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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

When you see temperatures of 30 plus in Ireland , do you think ‘wonderful’ or think of climate warming ?

When a rich philanthropist donates money to a cause , do you think ‘generous’ or look for other motives ?

Do you take things at face value or do you overthink ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been an overthinker but more about things that happen around me with people I know etc, the rest of the world I just think off with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take both issues at face value Cas,

But would be mildly conscious of the former

But But I would then question your motives for asking the question you doing thesis aren't you aren't you

I have over thought haven't I oh shit

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

I have always been an overthinker people very rarely do things out of the goodness of there own heart also an ulterior motive

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm a sceptic... not necessarily an overthinker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm is the OP working with the CIA or am I overthinking it?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Hmmm is the OP working with the CIA or am I overthinking it?"

Sydney University Mel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have to think about an answer.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Definitely an over thinker.....alot to do with self doubt.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Can’t help but think that corporations are struggling to get people back in the office after Covid and are concerned about their rent then the price of heating goes through the roof, forcing people back into their nice warm offices over winter…..

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I over think everything to do with myself and I also find it easier to assume that everyone is a cunt until proven otherwise.

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By *tslife222Man
over a year ago

by the sea louth

Question who’s actually making the assertion and why?

What’s the reasoning behind it?

Yeah -I over think everything

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

My glass is definitely half full. I tend to take things at face value until I have a solid reason not to. There are a lot more genuine people out there than there are assholes in my opinion.

So just be kind to each other as a default setting.

If and when you discover an asshole has done you wrong, Then you can release the fires of hell on them

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"I would take both issues at face value Cas,

But would be mildly conscious of the former

But But I would then question your motives for asking the question you doing thesis aren't you aren't you

I have over thought haven't I oh shit"

My next thesis will be on something far more boring

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Hmmm is the OP working with the CIA or am I overthinking it?"

Nothing that interesting unfortunately

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Can’t help but think that corporations are struggling to get people back in the office after Covid and are concerned about their rent then the price of heating goes through the roof, forcing people back into their nice warm offices over winter….."

This is genius or mad...not sure which one

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

There is actually no such concept as 'overthinking'.

If anyone uses this term to describe you, what they are actually conceding is that they do not the power to think as deeply and intensely as you can.

To overtly call someone an overthinker is a critical but also a compliment.

Some people analyse issues superficially whilst some cogitate intensively.

There is no fault on either person: they are different modi operandi.

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

I overthink my overthinking

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down


"I overthink my overthinking "

This could be termed: metacognition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I over think everything to do with myself and I also find it easier to assume that everyone is a cunt until proven otherwise. "

That's interesting I used to do that years ago when I hadn't time to analyse everything,

Now I dig deep to find the good in everyone sometimes though I feel like a coal miner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paralysis by analysis.. sometimes you have to disengage the niggle thoughts and crack on. Alcohol is the greatest enabler

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I don't think questioning motivations is overthinking. NOT questioning motivations is naivety. If you want to see the whole picture then you have to look beyond what you're being told and examine the "who, why, how, what, when" before accepting.

Who is this person and where are they coming from? What does this person want from you? Are they attempting to influence you? Is the timing or the situation a little too convenient? Are they looking out for your interests or their own? What it to be gained or lost for you, and for them?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"I don't think questioning motivations is overthinking. NOT questioning motivations is naivety. If you want to see the whole picture then you have to look beyond what you're being told and examine the "who, why, how, what, when" before accepting.

Who is this person and where are they coming from? What does this person want from you? Are they attempting to influence you? Is the timing or the situation a little too convenient? Are they looking out for your interests or their own? What it to be gained or lost for you, and for them? "

Are you overthinking the overthinking?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Are you overthinking the overthinking? "

I think so

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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Sorri what's the question again!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

On reflection (overthinking?) I suspect a lot of people do this on a subconscious way, even if they aren't aware of it. They sense that something is "off" or have a "gut feeling". That's their subconscious realising that not everything can be taken at face value.

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