FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked

By *ustyboy OP Man
over a year ago

Greater Dublin & Belfast now onwards

Why ladies just block me after getting my face pic ? Does it happen to other lads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your like me, you take a shit selfie!!??

Or we are ugly

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You can be blocked for any reason....move on and don't worry about it .....ps your sign is wrong in your picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can be blocked for any reason....move on and don't worry about it .....ps your sign is wrong in your picture "

Eagle eye you should be doing the photo verifitying

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"You can be blocked for any reason....move on and don't worry about it .....ps your sign is wrong in your picture "

Or is it wrong on his profile? Will we ever know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or verifying as opposed to what ever the hell that auto correct was

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Or verifying as opposed to what ever the hell that auto correct was

I have dyslexia...seemed fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I wear a brown paper bag over my head for selfies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or verifying as opposed to what ever the hell that auto correct was

I have dyslexia...seemed fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or verifying as opposed to what ever the hell that auto correct was

I have dyslexia...seemed fine to me

I have a serious case of why am I even awake going on, that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Many reasons people block don't beat yourself up over it.

Move on why stress get annoyed over something you can't change .

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By *r StaminaMan
over a year ago

galway/ clare/ Limerick

I doubt that

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's embarrassing and difficult telling someone (to their face) that you find them unattractive.

Perhaps they know you and got worried.... yes I'm sure thats it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's embarrassing and difficult telling someone (to their face) that you find them unattractive.

Perhaps they know you and got worried.... yes I'm sure thats it. "

It's really not that difficult to say "not for us thanks, best of luck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't take rejection, this site is definitely not for you!!

Build a bridge and get over it!!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"It's embarrassing and difficult telling someone (to their face) that you find them unattractive.

Perhaps they know you and got worried.... yes I'm sure thats it.

It's really not that difficult to say "not for us thanks, best of luck" "

Yes that would be better manners. I can understand the temptation is all.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Face pics aren’t necessary if you’re a woman men just want to know are you available for the ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics aren’t necessary if you’re a woman men just want to know are you available for the ride

Bring your own paper bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Funny thing I've been blocked only once by someone I haven't messaged and have had absolutely no communication with. Such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I wear a brown paper bag over my head for selfies"

I seriously doubt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny thing I've been blocked only once by someone I haven't messaged and have had absolutely no communication with. Such is life

Have experienced this as well a few times...their loss

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why ladies just block me after getting my face pic ? Does it happen to other lads? "

Don't take it personally - we get blocked without sending anything, never mind a face pic

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I get blocked all the time without even sending a pic don't know why im delightful

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm often disappointed when some people don't block me.

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

"Why ladies just block me after getting my face pic ? Does it happen to other lads? "

This place can be incredibly frustrating OP, if you don't learn to let go and move on. It can be easier said than done bcos all of us - no matter who we are - will take rejection personally (until we learn to let it go).

You'll never know precisely why this person has blocked you but you can listen to the narrative you tell yourself about it and gain insight into your own insecurities and use that as a basis for something to work on. That will ultimately make you even more attractive as a person

Try to focus on those things within your locus of control. Have you taken your best selfie? Have you thought about how your opening message might sound compared to the countless other messages the woman receives?

Treat it as a game where you're trying to unlock the "secret of fab" and try not to get too hung up on the outcome.

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

That or just send a dick pic and at least you'll have a better idea why you were bkocked

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Some people use the block button as another filter. As in they will block people they have no interest in even without being in contact previously.

Others find it easier to block after receiving a facepic rather than deal with the possibility of a why not back and/or abuse.

Personally speaking if we had been chatting with someone and then they sent a facepic and i was not attracted i would certainly write back and say not for me etc.

Everyone has their own way of using fab and its easier to concentrate on how you use it rather than try understand why other people use it the way they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been rejected before with a response "not my type"and it wasn't even a face pic. Weeks later the same profile messaged me asking hi, how are you, what are you into?

Well my day came to spoon feed their own medicine back to them.

I will admit, it felt good to throw it back in their court.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics aren’t necessary if you’re a woman men just want to know are you available for the ride

Not all men!!! Just saying!!

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"Face pics aren’t necessary if you’re a woman men just want to know are you available for the ride

Not all men!!! Just saying!!

Cynical laughing here

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Must be a struggle for the two faced people deciding which one to send.

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By *asual_eyesMan
over a year ago

Sallins/Naas

Doesn't the block button just mean "I am sorry, but I am too awed by your beauty to meet with you. I must remove myself from temptation and block you."

Thought that is what it stood for...

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Must be a struggle for the two faced people deciding which one to send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be a struggle for the two faced people deciding which one to send.

Oooh Lolly you've borrowed me socks

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Must be a struggle for the two faced people deciding which one to send.

Oooh Lolly you've borrowed me socks

I'll wash them before i bring them back

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By *ustyboy OP Man
over a year ago

Greater Dublin & Belfast now onwards

It’s not about stressing over a small thing it’s about some respect . If you don’t like someone just try with a simple NO at first and then block button is always handy for persistent people .

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By *ustyboy OP Man
over a year ago

Greater Dublin & Belfast now onwards

Well I am tempted as well , but then what’s the difference in them and us . We have to be better than them

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By *ustyboy OP Man
over a year ago

Greater Dublin & Belfast now onwards

Hahah so that’s good to know it’s not only me ????

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

Plenty of reasons.

As some say it could be there’s nothing there in terms of feeling it and don’t want to hurt your feelings. Now I get they could at least just say no, however some people on here turn nasty and they might have experienced it and don’t fancy it again.

Maybe they know you and don’t want to mix vanilla life and here.

We’ve been blocked for silly things too, we look it as time saved than time or opportunity lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked for being too sexy ALL THE DAMN TIME

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I get blocked for being too sexy ALL THE DAMN TIME"

It must be hard work being you

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