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Is kissing too intimate so you keep it for your partner

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

During a meet in whatever dynamic you use ,do you keep kissing away from the play partner and just for your partner because its too intimate

Kissing seems to be a deal breaker for some and not others

Is there a difference between the way women and men see it...Ive never seen a male profile say no kissing

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Kissing is required. We dont have too many restrictions. Full access is available for meets.

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By *ornybarMan
over a year ago

clonmel

I can’t have a meet without kissing. It’s the biggest turn on for me

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By *eddybear37Man
over a year ago

everywhere kildare longford

Kissing is essential

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I've met couples that kept kissing for just them.. Which I respected

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Kissing is definitely required and we'd see it as a red flag if it wasn't allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few threesomes I was in, she didn’t want to kiss him. She had no problem doing everything else but didn’t ‘fancy’ him enough to kiss him. Which I found a bit strange

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

As a single person kissing is essential to me if i was to meet a male/couple that didn't allow it that's a big no no for me....

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

For me it all starts with the kiss

A meet without kissing is a big no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is an absolute essential for me. It forms part of a bond between both people which adds to the excitement.

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Kissing is a must for us. A kiss is worth a thousand words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing can set the tone for the entire meet. Definitely a necessity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry, but if theres no kissing, im out of there!!

Yes its intimate but i need it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We initially considered this when we joined up, but decided pretty quickly that it was a silly idea, plus it's almost insulting to the other party. Without kissing, sex would feel perfunctory and lacking in intimacy.

But hey, each to thír own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have do e quite a few fun meets where there kissing was reserved for the partner.... I have to admit without the kissing it's difficult to get started & sometimes to keep going...that 1st kiss raises the temperature, starts the erection & helps set the tone for the fun ahead...& when ur start to tire the kiss reignited the flame, and off u go again....kissing, I love it, bur I will also respect that for some it's a boundary

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

For me no kissing no meet

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

We love kissing, it's so sexy and part of the build up...

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Kissing all the way here but can understand couples that want to keep it for themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M feels it’s more intimate than intercourse so we’d like to keep it for ourselves

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By *teppenwolfMan
over a year ago

Cork

Kissing is essential

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Kissing essential real turn on especially if the person you are kissing is a good kisser

Jean

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There has to be kissing for me if there is no kissing then I'm not interested in taking things farther.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

You know that little butterfly moment of excitement when you kiss someone for the first time?

Why on earth would anyone rob themselves off that feeling?

Respect people's choices, but will never ever understand it.

We both love kissing way too much to just give it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be kissing that first kiss can tell alot

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Ya can suck his cock but not kiss him? Eh hard pass thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing too intimate at least leave one thing for them both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing...no meet simple as!

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By *andee FlossCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

Personally I don’t see how kissing is more intimate than someone putting his cock inside me …

Kissing is essential for both of us. For me (Kandee) it really gets my juices flowing … if there’s no kissing then it’s a hard pass from us.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Kissing too intimate at least leave one thing for them both "

That's where the reclaim comes in

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

With us it's only me (mrs) who kisses someone else and even then its only other women

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Kissing is a must for me...a huge turn on..anyone that knows me knows how much I love it

If there's no kissing it definitely won't work for me. Or if the kissing is bad well that speaks volumes!!

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was out lately in Dublin. Ended up dancing with a lady and we just clicked. We couldn’t stop kissing, felt wonderful. That’s all that happened and we left it that!

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By *omcat2014rMan
over a year ago

Athlone/Tullamore

For me kissing is an essential, it definitely leads how the meet will go I find

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By *eeisbackMan
over a year ago

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For me kissing is essential to have fun. It’s a must as much as foreplay is.

How can you say kissing is more intimate than sex itself?

But everyone has there preferences and likes dislikes and rules so each to there own

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

It just wouldn't work without lots of lovely kissing, so long as its good kissing. Bad kissing can be awkward

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

Without kissing and eye contact, intimacy is worthless.

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I personally would choose kissing over intercourse any time of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to expand, do you prefer with or without dentures. Asking for a friend...

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"And to expand, do you prefer with or without dentures. Asking for a friend...

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Have to try everything once . I mean, eventually we'll all get to that stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And to expand, do you prefer with or without dentures. Asking for a friend...

Have to try everything once . I mean, eventually we'll all get to that stage "

Not all - budapest and turkey can sort you out with implants

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Looking at these answers there's no wonder we don't get too much interest

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

Jameson main bar


"And to expand, do you prefer with or without dentures. Asking for a friend...

Have to try everything once . I mean, eventually we'll all get to that stage "

Yer doing your best to ruin kissing for me aren't ye ? Go on not with your dentures talk now, I'm not quite there yet

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"And to expand, do you prefer with or without dentures. Asking for a friend...

Have to try everything once . I mean, eventually we'll all get to that stage

Yer doing your best to ruin kissing for me aren't ye ? Go on not with your dentures talk now, I'm not quite there yet"

Oh where's the toothless grin meme now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

toothless BJ now thats worth waiting for

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

Ah Stop that !!! Just stop now, you've had your fun . Your're ruining moving day !!!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Ah Stop that !!! Just stop now, you've had your fun . Your're ruining moving day !!! "

That's us told

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"During a meet in whatever dynamic you use ,do you keep kissing away from the play partner and just for your partner because its too intimate

Kissing seems to be a deal breaker for some and not others

Is there a difference between the way women and men see it...Ive never seen a male profile say no kissing "

Originally, we use to try to avoid it but it was more a reflection of trying to find that comfort level to start exploring.

Now that we are older, more secure, and confident, kissing is an absolute must.

In the wise words of Michelle from AP2: You gotta pre-heat the oven before you stick in the turkey!

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

For us yes kissing is a big part of it no kissing no fun sorry

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By *otorman20021Man
over a year ago

East Cork


"For us yes kissing is a big part of it no kissing no fun sorry "

I have to agree here, but I will also add that I would actually have to walk away if the kissing was no good! Kissing is very important to build up the excitement and a poor kisser means there will be no further “excitement”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that kissing is a must here. I’m not sure about other guys but for me nothing turns me on more than seeing my wife going tongue to tongue with a guy in our bed

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By *exmark12Man
over a year ago

Rathcoole/Roscommon/Mayo


"During a meet in whatever dynamic you use ,do you keep kissing away from the play partner and just for your partner because its too intimate

Kissing seems to be a deal breaker for some and not others

Is there a difference between the way women and men see it...Ive never seen a male profile say no kissing "

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"Ya can suck his cock but not kiss him? Eh hard pass thanks "

Some even go with anal or even DP…. But kissing crosses the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *olouWoman
over a year ago

Swords

Kissing is top of my list....the rest follows

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Kissing is top of my list....the rest follows "

I still remember when the lift door opened in the hotel and you were stood there ...kissing someone with one leg raised backwards like a film star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is top of my list....the rest follows

I still remember when the lift door opened in the hotel and you were stood there ...kissing someone with one leg raised backwards like a film star "

Am sure that's exactly what Paul McCartney thought on his first date. Cost him dearly!

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Kissing is top of my list....the rest follows

I still remember when the lift door opened in the hotel and you were stood there ...kissing someone with one leg raised backwards like a film star

Am sure that's exactly what Paul McCartney thought on his first date. Cost him dearly! "

So she hadn't got a leg to stand on

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By *olouWoman
over a year ago

Swords


"Kissing is top of my list....the rest follows

I still remember when the lift door opened in the hotel and you were stood there ...kissing someone with one leg raised backwards like a film star "
it was so hot and passionate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I.hate kissing it's over rated... I am Hi , let's buck , nut in minutes, say thanks and leave type of guy... no need to make it complicated

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Kissing is an absolute must! No kiss no sex. A kiss tells me all i need to know. If i dont get butterflies or flutters from a kiss the chemistry just isnt there.

Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sunlight claps the earth, and the moonbeams kiss the sea: what are all these kissings worth, if thou kiss not me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckold meets kissing is a must

MFM meets kissing is a must

Gangbang meets kissing not required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience in this lifestyle and long before it

If a kissing someone is dissapointing so is everything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot about public disgrace bdsm kissing not required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience in this lifestyle and long before it

If a kissing someone is dissapointing so is everything else

Exactly. If the kissing doesnt get me excited there is no point taking it further.

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