FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you agree there has to be an attraction and a spark between you and the other person and know what you both look like?very attractive ladies on here all shapes and sizes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes 100% "

I generally only find an attraction once I've met the person. I've met beautiful looking people who are complete arseholes, and less attractive people who are sexy as hell when you talk to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Def attraction for me but in saying that for me the attraction could be anything..

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Yeah, often the looks are less important than the attitude. More than once I've not found a person attractive until I got chatting to them and you suddenly start finding connection and little things about their looks that arouse you.

Never judge a book by it's cover is not for nothing

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By *ake2891Man
over a year ago

cork

"Def attraction for me but in saying that for me the attraction could be anything.."

100% agree here with this

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

There has to be spark

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Def attraction for me but in saying that for me the attraction could be anything.."

Totally agree usually is a mix of personality and looks but looks with no personality never flies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to find someone attractive as well as get along with them. It's worth remembering though that attractiveness is subjective.

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By *eeisbackMan
over a year ago

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Defo have to be attracted to the other person in some ways of course. We all have our likes don’t we.

Its a strange one on here too cause some people say they have a type then meet completely out of there type.

Iv met a couple before on here chatted for ages swapped pics inc face arranged a play meet after a social meet. Then after a while they were like no your not our type. Found it strange I was there type then I wasn’t after social and fun meet.

But we all have our types I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely there has to be some type of initial attraction, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.......

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"Def attraction for me but in saying that for me the attraction could be anything..

100% agree here with this"

Going by your latest pic I'd be attracted to Ur ass just saying

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By *ake2891Man
over a year ago

cork

"Def attraction for me but in saying that for me the attraction could be anything..

100% agree here with this

Going by your latest pic I'd be attracted to Ur ass just saying

You can have it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes 100%

I generally only find an attraction once I've met the person. I've met beautiful looking people who are complete arseholes, and less attractive people who are sexy as hell when you talk to them."

Totally agree,

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"I have to find someone attractive as well as get along with them. It's worth remembering though that attractiveness is subjective. "

100%

Person can be gorgeously handsome, but if they have an arsehole personality no thank you.

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By *ewCoupl01Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Def attraction for me but in saying that for me the attraction could be anything.."

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never understood how anyone can base attraction solely on 2D images on a screen.

It's a starting point but can be flimsy at times.

As already said it's easy to wrap an ugly gift in attractive paper.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Don’t do sympathy shags so there’s gotta to be some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Definitely attraction is something thst draws you in

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

Depends on what your looking for,attraction and spark are a strange mix. We can be attracted to people that we might not ordinarily be attracted too. Sex appeal and confidence is more of a contributing factor. (in saying that shyness is also attractive). I find it all depends on the situation and everyone is diffent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah....

Any port in a storm and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defo have to be attracted to the other person in some ways of course. We all have our likes don’t we.

Its a strange one on here too cause some people say they have a type then meet completely out of there type.

But we all have our types I think. "

In the same way people grow on you, you can go off people too. Perhaps when they reflected on events they realised that you weren't really what they were looking for after all.

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

Omg 100% has to be and they have to have the naughty glint in the eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes attraction is important, but also is personality.

Maybe I'm wrong, but if you cant chat with her, then would you want to do anything else with her??

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Yes 100%

I generally only find an attraction once I've met the person. I've met beautiful looking people who are complete arseholes, and less attractive people who are sexy as hell when you talk to them."

I agree 100%

But to this I’ll just add that attraction can be very strange at times too…

sometimes the man is attractive inside and out and yet… no spark!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yes attraction is important, but also is personality.

Maybe I'm wrong, but if you cant chat with her, then would you want to do anything else with her?? "

Stuff her mouth, be grand

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Having chemistry is the starting point for great fun and fuckery

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By *inion42Man
over a year ago

minionland

There has to be some level of spark, otherwise you don’t click, for me it’s mental connection and quick wit

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By *ilitaWoman
over a year ago

The best town

100% agree with OP

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

Its all about the kiss

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

"Having chemistry is the starting point for great fun and fuckery"

Fuckery is a great word. The use of great words and chat online can and has been for me incredibly sexy. But this does not alway transfer to reality unfortunately. Spectacular though when it does.

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

Good looks can catch my eye but it's the mentality/attitude that turns me on.

Sometimes, women who haven't necessarily caught my eye first, have really turned me on. And vice versa.

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By *heCumBackMan
over a year ago

Cork

Attraction can come in many forms, the appearance, sense of humor, the glance from someone, intelligence.

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

"Yes 100%

I generally only find an attraction once I've met the person. I've met beautiful looking people who are complete arseholes, and less attractive people who are sexy as hell when you talk to them."

Completely agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No likie no lighty

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yess definitely 110%

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

100% agree - if there's no attraction what's the point... chemistry is so so important

B x

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Anywhere

"Yes 100%

I generally only find an attraction once I've met the person. I've met beautiful looking people who are complete arseholes, and less attractive people who are sexy as hell when you talk to them."
Totally agree with this

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

"Would you agree there has to be an attraction and a spark between you and the other person and know what you both look like?very attractive ladies on here all shapes and sizes x"

100% has to be otherwise no sexual chemistry

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By *antasyFrolicksWoman
over a year ago

Behind The Bales

Attraction is everything, whatever happens is built on the initial attraction.

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By *ceOfDiamondsMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Tipperary

Absolutely...sexual chemistry is a must

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Ahh come on lads....put your beer glasses and I'd be attractive to the lot of you

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Ahh come on lads....put your beer glasses and I'd be attractive to the lot of you

What about coffee instead

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By *onagooddayMan
over a year ago

Galway

good chemistry both in bed and out always does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction is a must for me

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Meh

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Absolutely has to be an attraction. Just because your on fab doesn’t mean that you should compromise or that anyone should take one for the team. Whether it’s one-on-one or a couple swap, attraction is crucial to get the mind/body wanting more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely has to be an attraction. Just because your on fab doesn’t mean that you should compromise or that anyone should take one for the team. Whether it’s one-on-one or a couple swap, attraction is crucial to get the mind/body wanting more"

Couldn’t agree more

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Absolutely

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By *onagooddayMan
over a year ago

Galway

"Absolutely "

yer don'yt miss understand my answer "chemistry" also involves being attracted to one another in ever way possible this makes a great recipe for the best sex! also in my personal opinion.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Absolutely

yer don'yt miss understand my answer "chemistry" also involves being attracted to one another in ever way possible this makes a great recipe for the best sex! also in my personal opinion.

Ah right, thanks for clarifying... thought you were on about fiddling around with those chemistry home kits - was wondering what you'd be getting up to with a test tube and litmus paper in bed

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By *onagooddayMan
over a year ago

Galway

"Absolutely

yer don'yt miss understand my answer "chemistry" also involves being attracted to one another in ever way possible this makes a great recipe for the best sex! also in my personal opinion.

Ah right, thanks for clarifying... thought you were on about fiddling around with those chemistry home kits - was wondering what you'd be getting up to with a test tube and litmus paper in bed

are your to much you fucking test tubes pmsl! brilliant no I was talk about the motion in ocean well looking deep in the eyes as the go cockeyed as fuck.

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Couldn’t agree more

Great minds and bodies think alike

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By *onagooddayMan
over a year ago

Galway

Couldn’t agree more

Great minds and bodies think alike

I agree!!!

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