FabSwingers.com forum: Horrible Encounters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just want to see if anyone has had any bad experiences on here ? Obviously DO NOT name anyone or anywhere but I met this lady last night. Seemed lovely online and well up for a drink and what not.

Literally it was like meeting up with a completely different person. Absolutely horrible and extremely rude ( And not the kinky kind ) just not a nice person.

I know she's gonna see this but should I report her profile or just leave a bad verification? ( Thats if she hasn't done it yet )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which reminds me I must start writing memoirs...

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

What would you report her for?

Pointless leaving a bad veri, she’s not going to display it anyway.

Block her and move on. She’s not worth getting in a tizzy about. Just be grateful you only met her for a drink and don’t give her the satisfaction of being in your head.

You’ll meet cockwombles on fab, just like you meet them everywhere else.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

What's the point of doing either? She can choose not to show the verification and what are you reporting her for?

Admin would go into meltdown if people were reported just for being rude and ignorant not to mention it's your word against hers.

Your best bet is to block and move on and learn from the experience and not to start a thread about it because that will only backfire on you.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Be interesting to see if she would post her side of the story

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Who paid for the drink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you class as a horrible encounter? She turned up had a drink and wasn't what you thought she was, can't really report her for that.

Be noone left if everyone reported someone that they didn't just click with.

Block and move on

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Green .

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

My first meet experience was a couple. We were chatting for a while online, then on the phone (with her) and exchanged photos. We agreed to a hotel meet.

When we met, they were easily 20 years older than they said. The pics they had sent to me weren't of them and he absolutely did not want to be there.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"My first meet experience was a couple. We were chatting for a while online, then on the phone (with her) and exchanged photos. We agreed to a hotel meet.

When we met, they were easily 20 years older than they said. The pics they had sent to me weren't of them and he absolutely did not want to be there.

I presume you upped and left politely when you realised they weren't who they said , but especially when you realised one of them didn't want to be there!

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"My first meet experience was a couple. We were chatting for a while online, then on the phone (with her) and exchanged photos. We agreed to a hotel meet.

When we met, they were easily 20 years older than they said. The pics they had sent to me weren't of them and he absolutely did not want to be there.

I presume you upped and left politely when you realised they weren't who they said , but especially when you realised one of them didn't want to be there!"

Out of courtesy (which they didn't deserve) I had a drink with them , that's when I realised he didn't want to be there. Then politely left. I was so annoyed.Feckin missed breakfast the next morning too in case I bumped into them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which reminds me I must start writing memoirs..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just want to see if anyone has had any bad experiences on here ? Obviously DO NOT name anyone or anywhere but I met this lady last night. Seemed lovely online and well up for a drink and what not.

Literally it was like meeting up with a completely different person. Absolutely horrible and extremely rude ( And not the kinky kind ) just not a nice person.

I know she's gonna see this but should I report her profile or just leave a bad verification? ( Thats if she hasn't done it yet )

Why do you think she was going to leave a bad verification about

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By *ussyluvscockCouple
over a year ago

in the country.

We could nearly write a book at this stage!

We’ve had drinks spiked by a guy still knocking around the site we batter him at every opportunity,

Let a guy stop who had to much to drink who wanted to drive home woke up the next morning he’d robbed a load of thing and disappeared foolishly told we’re he worked. But we’ve had many great meets which definitely outweigh the odd bad one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a guy's point of view I had 1 bad 1. But every1 else met on fav are so nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I probably didnt put in much description. I got up and walked off after 20 minutes of being there but just a few things in that time she abused the bar man cause of the colour of his skin. Repeatly called everyone around her " C%#ts " just randomly shouting it out. If anything I'm fairly surprised it lasted the 20 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We could nearly write a book at this stage!

We’ve had drinks spiked by a guy still knocking around the site we batter him at every opportunity,

Jesus that's pretty crazy

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"My first meet experience was a couple. We were chatting for a while online, then on the phone (with her) and exchanged photos. We agreed to a hotel meet.

When we met, they were easily 20 years older than they said. The pics they had sent to me weren't of them and he absolutely did not want to be there.

I presume you upped and left politely when you realised they weren't who they said , but especially when you realised one of them didn't want to be there!

I'm sure it was quite awkward but you obviously rose above so fair play to you...

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By *ourMan147Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Meath

Had agreed to meet up with someone on Saturday night just gone. Gave her a shout as to when I was leaving, just had a shower and I'm on the way. She absolutely flipped out then because I "washed my dick you sick fuck".

I wasn't supposed to do that apparently, even though I was never told this. She went on to threaten to break my face and kill me, and that "I hope you die in a car crash and go straight to hell you sick fuck".

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had agreed to meet up with someone on Saturday night just gone. Gave her a shout as to when I was leaving, just had a shower and I'm on the way. She absolutely flipped out then because I "washed my dick you sick fuck".

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story. "

Oh Christ, I’m delighted now I’m a passive contributor!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story. "

Is washing not just a normal thing?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story. "

As far as I know if she messaged you privately on here the mods can read the message and delete her account if you report it

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Social meet first, always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story. "

Is washing a euphemism for something that I don’t know

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story. "

I’m guessing it wasn’t really a woman but jaysus people are feckin mad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had organised to meet a couple the first time i was on here. The first mistake I made was to agree to meet them without face pics and the second was to not have a social meet beforehand. They were at the upper end of my age range at the time but when I meet them they were at least 10yrs older than what their profile said. Also she wasn't really that interested in being there at all. I made my excuses and left and immediately blocked them. Alot of lessons learnt that day, now I insist on a social meet before any further plans are made

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

Ive been lucky enough during my time here.

Though i think my worst meet was where the woman hadnt washed down below.... i love to go down but was nearly gagging when i did...

Then there was 1 who had bad breath..... that was almost worse...

Those do pale into consideration compared to some of the scary and criminal tales women have told me

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

A took a woman to a swingers club in Manchester. She was tipsy when I picked her up and insisted upon having more vodka in the club. She jumped into the jacuzzi with her clothes on and then disappeared into a private room with a man. When she emerged half-an-hour later she slapped me round the face hard because I'd "let her go with a P**i". We were then thrown out by the manager, and when we got back to her place she threw up all over the inside of the car. Not a good night!

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By *ourMan147Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Meath

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story.

Is washing a euphemism for something that I don’t know

Hahaha I really wish it was! General hygiene practice isn't as important as I thought it was haha

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By *ourMan147Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Meath

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story.

I’m guessing it wasn’t really a woman but jaysus people are feckin mad!"

Sadly she was. Obviously just a bad egg, and could have been worse from some of the other stories here!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"A took a woman to a swingers club in Manchester. She was tipsy when I picked her up and insisted upon having more vodka in the club. She jumped into the jacuzzi with her clothes on and then disappeared into a private room with a man. When she emerged half-an-hour later she slapped me round the face hard because I'd "let her go with a P**i". We were then thrown out by the manager, and when we got back to her place she threw up all over the inside of the car. Not a good night!"

Fuck me I'm crying laughing here...I know I shouldn't in fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just want to see if anyone has had any bad experiences on here ? Obviously DO NOT name anyone or anywhere but I met this lady last night. Seemed lovely online and well up for a drink and what not.

Literally it was like meeting up with a completely different person. Absolutely horrible and extremely rude ( And not the kinky kind ) just not a nice person.

I know she's gonna see this but should I report her profile or just leave a bad verification? ( Thats if she hasn't done it yet )

A verification is like a review so you can leave a bad review of you like, i don't see why that should be frowned upon

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Just want to see if anyone has had any bad experiences on here ? Obviously DO NOT name anyone or anywhere but I met this lady last night. Seemed lovely online and well up for a drink and what not.

Literally it was like meeting up with a completely different person. Absolutely horrible and extremely rude ( And not the kinky kind ) just not a nice person.

I know she's gonna see this but should I report her profile or just leave a bad verification? ( Thats if she hasn't done it yet )

A verification is like a review so you can leave a bad review of you like, i don't see why that should be frowned upon "

Because it's highly unlikely she will display a negative verification so there's no point writing one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and move on… bad veri doesn’t do anything… actually might do the opposite as the person can just post the number of veri’s without displaying all of them… bad meets do happen. As not everyone is compatible in life and some people are just not nice to say the least… So just move on is my advice.

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By *oung3sumCouple
over a year ago

tipperary

We had Someone just not show up last weekend, we travelled and hour and a half and paid for a hotel

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Please always report bad behaviour to admin. Even if action isn't taken in every instance, a record is created which can help them to make decisions the next time they are reported.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

Oh wow, these stories! Some people simply don't know how to handle themselves on here (and in reality

[facepalm]).

I knew we were lucky but by how much? Worst we've ever had is being ghosted

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By *on burgendyMan
over a year ago

limerick

"What would you report her for?

Pointless leaving a bad veri, she’s not going to display it anyway.

Block her and move on. She’s not worth getting in a tizzy about. Just be grateful you only met her for a drink and don’t give her the satisfaction of being in your head.

You’ll meet cockwombles on fab, just like you meet them everywhere else. "
good answer i couldnt have put it better. Block and move on...if we all fancied or clicked with each other ther would be no trill of the chase..some work out others dont. Best of luck with the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know she'll probably see this, but thought I'd share the story. "

Nice ...

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