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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Smear.

Please. For the love of fuck.

Get a smear.

I just found out a school friend was lost today. 2 grown kids with a grandchild on the way. So young!!

Please. Get one. It’s free.

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By *iva69Woman
over a year ago

Limerick

On a regular basis.

Sorry for your loss red.

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"On a regular basis.

Sorry for your loss red."

Ah. I hadn’t seen her in years.

Just shitty.

Goddammit!!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"On a regular basis.

Sorry for your loss red.

Ah. I hadn’t seen her in years.

Just shitty.

Goddammit!! "

That is very sad news!

I go for checks regularly too...

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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Sorry to hear that you got sad news. It's just such a horrible disease. Finally had mine recently, I will admit late due to covid. Was due during one of the lockdowns and finally got around to organising it! Good on you to remind everyone, stay safe peeps!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

The damage done by these cervicalcheck errors hasn't been fullly seen yet. It's being saved up in thr form of undiagnosed cancers. Lots more will die. Please go ladies!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Sorry to hear about your friend Red .I had mine recently.It is important that women do go when they get the letter. I know a few women in work who won't go as it's too embarrassing they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss red.

I'm like clockwork with mine. My mum is a survivor so extra important I don't let it slip

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Sorry to hear about your friend Red .I had mine recently.It is important that women do go when they get the letter. I know a few women in work who won't go as it's too embarrassing they say. "

I used to know someone who had never been tested and she was in her mid 40s. Her friends all told her she needed to go but she always had an excuse.

I assumed it was out of embarrassment but she admitted it was the fear of finding something. I asked was she not more afraid of finding something too late and she told me I was a man and could never understand so I never asked again.

I've no idea if she has ever been since.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

I have only ever had one done in my whole life and the experience was so horrendous I have never had one done since I'm in my late 40s

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"I have only ever had one done in my whole life and the experience was so horrendous I have never had one done since I'm in my late 40s "
my mother wa 36 and diagnosed with cervical cancer after a clear smear the year before. Full hysterectomy but left her ovaries, she had treatment cheno and radiotherapy which lead on to more operations due to complications was given all clear sadly the ovaries turned cancerous when she was 59 lost my mum when she was just turned 60.

The importance of a smear is so important it's over in seconds.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Just going to ask to help me understand

Is it painful to get done

I do remember that my then girlfriend used to plan our visit to The family planning clinic to get the pill every six months during her period so she didn't have to have a smear test to save on the pain.

Is it still the same or has the procedure improved for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just going to ask to help me understand

Is it painful to get done

I do remember that my then girlfriend used to plan our visit to The family planning clinic to get the pill every six months during her period so she didn't have to have a smear test to save on the pain.

Is it still the same or has the procedure improved for women

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It very much depends person to person. Its always uncomfortable but not always painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op i do them regularly when they are required i can't remember is it every three years? Sorry to hear a about your friend, that's do sad with a young family. (Prayer emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just going to ask to help me understand

Is it painful to get done

I do remember that my then girlfriend used to plan our visit to The family planning clinic to get the pill every six months during her period so she didn't have to have a smear test to save on the pain.

Is it still the same or has the procedure improved for women

"

It depends on your physiology, I have a cervix that is hard to reach so has to be pulled upwards for access, I also have scarring due to traumatic childbirth and previous surgery, all of this means I'm already tense before it even starts. Once I had a vasovagal reaction and fainted as soon as my cervix was touched. I dread smear tests but they're a necessary evil. To avoid them is foolish in my book

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

Funny my letter came in yesterday, I'd been thinking it's been a while, phoned this morning for apt, got one for next week. So important to get them done regularly.

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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago

Midlands


"I have only ever had one done in my whole life and the experience was so horrendous I have never had one done since I'm in my late 40s "

Gosh that's sad you had a bad experience and so risky not going back...maybe trying somewhere different where they are more experienced and let them know about your previous experience beforehand so they are extra gentle would be the way to go. I had my coil replaced on the same day, the smear was simple, painless and quick, now the coil being inserted was a different ballgame but that's a different procedure. Smears are generally painless (I know some have different problems) and so important in the long run xxx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Just going to ask to help me understand

Is it painful to get done

I do remember that my then girlfriend used to plan our visit to The family planning clinic to get the pill every six months during her period so she didn't have to have a smear test to save on the pain.

Is it still the same or has the procedure improved for women

"

It depends on you physically and the person doing it and how patient and experienced.they are. I've had some that have been just a bit uncomfortable and others that have hurt quite a bit. But I still think it's better to get them done than not.

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

Please get them done ladies . A local girl I know just had to have a hysterectomy at 35 because of cancer had spread .

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just going to ask to help me understand

Is it painful to get done

I do remember that my then girlfriend used to plan our visit to The family planning clinic to get the pill every six months during her period so she didn't have to have a smear test to save on the pain.

Is it still the same or has the procedure improved for women

"

Personally, I prefer a smear test to going to the dentist

I remember going for a smear test in my early 20s in Germany - they're extra diligent, not only did they take a vaginal smear but also an anal one

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Just going to ask to help me understand

Is it painful to get done

I do remember that my then girlfriend used to plan our visit to The family planning clinic to get the pill every six months during her period so she didn't have to have a smear test to save on the pain.

Is it still the same or has the procedure improved for women

"

It’s uncomfortable rather than painful. You wouldn’t choose to get it done, but the alternative isn’t amazing

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"I have only ever had one done in my whole life and the experience was so horrendous I have never had one done since I'm in my late 40s

Gosh that's sad you had a bad experience and so risky not going back...maybe trying somewhere different where they are more experienced and let them know about your previous experience beforehand so they are extra gentle would be the way to go. I had my coil replaced on the same day, the smear was simple, painless and quick, now the coil being inserted was a different ballgame but that's a different procedure. Smears are generally painless (I know some have different problems) and so important in the long run xxx"

IUD placements are fucking horrendous. I refused one for years and opted for a Tubal Ligation instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your unsure when your due your next smear test go into Google type in smear test, they will ask for your date of birth and your pps number .. it will let you know

Sorry for your loss OP

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

My type of coil is a 3 year type so I get that replaced and my smear done in the same appointment. Not a pleasant day but better having it done than not. I have 2 close friends that have had issues. 1 is battling cancer and another has had abnormal cells a few times.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"If your unsure when your due your next smear test go into Google type in smear test, they will ask for your date of birth and your pps number .. it will let you know

Sorry for your loss OP "

Just looked mine up there now

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

Sorry for your loss red

I think some people tens up when the tests are being done best try and relax the tummy muscle!!might help a little

I'm lucky don't have to have them done anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take a deep breath and they will take a swap.. we ladies had worse things stuck up there.. just me lol.

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya


"Smear.

Please. For the love of fuck.

Get a smear.

I just found out a school friend was lost today. 2 grown kids with a grandchild on the way. So young!!

Please. Get one. It’s free. "

Sorry for your loss! I 100% agree it’s soo important xx R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in this area, I have a family member who refuses to get a smear test as she is too Embarrassed to show her vagina. She rather die than get it done was her reply!!! Same answer for a breast check ,she is 60.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss op, got called back recently for a 2nd smear. Have to say as I've got older I'm more comfortable getting them done. I think the nurses are a lot more aware of making us more relaxed getting them done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smear and prostate both should be checked out

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Smear and prostate both should be checked out "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Smear and prostate both should be checked out "

And boobs and balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smear and prostate both should be checked out

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Cheers Bo ..

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

My smears are now yearly due to finding pre-cancerous cells in my cervix, for the second time in 4 years. I’m lucky though, I’m having procedures to remove the cells, so without a smear I’d be fighting cervical cancer.

Ladies get it done. Better to be uncomfortable for a minute than in severe pain until the inevitable…

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"My smears are now yearly due to finding pre-cancerous cells in my cervix, for the second time in 4 years. I’m lucky though, I’m having procedures to remove the cells, so without a smear I’d be fighting cervical cancer.

Ladies get it done. Better to be uncomfortable for a minute than in severe pain until the inevitable… "

Sorry for your loss Red.

It can be sore but quickly over… so worth it!

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By *ngus99Man
over a year ago

southdown

Thats the best advice I've read I the forum for ages .. Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I’m so sorry for your loss xx

I was having yearly smears from age 21 till last year (before they changed to over 25) due to irregular cells and now every 3 years. I’d never miss it and let’s face it… our bits are here for the world to see, why not spread them for the doctor and get a smear?

I think we should have a fab smear campaign lol- post your slogans here

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