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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anybody else delete PM's after sending them and does it affect the person receiving them, I always delete mine after sending cause I hate a cluttered inbox,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't. Because I'm am adult and I can take someone reading and not replying to mail. Which is the only reason I've ever seen given for deleting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't. Because I'm am adult and I can take someone reading and not replying to mail. Which is the only reason I've ever seen given for deleting them"

Don't hold back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing to do with it being unread, I dont care if do or don't, I'm just asking if the person receiving the messeges see that its deleted would they be bothered replying if they were interested,

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I'm an adult too and I always delete sent and read messages because I don't like clutter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm an adult too and I always delete sent and read messages because I don't like clutter. "

So its not just me

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I'm an adult too and I always delete sent and read messages because I don't like clutter.

So its not just me "

Nope it's not just you and I continue to those who's messages I've deleted from time to time

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I'm an adult too and I always delete sent and read messages because I don't like clutter.

So its not just me

Nope it's not just you and I continue to those who's messages I've deleted from time to time "

** chat to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm an adult too and I always delete sent and read messages because I don't like clutter.

So its not just me

Nope it's not just you and I continue to those who's messages I've deleted from time to time

** chat to"

Perfect thanks for the response I thought once its deleted intrest would be gone for people

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin, Belfast


"Nothing to do with it being unread, I dont care if do or don't, I'm just asking if the person receiving the messeges see that its deleted would they be bothered replying if they were interested, "

I wouldn’t say you deleting your sent messages is why people aren’t replying…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anybody else delete PM's after sending them and does it affect the person receiving them, I always delete mine after sending cause I hate a cluttered inbox, "

But that's your outbox not your inbox

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just delete everything and I do get emails back I respond and delete them

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin, Belfast

To be fair it is extremely difficult managing your inbox when you’re a single male, I mean some weeks I’ve 2 messages!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair it is extremely difficult managing your inbox when you’re a single male, I mean some weeks I’ve 2 messages!"

Jesus Christ 2!!!! You must be some kind of god, teach me

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham


"To be fair it is extremely difficult managing your inbox when you’re a single male, I mean some weeks I’ve 2 messages!

Jesus Christ 2!!!! You must be some kind of god, teach me "

Must have single males blocked lol

You'll be beating off the discrete bj offers in no time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair it is extremely difficult managing your inbox when you’re a single male, I mean some weeks I’ve 2 messages!

Jesus Christ 2!!!! You must be some kind of god, teach me

Must have single males blocked lol

You'll be beating off the discrete bj offers in no time... "

Before I did block a few I kinda felt like what the poor women were getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always delete sent messages after they've been read. Don't need to see them because as site supporters we see the whole mail thread anyway and I detest clutter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always delete sent messages after they've been read. Don't need to see them because as site supporters we see the whole mail thread anyway and I detest clutter. "

All my personal/work/sport/snapchat and anything else with message and replys I delete cause I hate seeing a full inbox

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Hate it when I send a message and they check your profile but don't open the message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate it when I send a message and they check your profile but don't open the message"

Meh not the end of the world!

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Hate it when I send a message and they check your profile but don't open the message

Meh not the end of the world! "

I know. But doesn't mean I can't dislike it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate it when I send a message and they check your profile but don't open the message

Meh not the end of the world!

I know. But doesn't mean I can't dislike it "

Very true lol

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I've a very simple inbox and outbox I rarely send and rarely receive messages. I'm happy out Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate it when I send a message and they check your profile but don't open the message

Meh not the end of the world!

I know. But doesn't mean I can't dislike it "

You know they may have read it marked as unread and then deleted

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I always assume that if a guy deletes a message after chatting, he’s attached and worried his other half will get into his inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always assume that if a guy deletes a message after chatting, he’s attached and worried his other half will get into his inbox. "

That's not my fab account... what's a fab account

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Thought this was going to be about deleting Boris after sending him to Rwanda

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"I always assume that if a guy deletes a message after chatting, he’s attached and worried his other half will get into his inbox.

That's not my fab account... what's a fab account"

I don’t talk to anyone, I was just curious

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By *oulernerMan
over a year ago

Dublin City

I believe if you delete the message, it's gone from the system and therefore no one can read it anymore.

I wanted to look at some recent messages exchanged with someone as there was some relevant info, but it looks like they deleted it, so it wasn't there anymore for me to read.

I also once put a message on unread because I wanted to reply but was super busy and when I finally had time the message was gone.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I believe if you delete the message, it's gone from the system and therefore no one can read it anymore.

I wanted to look at some recent messages exchanged with someone as there was some relevant info, but it looks like they deleted it, so it wasn't there anymore for me to read.

I also once put a message on unread because I wanted to reply but was super busy and when I finally had time the message was gone."

Messages you delete don't delete on the other person's side .It's just on yours.

If they dissappear completely it usually means the person has left the site.

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By *oulernerMan
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Messages you delete don't delete on the other person's side .It's just on yours.

If they dissappear completely it usually means the person has left the site. "

The other person is still on the site though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might not delete them for a while now lol

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