FabSwingers.com forum: What annoys fabbers the most while on fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don’t use this much,on it now and then so be nice please

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Nothing. It's a joyous place

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By *uscious LollyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the filter options for search are limited

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By *omebirdWoman
over a year ago

Lack of Brad Pitt lookalikes, mostly

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By *eeisbackMan
over a year ago

….

Needs more hot women to balance the ratio of men to women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Needs more hot women to balance the ratio of men to women "

....or less men

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Not a lot;

on any anonymous site you have to take the rough with the smooth.

Some individuals can be abusive, but mercifully they seem to disappear fairly quickly, when the target fails to rise to their bait!

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

Cliques

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By *ornykinkycouple2021Couple
over a year ago

Meath

People who dint actually read a profile of single guys who totally miss the fact there's a couple profile they're messaging

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

People who complain about getting messaged by catergories of people they dont want to be messaged by even though there are filters thay can be applied

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

[Removed by poster at 23/07/22 22:23:32]

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By *xpandmyhorizonsMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

Profiles that demand a pic in a first message when they don't have any pics and aren't at least photo-verified themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random mails at stupid o clock looking to fuck now !!!??

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Random mails at stupid o clock looking to fuck now !!!?? "

Sorry

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Moaning Minnie's, male ,females and couples ,such a turn off !!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

the fact that only one person in the couple has to meet your age range whats the point in having age creteria

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By *agdoll-and-BonedaddyCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town, Belfast

When people don't read your profile, then get offended when your explain that you're not looking for full swap, desire making it clear on your profile.

Close second, is when people wink at you, then when you message them they just leave you in read.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

The thing that annoys me most when I'm on fab is when I realise I have to work in half an hour

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By *ittlemisspumpkinWoman
over a year ago

I really hate messages from people in England/Scotland etc saying let's meet.. Like sure I'll just get my dingy out and meet ye half way!

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

"I really hate messages from people in England/Scotland etc saying let's meet.. Like sure I'll just get my dingy out and meet ye half way! "

yup this

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

Too much sex ...

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By *on burgendyMan
over a year ago

limerick

"Profiles that demand a pic in a first message when they don't have any pics and aren't at least photo-verified themselves."

Too right...or demand only too see you and not send of themselves..its a power cling for some feeling they have the upper hand..block is the answer

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Less annoys us than what excites us… that’s why we continue to use the site.

At the risk of sounding cranky, the top 5 things that do (slightly) annoy us, maybe more frustrate us, are:

Two to five word messages. (Over doing text speak in messages can sometimes get to us also).

The sheer volume of Fake couple profiles.

Being stood up. Including last minute ‘only male partner of couple available to meet’. (Maybe large overlap with previous grievance)

Couple profiles where female half looks great but there’s no pics of male partner. (We don’t count a close up dick pic as a sufficient photo of male to go on).

Can sometimes feel deflated when we see a profile’s photos are 5 yrs + out of date or if last verification is a number of yrs ago… just a dashing of our hopes when online activity isn’t reflective of real world activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really hate messages from people in England/Scotland etc saying let's meet.. Like sure I'll just get my dingy out and meet ye half way! "

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random friend invites from people we have never talked to.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Copy and paste messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What annoys me is people that do not read profiles, don't have paitence to meet and when you meet socially then become pushy. The worst is pushy people and dishonesty.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

People who don't read profiles.

(I know ours is super long, will change that very soon).

No shows/last min cancellations! (Not to meet and greets - those always have 99% attendance, its the private meets that have 99% of no show rates, go figure

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Couples profiles with female only photos (obviously not those where the man is passive and doesn't meet people. Those who want to meet others together.)

"Hi" messages. (Those "hi" conversations always end up boring the life out everyone involved).

"I know I'm not what you're looking for, but will chance my arm anyway with most generic shite" type. (Will never underunderstand what's the point in doing that- do those people like rejection or do they feel like they're so much better than everyone else and deserve exceptions for half arsed attempts?

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All that said I probably annoy a lot of people too with my paragraphs

Missus

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Not a lot really. I tend not to take a lot of notice on here anymore,if someone or something starts to really annoy me I tend to just log out now. You can't change how people interact or what they do on here so I don't see any point in getting pissed off over it. Usually I will just roll my eyes and move on. Just like I'm sure plenty of when I post as well

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By *oulernerMan
over a year ago

Dublin City

That crossdressers and actual transexuals are in the same category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expert opinions from people who ain't experts in anything; except maybe giving their opinions.... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another that I thought of there. Hypocrites on here annoy the fuck out of me.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Whdn people start a thread and invite opinions, and then abandon the thread never to be heard of again.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

"Whdn people start a thread and invite opinions, and then abandon the thread never to be heard of again. "

The only thing worse is when the OP replies to each and every comment

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Whdn people start a thread and invite opinions, and then abandon the thread never to be heard of again.

The only thing worse is when the OP replies to each and every comment"

Ok I'll admit that one used to annoy me but now it's a running joke.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

My daily dose of annoyance is being gobbled up by the Irish government/politics and its fallout over decades.

So I'm just here to my amusement.

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By *ot neuteredMan
over a year ago

Kildare

F**kers trying to see what your looking at on your phone, when pervin on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say "not interested" and they keep messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That once your 50 regardless of how ripped, good looking or well endowed no one wants to meet you and you can’t message most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Random mails at stupid o clock looking to fuck now !!!?? "

Its terrible isnt it!!!

I receive them too!!

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

"That once your 50 regardless of how ripped, good looking or well endowed no one wants to meet you and you can’t message most."

Tbf I’m in the same boat in my 30s and no one wants to meet me….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That once your 50 regardless of how ripped, good looking or well endowed no one wants to meet you and you can’t message most.

Tbf I’m in the same boat in my 30s and no one wants to meet me…."
Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise are both late fifties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That once your 50 regardless of how ripped, good looking or well endowed no one wants to meet you and you can’t message most.

Tbf I’m in the same boat in my 30s and no one wants to meet me…. Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise are both late fifties"
Sophie Lauren was smokin hot in her seventies

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Some people seem to be on here 24/7 ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of men posing as women and couples on fab like wtf

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

We need a culchie fourm

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

"That once your 50 regardless of how ripped, good looking or well endowed no one wants to meet you and you can’t message most."

Well that's me ,well and truly f..ked

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That once your 50 regardless of how ripped, good looking or well endowed no one wants to meet you and you can’t message most."

I don't get this one at all. I was 52 when I joined and never had an issue with my age or limitations.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

"Whdn people start a thread and invite opinions, and then abandon the thread never to be heard of again.

The only thing worse is when the OP replies to each and every comment"

I like that. It shows they're interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't allow fab to annoy me

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

"That once your 50 regardless of how ripped, good looking or well endowed no one wants to meet you and you can’t message most."

Well, im over 50, dont have a pic of myself, dont send dick pics, rarely message people, but still attract some attention. I think ive discovered the answer to the question,

"what does a woman want?"

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

Fake profiles has to be one that annoys me the most. Also people who think that just because your over 50 think your past it, with age comes experience & a lot more enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people seem to be on here 24/7 ...."

If you are logged in does it show up as you being online even when you are not looking at the site?

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Some people seem to be on here 24/7 ....

If you are logged in does it show up as you being online even when you are not looking at the site?"

No, you're timed out after a few minutes...

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don't allow fab to annoy me"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That once your 50 regardless of how ripped, good looking or well endowed no one wants to meet you and you can’t message most."

I actually upped our age range (which I view as an ish) as I thought it would discourage couples being set lower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" All that said I probably annoy a lot of people too with my paragraphs

Nothing wrong with paragraphs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TIMEWASTERS

. Anybody agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole site

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"I don't allow fab to annoy me"

I've finally reached this Nirvana

He said, logged in and posting at nearly 2am on a Sunday! Just chatting and perving your Honour, I swear

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By *uliebulie14Woman
over a year ago

mallow

men who ask for a face pic yet they have no pictures are profile filled out

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