear from couples who do this

Im in our photos, and our friends only photos have some of just me.. but Ann is the 'selling point' if that makes sense.. ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter "

Same. We would send a message asking to see a pic of male half. If that is ignored we go as far as block those profiles even if they are well known. Like I wouldn't not waiste ours or their time if there is no attraction towards the mister of the couple for me.

Miss_tattoo

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

Totally agree, miss tattoo

"ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at"

Ah now I'd agree with you but that's subjective, e.g. Mrs. is far more attracted to men.

Leaving the male half out of a profile seems like an unnecessary barrier if he's going to be included in a meet.. he's going to be seen at some point

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

"Totally agree, miss tattoo

"ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at"

Ah now I'd agree with you but that's subjective, e.g. Mrs. is far more attracted to men.

Leaving the male half out of a profile seems like an unnecessary barrier if he's going to be included in a meet.. he's going to be seen at some point

This is true and i certainly agree with the point of your post.. its just when uploading photos, given a choice between my gut or her fabulous boobs, its an easy choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally agree, miss tattoo

"ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at"

Ah now I'd agree with you but that's subjective, e.g. Mrs. is far more attracted to men.

Leaving the male half out of a profile seems like an unnecessary barrier if he's going to be included in a meet.. he's going to be seen at some point

This is true and i certainly agree with the point of your post.. its just when uploading photos, given a choice between my gut or her fabulous boobs, its an easy choice

Ah come on now dad bod is totally a thing these days

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

"Totally agree, miss tattoo

"ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at"

Ah now I'd agree with you but that's subjective, e.g. Mrs. is far more attracted to men.

Leaving the male half out of a profile seems like an unnecessary barrier if he's going to be included in a meet.. he's going to be seen at some point

This is true and i certainly agree with the point of your post.. its just when uploading photos, given a choice between my gut or her fabulous boobs, its an easy choice

Ah come on now dad bod is totally a thing these days

Hahaha i guess we'll just have to take more photos this evening and embrace the belly

Any excuse really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter

Miss_tattoo "

Exactly, it's as if the woman is the bait and a straight female half is just supposed to take whatever pitches up

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

Our current target market is single guys and for the most part they aren't interested in seeing Mr

We generally only meet couples at parties where most of the guests already know us. If we are chatting to a couple we've not met before we share plenty of pics.

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don't understand it either.

Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?

Or is it camera shyness from the male half?

Would be interested to hear from couples who do this

Im in our photos, and our friends only photos have some of just me.. but Ann is the 'selling point' if that makes sense.. ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at

Agreed. Also feel that there are more options in terms of lingerie, outfits, and tone.

While I’m a very handsome guy

, we are only looking for a friend for Scarlett so our photos are focused on her because what I look like is irrelevant in the scenario.

However, do agree with the OPs point that if you are shopping for full swap/all in play then everyone needs to be on the billboard

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"He’s shy

He is not shy

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I get that as a single bi female looking couples and group fun would be nice to see more pics of both the lady and the man! If I get asked to meet which is rarely I'd need to at least see a few pics of them both to termine if the meet will go ahead...hate wasting peoples time too! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand it either.

Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?

Or is it camera shyness from the male half?

Would be interested to hear from couples who do this

Im in our photos, and our friends only photos have some of just me.. but Ann is the 'selling point' if that makes sense.. ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at

Agreed. Also feel that there are more options in terms of lingerie, outfits, and tone.

While I’m a very handsome guy

, we are only looking for a friend for Scarlett so our photos are focused on her because what I look like is irrelevant in the scenario.

However, do agree with the OPs point that if you are shopping for full swap/all in play then everyone needs to be on the billboard

In cases like yourselves yeah I get why no or few pics of males. It's the couples that want to meet both that annoy us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its ignorance when a couples profile is presented like this with no male pics.

...heard all the excuses over the years. He doesn't like his pic taken bla bla he's shy bla bla but great at play he's a great cock pic....really ..run quick good luck with that

Its a couples profile not just the female one . It's a complete turn off for potential play and defineatly a party invite ....why would you want to chat and spend time or invite and interact with half of a profile while the other half is a ghost.

It's simple dynamics really

Happy fabbing

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"I think its ignorance when a couples profile is presented like this with no male pics.

...heard all the excuses over the years. He doesn't like his pic taken bla bla he's shy bla bla but great at play he's a great cock pic....really ..run quick good luck with that

It's simple dynamics really

Happy fabbing

Yep this

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don't understand it either.

Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?

Or is it camera shyness from the male half?

Would be interested to hear from couples who do this

Im in our photos, and our friends only photos have some of just me.. but Ann is the 'selling point' if that makes sense.. ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at

Agreed. Also feel that there are more options in terms of lingerie, outfits, and tone.

While I’m a very handsome guy

, we are only looking for a friend for Scarlett so our photos are focused on her because what I look like is irrelevant in the scenario.

However, do agree with the OPs point that if you are shopping for full swap/all in play then everyone needs to be on the billboard

In cases like yourselves yeah I get why no or few pics of males. It's the couples that want to meet both that annoy us "

Absolutely get why it would be annoying in an all in scenario. If we get back into couple play the. We probably wouldn’t even entertain a message unless both partners were well represented on the profile. Kinda sounds like it is the couple equivalent of a silhouette profile picture.

Separately, hot profile btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely it's a big no no i can't see both parties on the profile.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We have some pics of himself , as yes we agree it is only fair if we looking to meet a cpl , that they can see a pic of him too , hate to see cpls profiles that only have all of the female in pics when they also looking for cpls

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have some pics of himself , as yes we agree it is only fair if we looking to meet a cpl , that they can see a pic of him too , hate to see cpls profiles that only have all of the female in pics when they also looking for cpls

Mrs crazy

I love me Willie

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If there's no pic of him, I just assume he's ugly as hell and has a even worse personality.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Mrs crazy

I love me Willie

You only loves Willie

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr.Fantasy is in one or two private pics. But our dynamic is we are not meeting couples/females.

Single men only in a "hotwife" situation. Obviously if we were to explore a MFM situation and they wanted to see him then no problem

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I really need to take a few more pics of himself but I hope what's there gives an idea at least...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter

Miss_tattoo

Exactly, it's as if the woman is the bait and a straight female half is just supposed to take whatever pitches up"

100% I (the female half) think it's rude AF so it's another useful filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a couple of photos of the male half and of us together but less than the hot pics of the female half. Have we got the mix right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a few pics of me but cause I'm not really meeting for personal reasons I don't see the need to have that many

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By *illiwontiCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We are both in the pictures for one or 2, but female has more time on her hands hence more pictures of her

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

"We have a couple of photos of the male half and of us together but less than the hot pics of the female half. Have we got the mix right ?"

Lol c'mon y'all know your pics are fabulous

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

This is a huge frustration for us. Our Mr might get all excited with a message from a couple with loads of hot photos of her, while it’s a disgruntled “meh” from our Mrs due to conspicuous absence of any pics of him on the profile.

Full body pics of her in multiple poses and just different angles of his erect penis doesn’t cut it either.

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

Oof- yes.. all of this A1.. it's frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oof- yes.. all of this A1.. it's frustrating

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yoiuve a very balanced profile…suppose many couples could learn from it and emulate.

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

We have pics of both of us on our profile cause thats we look for on other profiles. If no pics of either member of a couple we assume there is something wrong or something to avoid.

Angel

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

"yoiuve a very balanced profile…suppose many couples could learn from it and emulate."

Ta as do you xx

We just feel fortunate that we can be as open as we are but wouldn't expect the same from anyone else, e.g. public face pics. Our forthrightness and "rules"/preferences certainly put some folks off though!

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

"We have pics of both of us on our profile cause thats we look for on other profiles..."

Amen Angel

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"This is a huge frustration for us. Our Mr might get all excited with a message from a couple with loads of hot photos of her, while it’s a disgruntled “meh” from our Mrs due to conspicuous absence of any pics of him on the profile.

Full body pics of her in multiple poses and just different angles of his erect penis doesn’t cut it either."

The Mrs here wouldn't give the profile a second look if there is no male pics! She's a bit direct that way. In her head it's a female dominant couple, where the male is literally just been brought along for the ride, an instant turn-off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have pics of both of us on our profile cause thats we look for on other profiles...

Amen Angel

Both of yous have great profiles

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

I think it may often be the other way around! As in, male half is posting the pics he likes because "women are objectively hotter than men", etc.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"I think it may often be the other way around! As in, male half is posting the pics he likes because "women are objectively hotter than men", etc.

funny how different people look at it in different ways!

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

Absolutely lol

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

Just so happens m in our profile is gorgeous! Wanna show him off! R

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

I think everyone should be allowed to post what ever they want, not having both parties in public pics isnt a deal breaker for us. In our friends pics we do have a lot more variety of both of us but i suppose im better behind the camera as a photographer and filmaker i tend to like taking pics more than being in them

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

Oh absolutely everyone can post whatever they want

No judgement here, we just love to include everyone xx

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By *ORETHANUSCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We try to have pictures of both. Hope we have got the mixture right. Open to suggestions on this. Agree with many of the posters comments. Both parties need to get a feel for the potential play partners.

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

Ah there's no right or wrong.. this is all very subjective of course.

For what it's worth, I (M) think your profile is lovely _orethanus xx

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By *ORETHANUSCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Agreed no right or wrong.

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Full body pics of her in multiple poses and just different angles of his erect penis doesn’t cut it either."

Yep that is very frustrating.

If there is no pic of Mr and above all no pic other than his cock then we just pass.

I think if you’re looking for another couple not having pictures of the male half is disrespectful. To me it means you don’t really care about my opinion . Or it shows a dynamic we prefer to stay away from.

Mrs

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By *heBlowins OP Couple
over a year ago

West Cork

^^ Preach

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By *iteowlnowCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Our theory on this, most couples profiles, it is generally the male that does a lot of the online stuff so target the male and hope for the best.

This doesn’t make sense though??

If we get a message from a couple first question Sara asks... is there a pic of the male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As F running a couple profile where discussing everything with Mr ( I know it’s rare) but we try share both us we move our pics around from friends to public we ain’t here for attention on hot pics which seems like what fab is wank material, a girl will grab the attention or Mr cock by males (he’s not bi) all depends what your looking for it’s hard when looking for couples to meet together get hounded by males always if wanted single meets we would open our single profiles

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Pleeeease include both people if you're presenting as a couple and are seeking women or other couples.

Totally agree

Here's another suggestion ... please include at least one picture of you as a couple.

What can it suggest when profiles have pics of the male and also pics of the female but no pics of them together?

Note I say 'suggest' and not 'say'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pleeeease include both people if you're presenting as a couple and are seeking women or other couples.

Totally agree

Here's another suggestion ... please include at least one picture of you as a couple.

What can it suggest when profiles have pics of the male and also pics of the female but no pics of them together?

Note I say 'suggest' and not 'say'

It suggests nothing to me except they have taken separate pics,as is the case with us (we do have a couple of us together in friends only).

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

"Pleeeease include both people if you're presenting as a couple and are seeking women or other couples.

Totally agree

Here's another suggestion ... please include at least one picture of you as a couple.

What can it suggest when profiles have pics of the male and also pics of the female but no pics of them together?

Note I say 'suggest' and not 'say'

It suggests nothing to me except they have taken separate pics,as is the case with us (we do have a couple of us together in friends only). "

Agree

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

"He’s shy

LIKE FUCK HE IS!!!

????????

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

I made a thread on this before. It is a major gripe for me.

Whilst everyone has their reasons for not showing the male half of the couple which I fully understand...I personally wouldn't look twice at a couple profile where there are no pics of the male part.

As a couple it's important we see both parts of the couple. Neither of us want to 'take one for the team'

From personal experience as a former single female it was the same there was no way I would have met a couple without seeing both parts of the couple.

So boys don't be shy get posting!!

B xx

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